Comments on: Allow People Around You to Feel and Believe Whatever They Want

By: Megan

Megan — Thu, 07 Apr 2011 17:53:05 +0000

Hi. I can’t agree with you more (your conclusion). I learned this when I grew up in a nursing home. Everyone there had no idea that what they thought was wrong (they were delusional in most cases). I think there is a social IQ to people and I think yours is very high.

Thanks.

By: Harrison Barnes

Harrison Barnes — Mon, 31 May 2010 17:32:11 +0000

Jaywin,

Thanks for you comments!

–Harrison

By: jaywin chia

jaywin chia — Sun, 30 May 2010 02:01:49 +0000

Thanks for the article Harrison.

Wouldn’t you think that speaking out the truth and helping your friends to get out of delusion is most important? If you know it and you don’t do it, then who else will? And the world will eventually be run by delusion…… Opps, sorry, hope you will not hate me and ban me from commenting your site… I should have “Allow People Around You to Feel and Believe Whatever They Want”… just kidding, just wanted to prove a point, no offense. :)

Actually, just to share, and I am still learning, is that it is not about what we say, but how we say it (the words and the tone used) and when we say it that matters… just my 2 cents.

Thanks

Happy Learning Always

By: wilber smile

wilber smile — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 06:53:14 +0000

i have not really had enough time to read the entire article, but the little i have read,it seems to contain nice stories to read again which i will do anyway.By the way,i love nice stories which i can extract content and words to use for ma public speaches, could you tell me or send me some of your writtings to my email.thanx

By: Joseph Manuel

Joseph Manuel — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 04:23:48 +0000

This is a very good article. I worked for a superior recently who was very delusional about his own skills (which were outdated to the point that he was extremely reliant on me). I thought I was helping him when would try to teach him. He wanted no part of it. He was the CFO and I was the Controller. He was not a CPA and it really bothered him that I was. I did not realize I was throwing his deficiencies in his face when I would try to get him up to speed on things. The tension between us eventually led to me leaving the position. Lesson learned. Next time I’ll just let my boss believe he whatever he wants.