Comments on: Choose Your Frames of Reference Wisely http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/choose-your-references-wisely/ Mon, 21 May 2012 19:54:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Michel Tine http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/choose-your-references-wisely/#comment-78466 Michel Tine Mon, 21 May 2012 19:27:32 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=1144#comment-78466 Everyone must focus on things that empower their own lives at all times. I know that all I need is to change my life with good experiences, good vision, and a good way. That's why I read your article carefully. After reading it, I have found out how to handle my issues, which will allow me to overcome the difficulties of life. Here are few words about the lesson of your article which I will retain. THE LESSON Your life is shaped by the reference points through which you experience the world, which you establish based on your own past experiences. You must learn to take these experiences, and frame them in a way that makes you stronger. Your experiences create the filters through which you see the world, so you must avoid letting negative past experiences hurt you in the present. Instead, focus on references that empower you and interpret the world for your benefit. Thanks! Cordially yours, Tine Everyone must focus on things that empower their own lives at all times. I know that all I need is to change my life with good experiences, good vision, and a good way. That’s why I read your article carefully. After reading it, I have found out how to handle my issues, which will allow me to overcome the difficulties of life.

Here are few words about the lesson of your article which I will retain.

THE LESSON

Your life is shaped by the reference points through which you experience the world, which you establish based on your own past experiences. You must learn to take these experiences, and frame them in a way that makes you stronger. Your experiences create the filters through which you see the world, so you must avoid letting negative past experiences hurt you in the present. Instead, focus on references that empower you and interpret the world for your benefit.

Thanks!

Cordially yours,

Tine

]]> By: Irena http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/choose-your-references-wisely/#comment-78300 Irena Sun, 20 May 2012 00:01:23 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=1144#comment-78300 This article was so inspiring and empowering! Thank you, Mr. Barnes! This article was so inspiring and empowering! Thank you, Mr. Barnes!

]]> By: Amberlee http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/choose-your-references-wisely/#comment-25258 Amberlee Mon, 15 Aug 2011 12:08:04 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=1144#comment-25258 I was so confused about what to buy, but this makes it unedratsndable. I was so confused about what to buy, but this makes it unedratsndable.

]]> By: Blake Harper http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/choose-your-references-wisely/#comment-21194 Blake Harper Thu, 09 Jun 2011 19:48:33 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=1144#comment-21194 I just read a couple of your blogs and they were great, I have never been a critic and started out living life on my own terms, by starting a very sucessful company at age 20. After beening very sucessful for many years I made the mistake of accepting a job in Corporate America.Don't take me wrong, it was great, money for nothing, you certainly don't have to work for a living. Great, until 16 months ago when I was laid off, there I was in the same boat I was in 30 years before except that now 100,000 people have capitalized on my idea and instead of being the only person doing it, I am an also ran. Now I have to recreate the wheel of what it takes to restart my company. So I have been working AT it instead of getting the fire back in my belly I had at 20, getting off my duff and doing it again. I need to read your blog once a week until I am a point again where I owe the IRS 380,000 except I won't make that mistake again, once was enough. Thank you for your words of wisdom In spite of the other 100,000, I'll get it going again :-) I just read a couple of your blogs and they were great, I have never been a critic and started out living life on my own terms, by starting a very sucessful company at age 20. After beening very sucessful for many years I made the mistake of accepting a job in Corporate America.Don’t take me wrong, it was great, money for nothing, you certainly don’t have to work for a living. Great, until 16 months ago when I was laid off, there I was in the same boat I was in 30 years before except that now 100,000 people have capitalized on my idea and instead of being the only person doing it, I am an also ran. Now I have to recreate the wheel of what it takes to restart my company. So I have been working AT it instead of getting the fire back in my belly I had at 20, getting off my duff and doing it again. I need to read your blog once a week until I am a point again where I owe the IRS 380,000
except I won’t make that mistake again, once was enough.
Thank you for your words of wisdom
In spite of the other 100,000, I’ll get it going again :-)

]]> By: Diya Agrawal http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/choose-your-references-wisely/#comment-12027 Diya Agrawal Sun, 11 Apr 2010 13:18:35 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=1144#comment-12027 I may not be rich, but I’m comfortable; I have what I want and need, and I am literally debt free. I’ve managed to make some interesting opportunities with my career, such as teaching in India, Myanmar, Philippines, Singapore, Taiwan, and Malaysia. I wouldn’t be this happy if I hadn’t used my past experience to learn from and guide me in my current life choices. I may not be rich, but I’m comfortable; I have what I want and need, and I am literally debt free. I’ve managed to make some interesting opportunities with my career, such as teaching in India, Myanmar, Philippines, Singapore, Taiwan, and Malaysia. I wouldn’t be this happy if I hadn’t used my past experience to learn from and guide me in my current life choices.

]]> By: James J. Fargo, D.D.S. http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/choose-your-references-wisely/#comment-10443 James J. Fargo, D.D.S. Wed, 17 Feb 2010 20:10:12 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=1144#comment-10443 Harrison Barnes: Just read your "Choose Your Frames of Reference Wisely" article and was thoroughly intrigued. Inspiring. To your success also, JJF Harrison Barnes:
Just read your “Choose Your Frames of Reference Wisely” article and was thoroughly intrigued. Inspiring.
To your success also,
JJF

]]> By: Roger Taylor, Esq. http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/choose-your-references-wisely/#comment-10264 Roger Taylor, Esq. Sat, 13 Feb 2010 10:49:39 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=1144#comment-10264 Good job, Harrison. Interesting reading Good job, Harrison. Interesting reading

]]> By: Monica Acevedo Quitugua http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/choose-your-references-wisely/#comment-10261 Monica Acevedo Quitugua Sat, 13 Feb 2010 08:33:43 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=1144#comment-10261 I like your essay a lot. The way you think is very helpfull and specially today it came to my when I needed. You should be proud of yourself because you are capable of make a change in a lot of people like me. Giving encouragment is a wonderful think and I wanted to thank you for shering your experiances ant thoughts. I like your essay a lot. The way you think is very helpfull and specially today it came to my when I needed. You should be proud of yourself because you are capable of make a change in a lot of people like me. Giving encouragment is a wonderful think and I wanted to thank you for shering your experiances ant thoughts.

]]> By: Fran http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/choose-your-references-wisely/#comment-10242 Fran Fri, 12 Feb 2010 15:52:18 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=1144#comment-10242 I am 59 years old and was laid off from my job of 8 years on Oct. 31, 2008. The job was as manager of the credit and funding departments for an internet company providing sub-prime auto financing to dealerships. Because of the economy and lack of employment in both the auto industry and in finance, I went to school and obtained my paralegal certification in December 2009. There are indeed jobs available paralegals. However, I have been unable to find anything that does not require 2-7 years experience and a bachelor's degree. I've applied for any type of job available at law firms in order to get my foot in the door. There have been no responses. Employment agencies have noting available for new paralegals. I's all very frustrating. Do you have any suggestions? I am 59 years old and was laid off from my job of 8 years on Oct. 31, 2008. The job was as manager of the credit and funding departments for an internet company providing sub-prime auto financing to dealerships. Because of the economy and lack of employment in both the auto industry and in finance, I went to school and obtained my paralegal certification in December 2009. There are indeed jobs available paralegals. However, I have been unable to find anything that does not require 2-7 years experience and a bachelor’s degree. I’ve applied for any type of job available at law firms in order to get my foot in the door. There have been no responses. Employment agencies have noting available for new paralegals. I’s all very frustrating.

Do you have any suggestions?

]]> By: Gina Fields http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/choose-your-references-wisely/#comment-10239 Gina Fields Fri, 12 Feb 2010 15:14:23 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=1144#comment-10239 Excellent article. Eye opening and inspirational. Excellent article. Eye opening and inspirational.

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