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		<title>The Importance of Productivity, Focus, and Measurement</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[You must hone your ability to block out external stimuli and focus solely on the work you provide for your employer, not what you can take from the company. High focus leads to high productivity, which in turn leads to high value. Attaining such a high degree of focus will make you much in demand in the business world and in society at large. Productivity should be measures either by you, or by your employer, and the most successful companies are usually those who prioritize keeping track of their employees’ productivity. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was in school, I would study at least a couple of hours each day in the library. While there, I noticed that the best students were always very focused. They were not distracted like poorer students were. A poor student looks around and looks up frequently. The poor students try to start conversations, make jokes, and laugh at things going on in the library.    When I was studying with the best students, I could feel their energy and focus. They blocked out external stimuli and their study time was extremely productive. In fact, just about <span id="more-3788"></span>  every good student had the ability to focus extremely well. I noticed this same thing when I was a law professor. You could spot the best students, because they were always the most focused.    The best students made sure their study time was productive and focused. They were able to exclude other things, and to get a lot done with their time. This is something not limited to studying; it is part of every profession. The people who do the best in every profession have the aptitude to focus and use their time productively. Your ability to focus and be productive with your time&#8211;right now&#8211;is something that will have a major impact on your long-term success or failure. You need to be as productive and focused as possible in every move you make when it is related to your job.    A good portion of my workday involves supervising others who are at work. I know who is being productive and who is not being productive. Every decent manager out there has a good understanding of the people who are most and least productive. In most companies there are statistics used to measure productivity. Sales people have quotas. Attorneys bill for their work by the hour. The boss watches who leaves early and who stays late. Many people are required to clock in. There are tallies in various organizations to see who has done more of this or more of that.    Employees everywhere try to avoid measuring of their productivity. I have seen this most of my career. In fact, the entire work world involves a struggle between employers trying to get as much productivity out of workers as they possibly can. There are always a few employees who resist this accountability. For example, one of the most contentious issues in recent years has been merit-based pay for teachers, which is measured by the test scores of students. Many teachers have long resisted this, preferring to simply get paid for showing up for work. Teachers unions all over the United States threaten to strike over any plans to institute merit pay.    The best thing you can do though, is to work in a job where your productivity is measured. Personally, I have always loved working in places where productivity has been measured. An employer who measures your productivity is giving you the tools to easily win and also to keep your job. I remember one of my first jobs when I was around 15 years old - I was signing people up for credit cards over the phone. I would report to work each night around 5:30, and work until 9:30 p.m. calling people. Most of the other kids I worked with would sign 2 or 3 people up for credit cards per night. I generally would sign up well over 50. I got so good at this that the company relocated me to a private (read: my own) office in a call center of 100+ employees because they did not want anything to disturb me. I loved being measured. When I practiced law, everything was about billing as many hours as possible. I knew if I billed a lot of hours, I had employment security. I loved this as well.    You <em>want</em> to work for employers who measure your productivity. If the employer does not measure your productivity, this is dangerous because the company is likely not going to be productive itself and will have problems. Any decent company needs a way to measure the differences between the people working there because without these measurements, nobody would know what is happening, and who is productive and who is not. Finally, if you are not being measured, you can potentially lose your job in an arbitrary way. Your job security could be related more to who you are friends with at work, or who likes you more, than your actual productivity.    Nevertheless, in most instances, if you think your boss does not know when you are and are not being productive, you are wrong. Almost every boss knows who is being productive and who is not being productive. Regardless of whether your job is to sweep floors, or managing the finances of a giant corporation, the boss knows who is being productive, or not. (Additionally, your boss&#8217;s boss knows whether <em>any of you</em> are being productive.)    People at the very highest levels of most professions are paid for their ability to focus and be productive with their time.
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<li>A highly skilled surgeon typically earns much more money than a regular doctor, simply because the duties of his or her profession require more focus.</li>
<li>A patent attorney typically earns more money than a <a title="litigation attorney" href="http://www.bcgsearch.com/" target="_blank">litigation attorney</a> because his job often requires more focus than the other.</li>
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<p>  When you are more focused, you are more productive with your time. Society and the work world values people who are able to bring a high degree of focus to any situation at hand in the workplace.    There is nothing more important in any job than your productivity. You will lose direction in your career and even in your life if you are not being productive. You will also lose direction if you are not measuring your productivity.    Over the years, I have spoken to hundreds of people who are <a title="looking for jobs" href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">looking for jobs</a>. I have found that a large percentage of people dream of a job and of a life without a lot of pressure. Ideally, many people look forward to retirement or not having to work at all because of wise money management or luck. But the less focus and productivity you give to society, the less you are rewarded in terms of money, prestige, and more.    Productivity is rewarded by society. There is generally no free ride available. We must always be productive in one form or another. We must be able to produce. You must produce in every job you have. What you produce must have a much greater value than what you take. You must consciously (in every job you have, or any job you are seeking) create tremendous value. You must develop personal statistics and goals that showcase your value, even if none are provided to you by your employer. If your employer is not measuring your productivity, it is often a smart thing for you to measure your own productivity. When you show your employer what you have achieved throughout the week, as the end of the week draws near, it will be clear to the employer who is doing what, and which employees stand out as more valuable.    Several years ago, I hired a very talented attorney to work for me on a contract basis. This was when our company was much younger, but growing. The attorney was in his late 40s at the time, and he was pretty seasoned when I hired him. Something about him stands out in my mind; something he did really impressed me. He would send a detailed report to me each week about what he had accomplished in his job. This report went over everything he had done in considerable detail, and was always very well written. While he eventually left to start his own law practice, he was somebody I really valued. I can say with absolute certainty that he’d never have lost his job if he had stayed on with the company. He was productive with his time, and he showed me on a weekly basis. I appreciated that, because at the time I had no methods for measuring the productivity of the people working for me.    When I hired his replacement, I requested a weekly report, but the replacement resisted. The replacement was someone who did not use their time wisely, wandering around a good part of the day gossiping and so forth. This is not productive behavior. Over the course of the past several years of hiring people, the best employees continue to be the ones who document what they do every single week. My best employees do this, and no one has ever lost their job when they document their work to me every week. I highly recommend doing this. Your superiors want to see productivity, and if you document what you are doing, it shows them exactly how you are spending company time. And if you do solid work, this can become a tool for making yourself virtually indispensable. It may result in more raises, better job security, and frequent promotions. Employers respect those who document their work.    About six years ago or so, an employee of mine was in my office, telling me about how someone they knew had just gotten a large inheritance. &#8220;He&#8217;ll never have to work again,&#8221; my employee observed. I thought about this and realized the person I was speaking to was also interested in &#8220;never working again,&#8221; and that their entire goal in life was seemingly to find a situation that would allow them to get rich, and never have to return to a job.    This is not something I have ever been at all interested in. The idea of not having to work simply does not appeal to me. To work is to contribute to society and provide value. To work is also to be engaged and to have a purpose in your life each day. There is nothing more important than working and making sure you are doing the job you are best at, contributing every single day.    I have been reading many recent articles about people who have been laid off. Certain people are having a difficult time finding jobs. But I have witnessed this for many years. In the legal profession, for example, people traditionally have a difficult time <a title="finding a new job" href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/" target="_blank">finding a new job</a> after getting laid off. Many law firms with openings demand that recruiters only submit people who have not been laid off. There is a strong interest in the legal profession and other professions in avoiding people who have been laid off. One article I read recently titled <em>Only the Employed Need Apply</em> in the <em>Wall Street Journal</em> discusses the fact that many employers avoid the unemployed when hiring:<br />
<blockquote>With unemployment at 9.4% and rising, it’s a buyer’s market for employers that are hiring. But many employers are bypassing the jobless to target those still working, reasoning that these survivors are the top performers.    &#8220;If they’re employed in today’s economy, they have to be first string,&#8221; says Ryan Ross, a partner with Kaye/Bassman International Corp., an executive recruiting firm in Dallas. Mr. Ross says more clients recently have indicated that they would prefer to fill positions with &#8220;passive candidates” who are working elsewhere and not actively seeking a job.</p></blockquote>
<p>  The reason the unemployed are avoided is because there is the presumption that they are not as productive as the people at their firms who were <em>not</em> let go. The idea is that companies and firms <em>keep</em> their most productive people, and this has been understood in hiring circles for as long as I can remember. If you are productive and do really good work, in most cases employers will do what they can to hold on to you because you provide more value than you take. If you are not productive, and you are seen as more of a taker than a producer, your job will always be in jeopardy. This is a horrible position to be in; ideally you should never have to worry about keeping your job. You need to be productive and focused, and you must constantly <em>prove</em> <em>your value</em> to your employer. <em>Even if your employer is not measuring.</em>    <em> </em>    <em> </em><strong>THE LESSON</strong>    You must hone your ability to block out external stimuli and focus solely on the work you provide for your employer, not what you can take from the company. High focus leads to high productivity, which in turn leads to high value. Attaining such a high degree of focus will make you much in demand in the business world and in society at large. Productivity should be measures either by you, or by your employer, and the most successful companies are usually those who prioritize keeping track of their employees’ productivity.</p>
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		<title>Stay on Track</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2011 05:01:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this article Harrison discusses how it is important to stay focused. According to Harrison anyone can get started on the road to success and a life of fulfillment but the real task is staying on the path of success.  Staying on track can make a giant difference in the quality of your life. No one is going to be there to keep you on your mission and this is the most important thing you must realize. You have to stay focused even amidst the myriad distractions of people and life. Everyone has a spirit within, which drives him or her to do great things. It is those naysayers around us, and the prospect of something bad happening that often keeps us barred back, and on the sidelines. But there is nothing glorious, fulfilling, or memorable about spending your life on the sidelines. You need to run the race, and once you start running you need to stay on track.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been interested in self improvement and the process of growing spiritually, emotionally, and intellectually for most of my life. For the most part I believe we are all interested, to some degree, in growing and getting better at everything we do.    If you go to any bookstore, you will undoubtedly encounter thousands of books all claiming they can help you improve in all areas of your life. There are gurus and similar types of people throughout the world who will tell you how to change or improve one thing or another about yourself. For example, <span id="more-3135"></span>  if you want to lose weight you are going to find plenty of experts who will help you work towards your goal. There are books, self help programs, seminars, personal trainers, retreats, surgeons, hypnotists, psychologists, drug companies, food companies, dietary supplement makers, and all sorts of other people out there waiting to tell you how to lose weight.    If you adopt the advice of any one of them the chances are pretty good that you will lose the weight you want to.    Losing weight is not the problem, though.    The problem is keeping the weight off. None of these people and programs is going to spend the next 10, 20, 30, 40, or 50 years by your side, coaching you on how to stay fit. Instead, they are most likely going to take your money, help you lose the weight immediately&#8211;and then disappear into the wilderness.    In order to lose the weight you want, your challenge is going to be maintaining a diet over time. You are going to be tempted on a daily basis every single time food is put in front of you. Sometimes you may feel as if you are getting tempted each moment of every day. In fact, the environment, your metabolism, and a variety of other factors are all seemingly going to conspire against you to make keeping the weight off increasingly difficult.    You are not going to find a lot of books out there with titles such as <em>How to Deal With Peer Pressure to Keep Weight Off</em>. Instead, most of the content you will find is about getting you started on the right track, but not necessarily taking you to the finish line.    It is the same thing with achieving success in your career and life. You can read everything that I and others interested in your welfare write, and it may get you started on the path towards success. But you and I know too well that anyone can get started on the path to success&#8211;however not everyone can run the entire race. Running the entire race is about the most important thing you can possibly do if you want to succeed. Because running the entire race, and staying on the track no matter how difficult it may become, is something very few people can do. Most people start something not knowing what it takes to reach their goal, and then they get distracted and dissuaded along the way.    Or they realize that success brings with it, its own special set of unforeseen challenges: For instance, one thing about finding personal growth and progressing towards your goals is that you are not necessarily going to be met with a parade by the people around you&#8211;even by those who love and support you the most. Success breeds envy and envy breeds all sorts of problems.    Anyone can get started on the road to success and a life of fulfillment. The real task is staying on the path of success. Because once you get on the path there are always multitudes of people out there who want to knock you off of that path. Unfortunately this is just  how it works. The more successful you get, the harder and harder it gets to stay on the path, and the easier it is to go astray.    No one is going to be there to keep you on your mission and this is the most important thing you must realize. You have to stay focused even amidst the myriad distractions of people and life.    In my neighborhood while growing up, most of my friends had parents who did things like working as waitress in restaurants, work in factories, and other similar jobs. As I got older, I began to associate with kids whose parents did far more impressive things like run banks and auto companies. But because I had spent so much time growing up with the people I did, I ended up spending most of my time with the kids from the &#8220;old neighborhood.&#8221; The thing about these kids, however, was that as I got more and more successful in school, in colleges, and so forth, they developed a resentment towards me. Even now after many years, I sometimes wish I had kept my freaking mouth shut about what I was doing. But since I did not, I paid a price in my friendships.    People do not like other people who could possibly be perceived as better than themselves. People generally want to knock people off that pedestal, even if it does not really exist in the first place. The second you start trying to better yourself, you may notice this occurring with just about everyone around you.    My wife and I were discussing this issue yesterday because we went to a beach club down the street and saw a girl whom she recognized from her &#8220;Mommy and Me&#8221; class. My wife goes to this class with a bunch of girls she grew up with. She is extraordinarily proud of our daughter who, to our astonishment, ended up advancing far more quickly than the other kids in the class. For example, our daughter started talking, walking, and so forth months before many other kids of the same age. My wife made the mistake of being incredibly enthusiastic about our daughter&#8217;s accomplishments in the class, and this ended up alienating my wife from many of the other women in her group. Instead of being happy for my wife, these women started excluding her from various events, which understandably hurt my wife&#8217;s feelings.    The second you try and show you have strength or stick out from the pack, others are going to be around to knock you off your horse. They will do it by excluding you. They will do it by defaming you. They will do it virtually any way they can. Keep this in mind, those of you who wish to succeed: If you do extremely well in anything, you will need to be prepared for resentment, and for dealing with others who are going to try and knock you off your path.    One of the hardest things for any of us to do is to stay on course. This is something that I have thought about for a long time and this is also something that I think can make a giant difference in the quality of your life. Self improvement is a fine idea and all, but staying on course is what it all comes down to.    Recently I came across list called &#8220;The Paradoxical Commandments of Leadership,&#8221; which was so powerful that I want to share it with you:
<ol>
<li>People are illogical, unreasonable, and self centered. Love them anyway.</li>
<li>If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Do good anyway.</li>
<li>If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway.</li>
<li>The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.</li>
<li>Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway.</li>
<li>The biggest men with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men with the smallest minds. Think big anyway.</li>
<li>People favor underdogs, but follow only top dogs. Fight for a few underdogs anyway.</li>
<li>What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway.</li>
<li>People really need help but may attack you if you do help them. Help people anyway.</li>
<li>Give the world the best you have and you&#8217;ll get kicked in the teeth. Give the world the best you have anyway.</li>
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<p>  These commandments are valuable on many levels because they can drive you to do exceptionally well in everything you do. They were originally written by Kent Keith in a book called, <em>The Silent Revolution: Dynamic Leadership in the Student Counsel</em>. At the time he was only 19, a sophomore at Harvard.    During his time as an undergraduate, Kent visited numerous high schools, lecturing young students about leadership and giving workshops. Many of the students wanted to change the system; however, Kent noticed that they most often gave up when they faced any sort of difficulty:<br />
<blockquote>&#8220;I saw a lot of idealistic young people go out into the world to do what they thought was right, and good, and true, only to come back a short time later, discouraged, or embittered, because they got negative feedback, or nobody appreciated them, or they failed to get the results they had hoped for,&#8221; recalls Keith. &#8220;I told them that if they were going to change the world, they had to really love people, and if they did, that love would sustain them. I also told them that they couldn&#8217;t be in it for fame or glory. I said that if they did what was right and good and true, they would find meaning and satisfaction, and that meaning and satisfaction would be enough. If they had the meaning, they didn&#8217;t need the glory.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>  Each of these commandments is about the importance of staying on course and really addressing the issue.    <em>People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. Love them anyway.</em> Most people out there are thinking only about themselves the majority of the time. If you do well at anything they are not necessarily going to be happy for you. They are going to think about how your success makes them look. They are going to think that if you are doing too well, you are not going to like them, and that you will not want to be friends with them anymore. These same people are going to discourage your ambition and everything you hope to accomplish because of how it is going to make them look. I read an interesting quote recently in a book called <em>The Best Damn Sales Book Ever</em>:<br />
<blockquote>You know them. The coffee cup brigade are the sales people who walk around all day holding a coffee cup, telling anyone who&#8217;ll listen the right way to do things (according to them); what&#8217;s wrong with the company, the boss, and the product; and how, if they were running things, it would be different. The only problem with the coffee cup brigade is they never do anything, and because of that, they look to drag you down with them.</p></blockquote>
<p>  People are self centered. They think about themselves first&#8211;always. Do not worry about it, though. Love people; do not hate them. Their reasoning for being competitive with you, undermining you (or whatever) may be illogical, but it does not need to concern you or command your attention.    I cannot even begin to tell you how many illogical and nonsensical people I have encountered in my career. I used to tell people that I thought they were completely off their rocker, yell at them, and so forth, but now I do not even allow problematic people to affect me that much. I have learned that a substantial portion of the population is completely off their rocker. I love them anyway. Rather than being negatively affected by how nuts so many people seem to be, I have just decided to embrace everyone.    When you start doing really well you begin to see a lot of people close to you acting very irrational. A lot of this is due to the fact that your success is threatening them. Love them and do not fight them. This is the best way to deal with this. Allow them to be irrational but do not allow it to drive you nuts.    You are going to see the worst side of people very quickly the more successful you get. Whether it is your parents, other relatives, your coworkers, or others around you&#8211;people will very quickly show their self centered side to you. Do not stress about it. Just love these people anyway. You can analyze it all you want, but just know that they are acting the way they are for reasons which are more about them than you. Love them anyway. <em>Stay on track.</em>    <em>If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Do good anyway.</em> When I was in law school I used to attend church twice a week and I went on my own. My girlfriend would not go with me and I did this every week. On one Ash Wednesday I saw one of the most inspiring sermons I can remember. It dealt with the fact that if you do good you should not tell others about it. Meaning, you do not want to draw attention to the good you do. The purpose of your good act should be only to do good, not to gain praise or otherwise draw attention to yourself.    Since hearing that sermon I have done a lot of secret charity acts that I simply do not talk about. My wife does not even know everything I do. I am simply constantly doing this or that and little charity things off the radar. I am very glad that I keep a low profile with my charity work, although it is not nearly as significant as it should be&#8211;but I keep doing it. What I notice is that this secret work that I do has never gotten &#8220;sidetracked&#8221; by other people&#8217;s negative opinions. Keeping out of the limelight has made it easy for me to continue my charitable work.    The public work I do is different&#8230;    However, one of the more interesting things I have seen is that the work I do publicly often gets attacked and criticized. For example, I like to write about how to <a title="get jobs" href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">get jobs</a>, which I have been doing for years. Nevertheless, there are people out there who ascribe selfish motives to this. My life mission is to find people jobs. I have been doing this with an incredible amount of enthusiasm my entire career. Some people claim this is selfish too&#8230; In fact, in just about everything I do there are people who ascribe selfish motives to it.    Notwithstanding all the criticism, I have continued doing everything I do because I believe in it. I will always continue, despite the criticism. I believe in who I am and what I am doing and I will continue to do good regardless of what the cynics may say.    If you are doing something worthwhile then continue with it and do not give up. Who cares what other people say about you? What is the alternative they are offering? Who cares if the work you are doing provides you with economic rewards? This does not make you evil. Do good anyway and do not allow people to dissuade you. <em>Stay on track.</em>    <em>If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway.</em> I cannot tell you how many people will be there to be your &#8220;false friend&#8221; and &#8220;true enemy&#8221; once you become successful. This will amaze you.    In most cases the &#8220;false friends&#8221; you meet when you become successful will be people you may admire and look up to. They will realize your success and very quickly start calling you &#8220;a friend&#8221; in a superficial sort of way. You will spend very little time with them and they will suddenly be your friend. Your friendship and their &#8220;false bond&#8221; with you will be based largely on your success and nothing more. There will not be a deep bond to go along with this and the friendship will most likely be based on what you can do for them, how you make them look, and so forth.    You need to be incredibly careful. I cannot tell you how many stories I have read about boxers, overnight music sensations, and others being preyed upon by more powerful people the second they became successful. When you are successful, you are going to find yourself increasingly isolated in some respects, and you will have a difficult time telling your real friends from your fake friends.    My wife&#8217;s family used to be very wealthy and then they lost all their money some time ago. My wife has told me numerous stories about how when this happened, many of the family&#8217;s former friends were suddenly no longer friends. The family was left with a small core of friends and not many more. Many people are superficial and this is a real shame.    This is just the way it is. Realize you will have numerous false friends and leave it at that.    The real danger of success, however, is that you are going to win a ton of enemies. People will become extremely jealous and simply not like you by virtue of your success. It is really odd to me how this works. You will suddenly have people around you who hate you. Former coworkers you were promoted over and other people who are threatened by your success.    It is always interesting for me when I go to trade shows in the employment industry. I will be standing around doing nothing and competitor will walk up to me and say something like: &#8220;You think you are a big deal because your site has more jobs than ours but we still value relationships with employers. If you got off your ass and met more employers perhaps you&#8217;d see that your business model is ass backwards!&#8221;    BOOM! Out of nowhere someone I never met will walk up to me and start hurling insults at me. When I look into it, it is almost always a competitor who is threatened by our company, or something along those lines. Who cares? Everyone has enemies. You are going to gain enemies when you are successful.    In my case, my companies have employed literally thousands of people throughout the past decade. Not everyone has had a good experience working with me and I am sure some previous employees even dislike me. Our companies have had hundreds of thousands of customers. Not every one of their experiences has been the best. Try as you may, you are going to make enemies just by being successful. Do not take this personally and do not let it make you quit! It is the same process for everyone. <em>Stay on track.</em>    <em>The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.</em> For the most part, most people are not going to care what you did a month or a year ago. Most people will judge you on what you can do today and the most recent thing you did.    One of the biggest ways this comes out is in helping people. For years I have helped people who were chronically unemployed, get jobs. I have taken a personal interest in numerous people throughout the years and have done everything within my power to help them get jobs. After getting these people jobs I rarely hear from them again, and they rarely credit me as the one who helped them get a job. I do not care. I help people anyway and continue to do so.    In my companies I have helped numerous people by giving them massive raises, promotions, and so forth. Once people get this, the next step for them is often wanting more. Instead of being happy with what they have gotten, they very quickly forget everything you have done and want more. Who cares? It is important to do good anyway.    One of the most amazing things to me is when I watch young attorneys. Some of them will work 100+ hours in a week rarely sleeping. Then when business slows down in the firm, they will lose their job within a few months. The good they did is quickly forgotten, or so it seems. I am sure you can come up with similar experiences you have had with your own previous employers. You work really, really hard and then people forget about it later on. You help someone, offer something, or make some sort of contribution and it is quickly forgotten, as if it didn&#8217;t matter at all.    <em>Do good anyway.</em>    When you are constantly focused on doing good and working hard, these attributes become part of your character. It comes across in how you look, the way you talk, and what others say about you when you are not around. No good that you do ever goes unrewarded. Continue doing good&#8211;there is no reason not to.    Many people are constantly evaluating each good action they do, expecting to get a corresponding return. There is much more to it than that and you need to continually be doing good regardless of your expected outcome. You are not going to get an instant return and reward from every good act that you do, but you will be rewarded in your character and reputation. Do not get detracted from people who tell you that your efforts are in vain. <em>Stay on track.</em>    <em>Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway.</em> One of the biggest challenges that people have is continuing to be honest and frank. Most people want to remain strong at all times and to continually project an image of confidence, strength, and power. The truth is that the more honest you are, the more powerful you become. Allow me to explain:    When you try to hide the truth, people do not know who you are. Being vulnerable is actually a positive thing because it allows you to be human, and for others to care about you, and identify with you and your weaknesses. No one expects you to be perfect. Admitting your failures and lapses is one of the more important things you can do, and not doing so can get you into trouble.    I knew of an attorney once who had worked incredibly hard for over 8 years as an associate in two <a title="law firms" href="http://www.lawfirmstaff.com/" target="_blank">law firms</a>. He was notified that he was a couple of weeks away from being made a partner in a major American law firm. One day a partner in the law firm asked this man if he had sent a letter to client about a matter. Knowing full well he had not, the associate wanting to look good said he had sent the letter the previous day. The associate then went into his office, drafted the letter, and sent it out postdated for the previous day. It was not a big deal and the letter that was sent late was not that important. Somehow, however, the partner that had asked him to send the letter found out it had been sent late, and found out the associate had drafted the actual letter after speaking with him. The associate was fired from the law firm on the spot. Because of his lie, I believe he ended up not getting another job for over a year. This talented and hardworking young man literally destroyed his career over this one incident.    Tell the truth. Just be honest. People will respect you more, people will identify with you more, and you will feel better about yourself. <em>Stay on track.</em>    <em>The biggest men with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men with the smallest minds. Think big anyway.</em> If you go around telling people you want to lose weight, improve in your career&#8211;or whatever it is you are trying to do, you will be absolutely amazed how quickly numerous people will appear to tell you what you are trying to do is impossible, it cannot be done, you cannot do it, you are not skilled or whatever.    This has happened with every single thing I have ever done that has some significance. Do it anyway. The ideas you have are likely to threaten other people, who will come up with one reason after another why something cannot be done. A quote from <em>The Best Damn Sales Book Ever</em> is instructive in this regard:<br />
<blockquote>If you let them, salespeople (and most people, for that matter) will come up with every excuse in the book why it can&#8217;t be done. Why? Because they have no vision. They don&#8217;t see themselves as successful, they only see themselves failing. In order to fulfill this prophecy they need a reason. So what do they do? They prejudge (most salespeople call it &#8220;qualifying&#8221;) almost every prospect they come in contact with and decide ahead of time he or she won&#8217;t buy.</p></blockquote>
<p>  People will do this with you too. They will prejudge and tell you why you cannot do well. Do not let people shoot you down or destroy your dreams. Small people attack other people&#8217;s dreams. You need to be strong; do not ever let others dissuade you. <em>Stay on track.</em>    <em>People favor underdogs, but follow only top dogs. Fight for a few underdogs anyway.</em> Most people, you included, I am sure, favor underdogs. We do it in sports, we do it in work.    Fighting for the underdog is a matter of character and spirit. You too are an underdog, or were an underdog. Appreciating the weakness in others makes you stronger and hoping and working on behalf of the good is something that adds to your character. Few people have the sort of character needed to not simply follow the crowd, which follows the top dogs. When you allow yourself to follow underdogs, you show yourself as a leader, and you strengthen your character. This helps you stay on track when people try and push you off the horse, as you take other actions to improve yourself and the world around you. <em>Stay on track.</em>    <em>What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway.</em> I was in a restaurant several months ago and there was a man standing at the bar who was drunk out of his mind. He looked quite respectable but he was acting like a buffoon. He was telling the bartender how he had lost everything&#8211;tens of millions of dollars in property. He was upset and said he felt like everything he had worked for all of his life had not been worth it. He was complaining that this all happened because he did not get a certain bank loan.    You can lose everything you have worked for in an instant. It happens. This is not an excuse not to keep trying. Life is based upon forward momentum. Just because something bad could happen in the future, or has happened in the past is not an excuse to give up. People spend years, or decades, building relationships with others and then inevitably, someone dies. It all comes to an end some day, but this is not a reason not to try. You need to constantly be building despite the fact that doom may lie over the hill. Never give up. <em>Stay on track.</em>    <em>People really need help but may attack you if you do help them. Help people anyway. </em>One of my favorite shows on television used to be the show <em>Intervention</em>. In this show, people with drug problems, eating disorders, and others would face interventions, wherein their families and others would intervene&#8211;often saving their life.    You want to help people even if they attack you for it. I have been attacked by people I have helped get jobs and others. Who cares? I help people anyway and keep doing my job. <em>Stay on track.</em>    <em>Give the world the best you have and you&#8217;ll get kicked in the teeth. Give the world the best you have anyway.</em> If you look around you&#8217;ll see the most successful people are the most criticized. All you need to do is pick up any newspaper or magazine to see this. The better you do, the more opposition and criticism you are going to face. This is what happens. You need to always give your best anyway. <em>Stay on track.</em>    Yesterday one of the most remarkable things happened. Our maid announced that she needs part of the day off today because she is running the Los Angeles Marathon. This in and of itself may not sound unusual; however, this woman is in her mid-50s, quite overweight, and recently had a gall bladder operation. I have also never seen her exercise a day in my life. Right now as I write this she is vacuuming and later she will be running the race.    My first reaction was that the idea of this woman running in a marathon was insane. But, of course, I did not tell her this. Everyone has a spirit within, which drives him or her to do great things. It is those naysayers around us, and the prospect of something bad happening that often keeps us barred back, and on the sidelines.    But there is nothing glorious, fulfilling, or memorable about spending your life on the sidelines. You need to run the race, and once you start running you need to <em>stay on track.</em></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[The most successful people never slow down, and do not allow themselves to get too comfortable. Everyone works to achieve their goals, but failure comes when they decline the amount of effort they put forth after having achieved these goals. When people get too comfortable, they cease to put in the additional effort to progress further and consequently fail. People who succeed in the long-term constantly seek challenges, make room for further growth, and demonstrate their ability to take up further responsibility. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the greatest causes of failure stems from people experiencing success in their careers. Whether it is being given a new title, a raise, a position of increased job security, or other success, people often suddenly decide they have earned the right to relax. Security and comfort are certainly desirable results and may be a significant part of achieving your goals. However, when you focus on your comfort or bask in your success, you stop growing.    <a href="http://www.execcrossing.com/" target="_blank">Executives</a> and others who begin to relax or let their guard down may quickly get crushed. They usually end up <span id="more-456"></span>  losing their jobs, or their careers quickly fade into obscurity. When you find yourself in a position that allows you greater comfort and security, you have an outstanding opportunity for further growth. Use this opportunity wisely. People are put in positions of responsibility and given higher incomes because they have shown growth in their current position. You never want to stop growing.    I would like to explain to you a pattern I have seen within my own companies and also among people I have known and worked with in the past as a <a href="http://www.bcgsearch.com/" target="_blank">legal recruiter</a>.    I have worked with many people who have gone to top schools like <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/article/index.php?id=3918" target="_blank">Harvard</a>, <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/article/index.php?id=3904" target="_blank">Yale</a>, and <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/article/index.php?id=3088" target="_blank">Stanford</a>. The talent you need to exhibit to get into schools like these is phenomenal. You need to be academically gifted and have a long history of very high-level achievements. You also need to show talent in areas other than academics. People who attend top-tier schools also have to work exceptionally hard to earn the academic marks and other honors needed to succeed once they are accepted.    What ends up happening to people who attend these elite schools is very interesting to me. A good many continue to work hard once accepted, while others think just because they were accepted, that’s good enough. The students who continue to work hard ultimately crush these students.    In the legal field, most attorneys in the top law firms worked hard in college and continued to work extremely hard in law school as well. Their hard work landed them positions in prestigious law firms. The competition to get a job with a <a href="http://www.bcgsearch.com/" target="_blank">prestigious law firm</a> is even more challenging than what one must face to get into a prestigious college or law school.    Once in these prestigious firms, many of the new attorneys are already exhausted from having worked so hard in law school and college. Many believe that, because of their past achievements, they can now rest on their laurels. These new attorneys then end up losing their jobs very quickly, and many even leave the practice of law forever because of this experience.    My career advice is to never let your guard down. Whatever you have done in the past has only given you the right to compete on the playing field you are on now. No one cares about your past successes. If you do not perform your best, you will become expendable.    I have witnessed a very familiar pattern in the work world. People get a job based on their enthusiasm, past employment record, and other related factors. Once hired, they work extremely hard to earn praise and recognition. They are given increased responsibility at the company, more and more tasks, and people to supervise. As these workers earn more responsibility, the company traditionally begins to watch them less closely. At this point, these people have two choices:    1. Step up their efforts and keep improving, or,    2. Begin to coast and let others do the work, keep things the same as they are, relax, buy new things, take more vacations, and take time off.    The latter is what probably 50 percent of people do once they reach a certain stage or accomplish a certain goal in their careers. In my career I have seen far too many go this direction. What ends up happening when people start coasting is generally one of two things: one, the company fires them, or two, the company puts pressure on them to improve, and they simply decide to leave, believing their status does not merit this sort of treatment.    <em>Is this you?</em>    This happens because too many people get too comfortable. You always need to be on your toes with any job.    Look at the headlines in the paper each day, and you will see business tycoons in their 80s and 90s who are winning and losing fortunes. They are still working. You will read about other prominent individuals challenging themselves in different ways. Ted Turner became famous for racing sailboats all around the world. Richard Branson has become known for trying to set records in balloons. These are some of the most successful men in the world. They are not sitting on a beach relaxing. They are challenging themselves in every way they possibly can. They challenge themselves in their work and outside of work.    I live in Malibu, California. Up and down the twenty-six miles of coastline are some of the most magnificent homes you can imagine, some right on the beach. Some of these houses sell for $50 million or more. Some of the richest and most famous people in the world live in Malibu.    What is so remarkable about these houses is the fact that most of them are empty almost every day of the year. People do visit these houses but, for the most part, the largest and most expensive of the houses do not have families in them year-round and their owners drop in only occasionally.    The owners rarely visit their multimillion-dollar houses, but not because the properties are insignificant to them. The reason these people don’t visit their houses is that they simply do not have the time. They are always working. They enjoy their houses for short periods of time and then they are back to work.    The most successful people do not allow themselves to slow down and get too comfortable. Using the old analogy of the world as a jungle, I leave you with this closing thought: animals, fish, and birds are always on the move. Whenever a lion is hunting, he looks for the weakest animal in the herd&#8211;the one that is not moving.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    The most successful people never slow down, and do not allow themselves to get too comfortable. Everyone works to achieve their goals, but failure comes when they decline the amount of effort they put forth after having achieved these goals. When people get too comfortable, they cease to put in the additional effort to progress further and consequently fail. People who succeed in the long-term constantly seek challenges, make room for further growth, and demonstrate their ability to take up further responsibility.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 05:01:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this article Harrison discusses how people who stand for something always do better than those who do not. Companies who stand for something always do better than companies who do not. The most successful companies not only stand for something, but they are completely consistent with their core principles. This is what keeps them going and this is what makes them successful. One of the largest problems that people have in their careers is when they diverge from what they are good at. When you do not stand for something, you divert from your true strength. Everything begins to crumble and slowly fall apart when you are not doing something that you are really good at. The biggest success comes when you stand for something and are good at it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today, I read a story in the <em>Washington Post </em>about a girl who recently resigned from West Point and is going to Yale. She resigned from West Point because she is gay and the school will kick her out if it learns that she is gay. Tired of compromising between what she believed was right and wrong, she resigned to protest the policy and be consistent with her own internal compass.    When I started reading the story, I immediately thought—<em>she&#8217;s probably transferring to Harvard or Yale.</em> Sure enough, I was not surprised when I learned later in the article that that was where she was going.    Why wasn&#8217;t I surprised? Because a school like Yale probably receives a couple of hundred transfer applications for every spot it has open (very few people drop out of Yale). In order to get one of those spots you need to stand for something. How memorable is it to have a good grade point average? Lots of people have good grades. Very few people stand for something. The people <span id="more-12450"></span>  who stand for something are the ones who are remembered, and most often, the ones who get hired for the most competitive positions, get into the best schools and consistently have the most opportunities presented to them.    I read stories all the time about people taking a stand for something and then changing directions in their careers and lives. Usually they end up doing exceptionally well. People who stand for something always do better than those who have not. Companies who stand for something always do better than companies who do not. In fact, the most important thing a company can generally do is to stand for something.
<ul>
<li>Coca-Cola makes coke. It does not make automobiles or computers.</li>
<li>Intel makes microchips. It does not make computers or refrigerators.</li>
<li>McDonald&#8217;s makes hamburgers and fast food. It does not make airplanes.</li>
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<p>  The most successful companies stand for something. They not only stand for something, but they are completely consistent with their core principles. I am willing to believe that companies like Coca-Cola and McDonald&#8217;s are presented with opportunities to do different things all the time. Instead of doing something different, they remain consistent with what they do. They stand for something. This is what keeps them going and this is what makes them successful.    One of the most interesting things about reviewing resumes is that very few of them ever stick out. Instead of trying to distinguish themselves, most people put together resumes that are bland and similar to other resumes out there. This sort of homogenization of resumes has gotten out of control.
<ul>
<li>Most resumes contain tons of bullet points about this or that.</li>
<li>The resumes contain &#8221;canned&#8221; sorts of descriptions about a person&#8217;s skills and so forth.</li>
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<p>  The people try and look like everyone else so they can &#8221;fit the mold&#8221; of being a certain type of person. The problem is that looking like everyone else is not going to help them be remembered, or get a job.    A couple of years ago, I was looking for a computer firm to help our company do some work. I will never forget the day I spoke with the owner of the company in Louisiana. Despite having an impressive computer science background from Berkeley, the guy was chewing tobacco and spitting while I was talking to him.    &#8221;Are you chewing tobacco?&#8221; I asked him. I was interviewing him to do some very important work for our company.    &#8221;Yes Sir, I am,&#8221; he responded without an ounce of hesitation.    Then as I was speaking, I started to hear a bunch of motor cross motorcycles in the background. These motorcycles were loud and they were whining up a storm. The man started screaming into the phone:    &#8221;I am sorry!! I am at a motor cross race right now. Let me go into the trailer where I keep my motorcycles. It is quieter.&#8221;    I realize that this may not seem like the best way to behave in an interview, but immediately I was able to connect with him and know exactly what sort of guy he was. I used to chew tobacco in my younger years and grew up with guys like him who did motor cross. Prior to speaking with him, he was just an average &#8221;nerd,&#8221; good at computer science, and so forth. After speaking with him, he was the sort of person I was excited to go into a professional relationship with.    Why?    Because I knew the sort of person he was likely to be.
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<li>I knew that if he was bullshitting me, I would be able to pick up on it.</li>
<li>I knew that he was not overly concerned with how he looked to me if he was chewing tobacco and racing motorcycles during the day.</li>
<li>I knew that the guy with a Ph.D. in computer science from Berkeley, was brilliant as all hell, and if he was also interested in motor cross and chewing tobacco too, he probably was an incredibly interesting person.</li>
<li>I knew that if he raced motor cross, he was probably out of a blue collar background and thought that office politics and so forth were bullshit.</li>
<li>I knew that if he was towing a trailer full of motorcycles around, then he probably lived in a rural area where he could also keep his trailer (it is pretty rare to keep motor cross trailers in big cities and nice suburbs.</li>
<li>I knew that If he lived in a rural area, he probably had certain values as well (I have a lot of family friends who live on farms and small towns).</li>
<li>I knew that if he chewed tobacco, he probably was not too concerned with what others thought of him and tended to associate with a certain sort of person.</li>
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<p>  You can tell a lot about a person based on them standing for something. When someone does not stand for anything you cannot tell a lot about them.    After talking with the motor cross computer programmer, I hired him. He has done a great job and made a good deal of money working for us.    You can tell a lot about the girl who resigned from West Point because she was gay as well. I can almost 100% guarantee you that any discussion about her by Yale admissions officers did not revolve around her grades or extracurricular activities: It revolved around what she stood for.    I am in Washington, DC, interviewing people for a position this week. I have reviewed a ton of resumes for this position. While some of these resumes stick out, for the most part I cannot remember most of them. One of the biggest problems that I am having is that everyone looks pretty much the same. Most people have similar experience and fairly similar backgrounds.    No one I am interviewing seems to stand for anything. They may have had good jobs in the past, or good experience — but they do not really stand for anything in particular.    If you do not stand for something, you typically do not get remembered.    I have decided in light of the resumes I have reviewed that one of the most important things on a resume is to stand for something. It does not matter in particular what you stand for (unless it is incredibly offensive). Just standing for something
<ul>
<li>Makes you more interesting.</li>
<li>Makes you stand out.</li>
<li>Makes people interested in hearing about your interest(s).</li>
</ul>
<p>  This morning I interviewed someone I found quite interesting (although he was not a good fit for our company). This man had a commitment to something called &#8221;diversity recruiting,&#8221; which is filling positions in law firms that lack diversity. I found this quite interesting and had never seen a resume like this. He wanted to do nothing but diversity recruiting. The gist of our conversation was that he would be interested in speaking with me further, provided I had a job for him doing diversity recruiting for our company; however, if I did not have a diversity recruiting job, he would look elsewhere for a job.    There are, of course, not a lot of positions out there I can imagine for someone to do nothing but diversity recruiting, compared to recruiting in general. By limiting his search to just &#8221;diversity recruiting&#8221; it seemed to me that he was limiting himself; but in reality, I believe he was actually opening up a lot of doors.    If someone needs a diversity recruiter, he will almost certainly get interviewed and called. He will stand out among other recruiters not committed to diversity. He will probably do very well.    One of the biggest problems that people have is that they try and fit in and try to be all things to all people. To some extent, this is how we are programmed:
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<li>Schools reward people who are good at math, science, languages, social sciences, and more. The ability to be good in all disciplines is rewarded.</li>
<li>If someone is a good student in all disciplines and a good athlete, or good at an instrument, or theater as well—all the better. The more things people are good at the better!</li>
</ul>
<p>  Historically, the most positive feedback goes to people who are good at all things.    However, in reality the best thing you can do is to be good at one thing and stand for one thing. One of the largest problems that people have in their career is when they diverge from what they are good at. Everyone is good at something, and diverging from your true strengths (and what you stand for) is something that almost always backfires.    When you do not stand for something, you divert from your true strength and will not do well, not get as much recognition, and will not rise as fast as you are capable of. Everything begins to crumble and slowly fall apart when you are not doing something that you are really good at and do not stand for.    The biggest success comes when you stand for something and are good at it.</p>
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		<title>Are You a Value Creator or Value Extractor?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Apr 2011 05:36:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harrison Barnes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are two kinds of people; value creators and value extractors. Your career success will largely depend on your skill at either of these two things. Value extractors prefer an environment where value is already being created, while value creators look for areas of maximum opportunity. While value extractors seek stable careers, value creators seek to build up organizations rather than work within them. You need to decide if you are a value creator or extractor, commit to one or the other, and never look back.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was in my third year of college, I applied to some special accelerated program at the University of Chicago Business School, which would have allowed me to graduate from business school and complete my undergraduate degree in a total of five years&#8211;instead of the six years this normally would have required. At the time I was a very good student and I had also been running an asphalt business for the previous several years. I had started the business from scratch and believed that I would have no issue whatsoever getting into this program, due to all the <span id="more-6409"></span>  things I already knew about starting and running a business.    Although the program would be admitting only one student for the semester, and around five other students were applying, I still figured I had an excellent chance of getting into the program; I had so much experience in the business world, had good grades, had been involved in extracurricular activities, and had started and led various organizations throughout my career as a student.    I did not get accepted into the program. The student who did get accepted was a guy from China who was majoring in math, and as far as I knew, he only left his dorm room to eat and go to class. The rest of the time he was studying. He had no friends and no girlfriend. During the summer, he even took extra classes. I felt upset that I had not gotten into this MBA program, and I went to see the person in the admissions office who was in charge to ask about why I had not been accepted into the school:    &#8220;You had the second highest GPA of all the applicants, and his was just a little bit higher than yours. Since neither of you have been out in the &#8216;official&#8217; work world, we felt that the best predictor of success would be grades at this point,&#8221; I was told.    This really perplexed me. I did not understand why my work experience, extracurricular activities, and other things did not matter to the admissions officer &#8220;at this point.&#8221; Early the next school year I went to a law school forum in downtown Chicago, where most of the law schools had set up tables to recruit students for the next school year. I remember going up to the table at one very prestigious law school and being told the following: &#8220;We will not consider you unless you have at least a 3.7 grade point average and are in the 95th percentile on your LSATs. It is all a &#8216;numbers game.&#8217;&#8221;    Puzzling over the rationale that admissions officers and many schools seemed to be following, I was gradually being exposed to a value system that dominates schools, organizations, and many businesses. This was when I first started to see the difference between &#8220;value creation&#8221; and &#8220;value extraction.&#8221; There are people and organizations that emphasize value <em>creation</em>, and there are other people and organizations who are more concerned with value <em>extraction</em>. In the case of the schools I was encountering&#8211;an MBA program and a law school&#8211;what they were saying, in effect, was that above all, value extraction was more important than value creation. In a way this made sense, because most professional schools train people to extract rather than to create value.    Lawyers, for example, typically work for businesses and individuals who have already <em>created</em> value. The lawyers are paid for working on things that already have value associated with them. Most MBAs go to work for other people. They become consultants, executives, and so forth, working for companies in which some sort of unique value already exists. Similarly, admissions offices of schools, bureaucrats, and others are working for institutions where value already exists, and they are <em>extracting</em> value from the institutions.    In contrast, a person who starts a little company that manufactures something is more likely to be involved in value <em>creation</em> than value <em>extraction</em>. The person who plants a field and farms it is more into value creation than value extraction.    Out in the work world these are also essentially the two ways that people make a living, through value extraction and value creation. In your career and life it is important to choose whether or not you want to be a value creator or value extractor&#8211;and get very, very good at being whichever one you want to be. It is the ability to effectively be one of these types that will largely determine your success in your career.    You may have heard this adage before: &#8220;School is a place where mostly A students teach the B students to work for the C students.&#8221; The interesting thing about this statement is that, in many respects, it is actually true. However, I look at this in a slightly different way: I believe that the &#8220;C students&#8221; are typically the ones employing the B and A students <em>because they are unable to fit into the model of &#8220;value extraction&#8221;</em><em> that the B and A students maintain out in the world</em>.    Who are the &#8220;value extractors&#8221; out there? Value extractors are typically the ones who take jobs inside of governments, corporations, and other institutions and spend their time as part of a bureaucracy. They learn to identify businesses and employers that have good cash flow, are strong economically, and can employ them in a variety of tasks. Many value extractors want to work at companies that are the largest, most profitable, fastest growing, or <em>the next big thing</em>. The reason is that new companies typically are creating a lot of new value, and this new value is something that can be extracted by the value extractors, without them necessarily being accountable for creating value themselves.    I have gotten to know a number of business students, ever since college. A few years ago, I even hired a group of students from UCLA Business School to do a project at one of our companies. Most business school students I know have been interested in going to work at the next great company. A few years ago it was Google. Before Google it was Microsoft. And on and on. Value extractors want to go where value is being created, not where they are accountable for creating value. The funny thing is that when these business school students cannot find jobs, they rarely think about starting businesses. Instead, they resign themselves to <a title="Looking For Jobs" href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">looking for jobs</a> with companies and organizations that are smaller and older, from which there is less value to be extracted.    I went to law school and am an attorney. Attorneys are a classic example of value extractors. Because of this, they are often interested in working for the highest paying and <a title="best law firms" href="http://www.lawfirmstaff.com/" target="_blank">best law firms</a>. Even attorneys who are close to retirement tend to remain interested in this pursuit. They want to go wherever they think they can extract the most value.    Working in government bureaucracies is typically about extracting value. The government taxes people, so, of course, it has money. People show up in government jobs and extract the money. Larger government allows more people to extract more value from the system. This is how it typically works. People do everything within their power to extract as much value as possible from the system. The more people rely on governments for jobs, the more the role of value extraction is playing in society. The less government there is, the less people rely on extracting value from <a title="Government Jobs" href="http://www.governmentcrossing.com/" target="_blank">government jobs</a>.    Unions are made for value extractors. Unions try to get as much value for their constituents out of companies and organizations as they possibly can, for the minimum amount of work. The role of a union is value extraction and this is what it specializes in. Union members will strike, walk off the job, protest, lobby, and all sorts of things, all in order to extract as much value as possible.    There is nothing wrong with being someone who is good at value extraction. In fact, being good at value extraction is a skill that virtually everyone who is employed by others needs to possess. To be good at value extraction there are numerous things you need to do:
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<li>You need to have the right education for your specific value extraction job.</li>
<li>You need to <em>look the part</em> and act in a certain manner in the organization you are with.</li>
<li>You need to be able to defer to the right people.</li>
<li>You need to look busy.</li>
<li>You need to justify your work to your superiors.</li>
<li>You need to know when to ask for a raise.</li>
<li>You need to find the best areas to sell your skills.</li>
<li>You need to stay employed.</li>
<li>You need to have a good résumé.</li>
<li>You need access to the right information.</li>
<li>You need to be good at what you do.</li>
<li>You need to know how to look for a job.</li>
<li>You need to find a stable organization.</li>
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<p>  There are many skills that you need if your role is in value extraction, and these skills are too numerous to mention here. However, if this is your chosen path, you should do everything within your power to learn about and develop these skills.    The most important asset that a value extractor has is the ability to find the right job. This is why the schools they have attended, employers for whom they have worked, cities in which they have worked, and so forth are so important to value extractors. To be truly skilled at value extraction, you must do everything within your power to find the right job. The most important skill a value extractor can develop is how to effectively look for a job.    In contrast to the value extractor is the value creator. Value creators typically see the world as a matrix of opportunities. For example, they may look at a product and see 10 different ways it can be sold instead of the one way that it is being sold right now. When they look around, they may see opportunities to do things better and more efficiently. They may succeed and function easily in various industries, and using different methods&#8211;many of which may not require formal education.    Value creators can function inside of organizations; however, they typically have a far different matrix of skills and interests from someone who specializes in value extraction. Value creators typically are not happy working inside of organizations and are more likely to be out doing things other than participating in a bureaucracy. These people could be salespeople, but they tend to be the people who start organizations rather than work within them.
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<li>Is Bill Gates the sort of person who would have reported to work every day for 40 years at Microsoft, were he not the person who started it?</li>
<li>Could Warren Buffet have been a stockbroker his entire life, working for a brokerage house?</li>
<li>Would Madonna have been happy being a singer in a nightclub for her entire career?</li>
<li>Could Richard Branson have been an executive inside of a large corporation for his entire career?</li>
<li>Would Donald Trump have lasted in a career working for a bank?</li>
</ul>
<p>  Value creators are people who see the world in a different manner most of the time, and they do not have the same skills and interests as value extractors. I am not saying one group is better than the other. In fact, I would hasten to say that most CEOs of Fortune 500 companies, politicians, and others are value extractors, and they are among the most highly esteemed people out there in the business world. There is nothing wrong with being one or the other.    What you need to understand is that you will not be happy in your career and in your life if you are a value extractor who is working as a value creator, and vice versa. I cannot tell you how many careers I have seen end prematurely, and how many people I have seen fall on their faces, because they have gone into roles wherein they are expected to create value rather than extract value. A perfect example is in the <a title="Legal Recruiting" href="http://www.bcgsearch.com/" target="_blank">legal recruiting</a> business I run. Some recruiters you could put on a desert island with a phone and no candidates&#8211;and they would still make hundreds of thousands of dollars a year. Other recruiters only do well when everything is handed to them, and they can simply send the candidate out to a firm. When everything is not handed to them, these recruiters do poorly. These sorts of recruiters need to be inside of firms and organizations where they can extract value, instead of having to create value on their own.    You need to decide if you are a value creator or extractor. Once you determine which one you are, you need to just be that type of person&#8211;and never look back.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    There are two kinds of people; value creators and value extractors. Your career success will largely depend on your skill at either of these two things. Value extractors prefer an environment where value is already being created, while value creators look for areas of maximum opportunity. While value extractors seek stable careers, value creators seek to build up organizations rather than work within them. You need to decide if you are a value creator or extractor, commit to one or the other, and never look back.</p>
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		<title>Find Joy in Your Life&#8217;s Work&#8211;and Never Be Without Work</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Apr 2011 05:57:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harrison Barnes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Success in every part of your career and life depends on your mindset; a positive mindset lays the ground for achievement, while a negative mindset makes for an unhappy work environment and ultimately failure. Find work that you love and practice it with passion, and you will attract people and create more value in the world. Find what it is that makes you passionate in life, and commit to it. Passion is the most fundamental part of success, and you must exercise it even if you do nothing else.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my work as <a href="http://www.bcgsearch.com/employee.php?emp_id=13">an advocate for people to find jobs</a>, I insist that the people who work for me enjoy their own jobs, and this includes the recruiting team. I expect the recruiters I work with to thoroughly enjoy, appreciate, and respect the people they are helping to find work.    Everything we do is affected by our mindset. Your mindset needs to be in the right place with regard to your work. A good mindset is a foundation for success. A poor mindset makes for job dissatisfaction, frustration, and long days, and, ultimately, can bring about failure. This is why enjoying what you are doing, and enjoying it immensely, is key.    Many people cannot seem to grasp this simple but powerful perspective, so I would like to elaborate on it a bit. I think it is one of the most important perspectives one can have. It will change the way you <a href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/" target="_blank">look for a job</a>, and if you really <em>get</em> it, it can really help you achieve success in your life and career. After my first semester at the University of Chicago, I had a mandatory meeting with a counselor. I had gotten a 3.3 average for that semester despite taking a difficult calculus class and several advanced classes that had made me study harder than I ever had in my life. I was feeling pretty good about myself for getting these kinds of grades.    In the meeting, the counselor asked me what profession I wanted to go into after graduation. I <span id="more-97"></span>  told her that I was interested in going to <a href="http://www.lawschoolloans.com" target="_blank">law school</a>. She told me that if I wanted to have a &#8220;shot in hell&#8221; of going to a top law school, specifically the University of Chicago, that I would need a minimum of a 3.6 grade point average. That meant my B+ GPA wasn&#8217;t good enough. I would need to score at least an A- for the rest of my time in college. At the time this seemed like an impossibility.    I spent several weeks that semester thinking about how I could achieve this goal, and I worked even harder than I had worked to get my 3.3 average. Then, it hit me: I would get As if I simply took classes that I loved and knew I would do well in. Over the next three and a half years, that&#8217;s exactly what I did. I took classes in anthropology that studied African cultures. I took a class where I studied my hometown of Detroit. I took classes where I got to study and write about the personalities of American presidents throughout history. I loved these classes and my plan worked. In fact, in my junior year of college, every single grade I received was an A, except for one A-. This was not because I was smarter than other people. It was because I did what I loved and I was enthusiastic about all the work I had to do. I absorbed more information, I read more in my free time, I wrote more, I talked more in class&#8211;in short, my passion came through.    During this same time, I saw other students flunk out of school or come close to doing so. Many students had parents pushing them to be doctors or business majors. These students took one class after another that they hated and in which they did poorly. I watched all of this going on around me while I continued to read about tribes in Africa, and to take courses about fossils and other things that interested me.    When all was said and done, I ended up with great grades and a real love for school. I ended up having more opportunities, job offers, law school admissions, and so forth than I would have had if I had followed the pack and done what I believed I was <em>supposed to</em>.    I think the world would be a much better place if everyone followed his or her passion. People would enjoy work more and success would be much sweeter. I know that my career and life would be vastly different than they are right now if I hadn&#8217;t chosen to do what I loved.    Several years later, as I was spending 12 hours a day in an office tower in downtown Los Angeles <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com" target="_blank">practicing law</a>, I thought of this advice again. See, I did not love what I was doing at the time. In fact, I did not even really <em>like</em> what I was doing&#8211;not to the degree I knew I should. As I investigated options for other employment I spoke with <a href="http://www.bcgsearch.com" target="_blank">legal recruiters</a>, and, incredibly, that sort of job had major appeal to me. I liked the creative aspect of it. I liked the fact that I would be able to do research the way I wanted. I liked that I would be able to speak with lots of people. I liked that I would be able to write. I liked that I would have more control over how much I earned. I knew instinctively, deep down, that this job was something I could love and do forever.    I quit the practice of law, walked away from job offers, and started being a legal recruiter. In the beginning I of course had no income whatsoever&#8211;but I was pursuing something I loved doing. Despite having had a good salary as an attorney, despite the prestige, despite all of the work I had put into becoming an attorney, I knew that I would ultimately be much happier as a legal recruiter than I would ever be practicing law. I also knew that loving my work would make me a better recruiter, far better than I ever would have been as an attorney.    The hardest thing about this career change was that it was going against what everyone told me I should do. Leaving the practice of law disappointed my parents and made me look something like a fool to the other attorneys I was working with. My law school classmates could not understand my decision either. It was just not what people expected of me. It was, however, what I wanted for myself.    Sometimes you need to take charge and understand that when you love what you are doing, it changes everything. We are naturally better at the activities we love, and doing what we love simply makes us much happier.    There is a final point I would like to make: When you find what you love doing and you practice it with passion, you are able to touch more people with your work, and you create much more value in the world. You inspire more people around you, and more people want to work with you. You also fulfill a higher purpose and discover a life with deeper meaning. No matter who or where you are, you can bring greater worth to the world and to yourself when you find exactly what it is that gives you joy. Success will surely follow.    For example, there was a woman who worked in the restaurant up the street from me, where I would often go to eat as a child. She was always so enthusiastic about her job, and just seemed so happy to be there. This woman was the best waitress I had ever seen, and it still stands to this day.    I imagined that this woman, at one time, might have had to choose from a couple of career options. One choice might have been to take an <a href="http://www.admincrossing.com">office job</a> as a file clerk. If she had worked in an office, she would have the prestige of that office, a steady paycheck, and coworkers to collaborate and be social with. Her other option might have been <a href="http://www.foodservicescrossing.com/">the waitress job</a>. Working as a waitress would mean she would not have the prestige of working in an office, she would be on her feet all day dealing with the public&#8211;which can be difficult, and her income would be heavily dependent on tips. Obviously, if there was ever a choice to be made, we know which one she took; she chose to do what she loved.    This waitress was so memorable because she would anticipate your every need, call you by name, smile, and make you feel very good for coming to the restaurant. In fact, the waitress was so good that many people probably came to the restaurant just to see her. As it would happen, I had a relative who was a waitress at the same restaurant. I found out years later that the waitress had made three-times as much money working the same hours as my relative. Clearly the waitress absolutely loved her job, and that is precisely what made her so successful.    Not everyone respected the waitress, though. In fact, I remember some people actually made fun of her. I wondered if she would have been as good at an office job, only because she had such passion for her job as a waitress. Some may believe that working in an office would be a better career than serving dishes at a diner. But who cares what other people think? You need to do what you love and be happy in your career, no matter what it is.    Find what it is that excited your interest and <em>grab it by the horns</em>. Don&#8217;t be influenced by other people&#8217;s opinions or by society&#8217;s stigmas. Be passionate about your <a href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com">job and your career</a>. If you do this and nothing more, you will have more success than you can imagine.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    Success in every part of your career and life depends on your mindset; a positive mindset lays the ground for achievement, while a negative mindset makes for an unhappy work environment and ultimately failure. Find work that you love and practice it with passion, and you will attract people and create more value in the world. Find what it is that makes you passionate in life, and commit to it. Passion is the most fundamental part of success, and you must exercise it even if you do nothing else.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 May 2011 05:21:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harrison Barnes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your thought process is a powerful determinant of your success or failure. Find a connection or unifying bond among the millions of thoughts that cross your mind every day, and use them to the greatest possible effect. Rather than dwell on negative thoughts that could undermine you, strengthen your mindset by asking yourself empowering questions; you will find that the answers to these questions constitute excellent career advice. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The power of the questions we ask ourselves determines the power we have in our lives. It’s estimated that approximately 60,000 thoughts cross our minds daily. It’s what we do with these thoughts that determines our level of happiness, success, and achievement in the world. When negative thoughts cross your mind, do not allow yourself to wallow in them. You need to turn those negative thoughts into positive ones. The best way to do this is by asking yourself empowering questions.    I want to tell you a story about one of the most remarkable placements I ever <span id="more-493"></span>  made as a recruiter. This placement only happened due to the power of questions. Several years ago, I had an attorney candidate from <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/article/4423/East-Asian-Legal-Market/" target="_blank">Asia</a> who had managed to get only one <a href="http://www.resumeapple.com/racareer-resources.php?type=447" target="_blank">interview</a> in the United States. He desperately wanted to move to the United States, and the firm he had an interview with was the only firm in the country that did the sort of legal work in which he specialized. The man went into the firm on a Friday and interviewed for a full day. At the end of the day, I received a call from the hiring partner, who informed me the man had interviewed badly. He was almost 100 percent confident the candidate would not receive an offer.    When I heard this news, obviously I was very disappointed for my candidate. At the time, and for several months prior to this, I had successfully placed all of my candidates. I did this by always asking myself the following question:    &#8220;<em>What has to happen for this person to </em><a href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/" target="_blank"><em>get a job</em></a>?&#8221;    When I hung up the phone with the hiring partner, I knew I had to act quickly to secure my candidate an offer. He was scheduled to fly back to Asia at 6 a.m. on Sunday morning. I can tell you how most <a href="http://www.bcgsearch.com/" target="_blank">recruiters</a> and other people would have dealt with this news: they would have gotten depressed, feeling as if their candidate had failed. Essentially, they would have told the candidate to have a nice life and would have then forgotten about the person entirely.    So I asked myself that golden question: &#8220;What has to happen for this person to get a job?&#8221;    This man had shown up for his interview dressed in a nice suit, looking very sharp, and had conducted himself with the utmost professionalism in his series of interviews. The firm did not know much about him personally. He lived in a very small, 300-square-foot apartment with his pregnant wife. He took a train two hours each way to work. He desperately wanted to work and live in the United States. This <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/">law firm</a> was his only shot. If he did not get this job, he would probably have an extremely difficult time ever working in the United States.    When I asked myself what needed to happen for him to get the job, I realized he needed to pull out all the stops. He needed to let the firm know about his character beyond his professional demeanor. He needed to let them know about his hopes and dreams. He needed to make the firm understand they were the only thing stopping him from living in the United States. He needed to let them know about how he lived, about his dedication to his work, and about everything he could do to help them. This candidate needed to make an emotional connection so strong the firm would feel like they needed to hire him at all costs.    I got up at 7 a.m. on Saturday, called the candidate, and told him he needed to immediately come over to my office. He had been out with his friends late the night before and was obviously groggy. He did not want to come to my office, but I told him how important it was.    When he got into the office, I did not tell him what I knew about his not getting the job. I did not want him to feel negative. I sat down with him for at least an hour and asked him questions like these:    &#8220;What are the best things about you the firm does not know?&#8221;    &#8220;How can you contribute to the firm in ways they do not yet know about?&#8221;    &#8220;What makes you special?&#8221;    &#8220;Why are you the best person for the job?&#8221;    &#8220;What are the best things your previous employers have said about you?&#8221;    We started working around 9 a.m., and he wrote a letter to each person with whom he’d interviewed. I reviewed the first letters he wrote, which were short and did not accomplish much. By 6 p.m. the letters started getting longer and more emotional. By midnight the letters were excellent. By 1 a.m. the letters were strong enough and touched so many emotional nerves they brought tears to my eyes.    Part of this candidate&#8217;s &#8220;pitch&#8221; was that he had contacts with Japanese clients. I asked myself: &#8220;What can I do in this presentation to drive home this candidate&#8217;s point that he has contacts with Japanese clients? What can I do beyond what is in the letters?&#8221;    We went down to a Japanese hotel in Los Angeles, the New Otani, in the middle of the night to fax the letters to the firm. I wanted the firm to think he was working there and meeting with Japanese clients.  We spent more than $200 sending these faxes. Then we took printed letters down to the firm&#8217;s security desk to ensure they were delivered to the partners of the firm first thing Monday morning. My candidate barely made his flight back to Japan.    Monday morning, the partners received the letters. From what I later heard, the letters were so effective that a couple of the people who read them cried. They were so blown away, they made the candidate an offer. The firm spent tens of thousands of dollars moving him to the United States. The candidate is living here and is still <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/" target="_blank">practicing law</a> today.    Without my asking the candidate the right questions, this never would have happened.    If you recently <a href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/" target="_blank">lost your job</a>, there are several things you can do. One thing you can do is feel bad about yourself and pout. This is what most people do. They think negative thoughts and dwell on this negative energy and stay depressed. Not much ends up happening for some time.    The alternative is to ask yourself questions like these:    &#8220;What can I learn from the experience of losing my job?&#8221;    &#8220;How am I going to be a better person in the future, now that I have lost my job?&#8221;    &#8220;How can I find an even <a href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">better job</a> than the one I lost?&#8221;    You need to ask yourself questions that empower you and make you stronger. The answers to these questions will be some of the best career advice you will ever receive. Questions have a tremendous amount of power.    In order for you to get the job you want or the raise you want, and to reach the level of achievement you are seeking, you need to learn to make the best use of the thoughts that are crossing your mind.    When you are <a href="http://www.resumeapple.com/racareer-resources.php?type=447" target="_blank">interviewing for a job</a>, ask yourself questions like these:    &#8220;What sort of answers to this question would help me get this job?&#8221;    &#8220;What was I like the last time I was at my best?&#8221;    &#8220;How can I convey my enthusiasm for this job?&#8221;    A year or so ago, I started reading about <a href="http://www.healthcarecrossing.com/article/lcarticlearchive.php?type=561" target="_blank">meditation</a>. I learned that the goal of meditation is to balance the right and left hemispheres of the brain. The world and the objects in it have traditionally been defined by opposites:    -Male and female    -Light and dark    -Off and on    -Left and right    -Hot and cold    Our brains work this way, too. When we look at objects, we traditionally look for commonalities, but also differences. It is the differences we see that most <a href="http://www.sciencescrossing.com/lcvideo.php?vid=2724" target="_blank">psychologists</a> and others believe lead to our unhappiness and feelings of alienation from the world. We look for opposites.    The goal of meditation is to eliminate the distinctions we see as opposites in the mind and see how everything is connected as one. Over time, scientists who have studied those who meditate have discovered that the practice of meditation essentially balances the right and left hemispheres of the brain.    When you ask yourself questions, you need to ask them based on finding bonds between you and others. Do not ask questions about why things are separate. The more you get in the habit of finding bonds of similarities and not differences, the happier you will be.    I urge you to look at every situation as an opportunity to ask yourself an empowering question. Empowering questions push us to grow. I want you to grow, and I want you to have the kind of career and life you want and deserve.    <strong>THE LESSON  </strong>Your thought process is a powerful determinant of your success or failure. Find a connection or unifying bond among the millions of thoughts that cross your mind every day, and use them to the greatest possible effect. Rather than dwell on negative thoughts that could undermine you, strengthen your mindset by asking yourself empowering questions; you will find that the answers to these questions constitute excellent career advice.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 May 2011 05:18:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harrison Barnes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pursue your own dreams and become the person that you want to be, rather than what others might want. Living life according to the wishes of others is meaningless, and will bring you neither happiness nor success. Others do not understand your capabilities, goals, and interests as well as you do, hence their opinions should be your least concern. Have faith in your own potential greatness, and you will develop the confidence to act upon it and be the person that you really want to be, achieving true fulfillment. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being concerned with what others think is one of the biggest mistakes people make. Rather than focusing on who they want to be and what they want to do, many people live their lives more concerned about how they look to others. Deep down inside you is someone who is capable of achieving great things and becoming a great person. This is the person you should be.    Several years ago, I remember turning in a paper to Saul Levmore, who is now the dean of the <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/article/index.php?id=2443" target="_blank">University of Chicago Law School</a>. I was taking a class with him while I was at the <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/article/index.php?id=2245" target="_blank">University of Virginia Law School</a> and had not spent a lot of time with him <span id="more-504"></span>  or gotten to know him very well. I had written a paper for him and was very enthusiastic about it. I called him on the telephone to discuss the paper and we spoke for perhaps 15 minutes about it. Saul knew I was enthusiastic about the paper. It was a good paper, too&#8211;in my opinion. Even before it had been graded I’d sent it to various publications, and it was accepted prior to the end of the class.    At the end of the discussion, I asked him:    &#8220;What sort of grade do you think my paper is going to get?&#8221;    &#8220;I knew you were going to ask that,&#8221; he said.    &#8220;How did you know I was going to ask that?&#8221; I asked.    &#8220;Because you are more concerned about what others think of your work than what you think of it. You care too much about what others think. The grade is unimportant.&#8221;<a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Medium" title="Wedding 049" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/26949449@N05/2747413911/"></a>    I thought about this statement a great deal at the time and was not sure I understood it, but I knew he was on to something. I have thought about this statement again and again over the years. After more than a decade of puzzling over it, I think I finally realize the depth of what he was saying.    Saul was saying that you need to be focused on your work, and not consumed by what others think about it. You can only do great things and achieve great success when you do not care what others think. You need to follow your heart and do what you think is right. You need to be loyal to exactly what you want to do.    Other people don’t know what makes you tick and makes you happy. Other people are more likely to criticize you than praise you. Other people often have their own agendas that involve you not following your dreams. It is extremely important to follow your dreams and pursue what you want to do.    I would like to tell you a quick story about how I got into the business I am in today.    Several years ago, I was a <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/lcjssearchresults.php?jobtype=401" target="_blank">practicing attorney</a> and I did not like the work at all. When I gave notice and quit the law firm, I did so knowing that law was simply not what I wanted to pursue any longer. My family was very proud of me for being an attorney, and all of my friends and the people I knew were also attorneys. I knew very well if I left the practice of law, I would lose a great deal. In addition to losing a way of life, I would be losing a great deal of income as well as the admiration of certain people. I had contemplated not practicing law for months and months, and everyone around me was very quick to offer the opinion that leaving would be a huge mistake. I struggled internally for quite a long time with this decision.    When I discovered the practice of <a href="http://www.bcgsearch.com/" target="_blank">recruiting</a>, I knew deep down this was something I wanted to pursue. It clicked with me and it was something I absolutely loved. I knew I would be good at it. My family, significant other, and everyone around me told me making this career change would be insane. When I went out to buy a computer to start the business, a family member was with me who told me such a purchase was reckless and irresponsible. I started my business with no plan and no idea what would happen. I did it only when I realized I had to listen to myself in order to be happy. I had to do what was most important to me.    Inside of you, and inside of each of us, is the person we want to be. This person is not controlled by what others think and, instead, is allowed to come out and be extremely happy. It is my life and career advice to let that person &#8220;come out.&#8221; However, we are so programmed by what others think we are often afraid to be who we really want to be.    While I am not <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/article/4216/California-Supreme-Court-Legalizes-Gay-Marriage/" target="_blank">gay</a>, I am moved by gay people who are able to come out and be themselves, despite the prejudices of society. I think it is extremely important for people to be exactly who they want to be without caving in to the influence of others. There are probably millions of people in the United States who are gay but who are afraid to come out and be themselves. These people may even marry members of the opposite sex and try to build lives as straight people, all the while not being who they really are. Imagine the pain such people must feel.    Do not let this happen to you. You need to be the person you want to be in your life and in your <a href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/" target="_blank">career</a>. So many people go through life never being who they want to be or doing what they want to do.    <a href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">Job searching</a> is among the most important activities in your life because it is when you get the chance to discover exactly who you want to be. I encourage you to do this now!    <em>Come out</em> and be the person you want to be&#8211;and are capable of being. You do not need to blame people, circumstances, or your environment for liking, or disliking, your job and your life. Instead, take charge of being exactly who you want to be and be that person. Do this without worrying about what other people think.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    Pursue your own dreams and become the person that you want to be, rather than what others might want. Living life according to the wishes of others is meaningless, and will bring you neither happiness nor success. Others do not understand your capabilities, goals, and interests as well as you do, hence their opinions should be your least concern. Have faith in your own potential greatness, and you will develop the confidence to act upon it and be the person that you really want to be, achieving true fulfillment.</p>
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		<title>Setting Goals is Their Attainment</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jun 2011 05:14:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harrison Barnes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Setting in-depth goals really works, as it causes an unseen force to motivate you, and make you believe that you can accomplish them. Defining your purpose is merely your starting your point; a definite purpose takes on a life of its own when backed by a desire to translate that purpose into its material equivalent. Determine your destination, and set goals that will assist you in getting there. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every year in January, I do all sorts of goal setting. I set goals for what I am going to do over the next year. I do this in a lot of ways, but sometimes I dig out old tapes and CD programs I have accumulated throughout the years and listen to them to get fired up. I have been setting goals since the first of January and it is unlikely I’ll be done before the end of January, and these goals are just covering the year 2010. I figure I am going to spend at least 10% of 2010 <span id="more-1453"></span>  setting goals. The thing about in-depth goal setting is that it really works. I hate to be mysterious, but there is a level of understanding about goals that transcends what we believe is possible. Time and again I have accomplished things that formerly seemed impossible to me. This happened because I wrote the goals down. I have set goals for numerous things and written them down and these things have then proceeded to happen. Sometimes they did not happen at the exact time I had hoped they would, but they eventually did.    Last night, I was listening to some tapes about a goal setting work shop Anthony Robbins held. In one of these workshops, one woman set a goal she would have $100,000 in less than eight weeks. At the time she was making something like $30,000 a year. Tony remembered thinking this was impossible, but let her try anyway. A few days before her eight week deadline expired she miraculously won the lottery and $100,000. The woman came back to one of Tony&#8217;s workshops and decided to set another goal of $150,000 this time. She gave herself six months to achieve this. A few days before the six months expired she won $150,000 in the lottery again!    Apparently, Tony traveled around the country telling this incredible story and he told the story in Detroit. A couple decided they might as well set a giant goal and so they decided to try and make a million dollars in a period of several months. They also did something that Tony recommended in order to achieve the goal: They started acting as if they already had the money in their possession. When they got back from the seminar they started telling people they had recently made $1,000,000. A few weeks before the deadline expired they actually won $1,000,000 in the lottery.    I have actually met Tony Robbins and if I had not spent time with him I would tell you that these stories sound untrue. But they did happen and they have something to do with the power of goal setting. There is an unseen force that comes to the aid of people who set goals and believe they can accomplish them. This story from <em>Think and Grow Rich</em> really makes this point:<br />
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<p class="BodyText">This story proves the truth of that old saying, &#8216;where there&#8217;s a will, there&#8217;s a way&#8217;. It was told to me by that beloved educator and clergyman, the late Frank W. Gunsaulus, who began his preaching career in the stockyards region of South Chicago.</p>
<p class="BodyText">While Dr. Gunsaulus was going through college, he observed many defects in our educational system, defects which he believed he could correct, if he were the head of a college. His deepest desire was to become the directing head of an educational institution in which young men and women would be taught to &#8220;learn by doing.&#8221;</p>
<p class="BodyText">He made up his mind to organize a new college in which he could carry out his ideas, without being handicapped by orthodox methods of education.</p>
<p class="BodyText">He needed a million dollars to put the project across! Where was he to lay his hands on so large a sum of money? That was the question that absorbed most of this ambitious young preacher&#8217;s thought.</p>
<p class="BodyText">But he couldn&#8217;t seem to make any progress. Every night he took that thought to bed with him. He got up with it in the morning. He took it with him everywhere he went. He turned it over and over in his mind until it became a consuming obsession with him. A million dollars is a lot of money. He recognized that fact, but he also recognized the truth that the only limitation is that which one sets up in one&#8217;s own mind.</p>
<p class="BodyText">Being a philosopher as well as a preacher, Dr. Gunsaulus recognized, as do all who succeed in life, that DEFINITENESS OF PURPOSE is the starting point from which one must begin. He recognized, too, that definiteness of purpose takes on animation, life, and power when backed by a BURNING DESIRE to translate that purpose into its material equivalent.</p>
<p class="BodyText">He knew all these great truths, yet he did not know where, or how to lay his hands on a million dollars. The natural procedure would have been to give up and quit, by saying, &#8220;Ah well, my idea is a good one, but I cannot do anything with it, because I never can procure the necessary million dollars.&#8221; That is exactly what the majority of people would have said, but it is not what Dr. Gunsaulus said. What he said, and what he did are so important that I now introduce him, and let him speak for himself.</p>
<p class="BodyText">&#8220;One Saturday afternoon I sat in my room thinking of ways and means of raising the money to carry out my plans. For nearly two years, I had been thinking, but I had done nothing but think! <!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--></p>
<p class="BodyText">&#8220;The time had come for ACTION!&#8221;</p>
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<p class="BodyText">&#8220;I made up my mind, then and there, that I would get the necessary million dollars within a week. How? I was not concerned about that. The main thing of importance was the decision to get the money within a specified time, and I want to tell you that the moment I reached a definite decision to get the money within a specified time, a strange feeling of assurance came over me, such as I had never before experienced. Something inside me seemed to say, `Why didn&#8217;t you reach that decision a long time ago? The money was waiting for you all the time!&#8217;</p>
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<p class="BodyText">&#8220;Things began to happen in a hurry. I called the newspapers and announced I would preach a sermon the following morning, entitled, `What I would do if I had a Million Dollars.&#8217;</p>
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<p class="BodyText">&#8220;I went to work on the sermon immediately, but I must tell you, frankly, the task was not difficult, because I had been preparing that sermon for almost two years. The spirit back of it was a part of me!</p>
<p class="BodyText">&#8220;Long before midnight I had finished writing the sermon. I went to bed and slept with a feeling of confidence, for I could see myself already in. possession of the million dollars.</p>
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<p class="BodyText">&#8220;Next morning I arose early, went into the bathroom, read the sermon, then knelt on my knees and asked that my sermon might come to the attention of someone who would supply the needed money.</p>
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<p class="BodyText">&#8220;While I was praying I again had that feeling of assurance that the money would be forthcoming. In my excitement, I walked out without my sermon, and did not discover the oversight until I was in my pulpit and about ready to begin delivering it.</p>
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<p class="BodyText">&#8220;It was too late to go back for my notes, and what a blessing that I couldn&#8217;t go back! Instead, my own subconscious mind yielded the material I needed. When I arose to begin my sermon, I closed my eyes, and spoke with all my heart and soul of my dreams. I not only talked to my audience, but I fancy I talked also to God. I told what I would do with a million dollars if that amount were placed in my hands. I described the plan I had in mind for organizing a great educational institution, where young people would learn to do practical things, and at the same time develop their minds.</p>
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<p class="BodyText">&#8220;When I had finished and sat down, a man slowly arose from his seat, about three rows from the rear, and made his way toward the pulpit. I wondered what he was going to do. He came into the pulpit, extended his hand, and said, `Reverend, I liked your sermon. I believe you can do everything you said you would, if you had a million dollars. To prove that I believe in you and your sermon, if you will come to my office tomorrow morning, I will give you the million dollars. My name is Phillip D. Armour.&#8221;&#8216;</p>
<p class="BodyText">Young Gunsaulus went to Mr. Armour&#8217;s office and the million dollars was presented to him. With the money, he founded the Armour Institute of Technology.</p>
<p class="BodyText">That is more money than the majority of preachers ever see in an entire lifetime, yet the thought impulse to back the money was created in the young preacher&#8217;s mind in a fraction of a minute. The necessary million dollars came as a result of an idea. Behind the idea was a DESIRE which young Gunsaulus had been nursing in his mind for almost two years.</p>
<p class="BodyText">Observe this important fact&#8230; HE GOT THE MONEY WITHIN THIRTY-SIX HOURS AFTER HE REACHED A DEFINITE DECISION IN HIS OWN MIND TO GET IT, AND DECIDED UPON A DEFINITE PLAN FOR GETTING IT!</p>
<p class="BodyText">There was nothing new or unique about young Gunsaulus&#8217; vague thinking about a million dollars, and weakly hoping for it. Others before him, and many since his time, have had similar thoughts. But there was something very unique and different about the decision he reached on that memorable Saturday, when he put vagueness into the background, and definitely said, &#8220;I WILL get that money within a week!&#8221;</p>
<p class="BodyText">God seems to throw Himself on the side of the man who knows exactly what he wants, if he is determined to get JUST THAT! Moreover, the principle through which Dr. Gunsaulus got his million dollars is still alive! It is available to you! This universal law is as workable today as it was when the young preacher made use of it so successfully. This book describes, step by step, the thirteen elements of this great law, and suggests how they may be put to use. Observe that Asa Candler and Dr. Frank Gunsaulus had one characteristic in common. Both knew the astounding truth that IDEAS CAN BE TRANSMUTED INTO CASH THROUGH THE POWER OF DEFINITE PURPOSE, PLUS DEFINITE PLANS.</p>
<p class="BodyText">If you are one of those who believe that hard work and honesty, alone, will bring riches, perish the thought! It is not true!</p>
<p class="BodyText">Riches, when they come in huge quantities, are never the result of HARD work! Riches come, if they come at all, in response to definite demands, based upon the application of definite principles, and not by chance or luck. Generally speaking, an idea is an impulse of thought that impels action, by an appeal to the imagination. All master salesmen know that ideas can be sold where merchandise cannot. Ordinary salesmen do not know this-that is why they are &#8220;ordinary&#8221;.</p>
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<p>  I have heard stories like this many times throughout the years about the power of people who set goals and who then proceed to follow through with them. The power of setting goals in this matter is remarkable. Once you tell yourself you can do something everything else in the world begins to fall into place for you. You need to know where you are going and set goals that assist you in getting there. Powerful forces come to the aid of people who set goals and start moving towards them. You need to set goals and believe you can attain them.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    Setting in-depth goals really works, as it causes an unseen force to motivate you, and make you believe that you can accomplish them. Defining your purpose is merely your starting your point; a definite purpose takes on a life of its own when backed by a desire to translate that purpose into its material equivalent. Determine your destination, and set goals that will assist you in getting there. <!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--><!--WARNING: THIS PAGE ORIGINATES FROM PSI TEK - http://www.psitek.net/index2.html - AND IS PROTECTED BY COPYSCAPE PAGE TRACKING TECHNOLOGY. ANTI-PAGE-THEFT TRACKING CODES HAVE BEEN EMBEDDED IN THE CONTENT--></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[People with meaningful lives finish what they start; this says a lot about their character, and leaves a lasting impression on those around them. Completing the tasks you are assigned will make you the kind of person that companies retain year after year, and will help you better assess your capabilities. You must be accountable for finishing what you start, and you can do so by putting your mind to it. When you always finish what you start, you will find yourself performing at your absolute best. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you drive less than an hour outside of any major city in America, you will very quickly begin to see a different world. Typically, in the best neighborhoods and areas, the lawns are well maintained and there is not much to see beyond trees, flowers, and shrubs. When you start getting into poorer neighborhoods outside of major cities, however, you begin to see things like automobiles on blocks rusting in front yards and the landscape looks a lot different. I&#8217;ve ridden through these neighborhoods with wealthy people from larger cities. At least once I heard someone say something like, <span id="more-1056"></span>  &#8220;Why don&#8217;t they clean up that mess?&#8221;    I know exactly why they do not clean up that mess because I have some family members who live in the country who also collect vehicles on their front lawns, and behind their homes. They do not clean the mess up because they are in the middle of trying to restore and fix those various vehicles. There is a story to every car and <a href="http://www.truckingcrossing.com/" target="_blank">truck</a> that is in a state of disrepair. One needs a new transmission and will be fixed soon. Another needs some complicated engine work. Most of the cars were purchased on a whim and for cheap when they were already broken. Everyone believes they will one day fix the car or truck and when they do, they are going to make some good money.    It is almost as if the unfinished car or truck gives the person who owns it value. It makes them feel as if they are important because they have some untapped wealth or power of which they’ve not taken advantage. Isn&#8217;t this how many of us are in our own lives? We have untapped power of which we’ve not taken advantage, and we’ve started things we have not completed.    <a href="http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/carsbrokendownonlawn.jpg"></a>    One evening I was at a mall and I saw a poster <a href="http://www.advertisingcrossing.com/" target="_blank">advertising</a> surgery for women to lose weight. I saw the most stunning before and after pictures. A woman was at least 350 pounds and so large you could hardly make out her face. After the surgery, she had lost about 200 pounds. Her transformation after losing the weight was amazing. She was very attractive, and she looked much happier. What was so striking to me was the difference in potential the two pictures represented. One woman looked like a supermodel and the other could not fit into clothing you would find in an average mall. Why would someone want to pass up the incredible potential they have in their life? This is only one example of potential.    People start diets and never finish.    Others tell themselves they will start exercising and never follow through.    Others start school and never finish.    Others plan to start a business and never follow through.    Others tell themselves they will start saving and never follow through.    Others start a novel and never follow through.    Others start taking the path to a better life in one of a million ways and never follow through.    In fact, I think following through and finishing what you start is one of the most important things you can do. Why don&#8217;t more people follow through? What is it about following through that scares so many people? Why don&#8217;t most of us finish what we start?    I know so many people with so much potential who could be incredible artists, <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/" target="_blank">lawyers</a>, <a href="http://www.dotnetcrossing.com/" target="_blank">programmers</a>, businesspeople, and more who never complete what they start. I know people who are chronically unemployed because they never finish what they start. I can think of whole groups of people I know of who are brilliant and talented but have lives of complete mediocrity because they never finish what they start.    Before you read any further, I want to make sure you are aware of one thing: <em>the only thing separating the people with the most important and meaningful lives from those who have average lives or fail is that the latter fail to finish what they start.</em>    When I was <a href="http://www.bcgsearch.com/" target="_blank">practicing law</a>, I remember being at a cocktail party with numerous partners and associates from the <a href="http://www.lawfirmstaff.com/" target="_blank">law firm</a> where I worked. One of the associates was joking with the partner that the law firm had only made two partners in the entire 14 years it had been in Los Angeles. The partner looked at the associate and said, &#8220;That&#8217;s because you guys get too scared you will not make partner and always leave before we have a chance to nominate and vote on you.&#8221;    I thought that was an interesting statement because, regardless of the truth of it, the partner was saying that no one who worked there ever followed through by staying on the job. They got too scared and left. Perhaps those associates went somewhere they were positive they would make partner. The thought of all of those careers that were stalled by not following through was an interesting one to me. Maybe those associates like to say to themselves, &#8220;I would have made partner if I stayed around, but I did not like it so I left.&#8221; I do not know. However, what I do know is this situation is not much different from those people whose personal worth is tied to the fact that if they fixed up the cars on their front lawns they would have a lot of money. If only.    Once you go inside the homes with cars rusting in front of them on blocks you will see additional projects that are half finished. You will see a bathroom that is being remodeled, and that has been for a long time. For years the family may have been taking a shower in a bathroom where there is no tile on the floor. This epidemic is not just confined to rural areas, it also exists in cities. People do not collect cars on their front lawns in cities because the police and authorities in these areas do not allow it. Go inside many homes in cities and suburbs and you will also see a huge collection of unfinished projects.    I want to be clear about something with these unfinished projects: it is not just about the money. You can tile the average bathroom with inexpensive tile for less than $30. You can rebuild a transmission quite inexpensively if you know what you are doing. It just takes time.    My mother is someone who was always attracted to dreamers and she dated a lot of them while I was growing up. These were men who always told her tomorrow was going to be far different from today. They were on the verge of getting rich, they were going to build a house on the water, something was going to change and change soon. My mother had relatives all over Michigan who did things like drive trucks and work in factories in the country, but she had a small house in a nice suburb. The whole outlook of never finishing what you started came right into our house with these men who were dreamers. Most of them were contractors or were involved in contracting, and they would start one project after another and keep the projects going for years. One project might involve replacing the kitchen floor. A few hours would be dedicated to ripping up the floor on a Sunday and a few years would pass before a new floor was installed. For years we would get splinters and eat in a kitchen with no floor.    In the interim, they’d start numerous other projects. None of these would be completed either.    What was the meaning of all of these uncompleted projects? Why did so many things consistently not get done? What was happening?    The answers to these questions are complicated. However, I believe a large part of it is a desire not to be held accountable for the result. If the kitchen remodel is completed, we will have to call the result our kitchen. If all of the cars are fixed, we will have to explain why we do not have any money. If we finish college, we will have to be accountable for getting a <a href="http://www.100kcrossing.com/" target="_blank">high-paying job</a>.    How many people have you met who have started a novel and never finished it? Almost everyone knows someone like this. Have they not finished the novel because they do not know how to write? Have they really had writers&#8217; block for the past eight years? The legions of people with unfinished novels are legendary. I think so many of these novels go unfinished because if they did finish them, the person will have to come to terms with the fact they are not the next great novelist, or they are not as important as they would like to believe they are deep down.    Many of us want to represent ourselves as something other than what we are. Finishing what we start forces us to confront who we really are. So we are afraid to finish what we start. This brings me to you and your job. Do you finish what you start? I have supervised and worked with hundreds of people over my career, and the number one characteristic I have seen in the very best people is they finish what they start.    Finishing what you start is the most important thing you can do in any job. The people you are working for need to know whatever work you are given you will finish. Every week for the past several years I have had a series of teleconferences with various individual employees in my company. The purpose of these teleconferences is to solicit various ideas about our businesses, to go over projects that have been assigned, and to assign new projects. They are the most effective method I know for making our company strong, ensuring the continual promotion of the good people, and pressuring the average people in the company to &#8220;shape up or ship out.&#8221; These teleconferences are simple and there is really nothing to them but ensuring that people finish what they start. I believe that cycles of action and finishing what we start are the most important things that can happen in any company.    Several years ago, before I conducted these weekly teleconferences, I found most of the projects I assigned never ended up getting completed by certain people. It was a constant source of anger for me when things did not get completed, and after a while, I would simply give up on many people.    The typical teleconference goes like this: we start going over the assignments for the current week and explaining them. Then we go over the assignments for the previous weeks and the person with the assignments provides an update. The spreadsheet may look like this:    Assignment Weeks    Write a letter to all previous EC clients re: sale 7  Call Franchise Tax Board re: new tax ID number 7    Certain employees never have any task go more than one or two weeks, and others have their assignments open for months at a time. The people who complete tasks are the people who remain at the company and work there year after year. In the past I have hired people from other great companies, great schools, and people with a lot of &#8220;flash&#8221; who could never complete an assignment.    I have also hired others who did not look as good on paper but who always finished an assignment. Our company has no venture capital or borrowed money and must support itself with real revenues. In our company, the only thing that really matters is whether or not projects are completed. If a project is not completed, our company does not make any money. I believe the downfall of many companies begins when there are more people not finishing tasks than finishing them. There are people who are in the habit of not finishing what they start. The same employees who do not finish what they start are often the people who have the most doctors&#8217; appointments and waste the most time during the day. They spend their time in a nonproductive zone. I do not judge people who do this because I am also guilty to a certain extent of not always finishing what I start. The fact of the matter is, however, the way to do the absolute best in your job and life is to make sure you always finish what you start no matter what.    When you do not finish what you start at work, you are sending the message the task and the company are not important enough to you. In the business world, if you do enough of this people will stop taking you seriously. People do not have confidence in people who do not finish what they start. Companies do not promote people who do not finish what they start.    Everyone, regardless of who they are, must be accountable for finishing what they start. When Hillary Clinton was running for president, one of the images I could not stop thinking about was when she pledged to fix the <a href="http://www.healthcarecrossing.com/" target="_blank">healthcare program</a> in the United States when her husband had been president years previously. After a great deal of effort, she failed completely. I saw her at a news conference and she said something to the effect that &#8220;I do not know why anyone even tries. You cannot get anything done with these people in Washington.&#8221;    To me this was a striking statement. It was striking because she had essentially &#8220;thrown in the towel&#8221; and given up. I wanted to see her succeed. After this sort of attitude, I felt it was very unlikely she could have really thrived in Washington. For example, when Al Gore lost the run for president, he kept fighting for his belief in fixing the environment – even without public office. I wonder what Hillary Clinton would do with healthcare reform if she were not in office. My feeling is not a lot.    Finishing what you start says a lot about your character and leaves a huge and lasting impression on everyone around you. It is extremely important you are always finishing what you start. The results you will have in the world and the impact you will make will be in direct proportion to your ability to finish. Everyone can finish what they start if they really put their minds to it.    The rewards for completing what you start are huge. When you complete what you start, you learn about your capabilties. You learn lessons you can use to take the next step and grow.    I believe most people will do a lot more to avoid pain than they will to experience pleasure. For many people, completing a task may represent the potential for being criticized or judged for something, which is painful. People want to avoid pain. Success, however, could be compared to creating constant failure and forcing yourself to grow in response. If you finish a task and do not believe what you have done is good enough, then you will learn lessons that will drive you forward to do as good as possible the next time. The important thing is that you finished. Growth only happens when you are completing tasks.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    People with meaningful lives finish what they start; this says a lot about their character, and leaves a lasting impression on those around them. Completing the tasks you are assigned will make you the kind of person that companies retain year after year, and will help you better assess your capabilities. You must be accountable for finishing what you start, and you can do so by putting your mind to it. When you always finish what you start, you will find yourself performing at your absolute best.</p>
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