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		<title>Do and Give More Than Is Expected of You</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 05:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harrison Barnes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In every job, there is always much more to do than what is actually expected of you; by dong more than expected, you will attract the attention and respect of your superiors and find your life improving. When you withhold your best work, however, you only prolong your current situation and confine yourself to mediocrity. Put everything you can into all of your work, resist the urge to only put in the expected effort, and you will find your life and career approving accordingly. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was 18 years old I spent three months working as a garbage man in Detroit.  It was one of the more interesting experiences of my life. I had taken the job out of necessity because I had the good fortune of being cut off from any spending money by my parents. Facing my first year of college in a few months, I wanted to make sure that I had money for my books and other expenses.    When I started the work I threw myself into it with a great deal of enthusiasm. I had not <span id="more-13819"></span>  other choice, so I told myself I would make the most of it. If I did a good job collecting garbage there were all sorts of promotions I could receive. For example, I could be put in charge of mowing city grass on an automatic mower. I might be allowed to paint lines in the street. Alternatively, I might be given the job of going around in a boom crane and replacing city light bulbs.    My job was to ride around on the back of the truck and pick up bags of trash at each stop.  Most of the other garbage men rode lazily on the back of the truck between each house, got off at each stop, and then got back on. Not me. I decided early on to simply jog alongside the truck. Instead of picking up one garbage bag per stop, I would try and pick up two, three, or more.    Within a few weeks I was in some of the best shape of my life.  I worked so hard at the job that I started pressuring the men driving the garbage trucks to drive faster so that I could pick up more garbage.    I noticed early on, though, that the men did not seem to like me working so hard.  I did not understand it at the time, but the men I was working for were unionized and paid by the hour. By picking up so much garbage I was not only shortening their shifts, but also making them look bad.  Despite doing such good work, I was actually hurting myself by picking up so much garbage.    One day after work my supervisor asked me if I “had a minute.”    He looked embarrassed and a little scared: “I’m going to have to let you go,” he said.    “Why?” I asked, somewhat puzzled.  “I’m doing a good job.”    “These guys are complaining to me. They are complaining to their union. You are only here a few months before you go to school. I have to keep them happy. You’re getting the work done too fast and costing them money.”    Without any argument, I thanked him and went home. When I got home my mother was sitting on the couch watching television.  My mother spent twenty-plus years (the better part of her career) working as an investigator for the Michigan Department of Civil Rights. Essentially, this job involved investigating cases of discrimination against people because of their race, age, sexual orientation, and so forth. She then would assist people in either getting their jobs back or suing their employer.    “They told me I was getting fired because I was working too hard,” I told her.    My mother got on the phone and called the Department of Public Works, where I had been working as a garbage man. Within ten minutes I had my job back. When I got to work the next day my supervisor apologized, gave me a small raise, and promoted me to a job mowing lawns and doing other sorts of work on city lots. Riding around on a lawnmower all day and screwing around with a weed whacker was like paradise compared to throwing garbage all day.    It was a promotion!    However it comes about, I have never heard of anyone who did not
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<li>get a <a href="http://www.hound.com/gjbrowsejobs.php" target="_blank"><strong>better job</strong></a></li>
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<p>  as a result of doing more than was expected of them.  The harder you work—and the more you do than is expected&#8211;the more you will attract the attention of your superiors and the sooner you will find yourself in a better life. In the case of my job as a garbage man, my hard work attracted the attention of my superiors at first in the wrong way—but then it paid off.    In my job as a garbage man I was surrounded by men whose entire careers had been based on not doing more than was expected of them.  In contrast, I was of the belief that I should always do more than was expected of me.  This belief is something that I owe every success I have ever had to.    In academics, this means studying more than is expected of you. In the work world, this means doing more than is expected of you in many, many ways.  When I was in college, if a teacher told us we had to write a paper of a “minimum” of five pages—I would write a thirty- or forty-page paper.    “Why are you writing such a long paper,” my classmates would always ask me.    “Because I want to get an A,” I would tell them.  And when I wrote such long papers and put so much effort into them, I always got As (often the only A in the class) when everyone else turned in their five-page (or maybe six-page) papers and got Bs and Cs. I even saw many people play with their margins to get to over five pages.    The practice of law (which I did for some time) is like this to.  I remember one of my first insights into really great lawyering came when I was clerking for a judge.  I started to notice that the best lawyers from the best firms did very small, imperceptible things that other attorneys would not.    For example, if they were sending you a bunch of pages paper clipped together they might put a sticky note between the paper and the paper clip so the pages were not marked with the paperclip indentation. This is, of course, excessively anal but it is an example of the smallest of details that the best attorneys do not miss. Their work is proofread meticulously. They are on top of just about every single thing they are doing to an extraordinary degree, and no detail is too small. In contrast, the work of average attorneys would be proofed far less carefully and contain far more errors, typos, and other sorts of things.  Forget about a sticky note so there is no paper clip indentation…    Whether it is working as a lawyer or as a garbage man, there is always a way to do much more than is expected of you in every profession. There is no job where you cannot do more than is expected of you. You may not immediately see the results, but over time you will.  No supervisor misses their hardest and best workers.  You will soon find yourself promoted, given raises, given bonuses, and more. You will be offered a <a href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/lcbrowsejobs.php" target="_blank"><strong>supervisors job</strong></a> eventually. Or you will be hired away by an astute competitor who sees how much you are giving and knows they can channel your energy.    “<em>If I give more than is expected of me, won’t I be used and taken advantage of?</em>” you may ask.    There is a remote chance of this occurring. But human nature is to give back in response to receiving. This is how it works 99% of the time. It is just a law of the world.    I have seen so many <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/lcattorney.php" target="_blank"><strong>attorneys get better jobs</strong></a> by giving more than is expected of them.  Other lawyers notice and hire them away. They rise up the ranks of firms. They attract clients who also see their devotion. They get to the top fast. It is like this in every profession.    There is no other thing that has given me more in life than performing more than is expected of me.  Let your competitors in your job slack off and put in half-assed efforts.  A few years from now you will be living the dream while they are stuck or moving backward.    If you are not doing your absolute best and withholding your best work, you are only prolonging your present situation and are dooming yourself to a life of mediocrity (for your abilities) or, at worst, failure.    Resist the urge to do only what is expected of you.  Give all you can to everything you do and you will succeed.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    In every job, there is always much more to do than what is actually expected of you; by dong more than expected, you will attract the attention and respect of your superiors and find your life improving. When you withhold your best work, however, you only prolong your current situation and confine yourself to mediocrity. Put everything you can into all of your work, resist the urge to only put in the expected effort, and you will find your life and career approving accordingly.</p>
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		<title>You Must Have the Home Team Advantage</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 05:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this article Harrison discusses the importance of making good decisions pertaining to different important areas of your life. To explain his point he talks about the concept of ‘home team advantage’. The home team advantage is one of the most important concepts in sports and it is a proven factor in how well teams do. There are people who support us, validate us and make us feel good, and this helps us do well. There are also people around us who fail to support us, and this hurts us. Your success in your career and in your life will in large part be determined by whether you are living, working and associating with a “home team” crowd or an “away team” crowd. The best thing you can do for yourself is to put yourself in a position where you are supported, where you have the home team advantage.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the most interesting things to me is witnessing people when they make a complete reversal in their lives and overnight become incredibly successful, happy, and fulfilled people. Perhaps the reason this is so fascinating is that it happens so rarely. When this does happen, more often than not, the major life change is related to a career, location, mate, or some other important aspect of the person&#8217;s life. This is why, I believe, that making good decisions pertaining to these different areas of your life is among the most important determinants of your happiness on earth.   <span id="more-5169"></span>   By the time most people are around 25 years old, it seems the person they are going to be, their level of happiness, and their level of predictable success has been pretty well set. It is as if the person has been <em>calcified</em> to some extent and will go on living the life you would expect of them. Even by the age of 18 or so, most people are already calcified. This calcification does not necessarily mean that the person will never change&#8211;but, for the most part, it means that the person will be pretty set in his or her ways. The sorts of achievement the person aspires to, the risks the person takes with regard to careers, what the person expects out of relationships, what the person gives to others, how hard the person is willing to work and more, are all pretty much set. If you were to examine someone at the age of 25 and do an in-depth profile, my guess is that you would get a pretty clear picture of what the person&#8217;s life would look like twenty years or so from now.    My twentieth high school reunion happened recently. Unfortunately, I did not attend because I did not learn about it until a few days before its occurrence; I live in California, and the school is in Michigan. In hearing from an old buddy about what my high school classmates were up to, there were very few surprises at all. In fact, I cannot think of a single surprise in terms of the level of success or chosen life path of any of my old classmates. I had not known many of these people since I was around 18, but they all pretty much ended up like I would have expected back in high school. <em>T</em><em>he biggest shock to me is that certain people did not amount to as much as I had expected: it was never the case that a person amounted to more than I expected.</em>    Have you ever questioned why certain people did not amount to more? To me, this question raises numerous other questions. What is it that holds back someone of tremendous potential and achievement from reaching all that they are truly capable of? What is it that kicks in and calcifies a person&#8217;s potential, or lack thereof?    I am sure there are some people you know who seem to have problems all of the time: Things go wrong for the person wherever they go. They get in auto accidents; they accidentally break things; they have all sorts of health problems; they make stupid mistakes and get fired from jobs; people around them have all sorts of issues as well. I have known many people like this.
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<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always getting sick?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always having accidents?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always getting in trouble?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always in crisis?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always having financial problems?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always losing their jobs?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always unhappy?</li>
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<p>  I have, and I do not think there are a lot of coincidences when it comes to people and the misfortunes that plague their lives. There are, quite simply, people who will generally make those around them unhappy and create problems.    While it seems to be a paranoid sort of assertion, I firmly believe that whether or not the people around us are validating or invalidating us is a large cause of our success or failure in life. This also goes for organizations. If you are in a good or bad organization, this can have a tremendous influence over what happens to you. One of my greatest sources of pride is the number of positive stories I could tell you about my former employees. Good things have happened to many of them in their careers after being with me for some time. The fact that good things happen to people associated with a given organization or person reflects well on that organization or person. Conversely, I know of <strong><a title="Law Firm Staff" href="http://www.lawfirmstaff.com/" target="_blank">law firms</a></strong> in which nothing much ever happens for the people who leave, and, in most cases, they experience one failure after another following their departure. Much of this has to do, I think, with the level of support the people may have received in their previous positions and the messages they have carried forth into their lives by virtue of this association.
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<li>Did they learn to believe in what is possible?</li>
<li>Did they feel validated?</li>
<li>Did they develop confidence?</li>
<li>Were they able to learn and incorporate a message about their own validity in the world?</li>
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<p>  If you are spending time with a person who is invalidating your efforts and your life, the odds are you will be negatively affected. Similarly, if you are around someone who is constantly validating you and giving you approval, you may benefit tremendously through your association with this person. The same thing goes for the organizations that we are part of. There are people out there who tend to better the mood, health, and general well-being of those around them, and there are those who do not. I am going to list a few examples of this; some of them may be upsetting and may even relate to you personally, but nonetheless they merit review.    I have known of many people throughout the years who were closely connected with someone, whether it be a parent, mate, or someone else. The person they were connected with had a huge fear of the person leaving them, and therefore their personal interest was in keeping the person down, making sure that the person did not improve, or change, to such an extent that they could ever leave them. A parent who does not want his or her child to go away from home may feign all sorts of illnesses to keep the child around and may also discourage any of the child&#8217;s efforts at self-improvement. For example, if the child gets into an excellent out-of-state college, the parent may encourage the child to stay home and go to a local community college, for various reasons, instead of finding a way to make the child&#8217;s upward mobility to a better school a reality. A parent who has the need to feel superior to his or her child may also keep the child down in subtle ways.    In personal relationships, a man or woman may discourage a mate from trying to <strong><a title="Get Better Job" href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">get a better job</a></strong>, looking better, and so forth, for fear that this might lead to separation and abandonment. This person might relay negative feedback about his or her partner&#8217;s accomplishments but hold back positive feedback or information that is likely to be helpful.    The objective of such people is to keep other people down. People can hold you back by direct means, and they can also do so through indirect means. For example, a friend or significant other who does not compliment or notice the positive things that you do, or who always finds fault in the positive things that you do, can have a very traumatic effect on you in the long run. Making you self-conscious of your faults and always pointing these out can also be a seriously negative influence. Relating about nothing other than negativity, impossibility, and so forth can also have a very negative effect on you. If any of this sounds familiar to you, it is probably time to evaluate your relationships.    In most sports, there is something called the <em>home team advantage</em>, which means that when a team is playing at home, it tends to perform much better than when they play away. When a team is at home, it is encouraged and cheered on by people, and is supported by the spectators, whereas visiting teams are often booed. Consider this explanation from Wikipedia:<br />
<blockquote>In most team sports where the concept of home and away stadiums is found, the home team is considered to have a significant advantage over the visitors. Due to this, many important games (such as playoff or elimination matches) in many sports have special rules for determining what match is played where. In association football, matches with two legs, one played in each team&#8217;s &#8220;home,&#8221; are common; it is also common to hold important games at a neutral site. In many team sports in North America (including baseball, basketball, and ice hockey), playoff series are often held, with a nearly equal number of games at each team&#8217;s site; as it is usually beneficial to have an odd number of matches in a series (to prevent ties), the final home game is often awarded to the team that had the most success over the regular season. In some sports, this tends to be a huge ace in the hole, such as basketball, where historically the home team in deciding games has won 78 of 97 games, up until the second round of the 2007 NBA Playoffs.    Home field advantage is especially pronounced in NCAA Division I American football, where teams like LSU, USC, Ohio State, Penn State, Florida, Texas, Oklahoma, Georgia, and many others win consistently at home. Many college football stadiums also have nicknames that represent the loudness of the stadium. Autzen Stadium, home of the Oregon Ducks, has been nicknamed the &#8220;Autzen Zoo&#8221; because of how loud it gets, and Kyle Field, the home of the Texas A&amp;M Aggies has been nicknamed the &#8220;12th Man&#8221; because of the loudness there. That can be attributed to the fact that many of the largest football stadiums in America are college stadiums, such as Michigan Stadium, which seats 107,501, about 35,000 more than most NFL stadiums. However, teams that are nearby may have less of a home field advantage. Such examples may be UCLA-USC or Cal-Stanford, where the visiting team&#8217;s fans often equal or exceed the home crowd and the only effect the visiting team has is they have to wear their road uniforms and play on a nearby field. Sometimes during bowl season, a team will happen to play a bowl game in their home stadium and sometimes be designated as the visiting team in their own home stadium, and thus, receives the home field advantage despite not being the home team. On the high school level, where schools often share stadiums, when the co-tenants play each other, one school manages to pick up a not so rare, but advantageous road game in their home stadium. On the professional level, several teams either get to play road games in their home stadiums or play a road game nearby. When the Jets and the Giants of the NFL meet, whoever the visiting team is gets an extra game at their home stadium. A similar situation occurs when the Lakers and Clippers of the NBA play each other. Other series where teams get to stay close to home on the road include: (NFL) Raiders-49ers, Ravens-Redskins (MLB) A&#8217;s-Giants, Dodgers-Angels, Mets-Yankees, Cubs-White Sox, Cubs-Brewers, Orioles-Nationals (NHL) Islanders-Rangers-Devils, Ducks-Kings, Oilers-Flames, Senators-Maple Leafs, Canadians-Senators, and in the NBA, Knicks-Nets, Kings-Warriors and Lakers-Clippers. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Home_advantage">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Home_advantage</a></p></blockquote>
<p>  The home team advantage is one of the most important concepts in sports and it is a proven factor in how well teams do. If this concept applies to teams, how do you think it can apply to everyday life? There are people who support us, validate us, and make us feel good, and this helps us do well more often than not. There are also people around us who fail to support us, and this hurts us. When a team away from home scores a goal, people boo or do not make the team feel validated for its efforts. When the team away from home does something wrong, people may cheer. The psychological message transmitted is that people only approve of the team away from home when they are doing poorly.    Many people associate with people and groups of people who treat them like they <em>are not</em> the home team; others associate with people who treat them like they <em>are</em> the home team. Your success in your career and in your life will in large part be determined by whether you are living, working, and associating with a &#8220;home team&#8221; crowd or an &#8220;away team&#8221; crowd.    When I was in high school geometry class, after the first exam, our teacher drew a giant circle on the blackboard, representing the shape of a horse-racing track. He then put little dots in several places along the track and said something that I will never forget:<br />
<blockquote><em>&#8220;This is where you all started in the race, but everyone&#8217;s position can change. Some of you will pass one another at some point, and the person who is in first right now may not keep running and may end up in last place. Conversely, the person who is in last may keep running, training, and trying to do better and may end up in first place. You need to realize that the race for the best grade will take all semester, and just because you are one place right now, this does not mean it is where you will end up.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
<p>  This is a really simple example and the teacher was talking only about our geometry class at the time; however, it is a metaphor that stands true for our lives. People begin the race in a certain place, and then some people end up doing much better than others, and this is just how it works. The race keeps going and just because someone starts the race in first place does not mean he or she is going to finish the race in first place.    When you trace the cause of someone with a lot of potential falling behind in the race, when you see sickness and ill health, when you find people not trying hard enough, when you see failure and despair, generally somewhere along the line you will find someone who has been negatively affected and otherwise discouraged by people somewhere along the way. It is an absolute fact of life that the company you keep will have an effect on what happens to you.    In athletics, it is common for some players to be extremely good at a sport despite not being tall enough (in basketball), big enough (in football), and so forth. What generally separates these players who do not have all the physical attributes of success is the sheer determination and self-belief inside of them. Having heart and drive can make all the difference. Heart and drive are what push people to the top of any profession and any job. If you are going to reach your full potential, you must possess <em>heart</em> and <em>drive</em>. This is something that wins races, despite any uncontrollable obstacles that may arise.    Heart and drive can be killed, though, if they are not supported. The best thing you can do for yourself is to put yourself in a position where you are supported, where you have the home team advantage. <em>Having the home team advantage is something that can help you win in the game of life.</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2011 05:01:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When faced with difficult times, you must develop the ability to transcend the trouble around you instead of giving up or assuming that nothing can be done about your situation. Keep your wits about you and take charge of the situation, and you will find yourself on track for constant improvement and career success. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the more interesting experiences of my life occurred when I was about 13 years old and I was on an airplane headed to Spain to study for the summer with a group of high school students. The airplane had literally been held up about 20 minutes because of me. I was so much younger than the other travelers that no one was too interested in spending much time with me. Consequently, I had mostly been left to my own devices up to that point in the trip.  We were traveling from Detroit to New York and I was almost left <span id="more-1969"></span>  in New York. I was eating some food in a food court in Kennedy Airport when I heard my name called over the loud speaker. The first time I heard my name ring out, I thought I was hearing things and simply kept eating. Then I heard it again and I remember putting my food down and looking around for a few moments before getting back to my fast food. Then, at some point I heard my name again with direct instructions that the airplane was leaving. So of course I immediately ran towards the terminal.    I was fairly excited about this trip to Spain. At the time I was going to a <a href="http://www.educationcrossing.com/lcjssearchresults.php?d=1524&amp;pgr=20&amp;pgn=1&amp;kwt=public%20school&amp;kwd=public%20school&amp;lqc=United%20States" target="_blank">public school</a> in Grosse Pointe, outside of Detroit, and had become a pretty bad kid. I was so bad, in fact, that I remember on one math test I took the teacher subtracted three points because I had not spelled my name right. One day I had been walking down the hall in school and saw a giant magnet the size of my hand lying on the floor next to a locker. I picked up the magnet and started playing with it. I remember throwing it to a friend of mine and we started playing catch in the hall with it between classes. My friend thought it would be funny at some point to turn his back and not catch the magnet. The magnet kept flying and ended up hitting the biggest stoner in the school in the head. The stoner overreacted and he was actually excited about this because we did draw some blood.    &#8221;Dude, I am going to be able to at least get out of the rest of the day,&#8221; he told me as we sat together in the principle&#8217;s office.    The strangest thing ended up happening that day. I went into the principle&#8217;s office and he started telling me about how I was going to get suspended for throwing this magnet and how it was &#8221;assault&#8221; and all sorts of things, and then he asked me where I got the magnet. I took him to the front of the locker where I found it and when he opened the locker he found more magnets (stolen from the science lab) and also drugs. The police ended up coming to the school and everyone completely forgot about me. Apparently, several other students ended up getting involved and when I walked by the principle&#8217;s office at the end of the day I saw the stoner, with 5 or 6 other students, still sitting on a chair waiting to talk to the principle and a bunch of police.    That is how I almost got suspended from middle school.    The worst thing about my experience in public school was the dress and grooming habits I picked up. This was in the day of Members Only jackets, Sassoon and Jordache Jeans, and big male hair. It was the 1980s. One day my best friend and I went to get haircuts. He ended up getting a perm and the same place figured out a way to blow up my hair so it was three times its normal size, parted down the middle. I remember my friend&#8217;s mother actually beat him up over this.  She brought him over to my mother&#8217;s house the night after the bad haircut holding him by the back of his shirt and telling my mother that we needed to be sent to <a href="http://www.militarycrossing.com/" target="_blank">military</a> school. She then called up the hair salon and yelled at them. I think she may have sued them in small claims court. I also started picking up language that was intentionally grammatically incorrect, but in that environment various phrases and things like that were considered cool.    My grandparents had met while living and working in Paris and were fairly cultured people. I think it was them who made the case to my father (and they may have paid for it, if I remember) that the condition I was in culturally and in other ways was horrifying.  They convinced him that I needed some sort intervention and that it needed to happen internationally. They were horrified by the United States and what people like me represented to them.    At the time I was only taking Spanish in school because it was the easiest language. I did not care at all about school. I will never remember something one of my incredibly snotty relatives said to me when I was choosing between French and Spanish:    &#8221;Why would you want to take Spanish? Look who speaks Spanish&#8211;it is all peasants. Look at who speaks French&#8211;it is the intellectual leaders of the world.&#8221;    As far as I am concerned Spanish was, and is still, my language.    Because I could not be sent to France for culturing up, the decision had been made to send me to Spain. I was sent on a high school field trip for Seniors from private schools in Detroit, despite the fact that I was only in 7th grade.    The airplane was about an hour into the trip when all of the students started requesting that the leader of the expedition, a <a href="http://www.educationcrossing.com/video/302/Spanish-Teacher-Jobs-EducationCrossing-Com" target="_blank">Spanish teacher</a> at Cranbrook Schools named Senor Gomez, tell the story about how he escaped from prison. Gomez was from Spain but apparently had been held in prison in Cuba for some sort of political crime involving his dislike of Fidel Castro. He was not violent and had never done anything bad. However, whatever the political crime he was held for, it was considered serious enough that they had planned on holding him for many, many years.    A huge group of <a href="http://www.teenagercrossing.com" target="_blank">teenagers</a> gathered around Gomez and they became seemingly entranced. I was still sulking and had endured plenty of mean stares from the passengers since I had delayed the airplane for who knows how long. Gomez sat down next to me and began telling a story that I have modeled my entire life on.    He said that he was thrown in a prison cell with around 50 other men. The cell was meant to hold no more than 20 men. He said that the men in the cell would smoke all day and sit around doing nothing. If they could get their hands on drugs they would use the drugs. They would eat all of the food they could. They would not keep themselves clean. They would get depressed and they would spend all of their time talking about how horrible their circumstances were. They would fight with each other and worry about lots of unnecessary things.    In contrast, Gomez said that he looked at his time in prison as among the most important times in his life. He said that he looked at it as a time to get fit. For several hours a day he ran in place. He did as many push ups as he could do each day. He read and meditated, and kept his mind active. He did sit ups. He did not smoke. He traded food for razors so he could consistently be shaven (the other men all grew beards). He cleaned himself several times a day using a small sink in the prison cell. He made sure he kept a clean pair of clothes at all times.    &#8221;You are crazy!&#8221; the prisoners said to him. The prisoners would make fun of Gomez for his exercise and taking such good care of himself and not enjoying himself like the other prisoners.    Gomez said that many of the prisoners ended up going crazy in the time he was in the prison cell. Other prisoners killed themselves or were killed. They lived their lives like they were in hell. They focused on the negativity, suffering and evil around them. Many became addicted to hard drugs. They gave each other tattoos. Many got diseases, because they were not healthy.    Gomez, on the other hand, continued his ritual of exercising several hours per day, looking very good and keeping himself up.    One day Gomez was taken to the infirmary in the prison for a check up. He put on his clean shirt and pants, which he had never worn. As he was waiting with several other prisoners to see the doctor, Gomez realized no one was guarding the prisoners. There was one other door that did not lead into the infirmary in the waiting room. Gomez got up and walked into a room where a bunch of prison officials and others were standing around smoking. A few people looked up at him, did not say anything, and assumed he too must work in the prison in some sort of administrative role or other capacity. In contrast to the other prisoners who were run down, strung out and tired, Gomez looked like a million bucks. He did not look like a prisoner. Gomez then walked through another door and came to a guard station and the guard smiled at him and buzzed him through a door. Within a few seconds, Gomez was standing on a busy city street in Havana. He blended right in and managed to completely escape the prison.    &#8221;I am free today because I took care of my body and mind when others did not,&#8221; Gomez concluded to the students gathered around him on the airplane.    Think about your own life. You may be surrounded by people who have literally thrown in the towel on their lives and are allowing themselves to go to hell. They may be so depressed about the economy or their jobs that they are drinking more than they should, smoking to alleviate stress, not shaving, gaining weight and not taking care of themselves. They may be wallowing in how bad things are, and feeling as if they world has ended.    When confronted with difficult and seemingly unjust circumstances, people  will often simply &#8221;give up&#8221; and feel as if there is nothing that can be done. They will &#8221;throw in the towel&#8221; on life and allow themselves to feel bad about the way things are.    How many people have you seen do this? I know I have seen an incredible number of people do this. Some people do this earlier than others. Some people have thrown in the towel on their lives by the age of 20, and others by the age of 30.    Yesterday I saw a man speak, Ray Zahab, who had been a pack-a-day smoker until the age of 30. He had been sedentary and lived an extremely unhealthy lifestyle. Just last year he set a record for being the man who did the fastest trek (without skis) the South Pole. He could have stayed on the track he was on with his life and his health, but instead he chose a new track.    Lance Armstrong got cancer, fought the cancer and came back to be the greatest bike racer in the world.    How many peoplem when confronted with incredible challenge decide that they are going to rise above this challenge and be transcendent?    You need to be transcendent, too. You need to be the light in the world when others are not, and cannot, be.  People do not realize how important it is to be a beacon of light, hope and possibility and to keep your wits and mind about you constantly.    If you have lost a job, if you have ever been in a position where you are in a depressed economy and do not see hope, if you believe that there are serious issues and problems you should be confronting, what you need to do is step forward and improve yourself.  Get in shape physically and mentally and step forward into the world as someone who has taken charge of the world around them and their circumstances.    If you do this, everything is going to change for you. Make the most of yourself and never stop improving.  Be a beacon of light, shining for the world to see.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    When faced with difficult times, you must develop the ability to transcend the trouble around you instead of giving up or assuming that nothing can be done about your situation. Keep your wits about you and take charge of the situation, and you will find yourself on track for constant improvement and career success.</p>
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		<title>Cheap Is Expensive: A Marine Disaster</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you buy something cheap, it is often likely to be expensive in the long-term; things that seem too good to be true usually are. When you are approached with an attractive deal, remember that nothing comes for free and there aren’t any no-strings-attached deals. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One thing I’ve learned in my lifetime is if something seems too good to be true, it probably is. Every day so many of us are glued to televisions and see people becoming rich overnight on game shows. Growing up kids receive a lot of messages that you can become rich and famous without an education. Throughout America, there is a belief you can get something for nothing. One of the most successful men I ever met, a man who owned numerous auto dealerships in Detroit, once told me that &#8220;Nothing is free and there are never any deals.&#8221; This <span id="more-1414"></span>  is surely true.    Several years ago, I bought a mobile home on the beach in Malibu, and the story behind it is very strange. At the time I was pretty involved in giving speeches at various law schools around the United States and considered myself a national expert in advising <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/lclawstudents.php" target="_blank">law students</a> on how to <a href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">get a job</a>. I was enthusiastic when my fiancé invited me to go a Pepperdine <a href="http://www.lawschoolloans.com/" target="_blank">Law School</a> party with her friend who was in her last year of law school. When I got to the party, I was surprised no one recognized me from my various law school lectures. However, no one there seemed very interested in a <a href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">job search</a>. There was a lot of liquor and craziness going on at the party.    I introduced myself, and started recommending various job search strategies to the students I met. The evening didn’t go well. People would excuse themselves after a few minutes when I would pause in my conversation to reflect on one job search strategy or another. I was sipping a Diet Coke and feeling very fortunate to have this &#8220;street level&#8221; experience of meeting law students first hand. I had been a <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/article/4510/What-You-Need-to-Know-about-Law-Professorships/" target="_blank">law professor</a> five years ago and was now &#8220;in the trenches&#8221; with a group of law students, finding out first hand what their lives were like.    These kids seemed more interested in partying, however, than speaking with me.    About an hour into the party, I realized things seemed to be thinning out and I could not find my fiancé anywhere. I looked around and saw a lot of people going into a bedroom. I walked in and saw my finacé&#8217;s friend taking a huge hit from a bong. Other people were standing around also waiting to enjoy the marijuana.    In front of a group of stunned students, I walked up to my fiancé and said, &#8220;This is outrageous!! I am getting out of this party now! I cannot believe you are allowing yourself to be in the same room with this!&#8221;    The people in the room all laughed, including my fiancé. I was horrified this episode might get around to law schools and somehow destroy my reputation. I have never done drugs in my life and the fact my fiancé was associated with it was even more shocking.    &#8220;I am a major figure in the national <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/lclawstudents.php" target="_blank">law student job</a> search scene!! I am leaving! There is no way I can be associated with this sort of stuff and you should not be either!&#8221; I told her in front of the group. I was acting as if I was the President of the United States and she was my wife carousing with people doing drugs. People were laughing at me and I realized I must have looked ridiculous. <em></em>I stormed out of the party and realized my fiancé was nowhere to be found. I got in my car and drove home.    The next morning my fiancé called me from her parent&#8217;s house in Santa Monica and asked me to come get her. We fought, basically about my belief that as an important national career figure for law students, I could not be associated with her friend&#8217;s marijuana use. I am from the Midwest and my fiancé grew up in Los Angeles and attended school with people like Paris Hilton. People think differently in Los Angeles. She thought I was out of my mind for being angry with her for hanging out in a room where people were smoking pot.    Because I didn’t want our neighbors to hear us fighting, I decided to drive along Pacific Coast Highway. We drove for quite awhile before I finally stopped to turn around. We pulled over to the side of the road, still fighting, and that&#8217;s when I saw the mobile home on the beach. It was for sale. Boy did it look ugly! It looked so ridiculous I was confident I could afford it.    In case you don’t know, Malibu is not a place where there are typically mobile homes on the beach. In fact, the mobile home I purchased is the only one I know of directly on the beach in Malibu.    To say this mobile home was run down would be an understatement. It was the first &#8220;structure&#8221; ever put on this beach, sometime in the 1950s. Imagine what its interior looked like after 50+ years of use and zero renovation. An 80 year old man was living in it. I was love struck. My purchase of this mobile home went off without a hitch. Despite the fact we were in a real estate boom at the time, it’d been sitting on the market for some time. The <a href="http://www.realestateandlandcrossing.com/video/4320/Real-Estate-Agent-Job-Profile-Video/" target="_blank">real estate agents</a> seemed astonished anyone was interested in it.    &#8220;Whatever you want,&#8221; they kept saying as they wrote up the purchase contract. Incredibly, the owner was so eager to get rid of it, he let me take possession of it and move in without even getting financing for a year, and I paid him a nominal monthly rent.    After a day or two of relaxing in this mobile home, I realized it was not all it was cracked up to be. Living on the water is fun. However, when you are in a 500-square-foot mobile home from the 1950s, it can get pretty cramped. There was no heat or air conditioning in the mobile home, either, so the living conditions were pretty Spartan. After a couple of weeks, I decided I needed to get a boat and this would make the experience of living in Malibu much more enjoyable. My plan was to anchor the boat about 100 yards from shore and then use it on the weekends. In theory, this was a very good idea. I started to look on eBay and it didn’t take me long before I found my dream boat.    It was a 15-foot Sea-doo jet boat that’d been used for only a few hours. The purchase price had been an incredible $22,000 but the owner of the jet boat had put a &#8220;buy it now&#8221; button on the listing for $5,000. This looked too good to be true and I decided I had to purchase the boat. I could not believe my luck in finding such a good deal.    I sent a guy who worked in our warehouse to pick up the boat and when he arrived he became a little nervous. In fact, when he came back with the boat, he hinted the seller of the boat may have had an unusual sexual affliction. He looked a little shook up.    &#8220;What happened?&#8221; I asked.    &#8220;It was weird. When I got there, she had a video camera and started filming me the second I arrived. She asked me to climb under the boat and to rub it. She then started saying stuff like &#8216;Look at the camera and say you like it while rubbing it hard! Tell me that it&#8217;s nice and feels good and tap on it. Look at the camera and say it is smooth and hard while rubbing it!&#8221;    The whole situation sounded very strange to me but I have heard weird sex stories in Los Angeles and I figured this was another one of them. A few weeks before I’d been on a freeway interchange in a traffic jam on a Sunday afternoon. I thought there must be a huge basketball game or something at the Staples&#8217; Center, but instead there was a porno convention. It took me 30 minutes to get through an interchange that should’ve taken no more than a couple of minutes. This is the kind of stuff you see only in this part of the United States.    I thought I would anchor the jet boat about 100 yards off the house where the tide never went below. I also did a lot of research and determined I would need what is called a giant &#8220;mushroom anchor&#8221; in order to build a permanent mooring for boat. I found a marine supply store on the East Coast and ordered a buoy, mooring anchor, and all sorts of other items to build an official mooring in front of my house and my neighbor&#8217;s homes. It cost me a couple of thousand dollars but the sea captain I spoke with in Maine assured me what I was purchasing could handle &#8220;gale force winds&#8221; and would keep the boat anchored. My plan was to use a sea kayak to travel out to the boat when I wanted to go on expeditions. I would use the boat to travel to and from the shore.    Since you may not be from Malibu, I have to assure you this is something that’s highly unusual. People who pay millions of dollars for a house do not want to see a $5,000 boat permanently anchored in front of it. In fact, I am not aware of anyone who had ever built a mooring in front of their house in Malibu either before or since this episode. The claustrophobia of living in a 500-square-foot mobile home on the beach can drive people to do strange things. I assured myself, however, this is what my neighbors must have realized when they moved to a stretch of beach that included a 65-year-old mobile home.    My plan was to put the mushroom anchor on the boat and then launch the jet boat at the boat launch in Oxnard. I would then travel 20+ miles up the coast and drop the mushroom anchor and mooring. The entire procedure was going to be quite difficult, however, because the mushroom anchor weighed 100s of pounds. A man who worked in our warehouse had picked up the boat for me, and he recommended a couple of his friends from Mexico who spent their days standing in front of a U-Haul looking for work help me.    &#8220;Do they know how to swim?&#8221; I asked him. He checked and only one of them did. Therefore, the plan was to use three of his friends to place the giant anchor on the boat, launch the boat, and one of them would travel up the coast with me in the boat to launch the anchor. Despite having a mobile home that was gradually being subsumed by the sea, I was feeling very enthusiastic about having purchased a boat. I was also excited to brag to my neighbors about the boat. My neighbors were getting a little annoying. The day we moved in, one came over with his wife.    &#8220;Look, they bought the lot!&#8221; the man said to her. I was actually proud I had a new home and he was calling it a &#8220;lot&#8221;. My neighbor, who resided immediately next door, came by periodically and told me he was amazed our home had not been washed out to sea but assured me it was &#8220;going down&#8221; shortly and that &#8220;I better not be there&#8221; when it did. Being a boat owner would put me on par at least to some degree with my neighbors I thought.    When we finally got the boat launched and started going through the harbor, everything seemed like it was going pretty well. The anchor was resting in the front of the boat and we had to travel very slowly because the front end was practically in the water. After about five minutes I was feeling very good about everything, but then I saw a boat screaming towards me with lights flashing. Since I had never captained a boat before in my life I could not imagine what was happening. I thought I might be going to prison due to the mooring sitting on the front of the boat.    Hillario, my helper, looked terrified. &#8220;Inmigracion!!&#8221; he told me with a terrified look in his eyes. It was the Harbor Patrol and they pulled us over and made us go to the side of the harbor. They asked me if I had flares, a whistle, life jackets, and all sorts of stuff you apparently are required to have in order to take a boat into the ocean. Incredibly, they said nothing about the giant mooring sitting in the boat. I had none of these things and they wrote me several tickets and told me I needed to take my boat over to a local store and purchase these items before I could venture into the ocean legally. I explained to Hillario in Spanish he was not being deported and he was incredibly relieved. Thankfully the Harbor Master didn’t pursue it when I explained to him Hillario had no identification. After spending a couple of hundred dollars on life jackets and other required supplies, we headed over the to Harbor Patrol office to show them what we had purchased and they were kind enough to cancel all the tickets. The whole episode must have taken us over two hours; however, we were now prepared to venture out into the Pacific Ocean towards Malibu.    We were soon out in the sea and the boat was handling very well. Despite the massive mooring, she was amazingly agile and picking up speed. We could feel the wind in our faces and the entire event was very enjoyable. A couple of minutes into the journey I saw another boat rushing towards us. This boat was larger and looked very official. As it got closer, I realized it was the Coast Guard.    &#8220;Hi, we&#8217;ve already been pulled over and we&#8217;re all set!&#8221; I told the man who boarded our boat. This guy was serious. He had a gun and I thought Hillario was about ready to get deported for sure.    &#8220;That was the Harbor Master who is from the County of Ventura,&#8221; he told me. &#8220;I&#8217;m with the United States Coast Guard and we have jurisdiction over the ocean.&#8221;    &#8220;Oh, I&#8217;m sorry &#8230;&#8221;    &#8220;What the hell are you doing with that giant mooring in your boat? It is so big we saw it from over a half mile away.&#8221;    I had no idea what to say. If I told him I was about to launch an illegal mooring off the coast of Malibu, he would not like it. Actually, the more I thought about where I was planning on putting my mooring, the more I realized it was probably an international shipping lane. Cruise ships, freighters, and all sorts of stuff went by daily. I wondered what they would make of my little jet boat if I ever made it out there. I hoped they would not run it over.    I had to think quickly on my feet. I started thinking about the past few minutes.    &#8220;This is a jet boat,&#8221; I told the man from the Coast Guard. As I was speaking, I realized I could see myself and Hillario perfectly in his sunglasses since they reflected directly toward me like mirrors. &#8220;This boat is fast and these waves are incredibly big. With this giant anchor here, I prevent the boat from flipping over in the waves. I am trying to be safe. You should see how fast this thing is.&#8221;    &#8220;That&#8217;s so cool dude!&#8221; the guy from the Coast Guard said. &#8220;I totally understand. These jet boats are so kick ass! I want to get one but my wife would kill me!&#8221; I could not believe what I was witnessing. I thought the guy must be the biggest idiot I had ever encountered. Just like that he let us continue and gave me some sort of &#8220;hang loose&#8221; type surfer sign as we motored away.    Some time later, we found it was an incredible feat launching the anchor in front of our house. Luckily, a man on a jet ski boarded the boat and somehow we managed to all get the mushroom anchor in the water and build the world&#8217;s first mooring in Malibu.    Hillario, however, could not swim. For over an hour I tried to convince him to jump in the water and swim to shore but he refused. Eventually, it got so bad I pulled the boat up to an area no deeper than his chest and pushed him overboard. Despite the fact he could have simply just walked to shore in the water he sat there flailing and screaming for help. I was very close to shore and screamed to a couple of surfers who were wading in the water to help him get to shore. They refused.    &#8220;I am a commercial litigator. There is no way I am getting involved in this one. I do not want the liability!&#8221; one of them told me. They just stood there. After about 10 seconds of me screaming to Hillario to just &#8220;walk&#8221; in Spanish, he figured it out and walked to the shore. Apparently, he had lied about his abilities as a swimmer to get this job.    It was a wonderful sight. All weekend I tied a kayak to the mooring and jetted up and down the coast in my little jet boat. I felt as if I was the smartest resident of Malibu ever.    All week at work I was looking forward to a wonderful weekend with more boating adventures. On Wednesday a call came in and a secretary rushed into my office.    &#8220;Harrison!! One of your neighbors called and said there is a boat sinking right in front of your house! I have no idea what they are talking about!&#8221; I had no idea how one of my neighbors tracked me down. My neighbors all had pretty nice houses in Malibu and did not associate much with white trash like me who lived in the mobile home. I called my neighbor back. She explained to me the boat was filling up with water and her feeling was that something called &#8220;a bilge pump&#8221; had stopped working. The bilge pump turns on when water comes inside the boat from waves and then pumps it out. My neighbor told me the best thing I could do was purchase a battery and come out and install it in the jet boat. She told me I should also purchase a pump and pump out some of the water.    &#8220;It&#8217;s going to go under soon if you do not get out here!&#8221;    I rushed out of work and went to a marine store and purchased a battery and a pump for the boat. When I got home I noticed the boat really was sinking and it looked pretty bad. It was so far out; however, I could not see it very well. I got in my kayak and started paddling out to the boat. The sea was very rough and it was a struggle to get out in the kayak. When I finally made it to the boat I realized there was so much water in it I might not be able to pump it out. I hooked up the little electric pump I had purchased to the battery and started trying to pump the water out. There was so much water and so many waves there was nothing I could do.    The last thing I remember is a giant wave coming inside the kayak. I am not sure how it happened but the car battery had so much charge to it the water electrified in the kayak, and I started getting electrocuted! I jumped out of the kayak and into the water and the kayak went off drifting into the distance. I swam towards the boat. Given the wave that’d just hit it, I figured the boat was going to completely sink within the next 10 minutes or so. I was panicked. There were rough currents and I guessed I might be too far from shore to make it if I swam. In addition, I was about ready to lose a $5,000 boat to the sea.    I considered my options and realized the only thing I could possibly do was to cut the rope between the boat and the mooring. I would pray the sea would take the boat and I back to shore. I was very lucky to have a knife with me. My kayak appeared to be drifting towards the shore and I figured my little jet boat and I might be able to achieve the same. I prayed we would.    Over the course of the next several minutes the sea did carry us back to shore. The boat was half way under water and filled with water but it started going towards shore and got very close. At this point a small crowd of my neighbors had formed and they rushed out and tied ropes to the boat and tried to assist me in keeping the boat in one place. The problem was the waves kept trying to take the boat out to sea. At this point, it was probably 3:00 or 4:00 in the afternoon and for the next five hours or so, I and groups of my neighbors all struggled with the boat. Eventually using winches and lots of rope, we were able to secure the boat after it was low tide. We had ropes running 20 feet from various homes on stilts out to the boat. It was crazy.    One of my neighbors brought out a large bottle of tequila and we were all taking sips while trying various maneuvers to secure the boat. It was an exhausting experience and required the effort of over 10 men. By nightfall we had secured the boat. The boat was still filled with water and it was all inside the engine compartment. I actually do not know what we thought the next step was. I am assuming in the morning I was going to drain the water out of the boat.    I fell asleep quickly that night, but around 4:00 am I awoke with a jolt. I am usually a good sleeper. But that night I could not go back to sleep. I had a sixth sense something was wrong. I was very nervous and wanted to go look at the boat. The boat was about 100 yards from my house up the beach so I could not just look out my window. It was pitch black and very difficult to see. I had a very powerful spotlight flashlight I had purchased unnecessarily months ago at Sam&#8217;s Club and fired it up. It was like a giant beacon. This light was so powerful that you could hit the clouds with it. I had never seen anything like it. I put on some sandals and a coat and started walking down the beach. The closer I got, the more I realized I could not see the boat &#8212; all I could see was the rope coming out of the houses and appearing to go into the sand. Finally, the truth of what was going on was inescapable: The boat was buried beneath the sand. In fact, all I could see was the rope going directly into the sand. Apparently, the tide, waves, and current had decided to bury the boat under the sand while I was sleeping.    Incredulous, shaken, I walked back home and managed to go to sleep. I got up an hour or two later and managed to get a hold of the guy who had picked up the boat in our warehouse. I told him to go to Home Depot and pick up at least 10-15 guys and purchase a shovel for each one of them. I explained the boat was buried under several feet of sand and we needed to get it unburied. By 8:00 am there were at least 15 men on the beach digging. We dug and tugged on the ropes but could not move the boat. We were also using winches to try and move the boat and it was so heavy the winches were breaking. I am lucky no one was killed. The winches have cables on them and the cables were snapping and then flying back to the people operating the winches. It was so bad we started using blankets from my house and the people were operating the winches behind the blankets so they were not hit by cables when the winches snapped the cables. The boat was a disaster. It was completely filled with sand in the engine compartment. It must have weighed three times its normal weight.    By 1:00 pm I realized that absolutely nothing could be done. The boat was not moving. For the next hour I sat in my house while my workers barked back and forth to each other in Spanish about how insane this entire exercise was. I realized I needed to find someone who was an expert in this sort of thing. My neighbors no longer thought this was funny. There was a boat buried directly in front of their homes. I decided to walk down to a lifeguard station on the next beach over. When I got there, I found a man who looked like he had been a lifeguard for the past 50 years. I had never seen so much sun damage. I&#8217;ll call him &#8220;Leatherface.&#8221;    Leatherface told me he’d been working on the beach for 30+ years and had never seen anyone as big of a jackass as me. He told me he had been watching this episode from the outset and had never seen anyone stupid enough to build a mooring. Despite the fact he’d witnessed the entire episode with the kayak, he told me he was not even sure he would have rescued me if I started drowning because I might be better off dead.    Leatherface told me I needed to call a service called Marine Assist to come out and help move the boat. He explained they would bring a giant tug boat and pull the boat back to the harbor. That sounded pretty good to me.    I called Marine Assist and they told me they would send out a tugboat for $500 and $175 an hour, but if I wanted them to swim to shore to hook up the boat they would charge me an additional $300 to bring along a swimmer. I told them I would swim out and grab the rope to hook up to the boat and they agreed.    An hour or so later a giant tug boat arrived about 50 yards out to sea. My neighbor let me use his kayak and I started making my way to the tugboat. I got hit by a wave and flipped the kayak. Between the tug boat captain screaming something at me and all the commotion, I lost the kayak and paddles and soon was standing on the tug boat. The guy on the tug boat asked me questions about what was going on and then shook his head. &#8220;I&#8217;ve never heard anything like this&#8221; he told me. He then proceeded to lecture me just like Leatherface had about how stupid I was.    Lots of people have never heard anything like what I’ve told you so far, nor what was to come next. In fact, one of my ex-employees decided I must be a pathological liar after I told him this story. It is really hard to believe.    The tug boat captain told me once I swam to shore I should hook the rope up on a couple of strategic points on the boat and then proceed to have the 15 illegal aliens push the boat. He assured me this would get it out to sea. I agreed. For the next hour the tug boat tried to pull the little jet boat out but simply couldn’t extricate it from the sand. It was a Herculean task. Several times the tug boat captain called me on my cell phone.    &#8220;It&#8217;s not moving!&#8221; he would say, as if I was not there.    &#8220;Keep trying!&#8221; I would encourage him.    &#8220;Ok!&#8221;    Eventually, after over an hour the tide started coming in and miraculously the boat started to move slowly. After several tries the boat started drifting out to sea. At this point there must have been at least 30 spectators in addition to my workers. No one on the beach had ever seen anything like this before. In fact, several of my neighbors had come home early from work to watch the excitement. As the tug boat started towing the little jet boat away my neighbors began to clap and the workers were giving each other high fives and hugging. It had been a long ordeal and we were all very excited. The tug boat operator was even excited and blew a really loud shipping horn and he towed the little jet boat away.    The neighbors and everyone standing around looked really relieved. As I walked towards my house with around five shovels under my arm, I noticed a British neighbor of mine looking very intensely towards the tug boat and my little jet boat being tugged away. I realized he had not been part of the celebratory excitement in the past few minutes. In fact, he was quite focused.    &#8220;Something is wrong,&#8221; he shouted from his deck. &#8220;The boat is sinking!&#8221;    Sure enough, I looked out and the tug boat appeared to be backing up. I looked and I could not see my little jet boat anywhere. My cell phone rang and it was Marine Assist.    &#8220;This is a disaster! The boat has sunk!&#8221; the tug boat operator told me. He had conferenced in the owner of the Marine Assist Company. &#8220;I&#8217;m going to have to call the Coast Guard about the sunken boat.&#8221; The next few minutes were a blur. What I do remember is a Coast Guard helicopter showing up within the next few minutes and making a rapid couple of passes over the area where the sunken boat was. My heart was racing. My neighbors were all alarmed as well. I looked down at my phone at some point and realized I had received four or five messages in the past few minutes from Marine Assist.    I called them right back.    &#8220;The Coast Guard says we are going to need to call in divers and do an emergency extraction,&#8221; they told me.    &#8220;A what?&#8221;    &#8220;An extraction. You cannot just leave a boat on the bottom of the ocean.&#8221;    They explained to me they were going to have to send in divers to float the boat to the surface by attaching blow up devices to it.    &#8220;This is out of our league. We are going to need to call specialists and another boat.&#8221;    It was also explained to me that the &#8220;extraction operation&#8221; was going to cost up to $5,000. An hour or so later a boat with a bunch of divers arrived and the rescue operation began in earnest. By the time the rescue was complete I could not see anything because it was dark. I did receive a call at some point that they were not headed back to Ventura Harbor with the boat and it had taken longer than expected to complete the rescue and therefore more credit card charges were required. I was also given a complete report from the divers about what was wrong with the boat.    Apparently, there was a huge gash/hole on the bottom of the boat that had been cheaply covered up with some epoxy. When I’d left the boat sitting in the water, it had all dissolved. The cheap price on eBay and the bizarre behavior with the video camera finally made sense.    When the boat got to the harbor it was so heavy with sand it could not be put on the trailer. A flatbed truck needed to be called at 2:00 am to tow it away.    This was how I learned that cheap is expensive. If something looks like too good of a deal, it probably is. In the case of the jet boat, it ended up costing me much more than the purchase price, just to do mandatory rescues in it.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    When you buy something cheap, it is often likely to be expensive in the long-term; things that seem too good to be true usually are. When you are approached with an attractive deal, remember that nothing comes for free and there aren’t any no-strings-attached deals.</p>
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		<title>Consistency and Commitment Beat Brilliance and Talent</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Consistency and commitment trump brilliance and talent; the most successful people are those who put massive long-term effort into their careers. Only certain people are born with innate talent or brilliance, but consistent effort lies within the reach of anyone and is ultimately a much greater factor in success. Anything to which you apply consistent focus will show progress.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was growing up in Detroit, I went to school with kids whose parents were the <a href="http://www.execcrossing.com/lcvideo.php?vid=1843" target="_blank">Chief Executive Officers </a>of major auto companies and were in other high level roles.  Sometimes I would turn on the television and see the same men I’d eaten dinner with at a friend&#8217;s house on the nightly news giving a press conference in Washington, or speaking about an issue of national importance.  Another one of my friend&#8217;s father was the <a href="http://www.execcrossing.com/lcvideo.php?vid=1845" target="_blank">CEO</a> of a major national bank and, by the time I was 13 or 14, I was smart enough to realize I could learn a lot from these men.  I figured they must all be enormously gifted intellectually and have other skills which I could learn.    In my spare time I read books such as <em>Iacocca</em>, about Lee Iacocca, and when the Publisher&#8217;s Clearing House mail came to my mother&#8217;s house I ordered <em>Forbes</em>, <em>Business Week</em> and a ton of other business magazines so I could impress these nationally important men and talk to them about their careers and <span id="more-1271"></span>  what they did.  I remember after reading a book about Lee Iacocca, and having spent months reading business magazines, I had the opportunity to speak with one of my friend&#8217;s father. He used to work for President Ford writing speeches, and he now worked directly for Henry Ford writing his speeches.  Because I had read so much, I realized after about an hour, I knew much more than even he did about various aspects of his business.    When I was 13 or 14, I dominated dinnertime conversations at my friends&#8217; homes spinning off facts and figures and entertaining major figures in various auto companies.  The more I talked about business with these men, the less I realized they knew.  I could not believe men who might have gotten MBAs from Harvard Business School knew so little.  I figured that, based on their lack of knowledge about arcane business facts, none of them must be all that intelligent.    Most of these men were from all over the country and had joined, right out of school, automobile companies, banks and the other institutions they would one day lead.  In at least one incident I recall, one man worked on an automotive manufacturing line in a factory during college.  In another case, one of my friend&#8217;s father even went to a school called General Motors Institute (no longer in existence) which was a college run by General Motors.    Every day, these men got up early and drove into Detroit.  They came home late each evening.  Once a year, they took vacations for a couple of weeks, usually skiing in Colorado or at a ski resort in Michigan.  At the same time, most had wives who never worked and stayed at home raising the children and providing their husbands with the sort of environment that would enable them to succeed.  By the time I met many of these titans of business and industry, they had been getting up at the same time to go to work and living the life they lived for over 30 years&#8211;more than twice as long as I had even been on the earth.    And there I was sitting at their dining room tables uncovering how much information they did not know and believing they were stupid.    The more I realized these men did not know about arcane business facts, the more I read.  One thing I quickly realized was none of these men were angry, and all of them seemed to enjoy learning what they did not know from a child.  In addition, there was a very gentle way about them because, despite the fact I must have looked like an idiot spewing forth various facts and figures, they never sought to correct me.  They were always quite diplomatic in all respects.    Just because I was aware of more facts and figures, it certainly did not mean I was more talented than these men.  On the contrary, they were actually busy leading their lives and careers while I stood on the sidelines simply reading about it.    Now some 20+ years later I can reflect on what was going on:
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<li>I certainly have never been on the evening news giving my opinions before the United States Congress.</li>
<li>I do not sit in the office of the President of the United States and give him advice about what to talk about in speeches and write speeches for him.</li>
<li>My actions and opinions are not mentioned weekly in the <em>New York Times</em> and <em>Wall Street Journal</em>.</li>
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<p>  I now look at these men with profound respect because the lesson their careers hold is something I have certainly learned from, and you can too: <em>Work ethic and consistency trump brilliance and talent</em>.    There are many people with a lot of talent, or who know a lot.  These talented people may know more than the next person.  They may be better socially.  They may have a better idea of what needs to be done.  They may have better educations.  They may be better sales people.  They may be more connected.    But when it comes right down to it, none of this really matters if the talented person cannot simply &#8220;show up&#8221; and do the same thing over and over.  The people who win and become the most successful are the ones who generally put in a massive effort over the long run.  Nothing is more effective than being consistent.  The Grand Canyon could never have been built by one giant flood.  Instead, it was built over millions of years by a consistent flow of water that applied a small amount of pressure and erosion over time.  So, too, it is with your career.  If you are consistent, you will achieve a lot more over time than if you are not.    Talent and brilliance have sex appeal.  Talent is something that blows us away.    Several years ago, I was sitting in the living room of my mother&#8217;s house in Detroit, and in the other room was a man who was providing one of the most brilliant analyses of the meaning of the world I have ever heard.  The more this man&#8217;s mind worked through an idea, the more brilliant I realized he was.  At the time, I was 27 and had been through college and <a href="http://www.lawschoolloans.com/" target="_blank">law school</a>.  In addition to practicing law, I was also teaching in a law school.  I had heard a lot of very brilliant men speak in my career, but the person I was listening to was incredible.    As I listened to this man speak, I was firmly convinced he was the most brilliant man I had ever heard.  After he left, I found out he had an extraordinary IQ and had received a PhD from Princeton.  However, he had never applied his skills.  Instead, he was living in a small $350 a month apartment and had lived there for years.  He did not use his brilliance in his job and, instead, his talent went to waste because it was not being consistently applied.  He had worked in <a href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/" target="_blank">multiple jobs</a> in his career.  What if this man had decided to spend his career writing?  What if this man decided to spend his career teaching? He did none of those things and, despite incredible talent, nothing ever happened.  We need to apply our talents.    Talent is fickle.  Sometimes talent shows up, and other times it does not.  In contrast, being consistent requires a high level of tenacity.  You need to keep plowing through.  You cannot give up.  Anyone can be a better performer in one thing or another for a short time.  What really takes skill is to consistently perform over time.  This is what my friends&#8217; fathers were all doing.  Imagine 30+ years of doing the same thing and climbing within the same organization.  This consistent effort is what creates the best results and enables people to win over time.  Only certain people are born with brilliance and incredible talent, but anyone can exercise their option to work hard.    When we are consistent, we make small bits of progress on a daily basis.  Making small daily bits of progress are what transform careers and lives.  Anything you focus on consistently will make you better.  Many people lack the ability to consistently focus over time, and instead believe one small flash of brilliance or talent will make a difference.  This is almost never the case.  Consistency and work ethic always trump brilliance and talent.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    Consistency and commitment trump brilliance and talent; the most successful people are those who put massive long-term effort into their careers. Only certain people are born with innate talent or brilliance, but consistent effort lies within the reach of anyone and is ultimately a much greater factor in success. Anything to which you apply consistent focus will show progress.</p>
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		<title>The Power of Perceptions</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 05:01:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Perceptions matter more than facts; others’ perceptions of you, your perceptions of others, and how you control both are the most important aspects of your career. Realize the power of perceptions in your life and use them to your advantage. Aim to control and shape the perceptions that others hold about you by shaping the image that you project to the world. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In 1991 I purchased a four-year old Audi 5000 automobile for $2,500. When the car was new, it had been listed at $40,000. It was really beautiful inside. It had all sorts of electronic controls, powered everything, and it drove incredibly well. In fact, I can honestly say that the Audi 5000 was one of the nicest cars I have ever owned. In the entire time I owned the car, I had very few problems with it. The car was very comfortable in all respects and it cost me less than a much older, cheap compact car would have. As <span id="more-3467"></span>  far as I was concerned, I had gotten the most fantastic deal imaginable.    I drove the car for a decent amount of time and was always a little upset that I sold it. The car was very well made and one of the main reasons I was driving it was because I did not care what other people thought.    You may be asking yourself how anyone could purchase such a great car for such a cheap price. It made a lot of sense at the time, since no one wanted to own an Audi 5000, which was considered &#8220;unsafe&#8221; and extremely dangerous by &#8220;everyone&#8221; due to a <em>60 Minutes </em>episode called &#8220;Out of Control&#8221; which aired in 1986. Since that episode of <em>60 Minutes</em> was broadcast, almost overnight the resale value of the Audi 5000 had been destroyed, and everyone was trying to unload these as quickly as they could. Anybody who wanted to could go out and purchase an Audi 5000 that was a few years old for pennies on the dollar.    &#8220;Out of Control&#8221; was all about complaints of &#8220;unintended acceleration&#8221; of the Audi 5000 car. The show featured a distraught mother, Kristi Bradosky, who had run over her six year old son when the car had allegedly lurched forward in her garage without warning. On Monday, December 18, 1989, the <em>Wall Street Journal</em> ran a story concerning the scare that had been generated by the <em>60 Minutes</em> episode:<br />
<blockquote>If you&#8217;re the kind of driver who sometimes has trouble finding the brakes in your car, you should be driving an Audi. Last month, in 35mph crash tests of an airbag-equipped Audi 100, the mannequin in the driver&#8217;s seat suffered the lowest crash force ever recorded by the National Highway and Traffic Safety Administration, NHTSA, in this kind of test.    And yet, according to the Center for Auto Safety&#8211;a self styled public interest organization that sells its research to plaintiffs&#8217; lawyers&#8211;the Audi 100&#8242;s predecessor, the Audi 5000, was as deadly as the Audi 100 is safe. It exhibited &#8220;sudden acceleration,&#8221; a fatal propensity to take off at full speed even as the terrified driver rammed the brake pedal to the floor.    CBS&#8217;s <em>60 Minutes</em> ran a devastating exposé of the Audi 5000. Audi customers fled. Lawyers cashed in. The American public was saved, yet again, from the perils of technology gone awry. Only one little noticed footnote remains at the end: There was nothing wrong with the car.    The Audi story is by now, dismally familiar. &#8220;Sudden acceleration&#8221; accidents occurred when the transmission was shifted out of &#8220;park.&#8221; The driver always insisted he was standing on the brake, but after the crash the brakes always worked perfectly. A disproportionate number of accidents involved drivers new to the vehicle. When an idiot-proof shift was installed so that a driver could not shift out of park if his foot was on the accelerator, reports of sudden acceleration plummeted.    But a story to the effect that cars accelerate when drivers step on the accelerator doesn&#8217;t boost television ratings or jury verdicts. And driver error is understandably hard to accept for a mother whose errant foot killed her six year old son. So with the help of such mothers, CAS and CBS knitted together a tissue of conjecture, insinuation, and calumny. The car&#8217;s cruise control was at fault. Or maybe the electronic idle. Or perhaps the transmission.    <em>60 Minutes</em>, in one of journalism&#8217;s most shameful hours, gave air time in November 1986 to a self styled expert who drilled a hole in an Audi transmission and pumped in air at high pressure. Viewers didn&#8217;t see the drill or the pump—just the doctored car blasting off like a rocket.    Junk science of this kind moves fast. Real science takes time to catch up with this kind of intellectual cockroach and squash it. Government agencies in Japan and Canada, as well as in the US, conducted painstaking studies. The Canadians who are franker about such things, called it &#8220;driver error.&#8221; In America, where we can&#8217;t attach blame to anyone whose name doesn&#8217;t end with Inc., it was called &#8220;pedal misapplication.&#8221; And unsurprisingly, it&#8217;s not just Audi drivers who commit it.    So, in the long run, the truth does come out. In the short run, the lawyers swoop in. Most soon recognized that they couldn&#8217;t prove any defect in the Audi&#8217;s engine or transmission. But our liability system today is a master of the bait and switch—the switch was to &#8220;pedal misdesign.&#8221;    No doubt about it, the original Audi like other European cars, placed brake and accelerator pedals slightly closer together than is usual in many American designs. This allows the good driver to move faster between the pedals in highspeed emergency. Perhaps it also makes it easier for the bad driver to mix up the pedals. Nobody, including NHTSA, is quite sure whether, overall, the old Audi pedal placement was marginally better or marginally worse. End of case? Hardly. With Audi shellshocked and vulnerable from the earlier junk engineering claims, the pedal placement lawyers moved in.    The <em>60 Minutes</em> story starred a mother who had run over her six year old son. On the air, she insisted that she had had her foot on the brake the whole time. When her $48 million claim came to court in Akron, Ohio, in June 1988 the investigating police officer and witnesses at the scene testified that after the accident the distraught mother had admitted that her foot had slipped off the brake. The jury found no defect in the car.    Trial judges in New Jersey and New York have overturned bad pedal design verdicts against Audi. Last July a federal court in Pennsylvania issued a summary judgment for Audi. And that should have been the end of Audi&#8217;s legal troubles.    Except that it wasn&#8217;t. An appellate court reinstated the New Jersey verdict: an appeal is pending. The New York case was settled before retrial. A California jury returned a $3.5 million verdict against Audi on a pedal placement theory, after the plaintiff&#8217;s lawyers abandoned a sudden acceleration claim. Another appeal is pending. Today, Audi is reportedly defending itself in more than 140 different suits, and damage claims are in excess of $5 billion. Not that the aggregate claims have the slightest connection with reality, of course. At one point, a single demented plaintiff in New York filed identical $5 billion claims in both federal and state courts; both have since been thrown out.    How about the US government safety report? In July, 1989, shortly after the report was released, Audi ran a hopeful advertisement titled &#8220;Case Closed.&#8221; &#8220;The case is not closed,&#8221; responded Robert Lisco, a Chicago plaintiffs&#8217; attorney. &#8220;Those guys must be smoking something.&#8221; <em>60 Minutes</em> never even acknowledged the final US findings, although it did grudgingly note identical conclusions of an earlier, blue-ribbon study, and then proceeded to rebroadcast inflammatory videos from the earlier segment. CAS denounced the government study and cheerfully cranked up yet another sudden acceleration smear, this one against Cadillacs. Lawyers for the &#8220;Audi Victims Network&#8221; brazenly declared that the report strengthened their clients&#8217; cases.    They may be right. The largest suit now pending against Audi is an Illinois class action, ostensibly representing 300,000 or so Audi 5000 owners. The charge? That because of the sudden acceleration controversy, Audi&#8217;s have lost resale value.    Yes, sudden acceleration is real. A powerful engine kicks into gear without warning or reason. It crashes through a respected business, ruins the livelihood of hundreds of innocent dealers, and devalues the property of hundreds of thousands of bewildered car owners. The windfall goes to those who destroy and then successfully blame others for the wreckage. For heaven&#8217;s sake, where are the brakes?</p></blockquote>
<p>  As a consequence of the <em>60 Minutes</em> story, sales of Audi&#8217;s in the United States collapsed. According to one account:<br />
<blockquote>The show had an enormous impact in the marketplace. Sales of all Audi models in the US, which had peaked at 74,061 in 1985, plunged sharply after the <em>60 Minutes</em> broadcasts. &#8220;It was a nightmare for the company,&#8221; says Thomas McDonald, former head of public relations at Audi&#8217;s parent, Volkswagen of America, Inc. &#8220;We lost billions of dollars in sales and revenues. Audi&#8217;s average annual sales of 14,000 cars from 1991 to 1995 were just 19 percent of its pre <em>60 Minutes</em> peak.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>  No one was ever able to duplicate the alleged occurrence of unintended acceleration with the car. Not a single person who filed a case against Audi ever won. Nevertheless, even to this day a perception still seems to linger in the marketplace that Audi&#8217;s are somehow dangerous and unsafe.    What the Audi example teaches and has always taught me is that perceptions are one of the most important things to take note of. <em>60 Minutes</em>, with all of its marketing might, was able to shape perceptions and the way people viewed Audi cars. Despite the fact that nothing was wrong with the car, <em>60 Minutes</em> changed the way an entire generation of people perceived the <a title="automobiles manufactured" href="http://www.automotivecrossing.com/" target="_blank">automobiles manufactured</a> by a particular company, and this almost destroyed the company in the process. One of the most powerful and important aspects of our careers and our lives is how we are perceived by others and how we control our own perceptions of those around us.    People can use perceptions to their advantage or to their disadvantage. The most successful people are able to use perceptions to their advantage. After all, everything we may surmise about a person, a job, or any situation is based upon our perceptions. Often how something is perceived matters more than the facts surrounding it.    For years I have opened the paper each week and seen various advertisements by American car companies wherein they try and compare their cars with German or Japanese rivals. For example, the company may have a chart that shows that the American car stops in a five foot shorter distance, that the car accelerates a little faster that its Japanese counterpart and that its JD Power Initial Quality Survey score is higher. I have seen these advertisements and their corresponding charts for 25+ years&#8211;and every single year American manufacturers have sold fewer and fewer cars in the United States. At the same time, the Japanese have continued to sell more cars each year. What is going on here, I think, is that people simply have different perceptions. The Japanese cars are perceived as better. The advertisers can throw around all of the facts and figures they want. People simply tend to have a better perception of Japanese cars. Perceptions matter more than facts.    A couple of years ago my assistant was out purchasing me a little television for my bedroom. She called me from the store and gave me two options. One was a brand of television I had never heard of, LG, and the other was a Sony. She told me the LG one was bigger, had a nicer picture, and was a lot cheaper. I did not care. I told her to buy the Sony television. This was all because of my perception of the Sony brand. I had a much better perception of Sony than I had of LG, and consequently there were no facts that could change my mind&#8211;not even the fact that the LG model may have indeed had a bigger and better picture; and it definitely did cost less than the Sony model.    Many people feel that their job search and the quality of the job they get is a battle of their résumé, and that their entire future depends on what is visible on their résumé. For example, people who go to the best colleges often assume they will get a much better job than those who go to lesser colleges. People who have the best work experience believe they will generally get the best job. There is a tremendous amount of truth to this reasoning; however, more important than any of this is <em>how we are perceived</em>. Perceptions matter far more than facts.    When I was recruiting full time, I remember that I did not care as much about what was on someone&#8217;s résumé as who they were and how they were perceived. My greatest love in recruiting was managing how an employer perceived someone, which was always my greatest skill. Managing a perception instead of just the black and white characteristics surrounding a person was probably the most important thing I could do. I remember I met a girl once who was losing her job at a highly prestigious <a title="law firm in Los Angeles" href="http://www.losangelescrossing.com/" target="_blank">law firm in Los Angeles</a>. I sat down with her and learned that she had grown up on a hippie colony with her parents, and that her father had some extreme beliefs about growing his own food and so forth. She had been rebelling against this lifestyle over the course of her entire life, and consequently she had become incredibly disciplined and motivated to succeed as a lawyer. This material made for incredibly interesting reading for the law firms that interviewed her, and I remember that her being perceived as someone who was &#8220;rebelling against the antiestablishment&#8221; went over very well. I remember writing a 15-page letter to the law firms about this aspect of this woman&#8217;s personality.    What most recruiters would have done with this girl is send her around to law firms and so forth without managing her presentation&#8211;and therefore the perceptions of those that might hire her. She would have simply been presented as someone seeking a position at a new firm, a girl who had had a job at a good law firm and who had attended a decent law school. This would not have done her too much good, however. What the <a title="best recruiters" href="http://www.bcgsearch.com/" target="_blank">best recruiters</a> do and what really changes everything around for the job seeker is when the perceptions of the employers about the prospective employee are conscientiously and properly shaped.    There is a very good documentary on HBO about the disgraced Evangelical minister Ted Haggard. Haggard was a well known Evangelical leader who was the former president of the National Evangelical Association, representing 30 million Christians. He was also the Founder of the 14,000-member New Life Church. In 2006, Haggard resigned after a male prostitute claimed that Haggard had hired him numerous times for gay sex and used crystal meth with him. The fascinating documentary follows Haggard after being expelled from the Church as he moves from town to town looking for work. Unable to get a job, Haggard eventually gets a job as a traveling insurance salesman. Seeing Haggard go from a powerful man who is on top of the world and lecturing tens of thousands of people, meeting with American presidents, and being interviewed on major news programs&#8211;to someone whose entire range of possessions now fits in the back of a U-Haul truck was incredible.    What makes the Haggard story so interesting is that it shows, like the Audi example, that everything is about perceptions. The public perception of Haggard was changed overnight when it came out that he did not represent what he stood for, having engaged in behavior that was considered immoral. The public perception of Audi was changed overnight when people started to believe the car was incredibly dangerous, because of a news program. Ultimately, the truth was that the Audi 5000 was among the top cars in terms of safety on the road.    You need to realize the power of perceptions in your life, and to use them to your advantage. Aim to control, shape, and influence the perceptions that others have about you. Consciously work to create the image you will project to those around you.    One of the most fascinating things to me about recruiting has always been what happens when a given law firm gets a bad reputation. The law firm may have earned a bad reputation due to a partner going to prison, or due to consistent layoffs, or something else along these lines. In most cases, the reputation is confined to only one aspect of the law firm. For example, out of 10 practice groups in the law firm, there may be a problem with only one practice group&#8211;not every practice group. What ends up happening, however, is that people often do not go beneath this skin to recognize that the true problems within the law firm are really confined to only 10% of the entire organization. What this means is that there are less applicants and therefore more opportunities available for people to get jobs at this firm, who might not otherwise get jobs there. This is all due to a poor perception about the firm that is not well founded.    Perceptions are often far more important than facts. You will <a title="get a better job" href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/" target="_blank">get a better job</a> due to how you are perceived over and above how good your résumé is. You manage how you are perceived by the people you know, how you present yourself to the world and how your reputation will grow. The most important thing you can do in your life and career is make perceptions work for you.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    Perceptions matter more than facts; others’ perceptions of you, your perceptions of others, and how you control both are the most important aspects of your career. Realize the power of perceptions in your life and use them to your advantage. Aim to control and shape the perceptions that others hold about you by shaping the image that you project to the world.</p>
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		<title>Vested Interests: Ask Yourself, &#8220;Does This Really Serve Me?&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 05:01:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harrison Barnes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this article Harrison discusses how it is important not to get influenced by negative behavior of people around you. One thing you often find is that there seem to be a great number of people out in the world whose chosen business is to make your life and circumstances, whatever they may be, seem much worse than they are. Your success and ability to get on will in large part be determined by your ability to sift through all of this negative information coming at you. It is important to understand that all around you there are people and forces that want you to feel weak, vulnerable and inadequate. The best thing you can do to control and fight back against these forces is to sniff out and identify these people for what they are–and then avoid them.  Do not allow others to control or influence you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One thing you often find is that there seem to be a great number of people out in the world whose chosen business is to make your life and circumstances, whatever they may be, seem much worse than they are. In fact, in your day-to-day life, you are probably already continually surrounded by various people whose personal interests lie in making you feel bad about yourself and the world in general. Your success and ability to get on will in large part be determined by your ability to sift through all of this negative information coming at you.   <span id="more-4811"></span>   A few years ago I bought a house, and the <a title="Real Estate Agent" href="http://www.realestateandlandcrossing.com/" target="_blank">real estate agent</a> who had represented the seller contacted me within a few weeks of the move. I travel a lot for business and would not be occupying the house full time.    &#8220;You should be renting it out,&#8221; the agent told me. This got me thinking and what the agent suggested sounded like a good deal. She went on:    &#8220;We could rent it for two and a half times your monthly mortgage. We also could probably even sell it right away for 25% more money than you paid!&#8221; she remarked.    The agent was well dressed and very polished, and she really seemed to know what she was talking about. I got very excited about her ideas and quickly started to feel like I was an incredibly gifted buyer of real estate who had managed to secure an amazing deal.    &#8220;There&#8217;s one thing,&#8221; the real estate agent said. &#8220;In order to market the property successfully as a rental property at this price, you are going to need to make it more &#8216;hip&#8217; and desirable. If you can do this, you will do very, very well.&#8221;    Within a few days, the real estate agent came over to my house with a designer, who took one look around the place and decreed that the entire house and all its furniture were dreadful and in urgent need of a makeover. Much of the furniture in the house had been handed down to me by my family and was actually very nice. For example, I inherited some items from a very wealthy family member, who used to be a United States Senator. In addition, the last house I had purchased had been completely vacated by a family of Australians, who moved back to Australia and did not take their furniture with them. I was amazed that the combined value of all the furnishings was upwards of $1 million&#8211;and they simply left it all behind. I personally have never spent more than $1,000 on a piece of furniture.    I had moved all this &#8220;free furniture&#8221; into the new house, which the designer was now considering redecorating. Furniture like this was declared &#8220;tacky&#8221; and &#8220;dated,&#8221; and the designer suggested all sorts of replacement items, such as painted particleboard knock-offs of designer furniture, which she could import from China.    The designer insisted that everything needed to be changed. The real estate agent continued to emphasize that the house would never rent or sell for the outrageous prices she was proposing unless I immediately got to work with her designer. She also told me that she would refuse to show the house to anyone unless I went through with commissioning an incredible amount of work to have everything &#8220;updated&#8221; as quickly as possible. The designer proceeded to throw around some outrageous price quotes, and I was completely perplexed. After all, I had furnished the house with all kinds of beautiful items, which someone had previously purchased for more than $1 million.    &#8220;Throw it all out!&#8221; the designer declared.    I began to feel bad about the furniture we had in our house. I started to believe we were in serious need of a design upgrade. For weeks I looked at things like our hand-carved $20,000+ chairs, which were adorning various rooms, and I began to feel like we really should replace them all with cheap Chinese furniture.    Since it was not in my budget to redesign the house, I decided the best thing to do would be to sell an old collector&#8217;s Mercedes that had been sitting in our garage for several years. I would be sad to part with the Benz, but I figured it was the best thing to do if I were going to redecorate the house. I put the old car on a few websites and began taking calls for it. One day, I got a call from a very professional-sounding man who was well versed in collector automobiles. He came over to take a look at the car.    When he walked inside the house, the man immediately started talking about how beautiful the furniture was. He wanted to walk around and just look at everything. He did things like stop and stare at a table for a minute or two and then caress it gently with his hand, then crawl under it and examine the bottom of it.    &#8220;A lot of this stuff should be in a museum!&#8221; he declared. I was very happy that someone appreciated the furniture because I felt that I had done very well having acquired it all for free. After looking at the car and telling me he would &#8220;think about it&#8221; he handed me his card. I saw that he was an interior designer.    &#8220;I&#8217;m actually selling this car so I can get some new furniture,&#8221; I told him.    &#8220;Are you kidding?&#8221; he said. &#8220;You do not need any new furniture. This place is absolutely magnificent. I ought to send you the background information on some of your pieces. Much of it is original and I am sure worth much more than was paid for it. Someone had to find craftsmen all over the world to make many of those items. You cannot just find pieces like that at the store.&#8221;    This made me feel pretty good, and after the man had left I got on a computer and checked out his website. To my astonishment, the man had been the personal decorator of Princess Diana and had designed numerous high-profile celebrity homes, a palace for an Egyptian princess, and so forth. Much to my surprise, a lot of the furniture displayed in his designer&#8217;s portfolio looked almost exactly like the furniture that was in my house.    I have thought about this episode so many times throughout the past few years. I had been manipulated to such a massive degree by the real estate agent and her designer that I had almost sold my car&#8211;to pay for a completely unnecessary overhaul of the interior of the house.    <em>Why did this happen? </em>The decorator had had an interest in making me think there was something wrong with the interior: If there were nothing at all wrong with the interior of the house, then there would have been no reason for me to hire her. The real estate agent would likely have been expecting a cut from the transaction, in which case she too would have had a vested interest. So, essentially, the objective had been to make me insecure about the house, and then&#8211;reap the profits.    How many times have people made you insecure about something so they could profit from you in some way? There are so many people out there who will try to sell you on the idea that they can benefit you in some way&#8211;after they subtly put you down. Insecurity is the primary currency of their game, and they thrive on creating it for you.    Let&#8217;s take an unscrupulous lawyer as an example. If people did not get themselves into trouble and have serious problems to solve, lawyers would essentially be out of a job. Therefore an unscrupulous lawyer may convince a client that he or she is at much greater risk than reality dictates, in order to create more billable hours.    A couple of years ago, I had an employee whose wife was a chiropractor. One day, I went over to her house and she hit me a few times with a small hammer. She told me that it was important that I come back&#8211;and often&#8211;for treatments, because I was an as-of-yet-undiagnosed diabetic who was on the verge of potentially dying from my affliction. This concerned me a great deal, so I eventually went to a medical doctor and got the proper tests done. Lo and behold, I found out that not only am I not dying from diabetes, but I actually have excellent blood sugar and overall health.    My wife had started visiting the chiropractor at the same time that I had. Within a few months, the chiropractor had her visiting at least twice a week, and had prescribed her all sorts of expensive herbs and various tonics. Of course, after my visit with the medical doctor, I made sure my wife understood that nothing whatsoever was wrong with her, by making her consult with a medical doctor. Needless to say, my wife is&#8211;and always was&#8211;perfectly fine. Had I not intervened, we would have been going to the chiropractor forever.    I had a similar experience when I was in <a title="Law School" href="http://www.lawfirmstaff.com/" target="_blank">law school</a>. A veterinarian took a look at my Labrador retriever and told me that the dog needed a hip transplant for several thousand dollars. I got a couple of other opinions and found out that the dog had perfectly healthy hips. The dog lived a long, healthy life and never had any health problems until he died of old age.    It is important to understand that all around you there are people and forces that want you to feel weak, vulnerable, and inadequate. The best thing you can do to control and fight back against these forces is to sniff out and identify these people for what they are&#8211;and then avoid them.    Similarly, anytime someone attempts to rise above their peers and become better than others, they are likely to face people who have a vested interest in <em>keeping them down</em>. People will continually strive to keep the person at a certain level, for fear of being left alone, or of feeling bad about their own lack of progress.    My wife and I have been in Las Vegas all week. Yesterday, she related to me that she saw two men walking down the street who looked to be in their 20s and each had only one tooth. She stated that they appeared to be hobbling down the street, their faces looked pockmarked, and they appeared to be strung out on drugs. Their clothes were dirty and their faces looked terrified. They were gasping as they walked. It was like something out of a horror movie. This is not an uncommon sight on Las Vegas Boulevard. The two people were almost certainly crystal meth addicts, also known as <em>tweakers</em>.    &#8220;I wonder how these two people found each other!&#8221; my wife exclaimed.    They found each other because they are both alike and share an interest in drugs. However, a more interesting question to me is what would happen if one of them suddenly decided to stop using drugs and get better. <em>What do you think would happen? </em>    I know exactly what would happen. The user would try to discourage the person who was trying to get sober. The addict would not want his buddy to get better, for fear of losing a friend. It is possible that this might not occur, but in most cases it would.    For the most part, there are people in our lives who want us to do well no matter what. Then there are those who may not necessarily want us to improve&#8211;our neighbors, friends, coworkers, and others. However directly or subtly, they will try and tell us that we are incapable of the change we seek or the improvement we want from our lives:
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<li>&#8220;That&#8217;s for other people, not people like us.&#8221;</li>
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<p>  We receive these sorts of messages again and again.    Whether someone is trying to get you to buy something or is afraid of you improving because it will illuminate his or her own inadequacies, it is important that you are aware that others around you may be trying to keep you down, make you insecure, or control how you feel about your life. Do not allow others to control or influence you negatively, and be aware of this kind of behavior. If you allow others to influence how you think or feel, you will be in service of them and not in service of yourself.
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		<title>The Dangers of Complacency</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 05:01:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harrison Barnes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Avoid complacency, as it can literally destroy your career and your life. You are either moving up or moving down, and complacency will always place you on a downward trajectory. Surround yourself with people who will continually challenge you to become better. Surrounding yourself with mediocre people will introduce mediocrity into your own life; when you surround yourself with people who accept nothing but the best, you are likely to become exceptional as well. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The most important thing you can do in your pursuit of success is avoid complacency. Never allow yourself to settle down and accept your results as finite. You need to surround yourself with people who will continue to challenge you to become better. Whom you choose to surround yourself with plays a major role in what you will achieve and what will happen to you in your life. Surround yourself with mediocre people and you will likely face mediocrity in your own life; surround yourself with people who accept nothing but the best from themselves and others, and you are <span id="more-4923"></span>  likely to become exceptional as well.    When I was growing up outside of Detroit, I had lots of friends who dreamed of things like <a title="Getting a Job" href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">getting a job</a> in a post office or becoming a fire fighter. The reason for this was that they wanted a <em>steady paycheck </em>and dreamed of the sort of life this would provide. They envisioned themselves having a decent-sized house, a nice wife, and a nine-to-five job that would enable them to go home, drink beer, and watch sports on television most evenings.    Most men who have a dream like this end up achieving it. If you surround yourself with people who have similar dreams as you, then you will all empower one another to achieve these goals.    We tend to associate with people who make us feel comfortable in pursuing our dream. Although I had diverted onto a different path from most of my friends by the time I was around 17 or 18, I still kept in touch with them, even after I moved away to another city. By this point, they were talking about things like the best months of the year to apply to the fire department due to lower application rates, and other things that related to the achievement of their dreams. These guys all ended up &#8220;making it,&#8221; in that they all attained the sorts of lives that they wanted.    I had had similar dreams when I was growing up as well, for a time. Mostly I had been influenced by my peer group early on. When you are around people who have similar dreams and aspirations, you will notice that they continually judge each other by what each person in the group is doing. Men who have such dreams and live such lives, they typically spend their time with other men who have such dreams and live such lives.    I still know many of these men who grew up with these dreams. I have not seen them for at least five years, but I ran into a group of them at a bar one Thursday night when I was visiting the town. They all constantly compared houses, yards, cars, and so forth, and seemed to be measuring each other by these things.    These guys are stuck in a world in which they judge themselves by what their peers have and do. According to one of my old friends, if one of their peers purchases new rims for his car, the others will all go out and look at rims, review them online, and start talking about them and whether or not they should get car rims as well. The same thing happens if one of them purchases a new dishwasher. They all work in okay jobs and make okay livings, but they are stuck in a <em>cocoon</em> of sorts, living in the same neighborhoods and still judging their progress in life by what their childhood friends are doing.    When I last saw these men, they were in their mid-30s and already looking toward retirement. Most of these guys are now overweight and look much different from how they appeared when I knew them twenty-five years ago. At least one I know of has already had a heart attack, and another has had cancer. Their faces are pretty dull and there is not a lot of excitement in them about the future&#8211;let alone the present. These fellows have been chasing complacency since they were teenagers, and they have attained it. They have isolated themselves from the world. They are comfortable and not unhappy because they are judging themselves by the accomplishments of their peers.    Is this what it is all about? Is life about being complacent, and just settling down, and staying that way forever? What happens when we go into a <em>cocoon</em> and surround ourselves with others who only expect mediocrity out of us?    The reason I am so fascinated by these guys I went to grade school and middle school with is that some of them are much smarter than me and more talented than me in many ways. When we were younger, some of them had a much easier time with certain classes, others were better socially, and others could have certainly accomplished more than me, just due to their God-given talents. However, in my case, by eighth grade I had been pulled out of their world and put into a series of private schools in which my peers were high performers in all respects. The bar was suddenly set much higher and the people I newly associated with were dreaming of things like going to Princeton and then Johns Hopkins Medical School. My new peers all wanted to be the very best at their chosen fields, and they would accept nothing less from themselves. It became difficult to have goals of working in some kind of nine-to-five job when I found myself surrounded by people with much higher goals.    The sorts of peers you associate with will help you determine the level of achievement that is acceptable for you. If you go to a poor college, you are likely to be surrounded by people with lower expectations and goals than if you go to a first-rate college. The level of people you surround yourself with will in large part determine the sorts of goals you set for yourself and what you will achieve. As an example, kids who have grown up in bad neighborhoods typically achieve less than kids who have grown up in good neighborhoods. They achieve what is expected of them.    If your worst enemy walked by your cup of coffee and dropped two lumps of sugar in it while you looked the other way, you may never know. However, if your best friend walked by and put a couple of drops of poison in your drink, you might end up very sick&#8211;or dead. The people we associate with can have a profound effect on our lives. All around us, every day, there are people dropping bits of <em>poison</em> in our coffee and affecting our thinking in a negative way. The most important thing you can do in your career and in your life is to watch your coffee, and see how the people around you are affecting you.    One of the guys I used to dislike the most at work would walk around every Friday, pop his head in everyone&#8217;s office, and say &#8220;Happy Friday!&#8221; He would also tell everyone he saw in the hall and other areas throughout the office the same thing. All day long he did this.    I really disliked this and did not think it was all that cool. To me this guy seemed to be like someone who was <em>dropping poison into everyone&#8217;s coffee</em> because his message connoted that there was something wrong with work, as if it is something we all just tolerate until we finally get to the blissful, work-free weekend. This guy used to find himself enormously funny, and he was very excited to tell everyone he saw &#8220;Happy Friday!&#8221; each week. However, to me this sent the wrong signal.    I have always viewed the work that we do as something to look forward to: If you do not like your job, then typically you do not like your life. It is important that you can view your job as something in which you are always growing, always becoming something.    The other thing about this guy that annoyed me was that whenever he would talk to others, his focus was on retirement and not having to work anymore&#8211;despite being in his mid-30s at the time. It reminded me of my old elementary school friends back home. Throughout my life, I have heard person after person tell me that they want such and such amount of money so they can retire and no longer have to work. There are so many people out there who do not want to work and who look forward to doing nothing for the rest of their lives.    The following story appeared on CNN on June 17, 2000:<br />
<blockquote>LOS ANGELES (CNN) &#8212; Mark Hughes, the founder of Herbalife International, one of the world&#8217;s leading distributors of herbal products, died of an accidental overdose after mixing alcohol with a &#8220;toxic level&#8221; of antidepressants, authorities said Friday.    Scott Carrier, of the Los Angeles County Coroner&#8217;s Office, said final autopsy results found that Hughes, 44, had high levels of both alcohol and an antidepressant in his blood.    The cause of Hughes&#8217; death recalls that of his mother.    Hughes&#8217; mother died of an accidental overdose of prescription diet pills when he was 18. He often cited her death as motivating him to succeed in the herbal products industry&#8211;to provide millions with products that were not available to his mother.    Carrier attributed the death to &#8220;alcohol-Deoxpin intoxication.&#8221; Deoxpin is an antidepressant, which Hughes was taking to &#8220;treat insomnia,&#8221; the coroner said.    Hughes&#8217; blood-alcohol level was recorded at .21 percent. A &#8220;toxic level&#8221; of Deoxpin was also found in his system at 2.1 micrograms per milliliter, Carrier said.    Hughes was found dead in his Malibu mansion May 21.    The initial autopsy, conducted on May 23, was inconclusive and required additional tests.    In February 1980, Hughes founded Herbalife International. It has since become one of the world&#8217;s largest distributors of herbal products, with sales of about $1.7 billion annually.</p></blockquote>
<p>  At the time of his death, I knew people who were working at Hughes&#8217;s Malibu mansion, including people who were installing incredibly ornate marble floors&#8211;and even Hughes&#8217;s personal trainer. For people who knew Hughes, it was no mystery that he had been headed down the wrong path. His personal trainer would sometimes show up at 8:00 a.m. and find that Hughes had been up drinking all night and had not yet gone to sleep. Another time, the personal trainer allegedly came over in the early afternoon; Hughes was drunk and made himself vomit so that he could exercise. It is definitely surprising that a guy like Hughes had a serious drinking problem, since he was running one of the largest health food companies in the world at the time. Someone going out there promoting health and wellness, who became incredibly rich doing so, seems unlikely to become a raging alcoholic.    Hughes did not need to work. He had all the money he would ever need and seemed to have it all. The guy who would walk around telling everyone &#8220;Happy Friday&#8221; actually used to work for Hughes at Herbalife. He wanted to be someone like Hughes, who had all that money and power, so that he could sit around and do nothing. I wonder, however, what he thought of when he learned that Hughes had died such a tragic and senseless death. Did he still see the value of having nothing to do?    The interesting thing about success is that once people have achieved incredible goals, they often become complacent, and then they start having the most problems. There is a huge danger to complacency because when you reach this state, everything in your life can end up going to hell.    You are never truly happy because of the things you get; instead, you are happy because of what you become. If you are not becoming something (i.e., progressing toward a goal) you will generally not be happy. What makes people happy is the process of continually becoming something and growing. If we are not growing then we are dying.    Regardless of what your dreams may be, most people are not and can never be happy being complacent. Some of the guys I knew growing up made complacency their goal in life. They are complacent now&#8211;and fat and boring. Their lives revolve around things like looking forward to <em>Happy Fridays</em>. They live for the weekends.    One of the greatest challenges in your career and in your life is to learn how to handle, or more specifically, how to <em>avoid</em> complacency. Complacency can literally destroy your career and life. You are either moving up or you are moving down. You cannot afford to move down, but when you are complacent, you will most certainly end up moving down.    You need to learn to judge yourself by your potential rather than by what your peers are doing. Also, you need to surround yourself with people who have high expectations for themselves so you too can have high expectations for yourself. Pay very close attention anytime you are not challenged and any time you feel like you might be getting too content. A good coach does not allow a player to rest on her laurels and you should not rest on your laurels either. You need to be your own coach and constantly push yourself forward. If you do this, you will achieve more in your life.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    Avoid complacency, as it can literally destroy your career and your life. You are either moving up or moving down, and complacency will always place you on a downward trajectory. Surround yourself with people who will continually challenge you to become better. Surrounding yourself with mediocre people will introduce mediocrity into your own life; when you surround yourself with people who accept nothing but the best, you are likely to become exceptional as well.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[While Athens prioritized culture and intellectualism, the people of Sparta devoted themselves to simplicity and discipline. You need to approach your job search as a Spartan, not an Athenian; don’t retreat from the negative aspects of your life and current job, but rather make them work for you and remain focused on your success.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the greatest conflicts in the ancient world was between Athens and Sparta.  In fact, the history of ancient Greece was dominated by the conflict between these two different cultures.  Both cultures ended up leaving an important legacy to the world.
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<li>On one hand, the culture of Athens left a legacy of art, drama, <a href="http://www.architecturecrossing.com/" target="_blank">architecture</a>, philosophy, the enjoyment of wealth and opulence, the idea of a governmental democracy and a strong navy.</li>
<li>On the other hand, the government of Sparta left a legacy of asceticism, <a href="http://www.militarycrossing.com/" target="_blank">military</a> supremacy on land and oligarchy (rule by a few).</li>
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<p>  These two societies fought repeatedly between the years of 500 BC and 350 BC. Their clash was a fight between two civilizations in the fullest sense.  Each believed that their society and their way of <span id="more-2230"></span>  doing things was the correct way.  They fought in different ways and they ran their societies in different ways.  Most of what we know about the Spartans comes from the writings of the Athenians, because the Athenians were the ones who spent their time writing and thinking.  And since the Athenians did not like the Spartans, the writing is somewhat biased.  I believe, and have always believed, that being a successful job seeker requires you to be more of a Spartan than an Athenian.  In fact, I would propose to you today that a great deal of what is wrong with our current economy is due to many of us approaching our careers and our jobs more like an Athenian would than a Spartan would.    I have been witnessing what appears to be a decline in a solid work ethic, job finding skills and the ability to do good work in the United States since I have been a young child.  It seems to me that this decline is just getting worse and worse.   Most people use all their sick days each year, even if they are not sick.  Many people who are not working spend years unemployed and refuse to take a job unless it pays as much as their last one. In the <a href="http://www.automotivecrossing.com/" target="_blank">automobile industry</a>, unions have contributed to a slow death among American automobile companies by demanding more and more benefits and less and less work.  Our government is bailing out companies and banks when they cannot make a profit.  Our leaders are intellectuals with no experience running armies or groups.    Worst of all, there is something developing in this country where we reward people for making mistakes. For example, between 2000 and 2005 hundreds of thousands of Americans made an incredible amount of money buying and selling houses. Now that the economy has started to slow down and they are no longer making money, we are stepping in to fix all of this.  It is like a child running back to their parent for help. Our health care costs are incredibly high compared to other cultures.  The people of our country are very unhealthy and do not watch their diets.  Our highest paid workers in the law and other disciplines form communities online where they spend more time complaining about what they are making than appreciating what they have.    Our jobs in this country have begun migrating to places where people can do them more cheaply and are hungrier for work.  With manufacturing, it happened already with jobs migrating to China.  In the <a href="http://www.informationtechnologycrossing.com/" target="_blank">information technology</a> sector our jobs are going to places like India.  Our country is getting fat, lazy and developing a massive sense of entitlement. We are turning into intellectuals, as opposed to soldiers.  Our children spend time playing video games and not learning.  Our national test scores are going down on an almost annual basis.  We are innovators in many sectors, but something is changing.  We have a sense of entitlement about what we deserve and yet we are not delivering.  Much of the success we have experienced in the recent past has been the result of financial chicanery and financial manipulation.  The cultural icons of our youth are other kids who have never worked.  Some of our most popular shows at this point in time are of people who are not even required to memorize lines. Instead, a camera follows around young adults on shows such as <em>The Hills,</em> as they go on dates and socialize. Our country spends more than it saves.  Our government has a deficit and most households do as well.    There is something going on in this country that is more &#8220;Athens&#8221; than it is &#8220;Sparta,&#8221; and it is dragging us down.  I know there is not a lot you can do about what is going on&#8211;and I know you may not agree with me as well. However, what you can do personally is be more &#8220;Sparta&#8221; than &#8220;Athens,&#8221; and being more &#8220;Sparta&#8221; than &#8220;Athens&#8221; is something that can help you reap incredible rewards in your career.  As I will discuss below, being more &#8220;Sparta&#8221; than &#8220;Athens&#8221; will enable you to: (1) get a job more quickly, (2) be more effective in your existing job and (3) survive in all economic conditions.    In ancient Greece, Sparta had the most feared military force there was.  The Spartan soldier was, and still is, legendary.  A Spartan soldier&#8217;s training began at birth and the Spartan soldiers never lost a battle in the conflicts that waged between the small city-states of ancient Greece.  When a baby was very young, it was tested for weakness and deformity.  Babies were bathed in wine shortly after being born by their mother.  The babies that survived the bathing were brought by their fathers before a governing body of Sparta (a council of elders known as the Geousia). Babies that seemed as if they would be unlikely to become strong soldiers, or who were considered &#8220;puny&#8221;, were thrown in a gorge to die.  (If a baby made it past this stage and died in another manner later on, they were not even allowed a headstone.  The only Spartans who were allowed headstones were those of Soldiers who died in battle where Sparta was victorious, and women who died in childbirth or a divine office.)    For those who were allowed to live, the training of the Spartan solider was nonstop and savage.   Spartan boys began formal military training at the age of seven in what was called the Agoge system.  The boys lived communally, and were given grueling physical training and learned to work with weapons at a young age.  Men could not not live with their families until they left active military service at the age of the thirty (Spartan men remained in the reserves until the age of sixty).  Plutarch, a Greek historian and essayist, wrote that for many Spartan soldiers going to battle was a welcome relief from the grueling training: &#8220;For the Spartans, actual war was a holiday compared to their tough training.&#8221;    What is so significant to me about this early aspect of Spartan training, is the incredible focus that the young were forced to develop at a young age.  Their lives were all about their jobs and they were toughened and taught to be &#8220;warriors&#8221;.  Instead of being coddled by schools, they were toughened by schools.  They were pushed both physically and mentally in these schools.  The emphasis in the schools was not on being academic.  For example, while Spartan boys studied reading, music and and writing, the boys were punished if they failed to answer questions laconically (i.e., briefly).  The idea for Spartans was that they were to be warriors who were educated but did not sit around debating the nature of good and evil, for example.  The idea of intellectualism and debate was not something that was part of Spartan society.  A Spartan was trained as a soldier whose job it was to get something done.    While I am not sure I personally would be all that comfortable with the Spartan educational system, what makes it so interesting to me is that it emphasized utility and action over the converse. The idea that was being taught was that focus is what is important. By being focused, you are much more likely to reach your point than by talking around the truth.  The Spartans&#8217; educational system was geared towards this focus.  In modern society, our academics will traditionally sit around debating this or that.  Our best students are often those skilled in the art of giving long-winded answers.  Lawyers spend a great deal of time debating this or that, and this makes up a giant portion of what goes on in our culture.  Students in school are coddled and given the sorts of learning environments that &#8220;nurture&#8221; them.  While I am not going to debate this in great detail, I would go so far as to argue that the nurturing of our modern educational systems gives people in the United States a certain sense of entitlement about what society owes them, instead of what they owe society.  This coddling ends up instilling a sense of entitlement that may go on in peoples&#8217; lives forever, and continually put them in the role of being takers rather that doers.  This is not something that would have happened in Sparta.    In Sparta, failure was also something that was not allowed.  According to Thucydides, when Spartan men were going off to war their mothers, wives, or a woman of significance in their lives would present them with their shield and the statement &#8220;With this, or upon this.&#8221;  This meant that the solider could only return to Sparta having won the battle, with their shield in hand (&#8220;with this&#8221;) or dead (&#8220;upon this&#8221;).  Spartans who returned to Sparta without their shield were presumed to have thrown it at their enemies and then fled&#8211;something that was punishable by death or banishment from Sparta.  The entire Spartan culture was one that enforced incredible discipline upon its soldiers. For example, one Spartan legend discussed a man who ran away from battle and back to his mother.  Instead of comforting him, the mother chased him around the streets hitting him with sticks.    In our current society, failure is allowed.  While there is nothing wrong with failure, it should never be an attractive option.  Celebrities and well known figures repeatedly go into rehab for drugs and alcohol.  We quit jobs if we do not feel we are being treated as well as we could be.  We coddle people for failing and give them &#8220;easier&#8221; tasks to do if one task seems too difficult for them.  Our government steps in if people make horrible economic choices and does not allow them to fail.  We pay people unemployment who get fired from their jobs.  We bail out companies with government money that are making bad products that no one wants to buy.  When a Spartan went off to battle they had no choice but to succeed. There would be no warm homecoming for them if they failed.  Consequently, the Spartans did not fail and always won their battles among the city states of ancient Greece.    According to one commentator:<br />
<blockquote>The life of a Spartan male was a life of discipline, self-denial, and simplicity. The Spartans viewed themselves as the true inheritors of the Greek tradition. They did not surround themselves with luxuries, expensive foods, or opportunities for leisure. And this, I think, is the key to understanding the Spartans. While the Athenians and many others thought the Spartans were insane, the life of the Spartans seemed to hark back to a more basic way of life. Discipline, simplicity, and self-denial always remained ideals in the Greek and Roman worlds; civilization was often seen as bringing disorder, enervation, weakness, and a decline in moral values. The Spartan, however, could point to Spartan society and argue that moral values and human courage and strength was as great as it was before civilization. Spartan society, then, exercised a profound pull on the surrounding city-states who admired the simplicity, discipline, and order of Spartan life.</p></blockquote>
<p>  Sparta&#8217;s emphasis on military supremacy and a simple lifestyle was the major emphasis behind Plato&#8217;s book, <em>The Republic</em>, which was one of the first attempts to formulate an ideal community.  Was Sparta ideal?  In many ways I believe it was.  In our current society everything is just far too complicated.  Our emphasis on leisure and eating has made us a nation that is predominantly overweight.  Our ability to manufacture goods the world wants to buy continues to decrease.  As a group, we do not have discipline.  Our military is not valued and held in esteem by many of our highest leaders.  We surround ourselves with luxuries and more emphasis seems to be put on this for many of us than on the value of our work.    In contrast to Sparta, Athens was a very different society and far less rigid and militaristic.  In Sparta, the emphasis of the society was on the military and in Athens the largest emphasis was upon culture.  Some very important accomplishments were made by Athenians in science, art, philosophy and other disciplines.  For example, the philosophers Plato, Socrates, Aristotle and the playwrights of Euripides, Aristophanes, Aeschculus all lived during Athens&#8217; golden age in the fifth century BC.  Athenians believed that they were culturally superior to the Spartans.  They enjoyed luxuries and foods from all over their empire.  The homes of wealthy Athenians were very nice and had inner courtyards.  A good description of Athens also comes from Pericles famous funeral oration:<br />
<blockquote>Further, we provide many ways to refresh the mind from the burdens of business. We hold contests and offer sacrifices all the year round, and the elegance of our private establishments forms a daily source of pleasure and helps to drive away sorrow. The magnitude of our city draws the produce of the world into our harbor, so that to the Athenian the fruits of other countries are as familiar a luxury as those of his own.</p></blockquote>
<p>  In contrast, Spartan men were taught to get along with almost nothing.  Spartan citizens were not permitted to own gold or other luxuries.  These differences between the Spartans and Athenians remind me of a conflict I see today all around me. There are people who talk a lot about what they are going to do and read a lot about what others are doing and have done, and there are people out there doing things and actually getting work done.  Which are you?  I would encourage you to be on the side of action, self denial and create effective contribution, rather than on the side of those who simply talk and do very little.    One of the greatest conflicts I have personally witnessed in working with <a href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/" target="_blank">thousands of job</a> seekers over the years has been a similar conflict&#8211;there are job seekers who are Spartans and there are job seekers who are Athenians. The Spartans are always the more successful in the long run.    When I was around 18 years old my parents stopped giving me money completely.  I did not have a traditional home to come home to where parents cooked and looked after me, either.  Without any money coming in and expenses that included car maintenance, gas for my car, clothes, books for school and other essentials I was put in a position where I had to work.  While I resented my parents for their personal situation which put me in this role at the time, it was something that I ultimately came to appreciate as I got into my 30s because I realized how much more scrappy it made me compared to others.  In ancient Sparta, the boys were intentionally underfed so they would always be hungry and so they would develop the skill of being able to steal food.  Here, without any money coming in, I needed to toughen myself and learn skills that other kids my age were not learning at the time.  I sold knives on the street.  I worked as a pizza delivery boy.  I worked in the school bookstore. I started a business doing asphalt work.  I worked on cars in my spare time.  I did not have the same luxuries and other accouterments as other kids had.  I also knew that I did not have any &#8220;backstop&#8221; if I failed.  If I did not have any money then I would simply not be able to function.  I needed to look out for myself.  This was something that personally toughened me up.  It made me quite self reliant and it put me in a position where I learned over time how to make use of existing resources, find the best deals for things and make the most of what I was given.  This is an incredibly valuable skill to have, and as a &#8220;Spartan&#8221; I toughened myself up quite a bit.    What this means for you and your job search is that you need to put yourself in the position of a Spartan.  If a Spartan were <a href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/" target="_blank">looking for a job</a> today they would show up to an interview ready for work.  They would not debate the idea of retreat or running home if they did not <a href="http://www.hound.com" target="_blank">get the job</a>.  They would not debate the idea of quitting the job if they were unhappy with the work conditions or they did not like their boss&#8211;they would make it work.  They would only accept victory.  Moreover, a Spartan would go to work ready to work and would work very hard.    A lot of people enjoy sitting around and talking about things.  They are undisciplined when it comes to their <a href="http://www.hound.com" target="_blank">job search</a> and quite lazy.  Many may purchase a book or two here and there, and not do anything with it.  Others may lament the state of the market and cite accounts in newspapers and other sources that there are simply not enough opportunities.  They will sit around and try to see what benefits they are entitled to.  They will take all of their vacation and sick days.  Instead of working on their existing weaknesses and acknowledging them, they may move between jobs to find employers who will not bring to light their weaknesses.  None of this does them any good in the long run.    I think a lot of what is wrong with this country today is that we are too Athenian and not Spartan enough.  I would encourage you, in your job search and career, to be more Spartan than Athenian.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    While Athens prioritized culture and intellectualism, the people of Sparta devoted themselves to simplicity and discipline. You need to approach your job search as a Spartan, not an Athenian; don’t retreat from the negative aspects of your life and current job, but rather make them work for you and remain focused on your success.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[You need to control your work environment. People who are successful in their work and personal lives are generally able control their environment, and resist being controlled by it. Do not take on more work than you can handle, and make sure to competently handle the work that you do take. An organization’s success depends on its control over its assets, and your own success similarly depends on your ability to control your environment rather than the other way around. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Have you ever known someone whose life seems to go wrong at every turn?</em>    I have known several people like this. Here are some examples of things that have gone wrong for them:
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<li>They sign up for a course in school, forget they are enrolled, and get an F in the class&#8211;crushing their chances of getting into a good graduate school.</li>
<li>They constantly have strange health problems.</li>
<li>People around them seem to constantly be dying or having accidents for no apparent reason.</li>
<li>They are robbed and beaten up, even in good neighborhoods.</li>
<li>The sewer pipes explode in their house and destroy their home a week after they forget to pay their home insurance.</li>
<li>They get fired and dismissed from jobs after being accused of things they did not even do.</li>
<li>They touch a microwave oven to heat up some food and the microwave breaks.</li>
<li>Their cars keep breaking down&#8211;even new ones&#8211;and they are always late and missing out on this or that.</li>
<li>They have strange auto accidents, like being directly behind a truck making bottled water deliveries, which suddenly discharges its load onto the freeway, causing them to drive into a ravine.</li>
<li>They have a couple of drinks and go for a bike ride, then get arrested and thrown in prison for drunk driving.</li>
<li>The companies they join go out of business.</li>
<li>They lose an important sporting competition because they have a bizarre accident right before they are to compete.</li>
<li>They constantly lose purses, keys, and other personal articles.</li>
</ul>
<p>  I could go on and on about various people like this whom I have seen bad things happen to over and over again. However, the most interesting thing about these people is that <span id="more-4583"></span>  they just seem to swim in a <em>constant</em> <em>stream of bad luck</em>. Like clockwork, one issue or another continually affects them in a negative way. As these issues affect these people, they become resigned to a belief that the world is an unfortunate place, and that it is just difficult to make things work. In the job and career realm, these people always have a difficult time. Rather than getting ahead, they are plagued with one thing after another that seems to make the workplace extremely difficult.    If you think that none of the above (extreme) examples relate to your own situation, or that you cannot learn anything from the examples above, you are wrong. Your effectiveness in the world is largely based on the level of control you are able to exert over your surroundings. <em>Some people are controlled by their surroundings and others control their surroundings.</em>    Your sanity, success, and happiness in the world will come in direct proportion to your ability to control your surroundings. The person who is affected by one negative occurrence after another is typically someone who is unable to control his or her surroundings. The person who thrives in any environment is one who is typically able to control his or her surroundings.    What is competence? When we say someone is competent, what we are essentially saying is that the person has the ability to control his or her environment and what happens around him or her. A competent surgeon is able to control her instruments and perform an effective surgery. A competent proofreader is able to proofread work and correct any errors that may occur. Competency means being able to control the outcome and effectiveness of our work, rather than being controlled by external factors. When we call someone incompetent, what we are essentially saying is that the person cannot control the outcome and effectiveness of his or her work. An incompetent individual is someone who is unable to do a good job. The idea of incompetency is that the person&#8217;s work and environment dominates him or her, not the other way around.    Over the years we have had lots of people work in our various companies whose jobs were to fix computers, phone systems, and so forth whenever they went down. Right now we have someone absolutely fantastic doing the job. These systems hardly ever break down around this guy, and when they do, he fixes them instantly. Before he joined our team, we had another person in his position, and the computers always broke down. There were viruses on the computers. The phone system was always having problems. With this new person, everything works perfectly and almost all the time. The reason is competence. This man has taken preventive measures to make sure that everything is working all the time. He is aware of what could or might go wrong at any given time&#8211;before it actually does. When he fixes something, he puts it back together and does not leave any aspect of his work unfinished. If he does not understand something fully, he speaks with as many others in the field as he can, and he makes every effort possible to fix the problem.    This person is, in a word, competent at what he does.    His work area is clean. There are no unfinished projects. He knows his business and does not take on work he does not understand.    The opposite would be if he did not finish assignments completely, and let his work pile up. If he disassembled a computer and then did not reassemble it, and just moved on to something else. If he failed to read up about the latest developments. If he were not out there networking and exchanging information with other computer engineers. What would happen to him in this case is that his work would eventually take control over him, not the other way around:
<ul>
<li>Phone systems and networks would be going down all the time.</li>
<li>People would be yelling at the person, and he would eventually be at the mercy of his work and the world.</li>
<li>He would not receive any pay raises.</li>
<li>He might lose his job.</li>
<li>He would be agitated all the time.</li>
<li>He might start drinking too much.</li>
<li>He would make justifications for the problems he was having at work due to old computers or phone systems, and use these excuses in discussing his performance with management.</li>
<li>He would begin searching for another job to relieve the pressure&#8211;and then another one after that.</li>
<li>The process would repeat itself at each <a title="New Job" href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">new job</a>.</li>
<li>He might yell at his wife and kids at night.</li>
<li>He might be angry with his employers&#8211;and the world at large.</li>
<li>He might sue an employer for firing him.</li>
</ul>
<p>  You see, all of this would be caused by this person&#8217;s inability to control his environment. Controlling your environment is among the most important things you can do. People who are exceptional at their jobs and in their lives are generally able to control their environment and to resist <em>being controlled</em> by their environment.    When I joined my first law firm with a group of around fifteen other recent law school graduates in 1997, there was a young partner in the law firm who was a little bit insane, I think. I suspected the partner was a cocaine addict but I was not sure. You see, this guy rarely came into the office, and when he was there, he would grab an associate and give some cryptic instructions to do this or that. He might tell the associate that it would take &#8220;at most three to four hours&#8221;&#8211;when in reality it was a twenty-five-hour job. The associate would do the work and might find herself being berated or humiliated by the partner for not doing some task that was not part of the original assignment. The partner would then <em>lie</em> about having assigned the task, when he had not. The entire process of working with the guy was quite exasperating for everybody in the firm, because of his outrageous behavior.    As a young attorney starting out in a <a title="Law Firm" href="http://www.legalauthority.com/" target="_blank">law firm</a>, the most important thing you can do is complete assignments and impress the partners you are working for. I remember that a very talented young associate was given a workload by this particular partner, and after a few days the associate flat-out refused to work with him anymore. He made a point of going to the head of the law firm at the time, John Quinn, and telling Quinn that he would no longer be able to work with this particular partner. This was something that people just did not do, and everyone in the office was very impressed that the young associate had done this.    The guy who refused to work with the partner was one of two people in this class of fifteen who ultimately ended up making partner in this law firm. He never got flustered and was always respected by his peers. I think that the reason he was so effective and able to do so well was that he knew the importance of controlling his own work environment. He refused to work with a partner who did not allow him to control his own work.    A few years ago, I had a very talented assistant working for me. She had gone to an excellent college and had finished near the top of her class. Her work ethic was exceptional and she did a really good job in everything that she undertook. She was working on a real estate matter with me, and the real estate agent she was dealing with kept lying, not showing up for appointments, and telling me and others that the young woman had said things she did not. It was a bizarre situation, and the real estate agent eventually ended up losing his license for similar behavior. I remember one day my assistant took a stand and refused to work with the agent.    &#8220;I&#8217;ve had it. I am not going to work with someone who lies and changes things around. It makes it impossible for me to do my job. You can fire me if you want, but I simply cannot continue like this.&#8221;    This girl was controlling her environment. By controlling her environment she was able to make sure that she could do her work effectively. Because the lying, scheming, and so forth of the real estate agent was making it impossible for her to control her environment, she refused to have anything to do with him.    You need to control your environment at work. This means lots of things&#8211;like not taking on more work than you can handle and making sure you do everything with competence.    One way of not controlling your environment is by just being plain lazy. Being lazy means letting work pile up, not doing your job, being preoccupied with things besides work and so forth. I do not have a lot of sympathy for lazy people, and neither does the rest of the working world. Lazy people never end up doing all that well at anything. These sorts of people are let go from organizations rapidly and frequently. Darwinian forces in most organizations typically take over quickly, and the lazy end up having major problems. The lazy and the careless are people who perpetually fail to control their environments&#8211;probably because doing so requires energy and focus. These people can create major problems for organizations and themselves.    Another, more unfortunate example of failing to control your environment is taking on too much work or, similarly, doing work you do not really understand. This is a huge problem that affects countless individuals in the workplace. When you are good at something, people may give you more and more work. You need to know when to say no and you need to develop a keen ability to politely decline any assignment that is beyond your scope of expertise. Many people come into jobs and soon get in way over their heads&#8211;trying to take on too much work. I have seen this time and time again. When you have more work than you can handle, or you are doing work that you do not understand, you are not controlling your environment; instead you are being controlled by it.    When I started the same <a title="Legal Job" href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/" target="_blank">legal job</a> I mentioned earlier, there was a girl a few doors down from me who had recently graduated from Yale Law School. The girl was absolutely brilliant and very hard working. We shared secretaries who worked at the same station, and I used to see this woman&#8217;s time sheets, which she would turn in every day. After I had been at the firm for around six months, I started noticing that the time sheets she was turning in each day were adding up to a full twenty-four hours. This meant, effectively, that she was working entire shifts of twenty-four hours without a break. I would notice these hours adding up to twenty-four hours at least a few times each week, and it was astonishing to me. I could not imagine, at the time, working this many hours on anything. Within several months of this woman&#8217;s starting these twenty-four-hour shifts, she had left the firm and gone to work for the government. I do not know why she did this; however, my guess is that she simply had taken on too much work. She had become unable to control her own work environment. Had she been able to turn down work and refused to work such long hours, she would have been controlling her environment&#8211;and she might not have burned herself out of what promised to be an illustrious law career.    Control of your environment starts with you. I know of employers who will not hire people who are grossly overweight, drink too much, or smoke. People have actually said this to me before. <em>Why?</em> The reason is that the employer figures that people who are grossly overweight, drink too much, or smoke are unable to control themselves, their urges, and their body and therefore will be unable to control their work. I knew of an attorney once who had a job offer from a major law firm and was invited out for drinks with an important partner a few weeks before he was supposed to start. The partner ordered two drinks over a few hours and the prospective new associate ordered four drinks. He was not hired on account of this, for the reasons mentioned above. I will never forget that one.    You show your ability to control your environment by the way you dress and carry yourself. I have heard of people not being hired for important jobs due to their collars being frayed. I know of contractors who will not hire people who do not organize their tools well. All of this translates into an ability to control your environment. The person with the frayed collars is showing that he does not care about having a professional appearance, evidenced by his refusal to update his wardrobe or to get new clothes. Having a professional appearance is important in many lines of work. The contractor who is unable to keep his tools organized is not controlling the tools of his trade; therefore he looks weak to the potential employer.    If you have ever known someone who seemed a little crazy, it is likely due, at least in part, to an inability to control his or her environment; chaotic surroundings often lead to a chaotic state of mind. The stresses of the world impact this person over time and to an extraordinary degree, and things are constantly going wrong in this person&#8217;s life, all because this person is acted upon by the environment&#8211;not the other way around. People who are chronically stressed out and upset are typically being acted upon by the environment, not the other way around.    One of the greatest dangers (and opportunities) out there is when an individual gets a promotion or a company starts to expand when things are going well. This is always a giant opportunity for the individual or group to move to a higher standard. With more responsibility and growth often comes the challenge of controlling more variables in the work environment. In this case your standards, your attention to detail, your desire to do a good job, and your ability to exert control over your work environment, all determine if you will succeed.    If you have watched films about the military, or if you have ever been in the military, you know that there are countless procedures that are in place. People are always communicating back and forth, seeking clearance for this procedure or that procedure. Certain high-level military personnel may even call the president to seek clearance for one thing or another. The reason so many procedures exist in the military is that it would be impossible for the military to control its environment without the procedures. An absence of procedure would equate complete chaos. The larger a company or organization is, the more procedures you are likely to see. There may be multiple levels of management, legal divisions, marketing teams&#8211;and all sorts of procedures in place for every one of these groups. All of this enables the company to control its environment so that it is optimized for continued growth and expansion. Organizations cannot function without numerous procedures and various methods to assist them in controlling their environment.
<ul>
<li>A lack of procedures, standards, and ways of controlling incoming work can lead to major difficulties and problems, and often lead to <strong>individuals</strong> having stress, emotional problems, career difficulties, and more.</li>
<li>A lack of procedures, standards, and ways of controlling incoming work can lead to major difficulties and problems, and often lead to <strong>companies</strong> having stress, organizational problems, severe business difficulties, and more.</li>
</ul>
<p>  An interesting trend happens in the economy: There are &#8220;booms&#8221; and then there are &#8220;busts.&#8221; During a boom cycle, lots of people are being hired in a short amount of time. In short, there is a lot of opportunity. During a &#8220;bust&#8221; the exact opposite starts occurring. People are let go and fewer people are hired. The people who remain inside of organizations are given more and more tasks, and their work is made more efficient. Productivity typically increases during a &#8220;bust.&#8221; All that is occurring here, essentially, is that the organization is exerting more control over its environment in order to survive. Control means having fewer workers, monitoring what each worker is doing, having higher hiring standards, and so forth. Those who are the most efficient at their work are generally kept on.    When a group is rapidly expanding during a boom, a lavish and decadent sort of culture often sets in: Expenses are not overseen very carefully, and there is a great deal of unnecessary spending. Things get out of control, and the company starts to lose profits. When the bust cycle occurs, control is brought back. The ability of an organization to exert control over its workers, expenses, and so forth has a direct connection to its ultimate success in both good and bad times.    Poorly run organizations are unable to control their workers, they are unable to control their expenses, and they are unable to control their products&#8211;and they ultimately go out of business. Everything in terms of an organization&#8217;s success is about control.    Just as an organization&#8217;s success depends on effective control, your own ability to succeed in your career and life depends on your ability to control your environment, and to not be controlled by it.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    You need to control your work environment. People who are successful in their work and personal lives are generally able control their environment, and resist being controlled by it. Do not take on more work than you can handle, and make sure to competently handle the work that you do take. An organization’s success depends on its control over its assets, and your own success similarly depends on your ability to control your environment rather than the other way around.</p>
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