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		<title>Do and Give More Than Is Expected of You</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 05:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harrison Barnes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In every job, there is always much more to do than what is actually expected of you; by dong more than expected, you will attract the attention and respect of your superiors and find your life improving. When you withhold your best work, however, you only prolong your current situation and confine yourself to mediocrity. Put everything you can into all of your work, resist the urge to only put in the expected effort, and you will find your life and career approving accordingly. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was 18 years old I spent three months working as a garbage man in Detroit.  It was one of the more interesting experiences of my life. I had taken the job out of necessity because I had the good fortune of being cut off from any spending money by my parents. Facing my first year of college in a few months, I wanted to make sure that I had money for my books and other expenses.    When I started the work I threw myself into it with a great deal of enthusiasm. I had not <span id="more-13819"></span>  other choice, so I told myself I would make the most of it. If I did a good job collecting garbage there were all sorts of promotions I could receive. For example, I could be put in charge of mowing city grass on an automatic mower. I might be allowed to paint lines in the street. Alternatively, I might be given the job of going around in a boom crane and replacing city light bulbs.    My job was to ride around on the back of the truck and pick up bags of trash at each stop.  Most of the other garbage men rode lazily on the back of the truck between each house, got off at each stop, and then got back on. Not me. I decided early on to simply jog alongside the truck. Instead of picking up one garbage bag per stop, I would try and pick up two, three, or more.    Within a few weeks I was in some of the best shape of my life.  I worked so hard at the job that I started pressuring the men driving the garbage trucks to drive faster so that I could pick up more garbage.    I noticed early on, though, that the men did not seem to like me working so hard.  I did not understand it at the time, but the men I was working for were unionized and paid by the hour. By picking up so much garbage I was not only shortening their shifts, but also making them look bad.  Despite doing such good work, I was actually hurting myself by picking up so much garbage.    One day after work my supervisor asked me if I “had a minute.”    He looked embarrassed and a little scared: “I’m going to have to let you go,” he said.    “Why?” I asked, somewhat puzzled.  “I’m doing a good job.”    “These guys are complaining to me. They are complaining to their union. You are only here a few months before you go to school. I have to keep them happy. You’re getting the work done too fast and costing them money.”    Without any argument, I thanked him and went home. When I got home my mother was sitting on the couch watching television.  My mother spent twenty-plus years (the better part of her career) working as an investigator for the Michigan Department of Civil Rights. Essentially, this job involved investigating cases of discrimination against people because of their race, age, sexual orientation, and so forth. She then would assist people in either getting their jobs back or suing their employer.    “They told me I was getting fired because I was working too hard,” I told her.    My mother got on the phone and called the Department of Public Works, where I had been working as a garbage man. Within ten minutes I had my job back. When I got to work the next day my supervisor apologized, gave me a small raise, and promoted me to a job mowing lawns and doing other sorts of work on city lots. Riding around on a lawnmower all day and screwing around with a weed whacker was like paradise compared to throwing garbage all day.    It was a promotion!    However it comes about, I have never heard of anyone who did not
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<li>get a <a href="http://www.hound.com/gjbrowsejobs.php" target="_blank"><strong>better job</strong></a></li>
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<p>  as a result of doing more than was expected of them.  The harder you work—and the more you do than is expected&#8211;the more you will attract the attention of your superiors and the sooner you will find yourself in a better life. In the case of my job as a garbage man, my hard work attracted the attention of my superiors at first in the wrong way—but then it paid off.    In my job as a garbage man I was surrounded by men whose entire careers had been based on not doing more than was expected of them.  In contrast, I was of the belief that I should always do more than was expected of me.  This belief is something that I owe every success I have ever had to.    In academics, this means studying more than is expected of you. In the work world, this means doing more than is expected of you in many, many ways.  When I was in college, if a teacher told us we had to write a paper of a “minimum” of five pages—I would write a thirty- or forty-page paper.    “Why are you writing such a long paper,” my classmates would always ask me.    “Because I want to get an A,” I would tell them.  And when I wrote such long papers and put so much effort into them, I always got As (often the only A in the class) when everyone else turned in their five-page (or maybe six-page) papers and got Bs and Cs. I even saw many people play with their margins to get to over five pages.    The practice of law (which I did for some time) is like this to.  I remember one of my first insights into really great lawyering came when I was clerking for a judge.  I started to notice that the best lawyers from the best firms did very small, imperceptible things that other attorneys would not.    For example, if they were sending you a bunch of pages paper clipped together they might put a sticky note between the paper and the paper clip so the pages were not marked with the paperclip indentation. This is, of course, excessively anal but it is an example of the smallest of details that the best attorneys do not miss. Their work is proofread meticulously. They are on top of just about every single thing they are doing to an extraordinary degree, and no detail is too small. In contrast, the work of average attorneys would be proofed far less carefully and contain far more errors, typos, and other sorts of things.  Forget about a sticky note so there is no paper clip indentation…    Whether it is working as a lawyer or as a garbage man, there is always a way to do much more than is expected of you in every profession. There is no job where you cannot do more than is expected of you. You may not immediately see the results, but over time you will.  No supervisor misses their hardest and best workers.  You will soon find yourself promoted, given raises, given bonuses, and more. You will be offered a <a href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/lcbrowsejobs.php" target="_blank"><strong>supervisors job</strong></a> eventually. Or you will be hired away by an astute competitor who sees how much you are giving and knows they can channel your energy.    “<em>If I give more than is expected of me, won’t I be used and taken advantage of?</em>” you may ask.    There is a remote chance of this occurring. But human nature is to give back in response to receiving. This is how it works 99% of the time. It is just a law of the world.    I have seen so many <a href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/lcattorney.php" target="_blank"><strong>attorneys get better jobs</strong></a> by giving more than is expected of them.  Other lawyers notice and hire them away. They rise up the ranks of firms. They attract clients who also see their devotion. They get to the top fast. It is like this in every profession.    There is no other thing that has given me more in life than performing more than is expected of me.  Let your competitors in your job slack off and put in half-assed efforts.  A few years from now you will be living the dream while they are stuck or moving backward.    If you are not doing your absolute best and withholding your best work, you are only prolonging your present situation and are dooming yourself to a life of mediocrity (for your abilities) or, at worst, failure.    Resist the urge to do only what is expected of you.  Give all you can to everything you do and you will succeed.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    In every job, there is always much more to do than what is actually expected of you; by dong more than expected, you will attract the attention and respect of your superiors and find your life improving. When you withhold your best work, however, you only prolong your current situation and confine yourself to mediocrity. Put everything you can into all of your work, resist the urge to only put in the expected effort, and you will find your life and career approving accordingly.</p>
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		<title>You Must Have the Home Team Advantage</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 05:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this article Harrison discusses the importance of making good decisions pertaining to different important areas of your life. To explain his point he talks about the concept of ‘home team advantage’. The home team advantage is one of the most important concepts in sports and it is a proven factor in how well teams do. There are people who support us, validate us and make us feel good, and this helps us do well. There are also people around us who fail to support us, and this hurts us. Your success in your career and in your life will in large part be determined by whether you are living, working and associating with a “home team” crowd or an “away team” crowd. The best thing you can do for yourself is to put yourself in a position where you are supported, where you have the home team advantage.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the most interesting things to me is witnessing people when they make a complete reversal in their lives and overnight become incredibly successful, happy, and fulfilled people. Perhaps the reason this is so fascinating is that it happens so rarely. When this does happen, more often than not, the major life change is related to a career, location, mate, or some other important aspect of the person&#8217;s life. This is why, I believe, that making good decisions pertaining to these different areas of your life is among the most important determinants of your happiness on earth.   <span id="more-5169"></span>   By the time most people are around 25 years old, it seems the person they are going to be, their level of happiness, and their level of predictable success has been pretty well set. It is as if the person has been <em>calcified</em> to some extent and will go on living the life you would expect of them. Even by the age of 18 or so, most people are already calcified. This calcification does not necessarily mean that the person will never change&#8211;but, for the most part, it means that the person will be pretty set in his or her ways. The sorts of achievement the person aspires to, the risks the person takes with regard to careers, what the person expects out of relationships, what the person gives to others, how hard the person is willing to work and more, are all pretty much set. If you were to examine someone at the age of 25 and do an in-depth profile, my guess is that you would get a pretty clear picture of what the person&#8217;s life would look like twenty years or so from now.    My twentieth high school reunion happened recently. Unfortunately, I did not attend because I did not learn about it until a few days before its occurrence; I live in California, and the school is in Michigan. In hearing from an old buddy about what my high school classmates were up to, there were very few surprises at all. In fact, I cannot think of a single surprise in terms of the level of success or chosen life path of any of my old classmates. I had not known many of these people since I was around 18, but they all pretty much ended up like I would have expected back in high school. <em>T</em><em>he biggest shock to me is that certain people did not amount to as much as I had expected: it was never the case that a person amounted to more than I expected.</em>    Have you ever questioned why certain people did not amount to more? To me, this question raises numerous other questions. What is it that holds back someone of tremendous potential and achievement from reaching all that they are truly capable of? What is it that kicks in and calcifies a person&#8217;s potential, or lack thereof?    I am sure there are some people you know who seem to have problems all of the time: Things go wrong for the person wherever they go. They get in auto accidents; they accidentally break things; they have all sorts of health problems; they make stupid mistakes and get fired from jobs; people around them have all sorts of issues as well. I have known many people like this.
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<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always getting sick?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always having accidents?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always getting in trouble?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always in crisis?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always having financial problems?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always losing their jobs?</li>
<li>Have you ever known someone whose friends and acquaintances are always unhappy?</li>
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<p>  I have, and I do not think there are a lot of coincidences when it comes to people and the misfortunes that plague their lives. There are, quite simply, people who will generally make those around them unhappy and create problems.    While it seems to be a paranoid sort of assertion, I firmly believe that whether or not the people around us are validating or invalidating us is a large cause of our success or failure in life. This also goes for organizations. If you are in a good or bad organization, this can have a tremendous influence over what happens to you. One of my greatest sources of pride is the number of positive stories I could tell you about my former employees. Good things have happened to many of them in their careers after being with me for some time. The fact that good things happen to people associated with a given organization or person reflects well on that organization or person. Conversely, I know of <strong><a title="Law Firm Staff" href="http://www.lawfirmstaff.com/" target="_blank">law firms</a></strong> in which nothing much ever happens for the people who leave, and, in most cases, they experience one failure after another following their departure. Much of this has to do, I think, with the level of support the people may have received in their previous positions and the messages they have carried forth into their lives by virtue of this association.
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<li>Did they learn to believe in what is possible?</li>
<li>Did they feel validated?</li>
<li>Did they develop confidence?</li>
<li>Were they able to learn and incorporate a message about their own validity in the world?</li>
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<p>  If you are spending time with a person who is invalidating your efforts and your life, the odds are you will be negatively affected. Similarly, if you are around someone who is constantly validating you and giving you approval, you may benefit tremendously through your association with this person. The same thing goes for the organizations that we are part of. There are people out there who tend to better the mood, health, and general well-being of those around them, and there are those who do not. I am going to list a few examples of this; some of them may be upsetting and may even relate to you personally, but nonetheless they merit review.    I have known of many people throughout the years who were closely connected with someone, whether it be a parent, mate, or someone else. The person they were connected with had a huge fear of the person leaving them, and therefore their personal interest was in keeping the person down, making sure that the person did not improve, or change, to such an extent that they could ever leave them. A parent who does not want his or her child to go away from home may feign all sorts of illnesses to keep the child around and may also discourage any of the child&#8217;s efforts at self-improvement. For example, if the child gets into an excellent out-of-state college, the parent may encourage the child to stay home and go to a local community college, for various reasons, instead of finding a way to make the child&#8217;s upward mobility to a better school a reality. A parent who has the need to feel superior to his or her child may also keep the child down in subtle ways.    In personal relationships, a man or woman may discourage a mate from trying to <strong><a title="Get Better Job" href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">get a better job</a></strong>, looking better, and so forth, for fear that this might lead to separation and abandonment. This person might relay negative feedback about his or her partner&#8217;s accomplishments but hold back positive feedback or information that is likely to be helpful.    The objective of such people is to keep other people down. People can hold you back by direct means, and they can also do so through indirect means. For example, a friend or significant other who does not compliment or notice the positive things that you do, or who always finds fault in the positive things that you do, can have a very traumatic effect on you in the long run. Making you self-conscious of your faults and always pointing these out can also be a seriously negative influence. Relating about nothing other than negativity, impossibility, and so forth can also have a very negative effect on you. If any of this sounds familiar to you, it is probably time to evaluate your relationships.    In most sports, there is something called the <em>home team advantage</em>, which means that when a team is playing at home, it tends to perform much better than when they play away. When a team is at home, it is encouraged and cheered on by people, and is supported by the spectators, whereas visiting teams are often booed. Consider this explanation from Wikipedia:<br />
<blockquote>In most team sports where the concept of home and away stadiums is found, the home team is considered to have a significant advantage over the visitors. Due to this, many important games (such as playoff or elimination matches) in many sports have special rules for determining what match is played where. In association football, matches with two legs, one played in each team&#8217;s &#8220;home,&#8221; are common; it is also common to hold important games at a neutral site. In many team sports in North America (including baseball, basketball, and ice hockey), playoff series are often held, with a nearly equal number of games at each team&#8217;s site; as it is usually beneficial to have an odd number of matches in a series (to prevent ties), the final home game is often awarded to the team that had the most success over the regular season. In some sports, this tends to be a huge ace in the hole, such as basketball, where historically the home team in deciding games has won 78 of 97 games, up until the second round of the 2007 NBA Playoffs.    Home field advantage is especially pronounced in NCAA Division I American football, where teams like LSU, USC, Ohio State, Penn State, Florida, Texas, Oklahoma, Georgia, and many others win consistently at home. Many college football stadiums also have nicknames that represent the loudness of the stadium. Autzen Stadium, home of the Oregon Ducks, has been nicknamed the &#8220;Autzen Zoo&#8221; because of how loud it gets, and Kyle Field, the home of the Texas A&amp;M Aggies has been nicknamed the &#8220;12th Man&#8221; because of the loudness there. That can be attributed to the fact that many of the largest football stadiums in America are college stadiums, such as Michigan Stadium, which seats 107,501, about 35,000 more than most NFL stadiums. However, teams that are nearby may have less of a home field advantage. Such examples may be UCLA-USC or Cal-Stanford, where the visiting team&#8217;s fans often equal or exceed the home crowd and the only effect the visiting team has is they have to wear their road uniforms and play on a nearby field. Sometimes during bowl season, a team will happen to play a bowl game in their home stadium and sometimes be designated as the visiting team in their own home stadium, and thus, receives the home field advantage despite not being the home team. On the high school level, where schools often share stadiums, when the co-tenants play each other, one school manages to pick up a not so rare, but advantageous road game in their home stadium. On the professional level, several teams either get to play road games in their home stadiums or play a road game nearby. When the Jets and the Giants of the NFL meet, whoever the visiting team is gets an extra game at their home stadium. A similar situation occurs when the Lakers and Clippers of the NBA play each other. Other series where teams get to stay close to home on the road include: (NFL) Raiders-49ers, Ravens-Redskins (MLB) A&#8217;s-Giants, Dodgers-Angels, Mets-Yankees, Cubs-White Sox, Cubs-Brewers, Orioles-Nationals (NHL) Islanders-Rangers-Devils, Ducks-Kings, Oilers-Flames, Senators-Maple Leafs, Canadians-Senators, and in the NBA, Knicks-Nets, Kings-Warriors and Lakers-Clippers. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Home_advantage">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Home_advantage</a></p></blockquote>
<p>  The home team advantage is one of the most important concepts in sports and it is a proven factor in how well teams do. If this concept applies to teams, how do you think it can apply to everyday life? There are people who support us, validate us, and make us feel good, and this helps us do well more often than not. There are also people around us who fail to support us, and this hurts us. When a team away from home scores a goal, people boo or do not make the team feel validated for its efforts. When the team away from home does something wrong, people may cheer. The psychological message transmitted is that people only approve of the team away from home when they are doing poorly.    Many people associate with people and groups of people who treat them like they <em>are not</em> the home team; others associate with people who treat them like they <em>are</em> the home team. Your success in your career and in your life will in large part be determined by whether you are living, working, and associating with a &#8220;home team&#8221; crowd or an &#8220;away team&#8221; crowd.    When I was in high school geometry class, after the first exam, our teacher drew a giant circle on the blackboard, representing the shape of a horse-racing track. He then put little dots in several places along the track and said something that I will never forget:<br />
<blockquote><em>&#8220;This is where you all started in the race, but everyone&#8217;s position can change. Some of you will pass one another at some point, and the person who is in first right now may not keep running and may end up in last place. Conversely, the person who is in last may keep running, training, and trying to do better and may end up in first place. You need to realize that the race for the best grade will take all semester, and just because you are one place right now, this does not mean it is where you will end up.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
<p>  This is a really simple example and the teacher was talking only about our geometry class at the time; however, it is a metaphor that stands true for our lives. People begin the race in a certain place, and then some people end up doing much better than others, and this is just how it works. The race keeps going and just because someone starts the race in first place does not mean he or she is going to finish the race in first place.    When you trace the cause of someone with a lot of potential falling behind in the race, when you see sickness and ill health, when you find people not trying hard enough, when you see failure and despair, generally somewhere along the line you will find someone who has been negatively affected and otherwise discouraged by people somewhere along the way. It is an absolute fact of life that the company you keep will have an effect on what happens to you.    In athletics, it is common for some players to be extremely good at a sport despite not being tall enough (in basketball), big enough (in football), and so forth. What generally separates these players who do not have all the physical attributes of success is the sheer determination and self-belief inside of them. Having heart and drive can make all the difference. Heart and drive are what push people to the top of any profession and any job. If you are going to reach your full potential, you must possess <em>heart</em> and <em>drive</em>. This is something that wins races, despite any uncontrollable obstacles that may arise.    Heart and drive can be killed, though, if they are not supported. The best thing you can do for yourself is to put yourself in a position where you are supported, where you have the home team advantage. <em>Having the home team advantage is something that can help you win in the game of life.</em></p>
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		<title>Have Trust in Others and Be Ready to Seize Opportunity However it Presents Itself</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Sep 2011 05:01:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Trust people, and take advantage of opportunities however and wherever they present themselves; these are the two greatest skills that anyone can possess. You must have faith and trust in your employer when taking a job, and recognize that opportunities will frequently present themselves in strange ways. Every risk has a corresponding potential reward, and you generally will only succeed if you are taking risks to get to those awards. Have faith in others and take as many risks as you can, because greater risks tend to offer greater rewards. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trusting people and being ready to take advantage of opportunity when it presents itself are two of the greatest skills anyone can have.  My life has been enriched in so many ways by often trusting people I should not have and by being aware of opportunities.  I have always been eager to trust people who do not appear to be trustworthy, because I know that in the act of trusting them I can allow them to see themselves as better people.  It also feels good to show people that you trust them.  Fundamentally, I have a belief that deep down all people <span id="more-1567"></span>  are good.  There are also a ton of people out there who society judges to be evil and unworthy of help.  Many of these people are good as well.  One of the biggest challenges many of us have is realizing that deep down people are in fact good.    When you are taking a job, any job, you have to have faith and trust in your employer.  You also have to trust yourself that you have the ability to do the job. The employer may tell you that they are <a href="http://www.planningcrossing.com/" target="_blank">planning</a> on this, or planning on that.  You should trust them.  Regardless of where you are working, you are putting your trust in an enterprise and the people within it.  This is something that is extremely important and that will serve you well if you are in the right organization.    The opposite is most often the case, however.  Most people do not trust their employers and, consequently, they paint themselves into a hole.    Several years ago I came out of work to discover that a car had backed into my car and severely dented the back fender.  The person who had hit the car was nice enough to leave a note.    The note read something like:    I&#8217;M AT FAULT!  I WAS GOING TOO FAST!!    BIG BUMMER!    : (  PLEASE CALL ME AND I WILL FIX IT!    A few days later I called the number the person had also left. The person was really chilled out and told me how they did not look where they were going and were &#8220;spaced out&#8221; when backing up.  It took them like 10 minutes to relate how they did not look where they were going, should have adjusted their rear view mirror, felt horrible about it and how work was &#8220;stressful&#8221; that day because their boss was &#8221;schizo&#8221; due to some issues with some bad laser eye surgery.  They then told me to go and get a few estimates before seeing whether or not they wanted to report it to their <a href="http://www.insurcrossing.com/lcjssearchresults.php?d=1548&amp;pgr=20&amp;pgn=1&amp;kwt=insurance%20company&amp;kwd=insurance%20company&amp;lqc=United%20States" target="_blank">insurance company</a>.  The first estimate I received was for around $5,000.  The next estimate was for around $5,500.  I called the person and they were understandably disappointed.    &#8220;I guess I&#8217;ll just report it to my insurance company then!&#8221; they told me.    A few days later I was in a shop suggested by the insurance company.  The insurance company called me after the estimate and told me that they had determined there was about $5,000 in damage and would be sending me a check which I could do whatever I wanted with.  The check duly arrived and I started to spend it on things other than the car.    At the time I was living in a house that was no more than 500 square feet in Hollywood Hills.  It was a house that was originally built by a child star Ricky Nelson because he was so popular and girls had been crawling into his parent&#8217;s home in Beverly Hills.  His agents had determined that having a house literally perched on the side of a cliff with no windows facing the street would make this impossible in the future and give him the peace and quiet he wanted.  (Ironically, Ricky Nelson would die in a private airplane crash years later and it was rumored he had set the plane on fire while smoking cocaine.).  The house had incredible views of the City of Los Angeles. The only part of the house that was physically touching the ground was the front door and the rest of it was on stilts.  When I had purchased it I had saved about $35,000 because I had the luck of having an <a href="http://www.insurcrossing.com/lcjssearchresults.php?kid=4943&amp;kwt=Inspector" target="_blank">inspector</a> who was insane.  He may have been senile, I am not sure.  I am sure he was at least in his late 70s.    &#8220;My god!  This thing is going down it is not secure!! It also has gas lines going into it.  One small earthquake and it is all over.  It will fall off the cliff and explode!&#8221;    Both the current owner and I were scared out of our pants by the inspector.  Even though I did not have the same issues that made the house so attractive to Ricky Nelson, I was in love with the little house because it was what I could afford.  I was not at all concerned about this.  I figured that if the house really did detach I would have a very easy time making it out the front door before it rolled down the cliff.    I had found him in the Yellow pages and did not even realize what a blessing it would be. I used him on another house a few years later and realized he was insane. I purchased a house that had been owned by a professor from CalTech.  He tried the same thing and got called out on the entire situation and this was quite embarrassing for me and the inspector.  I think he used the word &#8220;liquefaction&#8221; which did not go over well with a world famous <a href="http://www.scientistcrossing.com/video/7071/Geologist-Job" target="_blank">geologist</a>.  A few weeks later the inspector sent me a letter saying he was retiring.  In this particular instance, however, it actually worked wonders.    &#8220;What if I take $35,000 off and throw in the big screen television?&#8221; the owner asked me.  The owner was a developer who was not really that concerned about the house.  The big screen television was huge.  It looked like it was from the 1970&#8242;s.  He could have offered me just this and I would have accepted the offer.  But that and $35,000 was too much to pass up.    &#8220;Sure, I&#8217;ll still buy it,&#8221; I told him.  &#8220;I just hope there&#8217;s not an earthquake.&#8221;    The house must have been directly over a fault line because at least a couple of times a month it would start shaking for no apparent reason, but it never fell off the cliff.   One of my neighbor&#8217;s homes did, however.  When I moved into the house in December of 1997 there was a rain storm that seemed to last two straight weeks. One rainy Saturday afternoon I was sitting in the house and I heard a bunch of helicopters and sirens.  I turned on the news and learned that one of my neighbors homes had fallen right off the cliff.  It also made the national news that evening.  There was still an abandoned lot there a couple of years ago when I drove by.    My girlfriend at the time was working at home and it tended to get pretty loud listening to her type away and talk to clients.  The home had a small driveway and I figured the best thing I could do for her was to build her a little office on the driveway.  I went to a local paint store where I met a guy named &#8220;Carlos.&#8221; I brought him over to the house.  He had been standing in front of the paint store looking for work.  I hired Carlos because he had a truck and most of the guys had paint on them. I did not want them riding in my damaged Porsche with paint all over them.  When I got back to the house, Carlos explained to me that he was a painter and was not too experienced with building offices on driveways.  I told him that sounded good to me and I could probably save some money then.  We negotiated a rate for his work and then I took Carlos to Home Depot and we bought a bunch of stuff for the job.    Over the next week or so I had Carlos build a box on the driveway that doubled as an office.  Normally, it would have been cheaper to put a ready-made shed there but there were severe space limitations which is the reason for the small box.  It was the most amateur piece of construction imaginable. It had windows going sideways, a roof made of tin, was painted crudely and more.  What&#8217;s worse, I spent money on ridiculous things like special lighting, little paintings to go in the office and a sunroof!.  The office was not more than 5&#215;5.  My girlfriend told me that I had built her &#8220;a box on the driveway.&#8221;  At one point I realized that the office I had built her actually had a smaller footprint than my big screen television.  The thing was that it worked.  Moreover, <em>it was on the driveway</em>.  Since she worked so much we agreed that in the event the house fell off the cliff as our neighbor&#8217;s home had, she would be perfectly safe.    I am sure I found other uses for the money from the accident as well. Within a few weeks, however, I had spent all of my insurance money destined for the repair of my beloved Porsche.  I was very disappointed in myself.  I had accomplished something of significance, though, I put my girlfriend on the driveway and freed up over the half the house.  It was probably a little dangerous putting her there but I figured she would be okay.    The first night I moved into the house I heard someone pounding on my door at around 7:00 am.  There had been a lot of loud noise outside for several minutes before the pounding began.  I opened the door and a girl with an incredible amount of facial piercings looked at me directly in the eye and said &#8220;I&#8217;m seriously fucked the fuck up.&#8221;  She appeared to be swaying on her feet. She was dressed in a jean jacket with patches from various rock bands on it.  Her eyes were half closed as she spoke.    I was very calm.  &#8220;I see that,&#8221; I said calmly.  &#8220;I will be right back.&#8221;  Very slowly I closed the door and ever so lightly locked it and walked towards the phone inside the house.    I called 911.  I was one of the few people who had a cell phone in 1997.  I had originally started using one in 1990 when I was doing asphalt work.  Back then it used to cost like $500 a month to use one.  It was expensive.  I liked having one back then because no one had one and I had one for several years at that point.  I stopped using one in 2000 when everyone started talking on them everywhere.  Now I prefer not having a cell phone.  That day I had to use a cell phone to call 911.    I spent the first couple minutes of the call explaining to the operator that I was calling from a cell phone and that was why the number I was calling from was Michigan (where I got the cell phone).  (If you have ever called 911 in Los Angeles it is really something.  A recording comes on and tells you &#8220;Your call is important to us! We will be with you in just a minute! We&#8217;re currently serving another caller and will be with you in just a moment!&#8221; &#8221; The recording then proceeds to play happy music like little ballerinas or something are dancing in the background.)    A friend of mine, Eric, who was from Scotland had recently moved to the United States and was staying with my girlfriend and I.  Eric had purchased a brand new little BMW convertible when he got here that I think I may have co-signed for it since he did not have any credit in the United States.  The first night he had the car someone took a knife and cut the top off and carved up the paint to destroy the car.  He was living in Venice at the time.  It was really an outrageous thing to do to the car. I felt really sorry for the guy.  He had gone to Harvard <a href="http://www.lawschoolloans.com/" target="_blank">Law School</a> and never had any money. The first thing he ever purchased for himself ended up getting destroyed.  He had a huge deductible on his insurance and did not get the car fixed for over 18 months.    Eric&#8217;s father was from Africa and had very white skin. He did not look black at all.    &#8220;This attack was racially motivated,&#8221; he told me.  At that point I did not even realize that his father was from Africa because he did not look the least bit black.  He started wearing lots of African clothes and stuff after the attack and had become very sensitive to any perceived racial slight.    &#8220;They are messing with my car again!!&#8221; Eric shouted when he heard the girl banging on the door.  He got up ready to fight for racial justice.    &#8220;Do not go out there!&#8221; It is just a messed up girl, I told him.    Less than 3 minutes after I got done arguing with the 911 operator there were at least 5 or 6 police cars in front of my house. I walked outside in my bathrobe to explain to them what was going on and several of the police drew their guns and told me to put my face down on the ground. I was not sure what was going on.    &#8220;Don&#8217;t you move pal!!&#8221; a police officer started screaming at me as he was frisking me in my bathrobe.  I was lying face down in the street.  I cannot imagine what my new neighbors must have been thinking.    Eventually, the entire situation worked itself out.  A woman showed up who was a &#8220;rape counselor&#8221; who looked very concerned for a few minutes and rushed towards the girl with a blanket.  About 5 minutes into the intervention the rape counselor suddenly because very emotionally unavailable and walked away in disgust.  Apparently, they thought the girl had been raped.  Instead, she was just on some pretty powerful drugs.    This was my first taste of living in the Hollywood Hills. It was my first night.  Over the next year or so I would have many incredible experiences that would culminate in the sale of the house 18 months later.  We would find needles and syringes on the street while walking our dog.  On another occasion my girlfriend and I were getting in the car to go out to dinner and a couple of men in their 30&#8242;s, who looked like bikers, walked by our house without shirts on, in dirty jeans, carrying baseball bats.  When my next door neighbor was getting ready to move he put his house on the market and we went and toured it.  He was a journalist from Germany.  Left out in the open in a small walk in closet was an industrial size package of latex gloves with 4 or 5 large bottles of Astro Glide next to it.  I cannot even imagine what was going on.  When I sold the house I sold it to an 19 year old kid who was a famous actor; he purchased it for his 30 year old boyfriend.    One day I was at a bank in the Hollywood Hills area taking out some money and there was a man sitting in the parking lot in a late model, blue GM pick up truck with his wife. In the rear window of the pick up truck he had curtains which looked Indian.  He was looking at the severe damage to my Porsche outside the window of his truck.  Next to him was his wife, who was very large and looked pretty mysterious.  The man had skin which appeared to have suffered an incredible amount of sun damage throughout the years.  You could not see much of his skin, however, because he had a ton of facial hair.    &#8220;I can fix that massive dent you have in your car in 15 minutes,&#8221; he told me learning out the window as I walked back from the ATM to the car.    &#8220;Really, how would you do that?&#8221; I asked.    The man started telling me how he and his ancestors were from Romania and had traveled throughout Europe as skilled metal workers for hundreds of years.  He said that since he had been a young boy he had been a &#8220;miracle worker&#8221; with shaping metal and could fix anything.  In between talking with me he would speak back and forth to his wife in some strange mother tongue I had never heard anyone speak before.    I had spent the $5,000 from the insurance company and wanted to get my Porsche fixed.  It was my prized possession.  I also knew that this might be the only chance I had to get it fixed.    &#8220;How much will you charge?&#8221; I asked the man.    &#8220;No more than what you just took out of that machine,&#8221; he said smiling and picking his teeth with a toothpick.    I love people who take advantage of opportunity wherever it presents itself.  This man was a hustler but sometimes you can really benefit from being a hustler.  If you can make a couple of hundred dollars doing nothing then all the power to you.  Since I had spent a good portion of my life knocking on doors asking people if they wanted asphalt work, I knew how to hustle.  I was enjoying meeting this man.  Far too few people out there are always on the look out for opportunity.  You need to be on the look out for every potential opportunity that presents itself to you.  Just as this man was on the look out for opportunity, so too was I.    &#8220;How about $200?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;I took out $300 but need to take my wife out for dinner tonight.  I can only take out $300 a day and my credit cards are maxed out.&#8221;    &#8220;Sure friend,&#8221; the man said.    He wanted to follow me back to my house because he said it was not good for him to be working in public.  I did not ask a lot of questions.  The man did not look all that trustworthy.  I have lived in Europe before and this man reminded me of the Gypsies I had gotten to know a bit while living in Spain. Come to think of it, it occurred to me while I was driving back to my house, this man and his wife were most likely Gypsies.    When we got back to my house, the man reached into the bed of his pick up truck and grabbed a brick.  He started rounding the edge of the brick by scraping it along the street. I had no idea what was going on.    &#8220;Are you sure you know what you are doing?&#8221; I asked him.    &#8220;Yes, I am a master metal smith &#8230;&#8221; he said.    Within a few minutes he had shaped the brick and was now busy pounding away at the car with a hammer and had the brick positioned behind the metal.  A couple of doors down I saw one of my neighbors come out of his house and start walking towards me.  This neighbor of mine was pretty funny.  He was a guy with a beard in his mid-50s who lived in a house similar to mine, but which was perched over a ravine and not a cliff.  He was someone who did some sort of work for the music industry that involved him sitting in front of a bunch of equalizers he had set up in his living room (all over his entire living room) and mixing music into television shows.  He was also about 350 pounds and had a massive beard.  As far as I could tell, he smoked pot constantly.  He would walk his dog down the street at 8:00 am smoking a joint.  He was a really nice guy.  A few months previously he had taken an illegal trip to Cuba (it was illegal for Americans to go there at the time) as a vacation.  Since he had returned he had decided that he had some sort of solidarity with Fidel Castro and the Cuban people.  So he wore these military green t-shirts constantly.    He walked up to me and my car.    &#8220;What the hell are you doing?&#8221; he asked as he watched the man pounding away at the car.    &#8220;I&#8217;m getting my car fixed,&#8221; I told him proudly.  There was also a touch of humor to my voice since the situation looked so strange.    &#8220;Are you out of your mind?  That is an expensive, exotic car.  This guy is a Gypsy.  He has no idea what he is doing.&#8221;  He looked upset.    As I looked at the car the dent had actually almost magically disappeared.  In fact, with a little paint it would probably be as good as new.  I could not believe my eyes.  He had been working on the car for only a few minutes.  Maybe he really did have a magical touch.    &#8220;You better get out here,&#8221; the man said to the guy working on my car. &#8220;You have no business taking advantage of this kid!&#8221;    What happened over the next few minutes was all a blur.  The two men started arguing and they were screaming at each other for several minutes.  My fat neighbor was telling the guy who had been working on my car that he was going to call the police.  They were starting to scream at each other so loud several neighbors had gathered on the street.  It was sort of a comical thing until the wife of the Romanian man got involved.    At some point she had gotten out of the truck and came running towards my neighbor.  She ran towards him and threw the contents of a pouch at him which appeared to be some sort of dust.  My neighbor looked astonished and the argument stopped.    &#8220;GOD WILL STRIKE YOU DOWN!!&#8221; she screamed at him.  She then fell to her knees in the middle of the street and started screaming &#8220;GOD STRIKE THIS EVIL MAN DOWN!! STRIKE HIM DOWN!!!&#8221;  She them started mumbling and rocking back and forth, and side to side with her eyes closed while screaming in whatever language she was speaking.    My neighbor looked a little frightened but was smiling.    &#8220;I guess you&#8217;re on your own!&#8221; he said to me and began walking back to his house.  Both the man and his wife were now screaming at him in their native language.  Within a few minutes they had gotten into their truck and taken off.  I think they were worried they might be about to be imprisoned.    Strangely enough, a few weeks later I heard that my neighbor ended up in the hospital.  I never saw him again because I moved out of the neighborhood a short time later.  I never found out what happened to him.    After I had gotten my center back and my neighbors had all gone back to their homes, I went out and looked at the car.  While it needed some paint where the work had been done, the dent looked entirely gone.  The next week I took the car around to the shops I had taken it to initially and I was amazed.  None of the estimates to complete the repair on my car were more than $350.  It just required simply some sanding and paint.  It was as if a miracle had been worked by the man who I met in the parking lot.    I ended up <a href="http://www.hound.com" target="_blank">getting a job</a> that should have cost $5000 done for about one tenth that, and it turned out fantastically well.  None of this would have happened if I had not been willing to trust someone and take advantage of an opportunity when it presented itself.  So many of us are afraid to trust others and cannot take advantage of opportunity when it presents itself.  You need to be ready for opportunity when it appears, and trust others.  This is one of the most important skills anyone can have.    I have spoken to the early employees of Google before.  Some of the earliest employees reported it as a company with no business model for making money and zero revenue.  It was disorganized and had leaders with zero management experience.  But they trusted the company and ended up very, very rich.  The same thing with Ebay and other great companies.  Someone out of a patrician background looking for a stable company where they would be guaranteed a certain salary and have a massive level of stability would never have accepted one of these jobs.  People did, and it paid off for them.    Opportunity presents itself in strange ways.  Generally, if there is a risk, there is going to be a reward to compensate for this.  Every risk we take has a potential reward at the other side.  Generally, the greater the risk you take, the greater the reward.  Here, I made $4500 from taking a risk.  I also took a risk when I purchased the house on a cliff.  It was actually &#8220;ok&#8221; I found out later and I made over $70,000 when I sold it 18 months later.  For someone my age, that was an incredible amount of money&#8211;especially since it was tax free.  I took the risk of potential death and also destroying my prized car, but my risks ultimately paid off.    So too is it with your life. You will generally only get ahead if you are taking risks.  The greater the risk the greater the reward.  I grew up in a city called Grosse Pointe, Michigan.  The way most of the city is organized is that there are streets that run from Lake St. Clair and directly away from it.  The farther away you get from the lake, the smaller and closer together the homes get, until eventually the homes are less than 1,000 square feet.   On the lake, the houses might be up to 20,000 square feet a have yards that are several acres large.  The goal of most people in Grosse Pointe was always to live on the lake.  When I was around 18, I started an asphalt business where I would do work for people in the small houses and also in the largest homes.  One thing I quickly noticed that was unmistakable was that the people in the giant mansions overlooking the Lake had always taken huge risks with their careers.  They had done things like stake their life savings on buying a piece of land that they later turned into a cemetery, and then had taken risks like this again and again.  A block or so from the Lake you might find successful doctors or lawyers.  The farther away from the Lake you got, the less risk peoples&#8217; jobs would have.  When you got really far away, you would see people living in the smallest homes, having very predictable jobs, like working as janitors in the Post Office.    None of this is to say it is bad to be a janitor.  My point to you is that the more risk you are able to tolerate, and the more faith you are able to have when taking risks, the greater results you will have in your career.  You need to be very aware that in the end you will have to take some risks and trust in the outcome in order to succeed at the highest level possible.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    Trust people, and take advantage of opportunities however and wherever they present themselves; these are the two greatest skills that anyone can possess. You must have faith and trust in your employer when taking a job, and recognize that opportunities will frequently present themselves in strange ways. Every risk has a corresponding potential reward, and you generally will only succeed if you are taking risks to get to those awards. Have faith in others and take as many risks as you can, because greater risks tend to offer greater rewards.</p>
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		<title>The Power of Perceptions</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Perceptions matter more than facts; others’ perceptions of you, your perceptions of others, and how you control both are the most important aspects of your career. Realize the power of perceptions in your life and use them to your advantage. Aim to control and shape the perceptions that others hold about you by shaping the image that you project to the world. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In 1991 I purchased a four-year old Audi 5000 automobile for $2,500. When the car was new, it had been listed at $40,000. It was really beautiful inside. It had all sorts of electronic controls, powered everything, and it drove incredibly well. In fact, I can honestly say that the Audi 5000 was one of the nicest cars I have ever owned. In the entire time I owned the car, I had very few problems with it. The car was very comfortable in all respects and it cost me less than a much older, cheap compact car would have. As <span id="more-3467"></span>  far as I was concerned, I had gotten the most fantastic deal imaginable.    I drove the car for a decent amount of time and was always a little upset that I sold it. The car was very well made and one of the main reasons I was driving it was because I did not care what other people thought.    You may be asking yourself how anyone could purchase such a great car for such a cheap price. It made a lot of sense at the time, since no one wanted to own an Audi 5000, which was considered &#8220;unsafe&#8221; and extremely dangerous by &#8220;everyone&#8221; due to a <em>60 Minutes </em>episode called &#8220;Out of Control&#8221; which aired in 1986. Since that episode of <em>60 Minutes</em> was broadcast, almost overnight the resale value of the Audi 5000 had been destroyed, and everyone was trying to unload these as quickly as they could. Anybody who wanted to could go out and purchase an Audi 5000 that was a few years old for pennies on the dollar.    &#8220;Out of Control&#8221; was all about complaints of &#8220;unintended acceleration&#8221; of the Audi 5000 car. The show featured a distraught mother, Kristi Bradosky, who had run over her six year old son when the car had allegedly lurched forward in her garage without warning. On Monday, December 18, 1989, the <em>Wall Street Journal</em> ran a story concerning the scare that had been generated by the <em>60 Minutes</em> episode:<br />
<blockquote>If you&#8217;re the kind of driver who sometimes has trouble finding the brakes in your car, you should be driving an Audi. Last month, in 35mph crash tests of an airbag-equipped Audi 100, the mannequin in the driver&#8217;s seat suffered the lowest crash force ever recorded by the National Highway and Traffic Safety Administration, NHTSA, in this kind of test.    And yet, according to the Center for Auto Safety&#8211;a self styled public interest organization that sells its research to plaintiffs&#8217; lawyers&#8211;the Audi 100&#8242;s predecessor, the Audi 5000, was as deadly as the Audi 100 is safe. It exhibited &#8220;sudden acceleration,&#8221; a fatal propensity to take off at full speed even as the terrified driver rammed the brake pedal to the floor.    CBS&#8217;s <em>60 Minutes</em> ran a devastating exposé of the Audi 5000. Audi customers fled. Lawyers cashed in. The American public was saved, yet again, from the perils of technology gone awry. Only one little noticed footnote remains at the end: There was nothing wrong with the car.    The Audi story is by now, dismally familiar. &#8220;Sudden acceleration&#8221; accidents occurred when the transmission was shifted out of &#8220;park.&#8221; The driver always insisted he was standing on the brake, but after the crash the brakes always worked perfectly. A disproportionate number of accidents involved drivers new to the vehicle. When an idiot-proof shift was installed so that a driver could not shift out of park if his foot was on the accelerator, reports of sudden acceleration plummeted.    But a story to the effect that cars accelerate when drivers step on the accelerator doesn&#8217;t boost television ratings or jury verdicts. And driver error is understandably hard to accept for a mother whose errant foot killed her six year old son. So with the help of such mothers, CAS and CBS knitted together a tissue of conjecture, insinuation, and calumny. The car&#8217;s cruise control was at fault. Or maybe the electronic idle. Or perhaps the transmission.    <em>60 Minutes</em>, in one of journalism&#8217;s most shameful hours, gave air time in November 1986 to a self styled expert who drilled a hole in an Audi transmission and pumped in air at high pressure. Viewers didn&#8217;t see the drill or the pump—just the doctored car blasting off like a rocket.    Junk science of this kind moves fast. Real science takes time to catch up with this kind of intellectual cockroach and squash it. Government agencies in Japan and Canada, as well as in the US, conducted painstaking studies. The Canadians who are franker about such things, called it &#8220;driver error.&#8221; In America, where we can&#8217;t attach blame to anyone whose name doesn&#8217;t end with Inc., it was called &#8220;pedal misapplication.&#8221; And unsurprisingly, it&#8217;s not just Audi drivers who commit it.    So, in the long run, the truth does come out. In the short run, the lawyers swoop in. Most soon recognized that they couldn&#8217;t prove any defect in the Audi&#8217;s engine or transmission. But our liability system today is a master of the bait and switch—the switch was to &#8220;pedal misdesign.&#8221;    No doubt about it, the original Audi like other European cars, placed brake and accelerator pedals slightly closer together than is usual in many American designs. This allows the good driver to move faster between the pedals in highspeed emergency. Perhaps it also makes it easier for the bad driver to mix up the pedals. Nobody, including NHTSA, is quite sure whether, overall, the old Audi pedal placement was marginally better or marginally worse. End of case? Hardly. With Audi shellshocked and vulnerable from the earlier junk engineering claims, the pedal placement lawyers moved in.    The <em>60 Minutes</em> story starred a mother who had run over her six year old son. On the air, she insisted that she had had her foot on the brake the whole time. When her $48 million claim came to court in Akron, Ohio, in June 1988 the investigating police officer and witnesses at the scene testified that after the accident the distraught mother had admitted that her foot had slipped off the brake. The jury found no defect in the car.    Trial judges in New Jersey and New York have overturned bad pedal design verdicts against Audi. Last July a federal court in Pennsylvania issued a summary judgment for Audi. And that should have been the end of Audi&#8217;s legal troubles.    Except that it wasn&#8217;t. An appellate court reinstated the New Jersey verdict: an appeal is pending. The New York case was settled before retrial. A California jury returned a $3.5 million verdict against Audi on a pedal placement theory, after the plaintiff&#8217;s lawyers abandoned a sudden acceleration claim. Another appeal is pending. Today, Audi is reportedly defending itself in more than 140 different suits, and damage claims are in excess of $5 billion. Not that the aggregate claims have the slightest connection with reality, of course. At one point, a single demented plaintiff in New York filed identical $5 billion claims in both federal and state courts; both have since been thrown out.    How about the US government safety report? In July, 1989, shortly after the report was released, Audi ran a hopeful advertisement titled &#8220;Case Closed.&#8221; &#8220;The case is not closed,&#8221; responded Robert Lisco, a Chicago plaintiffs&#8217; attorney. &#8220;Those guys must be smoking something.&#8221; <em>60 Minutes</em> never even acknowledged the final US findings, although it did grudgingly note identical conclusions of an earlier, blue-ribbon study, and then proceeded to rebroadcast inflammatory videos from the earlier segment. CAS denounced the government study and cheerfully cranked up yet another sudden acceleration smear, this one against Cadillacs. Lawyers for the &#8220;Audi Victims Network&#8221; brazenly declared that the report strengthened their clients&#8217; cases.    They may be right. The largest suit now pending against Audi is an Illinois class action, ostensibly representing 300,000 or so Audi 5000 owners. The charge? That because of the sudden acceleration controversy, Audi&#8217;s have lost resale value.    Yes, sudden acceleration is real. A powerful engine kicks into gear without warning or reason. It crashes through a respected business, ruins the livelihood of hundreds of innocent dealers, and devalues the property of hundreds of thousands of bewildered car owners. The windfall goes to those who destroy and then successfully blame others for the wreckage. For heaven&#8217;s sake, where are the brakes?</p></blockquote>
<p>  As a consequence of the <em>60 Minutes</em> story, sales of Audi&#8217;s in the United States collapsed. According to one account:<br />
<blockquote>The show had an enormous impact in the marketplace. Sales of all Audi models in the US, which had peaked at 74,061 in 1985, plunged sharply after the <em>60 Minutes</em> broadcasts. &#8220;It was a nightmare for the company,&#8221; says Thomas McDonald, former head of public relations at Audi&#8217;s parent, Volkswagen of America, Inc. &#8220;We lost billions of dollars in sales and revenues. Audi&#8217;s average annual sales of 14,000 cars from 1991 to 1995 were just 19 percent of its pre <em>60 Minutes</em> peak.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>  No one was ever able to duplicate the alleged occurrence of unintended acceleration with the car. Not a single person who filed a case against Audi ever won. Nevertheless, even to this day a perception still seems to linger in the marketplace that Audi&#8217;s are somehow dangerous and unsafe.    What the Audi example teaches and has always taught me is that perceptions are one of the most important things to take note of. <em>60 Minutes</em>, with all of its marketing might, was able to shape perceptions and the way people viewed Audi cars. Despite the fact that nothing was wrong with the car, <em>60 Minutes</em> changed the way an entire generation of people perceived the <a title="automobiles manufactured" href="http://www.automotivecrossing.com/" target="_blank">automobiles manufactured</a> by a particular company, and this almost destroyed the company in the process. One of the most powerful and important aspects of our careers and our lives is how we are perceived by others and how we control our own perceptions of those around us.    People can use perceptions to their advantage or to their disadvantage. The most successful people are able to use perceptions to their advantage. After all, everything we may surmise about a person, a job, or any situation is based upon our perceptions. Often how something is perceived matters more than the facts surrounding it.    For years I have opened the paper each week and seen various advertisements by American car companies wherein they try and compare their cars with German or Japanese rivals. For example, the company may have a chart that shows that the American car stops in a five foot shorter distance, that the car accelerates a little faster that its Japanese counterpart and that its JD Power Initial Quality Survey score is higher. I have seen these advertisements and their corresponding charts for 25+ years&#8211;and every single year American manufacturers have sold fewer and fewer cars in the United States. At the same time, the Japanese have continued to sell more cars each year. What is going on here, I think, is that people simply have different perceptions. The Japanese cars are perceived as better. The advertisers can throw around all of the facts and figures they want. People simply tend to have a better perception of Japanese cars. Perceptions matter more than facts.    A couple of years ago my assistant was out purchasing me a little television for my bedroom. She called me from the store and gave me two options. One was a brand of television I had never heard of, LG, and the other was a Sony. She told me the LG one was bigger, had a nicer picture, and was a lot cheaper. I did not care. I told her to buy the Sony television. This was all because of my perception of the Sony brand. I had a much better perception of Sony than I had of LG, and consequently there were no facts that could change my mind&#8211;not even the fact that the LG model may have indeed had a bigger and better picture; and it definitely did cost less than the Sony model.    Many people feel that their job search and the quality of the job they get is a battle of their résumé, and that their entire future depends on what is visible on their résumé. For example, people who go to the best colleges often assume they will get a much better job than those who go to lesser colleges. People who have the best work experience believe they will generally get the best job. There is a tremendous amount of truth to this reasoning; however, more important than any of this is <em>how we are perceived</em>. Perceptions matter far more than facts.    When I was recruiting full time, I remember that I did not care as much about what was on someone&#8217;s résumé as who they were and how they were perceived. My greatest love in recruiting was managing how an employer perceived someone, which was always my greatest skill. Managing a perception instead of just the black and white characteristics surrounding a person was probably the most important thing I could do. I remember I met a girl once who was losing her job at a highly prestigious <a title="law firm in Los Angeles" href="http://www.losangelescrossing.com/" target="_blank">law firm in Los Angeles</a>. I sat down with her and learned that she had grown up on a hippie colony with her parents, and that her father had some extreme beliefs about growing his own food and so forth. She had been rebelling against this lifestyle over the course of her entire life, and consequently she had become incredibly disciplined and motivated to succeed as a lawyer. This material made for incredibly interesting reading for the law firms that interviewed her, and I remember that her being perceived as someone who was &#8220;rebelling against the antiestablishment&#8221; went over very well. I remember writing a 15-page letter to the law firms about this aspect of this woman&#8217;s personality.    What most recruiters would have done with this girl is send her around to law firms and so forth without managing her presentation&#8211;and therefore the perceptions of those that might hire her. She would have simply been presented as someone seeking a position at a new firm, a girl who had had a job at a good law firm and who had attended a decent law school. This would not have done her too much good, however. What the <a title="best recruiters" href="http://www.bcgsearch.com/" target="_blank">best recruiters</a> do and what really changes everything around for the job seeker is when the perceptions of the employers about the prospective employee are conscientiously and properly shaped.    There is a very good documentary on HBO about the disgraced Evangelical minister Ted Haggard. Haggard was a well known Evangelical leader who was the former president of the National Evangelical Association, representing 30 million Christians. He was also the Founder of the 14,000-member New Life Church. In 2006, Haggard resigned after a male prostitute claimed that Haggard had hired him numerous times for gay sex and used crystal meth with him. The fascinating documentary follows Haggard after being expelled from the Church as he moves from town to town looking for work. Unable to get a job, Haggard eventually gets a job as a traveling insurance salesman. Seeing Haggard go from a powerful man who is on top of the world and lecturing tens of thousands of people, meeting with American presidents, and being interviewed on major news programs&#8211;to someone whose entire range of possessions now fits in the back of a U-Haul truck was incredible.    What makes the Haggard story so interesting is that it shows, like the Audi example, that everything is about perceptions. The public perception of Haggard was changed overnight when it came out that he did not represent what he stood for, having engaged in behavior that was considered immoral. The public perception of Audi was changed overnight when people started to believe the car was incredibly dangerous, because of a news program. Ultimately, the truth was that the Audi 5000 was among the top cars in terms of safety on the road.    You need to realize the power of perceptions in your life, and to use them to your advantage. Aim to control, shape, and influence the perceptions that others have about you. Consciously work to create the image you will project to those around you.    One of the most fascinating things to me about recruiting has always been what happens when a given law firm gets a bad reputation. The law firm may have earned a bad reputation due to a partner going to prison, or due to consistent layoffs, or something else along these lines. In most cases, the reputation is confined to only one aspect of the law firm. For example, out of 10 practice groups in the law firm, there may be a problem with only one practice group&#8211;not every practice group. What ends up happening, however, is that people often do not go beneath this skin to recognize that the true problems within the law firm are really confined to only 10% of the entire organization. What this means is that there are less applicants and therefore more opportunities available for people to get jobs at this firm, who might not otherwise get jobs there. This is all due to a poor perception about the firm that is not well founded.    Perceptions are often far more important than facts. You will <a title="get a better job" href="http://www.employmentcrossing.com/" target="_blank">get a better job</a> due to how you are perceived over and above how good your résumé is. You manage how you are perceived by the people you know, how you present yourself to the world and how your reputation will grow. The most important thing you can do in your life and career is make perceptions work for you.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    Perceptions matter more than facts; others’ perceptions of you, your perceptions of others, and how you control both are the most important aspects of your career. Realize the power of perceptions in your life and use them to your advantage. Aim to control and shape the perceptions that others hold about you by shaping the image that you project to the world.</p>
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		<title>Vested Interests: Ask Yourself, &#8220;Does This Really Serve Me?&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 05:01:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harrison Barnes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this article Harrison discusses how it is important not to get influenced by negative behavior of people around you. One thing you often find is that there seem to be a great number of people out in the world whose chosen business is to make your life and circumstances, whatever they may be, seem much worse than they are. Your success and ability to get on will in large part be determined by your ability to sift through all of this negative information coming at you. It is important to understand that all around you there are people and forces that want you to feel weak, vulnerable and inadequate. The best thing you can do to control and fight back against these forces is to sniff out and identify these people for what they are–and then avoid them.  Do not allow others to control or influence you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One thing you often find is that there seem to be a great number of people out in the world whose chosen business is to make your life and circumstances, whatever they may be, seem much worse than they are. In fact, in your day-to-day life, you are probably already continually surrounded by various people whose personal interests lie in making you feel bad about yourself and the world in general. Your success and ability to get on will in large part be determined by your ability to sift through all of this negative information coming at you.   <span id="more-4811"></span>   A few years ago I bought a house, and the <a title="Real Estate Agent" href="http://www.realestateandlandcrossing.com/" target="_blank">real estate agent</a> who had represented the seller contacted me within a few weeks of the move. I travel a lot for business and would not be occupying the house full time.    &#8220;You should be renting it out,&#8221; the agent told me. This got me thinking and what the agent suggested sounded like a good deal. She went on:    &#8220;We could rent it for two and a half times your monthly mortgage. We also could probably even sell it right away for 25% more money than you paid!&#8221; she remarked.    The agent was well dressed and very polished, and she really seemed to know what she was talking about. I got very excited about her ideas and quickly started to feel like I was an incredibly gifted buyer of real estate who had managed to secure an amazing deal.    &#8220;There&#8217;s one thing,&#8221; the real estate agent said. &#8220;In order to market the property successfully as a rental property at this price, you are going to need to make it more &#8216;hip&#8217; and desirable. If you can do this, you will do very, very well.&#8221;    Within a few days, the real estate agent came over to my house with a designer, who took one look around the place and decreed that the entire house and all its furniture were dreadful and in urgent need of a makeover. Much of the furniture in the house had been handed down to me by my family and was actually very nice. For example, I inherited some items from a very wealthy family member, who used to be a United States Senator. In addition, the last house I had purchased had been completely vacated by a family of Australians, who moved back to Australia and did not take their furniture with them. I was amazed that the combined value of all the furnishings was upwards of $1 million&#8211;and they simply left it all behind. I personally have never spent more than $1,000 on a piece of furniture.    I had moved all this &#8220;free furniture&#8221; into the new house, which the designer was now considering redecorating. Furniture like this was declared &#8220;tacky&#8221; and &#8220;dated,&#8221; and the designer suggested all sorts of replacement items, such as painted particleboard knock-offs of designer furniture, which she could import from China.    The designer insisted that everything needed to be changed. The real estate agent continued to emphasize that the house would never rent or sell for the outrageous prices she was proposing unless I immediately got to work with her designer. She also told me that she would refuse to show the house to anyone unless I went through with commissioning an incredible amount of work to have everything &#8220;updated&#8221; as quickly as possible. The designer proceeded to throw around some outrageous price quotes, and I was completely perplexed. After all, I had furnished the house with all kinds of beautiful items, which someone had previously purchased for more than $1 million.    &#8220;Throw it all out!&#8221; the designer declared.    I began to feel bad about the furniture we had in our house. I started to believe we were in serious need of a design upgrade. For weeks I looked at things like our hand-carved $20,000+ chairs, which were adorning various rooms, and I began to feel like we really should replace them all with cheap Chinese furniture.    Since it was not in my budget to redesign the house, I decided the best thing to do would be to sell an old collector&#8217;s Mercedes that had been sitting in our garage for several years. I would be sad to part with the Benz, but I figured it was the best thing to do if I were going to redecorate the house. I put the old car on a few websites and began taking calls for it. One day, I got a call from a very professional-sounding man who was well versed in collector automobiles. He came over to take a look at the car.    When he walked inside the house, the man immediately started talking about how beautiful the furniture was. He wanted to walk around and just look at everything. He did things like stop and stare at a table for a minute or two and then caress it gently with his hand, then crawl under it and examine the bottom of it.    &#8220;A lot of this stuff should be in a museum!&#8221; he declared. I was very happy that someone appreciated the furniture because I felt that I had done very well having acquired it all for free. After looking at the car and telling me he would &#8220;think about it&#8221; he handed me his card. I saw that he was an interior designer.    &#8220;I&#8217;m actually selling this car so I can get some new furniture,&#8221; I told him.    &#8220;Are you kidding?&#8221; he said. &#8220;You do not need any new furniture. This place is absolutely magnificent. I ought to send you the background information on some of your pieces. Much of it is original and I am sure worth much more than was paid for it. Someone had to find craftsmen all over the world to make many of those items. You cannot just find pieces like that at the store.&#8221;    This made me feel pretty good, and after the man had left I got on a computer and checked out his website. To my astonishment, the man had been the personal decorator of Princess Diana and had designed numerous high-profile celebrity homes, a palace for an Egyptian princess, and so forth. Much to my surprise, a lot of the furniture displayed in his designer&#8217;s portfolio looked almost exactly like the furniture that was in my house.    I have thought about this episode so many times throughout the past few years. I had been manipulated to such a massive degree by the real estate agent and her designer that I had almost sold my car&#8211;to pay for a completely unnecessary overhaul of the interior of the house.    <em>Why did this happen? </em>The decorator had had an interest in making me think there was something wrong with the interior: If there were nothing at all wrong with the interior of the house, then there would have been no reason for me to hire her. The real estate agent would likely have been expecting a cut from the transaction, in which case she too would have had a vested interest. So, essentially, the objective had been to make me insecure about the house, and then&#8211;reap the profits.    How many times have people made you insecure about something so they could profit from you in some way? There are so many people out there who will try to sell you on the idea that they can benefit you in some way&#8211;after they subtly put you down. Insecurity is the primary currency of their game, and they thrive on creating it for you.    Let&#8217;s take an unscrupulous lawyer as an example. If people did not get themselves into trouble and have serious problems to solve, lawyers would essentially be out of a job. Therefore an unscrupulous lawyer may convince a client that he or she is at much greater risk than reality dictates, in order to create more billable hours.    A couple of years ago, I had an employee whose wife was a chiropractor. One day, I went over to her house and she hit me a few times with a small hammer. She told me that it was important that I come back&#8211;and often&#8211;for treatments, because I was an as-of-yet-undiagnosed diabetic who was on the verge of potentially dying from my affliction. This concerned me a great deal, so I eventually went to a medical doctor and got the proper tests done. Lo and behold, I found out that not only am I not dying from diabetes, but I actually have excellent blood sugar and overall health.    My wife had started visiting the chiropractor at the same time that I had. Within a few months, the chiropractor had her visiting at least twice a week, and had prescribed her all sorts of expensive herbs and various tonics. Of course, after my visit with the medical doctor, I made sure my wife understood that nothing whatsoever was wrong with her, by making her consult with a medical doctor. Needless to say, my wife is&#8211;and always was&#8211;perfectly fine. Had I not intervened, we would have been going to the chiropractor forever.    I had a similar experience when I was in <a title="Law School" href="http://www.lawfirmstaff.com/" target="_blank">law school</a>. A veterinarian took a look at my Labrador retriever and told me that the dog needed a hip transplant for several thousand dollars. I got a couple of other opinions and found out that the dog had perfectly healthy hips. The dog lived a long, healthy life and never had any health problems until he died of old age.    It is important to understand that all around you there are people and forces that want you to feel weak, vulnerable, and inadequate. The best thing you can do to control and fight back against these forces is to sniff out and identify these people for what they are&#8211;and then avoid them.    Similarly, anytime someone attempts to rise above their peers and become better than others, they are likely to face people who have a vested interest in <em>keeping them down</em>. People will continually strive to keep the person at a certain level, for fear of being left alone, or of feeling bad about their own lack of progress.    My wife and I have been in Las Vegas all week. Yesterday, she related to me that she saw two men walking down the street who looked to be in their 20s and each had only one tooth. She stated that they appeared to be hobbling down the street, their faces looked pockmarked, and they appeared to be strung out on drugs. Their clothes were dirty and their faces looked terrified. They were gasping as they walked. It was like something out of a horror movie. This is not an uncommon sight on Las Vegas Boulevard. The two people were almost certainly crystal meth addicts, also known as <em>tweakers</em>.    &#8220;I wonder how these two people found each other!&#8221; my wife exclaimed.    They found each other because they are both alike and share an interest in drugs. However, a more interesting question to me is what would happen if one of them suddenly decided to stop using drugs and get better. <em>What do you think would happen? </em>    I know exactly what would happen. The user would try to discourage the person who was trying to get sober. The addict would not want his buddy to get better, for fear of losing a friend. It is possible that this might not occur, but in most cases it would.    For the most part, there are people in our lives who want us to do well no matter what. Then there are those who may not necessarily want us to improve&#8211;our neighbors, friends, coworkers, and others. However directly or subtly, they will try and tell us that we are incapable of the change we seek or the improvement we want from our lives:
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<li>&#8220;You&#8217;ll never be able to do that.&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;That&#8217;s for other people, not people like us.&#8221;</li>
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<p>  We receive these sorts of messages again and again.    Whether someone is trying to get you to buy something or is afraid of you improving because it will illuminate his or her own inadequacies, it is important that you are aware that others around you may be trying to keep you down, make you insecure, or control how you feel about your life. Do not allow others to control or influence you negatively, and be aware of this kind of behavior. If you allow others to influence how you think or feel, you will be in service of them and not in service of yourself.
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		<title>The Dangers of Complacency</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 05:01:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harrison Barnes</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Avoid complacency, as it can literally destroy your career and your life. You are either moving up or moving down, and complacency will always place you on a downward trajectory. Surround yourself with people who will continually challenge you to become better. Surrounding yourself with mediocre people will introduce mediocrity into your own life; when you surround yourself with people who accept nothing but the best, you are likely to become exceptional as well. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The most important thing you can do in your pursuit of success is avoid complacency. Never allow yourself to settle down and accept your results as finite. You need to surround yourself with people who will continue to challenge you to become better. Whom you choose to surround yourself with plays a major role in what you will achieve and what will happen to you in your life. Surround yourself with mediocre people and you will likely face mediocrity in your own life; surround yourself with people who accept nothing but the best from themselves and others, and you are <span id="more-4923"></span>  likely to become exceptional as well.    When I was growing up outside of Detroit, I had lots of friends who dreamed of things like <a title="Getting a Job" href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">getting a job</a> in a post office or becoming a fire fighter. The reason for this was that they wanted a <em>steady paycheck </em>and dreamed of the sort of life this would provide. They envisioned themselves having a decent-sized house, a nice wife, and a nine-to-five job that would enable them to go home, drink beer, and watch sports on television most evenings.    Most men who have a dream like this end up achieving it. If you surround yourself with people who have similar dreams as you, then you will all empower one another to achieve these goals.    We tend to associate with people who make us feel comfortable in pursuing our dream. Although I had diverted onto a different path from most of my friends by the time I was around 17 or 18, I still kept in touch with them, even after I moved away to another city. By this point, they were talking about things like the best months of the year to apply to the fire department due to lower application rates, and other things that related to the achievement of their dreams. These guys all ended up &#8220;making it,&#8221; in that they all attained the sorts of lives that they wanted.    I had had similar dreams when I was growing up as well, for a time. Mostly I had been influenced by my peer group early on. When you are around people who have similar dreams and aspirations, you will notice that they continually judge each other by what each person in the group is doing. Men who have such dreams and live such lives, they typically spend their time with other men who have such dreams and live such lives.    I still know many of these men who grew up with these dreams. I have not seen them for at least five years, but I ran into a group of them at a bar one Thursday night when I was visiting the town. They all constantly compared houses, yards, cars, and so forth, and seemed to be measuring each other by these things.    These guys are stuck in a world in which they judge themselves by what their peers have and do. According to one of my old friends, if one of their peers purchases new rims for his car, the others will all go out and look at rims, review them online, and start talking about them and whether or not they should get car rims as well. The same thing happens if one of them purchases a new dishwasher. They all work in okay jobs and make okay livings, but they are stuck in a <em>cocoon</em> of sorts, living in the same neighborhoods and still judging their progress in life by what their childhood friends are doing.    When I last saw these men, they were in their mid-30s and already looking toward retirement. Most of these guys are now overweight and look much different from how they appeared when I knew them twenty-five years ago. At least one I know of has already had a heart attack, and another has had cancer. Their faces are pretty dull and there is not a lot of excitement in them about the future&#8211;let alone the present. These fellows have been chasing complacency since they were teenagers, and they have attained it. They have isolated themselves from the world. They are comfortable and not unhappy because they are judging themselves by the accomplishments of their peers.    Is this what it is all about? Is life about being complacent, and just settling down, and staying that way forever? What happens when we go into a <em>cocoon</em> and surround ourselves with others who only expect mediocrity out of us?    The reason I am so fascinated by these guys I went to grade school and middle school with is that some of them are much smarter than me and more talented than me in many ways. When we were younger, some of them had a much easier time with certain classes, others were better socially, and others could have certainly accomplished more than me, just due to their God-given talents. However, in my case, by eighth grade I had been pulled out of their world and put into a series of private schools in which my peers were high performers in all respects. The bar was suddenly set much higher and the people I newly associated with were dreaming of things like going to Princeton and then Johns Hopkins Medical School. My new peers all wanted to be the very best at their chosen fields, and they would accept nothing less from themselves. It became difficult to have goals of working in some kind of nine-to-five job when I found myself surrounded by people with much higher goals.    The sorts of peers you associate with will help you determine the level of achievement that is acceptable for you. If you go to a poor college, you are likely to be surrounded by people with lower expectations and goals than if you go to a first-rate college. The level of people you surround yourself with will in large part determine the sorts of goals you set for yourself and what you will achieve. As an example, kids who have grown up in bad neighborhoods typically achieve less than kids who have grown up in good neighborhoods. They achieve what is expected of them.    If your worst enemy walked by your cup of coffee and dropped two lumps of sugar in it while you looked the other way, you may never know. However, if your best friend walked by and put a couple of drops of poison in your drink, you might end up very sick&#8211;or dead. The people we associate with can have a profound effect on our lives. All around us, every day, there are people dropping bits of <em>poison</em> in our coffee and affecting our thinking in a negative way. The most important thing you can do in your career and in your life is to watch your coffee, and see how the people around you are affecting you.    One of the guys I used to dislike the most at work would walk around every Friday, pop his head in everyone&#8217;s office, and say &#8220;Happy Friday!&#8221; He would also tell everyone he saw in the hall and other areas throughout the office the same thing. All day long he did this.    I really disliked this and did not think it was all that cool. To me this guy seemed to be like someone who was <em>dropping poison into everyone&#8217;s coffee</em> because his message connoted that there was something wrong with work, as if it is something we all just tolerate until we finally get to the blissful, work-free weekend. This guy used to find himself enormously funny, and he was very excited to tell everyone he saw &#8220;Happy Friday!&#8221; each week. However, to me this sent the wrong signal.    I have always viewed the work that we do as something to look forward to: If you do not like your job, then typically you do not like your life. It is important that you can view your job as something in which you are always growing, always becoming something.    The other thing about this guy that annoyed me was that whenever he would talk to others, his focus was on retirement and not having to work anymore&#8211;despite being in his mid-30s at the time. It reminded me of my old elementary school friends back home. Throughout my life, I have heard person after person tell me that they want such and such amount of money so they can retire and no longer have to work. There are so many people out there who do not want to work and who look forward to doing nothing for the rest of their lives.    The following story appeared on CNN on June 17, 2000:<br />
<blockquote>LOS ANGELES (CNN) &#8212; Mark Hughes, the founder of Herbalife International, one of the world&#8217;s leading distributors of herbal products, died of an accidental overdose after mixing alcohol with a &#8220;toxic level&#8221; of antidepressants, authorities said Friday.    Scott Carrier, of the Los Angeles County Coroner&#8217;s Office, said final autopsy results found that Hughes, 44, had high levels of both alcohol and an antidepressant in his blood.    The cause of Hughes&#8217; death recalls that of his mother.    Hughes&#8217; mother died of an accidental overdose of prescription diet pills when he was 18. He often cited her death as motivating him to succeed in the herbal products industry&#8211;to provide millions with products that were not available to his mother.    Carrier attributed the death to &#8220;alcohol-Deoxpin intoxication.&#8221; Deoxpin is an antidepressant, which Hughes was taking to &#8220;treat insomnia,&#8221; the coroner said.    Hughes&#8217; blood-alcohol level was recorded at .21 percent. A &#8220;toxic level&#8221; of Deoxpin was also found in his system at 2.1 micrograms per milliliter, Carrier said.    Hughes was found dead in his Malibu mansion May 21.    The initial autopsy, conducted on May 23, was inconclusive and required additional tests.    In February 1980, Hughes founded Herbalife International. It has since become one of the world&#8217;s largest distributors of herbal products, with sales of about $1.7 billion annually.</p></blockquote>
<p>  At the time of his death, I knew people who were working at Hughes&#8217;s Malibu mansion, including people who were installing incredibly ornate marble floors&#8211;and even Hughes&#8217;s personal trainer. For people who knew Hughes, it was no mystery that he had been headed down the wrong path. His personal trainer would sometimes show up at 8:00 a.m. and find that Hughes had been up drinking all night and had not yet gone to sleep. Another time, the personal trainer allegedly came over in the early afternoon; Hughes was drunk and made himself vomit so that he could exercise. It is definitely surprising that a guy like Hughes had a serious drinking problem, since he was running one of the largest health food companies in the world at the time. Someone going out there promoting health and wellness, who became incredibly rich doing so, seems unlikely to become a raging alcoholic.    Hughes did not need to work. He had all the money he would ever need and seemed to have it all. The guy who would walk around telling everyone &#8220;Happy Friday&#8221; actually used to work for Hughes at Herbalife. He wanted to be someone like Hughes, who had all that money and power, so that he could sit around and do nothing. I wonder, however, what he thought of when he learned that Hughes had died such a tragic and senseless death. Did he still see the value of having nothing to do?    The interesting thing about success is that once people have achieved incredible goals, they often become complacent, and then they start having the most problems. There is a huge danger to complacency because when you reach this state, everything in your life can end up going to hell.    You are never truly happy because of the things you get; instead, you are happy because of what you become. If you are not becoming something (i.e., progressing toward a goal) you will generally not be happy. What makes people happy is the process of continually becoming something and growing. If we are not growing then we are dying.    Regardless of what your dreams may be, most people are not and can never be happy being complacent. Some of the guys I knew growing up made complacency their goal in life. They are complacent now&#8211;and fat and boring. Their lives revolve around things like looking forward to <em>Happy Fridays</em>. They live for the weekends.    One of the greatest challenges in your career and in your life is to learn how to handle, or more specifically, how to <em>avoid</em> complacency. Complacency can literally destroy your career and life. You are either moving up or you are moving down. You cannot afford to move down, but when you are complacent, you will most certainly end up moving down.    You need to learn to judge yourself by your potential rather than by what your peers are doing. Also, you need to surround yourself with people who have high expectations for themselves so you too can have high expectations for yourself. Pay very close attention anytime you are not challenged and any time you feel like you might be getting too content. A good coach does not allow a player to rest on her laurels and you should not rest on your laurels either. You need to be your own coach and constantly push yourself forward. If you do this, you will achieve more in your life.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    Avoid complacency, as it can literally destroy your career and your life. You are either moving up or moving down, and complacency will always place you on a downward trajectory. Surround yourself with people who will continually challenge you to become better. Surrounding yourself with mediocre people will introduce mediocrity into your own life; when you surround yourself with people who accept nothing but the best, you are likely to become exceptional as well.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[You need to control your work environment. People who are successful in their work and personal lives are generally able control their environment, and resist being controlled by it. Do not take on more work than you can handle, and make sure to competently handle the work that you do take. An organization’s success depends on its control over its assets, and your own success similarly depends on your ability to control your environment rather than the other way around. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Have you ever known someone whose life seems to go wrong at every turn?</em>    I have known several people like this. Here are some examples of things that have gone wrong for them:
<ul>
<li>They sign up for a course in school, forget they are enrolled, and get an F in the class&#8211;crushing their chances of getting into a good graduate school.</li>
<li>They constantly have strange health problems.</li>
<li>People around them seem to constantly be dying or having accidents for no apparent reason.</li>
<li>They are robbed and beaten up, even in good neighborhoods.</li>
<li>The sewer pipes explode in their house and destroy their home a week after they forget to pay their home insurance.</li>
<li>They get fired and dismissed from jobs after being accused of things they did not even do.</li>
<li>They touch a microwave oven to heat up some food and the microwave breaks.</li>
<li>Their cars keep breaking down&#8211;even new ones&#8211;and they are always late and missing out on this or that.</li>
<li>They have strange auto accidents, like being directly behind a truck making bottled water deliveries, which suddenly discharges its load onto the freeway, causing them to drive into a ravine.</li>
<li>They have a couple of drinks and go for a bike ride, then get arrested and thrown in prison for drunk driving.</li>
<li>The companies they join go out of business.</li>
<li>They lose an important sporting competition because they have a bizarre accident right before they are to compete.</li>
<li>They constantly lose purses, keys, and other personal articles.</li>
</ul>
<p>  I could go on and on about various people like this whom I have seen bad things happen to over and over again. However, the most interesting thing about these people is that <span id="more-4583"></span>  they just seem to swim in a <em>constant</em> <em>stream of bad luck</em>. Like clockwork, one issue or another continually affects them in a negative way. As these issues affect these people, they become resigned to a belief that the world is an unfortunate place, and that it is just difficult to make things work. In the job and career realm, these people always have a difficult time. Rather than getting ahead, they are plagued with one thing after another that seems to make the workplace extremely difficult.    If you think that none of the above (extreme) examples relate to your own situation, or that you cannot learn anything from the examples above, you are wrong. Your effectiveness in the world is largely based on the level of control you are able to exert over your surroundings. <em>Some people are controlled by their surroundings and others control their surroundings.</em>    Your sanity, success, and happiness in the world will come in direct proportion to your ability to control your surroundings. The person who is affected by one negative occurrence after another is typically someone who is unable to control his or her surroundings. The person who thrives in any environment is one who is typically able to control his or her surroundings.    What is competence? When we say someone is competent, what we are essentially saying is that the person has the ability to control his or her environment and what happens around him or her. A competent surgeon is able to control her instruments and perform an effective surgery. A competent proofreader is able to proofread work and correct any errors that may occur. Competency means being able to control the outcome and effectiveness of our work, rather than being controlled by external factors. When we call someone incompetent, what we are essentially saying is that the person cannot control the outcome and effectiveness of his or her work. An incompetent individual is someone who is unable to do a good job. The idea of incompetency is that the person&#8217;s work and environment dominates him or her, not the other way around.    Over the years we have had lots of people work in our various companies whose jobs were to fix computers, phone systems, and so forth whenever they went down. Right now we have someone absolutely fantastic doing the job. These systems hardly ever break down around this guy, and when they do, he fixes them instantly. Before he joined our team, we had another person in his position, and the computers always broke down. There were viruses on the computers. The phone system was always having problems. With this new person, everything works perfectly and almost all the time. The reason is competence. This man has taken preventive measures to make sure that everything is working all the time. He is aware of what could or might go wrong at any given time&#8211;before it actually does. When he fixes something, he puts it back together and does not leave any aspect of his work unfinished. If he does not understand something fully, he speaks with as many others in the field as he can, and he makes every effort possible to fix the problem.    This person is, in a word, competent at what he does.    His work area is clean. There are no unfinished projects. He knows his business and does not take on work he does not understand.    The opposite would be if he did not finish assignments completely, and let his work pile up. If he disassembled a computer and then did not reassemble it, and just moved on to something else. If he failed to read up about the latest developments. If he were not out there networking and exchanging information with other computer engineers. What would happen to him in this case is that his work would eventually take control over him, not the other way around:
<ul>
<li>Phone systems and networks would be going down all the time.</li>
<li>People would be yelling at the person, and he would eventually be at the mercy of his work and the world.</li>
<li>He would not receive any pay raises.</li>
<li>He might lose his job.</li>
<li>He would be agitated all the time.</li>
<li>He might start drinking too much.</li>
<li>He would make justifications for the problems he was having at work due to old computers or phone systems, and use these excuses in discussing his performance with management.</li>
<li>He would begin searching for another job to relieve the pressure&#8211;and then another one after that.</li>
<li>The process would repeat itself at each <a title="New Job" href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">new job</a>.</li>
<li>He might yell at his wife and kids at night.</li>
<li>He might be angry with his employers&#8211;and the world at large.</li>
<li>He might sue an employer for firing him.</li>
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<p>  You see, all of this would be caused by this person&#8217;s inability to control his environment. Controlling your environment is among the most important things you can do. People who are exceptional at their jobs and in their lives are generally able to control their environment and to resist <em>being controlled</em> by their environment.    When I joined my first law firm with a group of around fifteen other recent law school graduates in 1997, there was a young partner in the law firm who was a little bit insane, I think. I suspected the partner was a cocaine addict but I was not sure. You see, this guy rarely came into the office, and when he was there, he would grab an associate and give some cryptic instructions to do this or that. He might tell the associate that it would take &#8220;at most three to four hours&#8221;&#8211;when in reality it was a twenty-five-hour job. The associate would do the work and might find herself being berated or humiliated by the partner for not doing some task that was not part of the original assignment. The partner would then <em>lie</em> about having assigned the task, when he had not. The entire process of working with the guy was quite exasperating for everybody in the firm, because of his outrageous behavior.    As a young attorney starting out in a <a title="Law Firm" href="http://www.legalauthority.com/" target="_blank">law firm</a>, the most important thing you can do is complete assignments and impress the partners you are working for. I remember that a very talented young associate was given a workload by this particular partner, and after a few days the associate flat-out refused to work with him anymore. He made a point of going to the head of the law firm at the time, John Quinn, and telling Quinn that he would no longer be able to work with this particular partner. This was something that people just did not do, and everyone in the office was very impressed that the young associate had done this.    The guy who refused to work with the partner was one of two people in this class of fifteen who ultimately ended up making partner in this law firm. He never got flustered and was always respected by his peers. I think that the reason he was so effective and able to do so well was that he knew the importance of controlling his own work environment. He refused to work with a partner who did not allow him to control his own work.    A few years ago, I had a very talented assistant working for me. She had gone to an excellent college and had finished near the top of her class. Her work ethic was exceptional and she did a really good job in everything that she undertook. She was working on a real estate matter with me, and the real estate agent she was dealing with kept lying, not showing up for appointments, and telling me and others that the young woman had said things she did not. It was a bizarre situation, and the real estate agent eventually ended up losing his license for similar behavior. I remember one day my assistant took a stand and refused to work with the agent.    &#8220;I&#8217;ve had it. I am not going to work with someone who lies and changes things around. It makes it impossible for me to do my job. You can fire me if you want, but I simply cannot continue like this.&#8221;    This girl was controlling her environment. By controlling her environment she was able to make sure that she could do her work effectively. Because the lying, scheming, and so forth of the real estate agent was making it impossible for her to control her environment, she refused to have anything to do with him.    You need to control your environment at work. This means lots of things&#8211;like not taking on more work than you can handle and making sure you do everything with competence.    One way of not controlling your environment is by just being plain lazy. Being lazy means letting work pile up, not doing your job, being preoccupied with things besides work and so forth. I do not have a lot of sympathy for lazy people, and neither does the rest of the working world. Lazy people never end up doing all that well at anything. These sorts of people are let go from organizations rapidly and frequently. Darwinian forces in most organizations typically take over quickly, and the lazy end up having major problems. The lazy and the careless are people who perpetually fail to control their environments&#8211;probably because doing so requires energy and focus. These people can create major problems for organizations and themselves.    Another, more unfortunate example of failing to control your environment is taking on too much work or, similarly, doing work you do not really understand. This is a huge problem that affects countless individuals in the workplace. When you are good at something, people may give you more and more work. You need to know when to say no and you need to develop a keen ability to politely decline any assignment that is beyond your scope of expertise. Many people come into jobs and soon get in way over their heads&#8211;trying to take on too much work. I have seen this time and time again. When you have more work than you can handle, or you are doing work that you do not understand, you are not controlling your environment; instead you are being controlled by it.    When I started the same <a title="Legal Job" href="http://www.lawcrossing.com/" target="_blank">legal job</a> I mentioned earlier, there was a girl a few doors down from me who had recently graduated from Yale Law School. The girl was absolutely brilliant and very hard working. We shared secretaries who worked at the same station, and I used to see this woman&#8217;s time sheets, which she would turn in every day. After I had been at the firm for around six months, I started noticing that the time sheets she was turning in each day were adding up to a full twenty-four hours. This meant, effectively, that she was working entire shifts of twenty-four hours without a break. I would notice these hours adding up to twenty-four hours at least a few times each week, and it was astonishing to me. I could not imagine, at the time, working this many hours on anything. Within several months of this woman&#8217;s starting these twenty-four-hour shifts, she had left the firm and gone to work for the government. I do not know why she did this; however, my guess is that she simply had taken on too much work. She had become unable to control her own work environment. Had she been able to turn down work and refused to work such long hours, she would have been controlling her environment&#8211;and she might not have burned herself out of what promised to be an illustrious law career.    Control of your environment starts with you. I know of employers who will not hire people who are grossly overweight, drink too much, or smoke. People have actually said this to me before. <em>Why?</em> The reason is that the employer figures that people who are grossly overweight, drink too much, or smoke are unable to control themselves, their urges, and their body and therefore will be unable to control their work. I knew of an attorney once who had a job offer from a major law firm and was invited out for drinks with an important partner a few weeks before he was supposed to start. The partner ordered two drinks over a few hours and the prospective new associate ordered four drinks. He was not hired on account of this, for the reasons mentioned above. I will never forget that one.    You show your ability to control your environment by the way you dress and carry yourself. I have heard of people not being hired for important jobs due to their collars being frayed. I know of contractors who will not hire people who do not organize their tools well. All of this translates into an ability to control your environment. The person with the frayed collars is showing that he does not care about having a professional appearance, evidenced by his refusal to update his wardrobe or to get new clothes. Having a professional appearance is important in many lines of work. The contractor who is unable to keep his tools organized is not controlling the tools of his trade; therefore he looks weak to the potential employer.    If you have ever known someone who seemed a little crazy, it is likely due, at least in part, to an inability to control his or her environment; chaotic surroundings often lead to a chaotic state of mind. The stresses of the world impact this person over time and to an extraordinary degree, and things are constantly going wrong in this person&#8217;s life, all because this person is acted upon by the environment&#8211;not the other way around. People who are chronically stressed out and upset are typically being acted upon by the environment, not the other way around.    One of the greatest dangers (and opportunities) out there is when an individual gets a promotion or a company starts to expand when things are going well. This is always a giant opportunity for the individual or group to move to a higher standard. With more responsibility and growth often comes the challenge of controlling more variables in the work environment. In this case your standards, your attention to detail, your desire to do a good job, and your ability to exert control over your work environment, all determine if you will succeed.    If you have watched films about the military, or if you have ever been in the military, you know that there are countless procedures that are in place. People are always communicating back and forth, seeking clearance for this procedure or that procedure. Certain high-level military personnel may even call the president to seek clearance for one thing or another. The reason so many procedures exist in the military is that it would be impossible for the military to control its environment without the procedures. An absence of procedure would equate complete chaos. The larger a company or organization is, the more procedures you are likely to see. There may be multiple levels of management, legal divisions, marketing teams&#8211;and all sorts of procedures in place for every one of these groups. All of this enables the company to control its environment so that it is optimized for continued growth and expansion. Organizations cannot function without numerous procedures and various methods to assist them in controlling their environment.
<ul>
<li>A lack of procedures, standards, and ways of controlling incoming work can lead to major difficulties and problems, and often lead to <strong>individuals</strong> having stress, emotional problems, career difficulties, and more.</li>
<li>A lack of procedures, standards, and ways of controlling incoming work can lead to major difficulties and problems, and often lead to <strong>companies</strong> having stress, organizational problems, severe business difficulties, and more.</li>
</ul>
<p>  An interesting trend happens in the economy: There are &#8220;booms&#8221; and then there are &#8220;busts.&#8221; During a boom cycle, lots of people are being hired in a short amount of time. In short, there is a lot of opportunity. During a &#8220;bust&#8221; the exact opposite starts occurring. People are let go and fewer people are hired. The people who remain inside of organizations are given more and more tasks, and their work is made more efficient. Productivity typically increases during a &#8220;bust.&#8221; All that is occurring here, essentially, is that the organization is exerting more control over its environment in order to survive. Control means having fewer workers, monitoring what each worker is doing, having higher hiring standards, and so forth. Those who are the most efficient at their work are generally kept on.    When a group is rapidly expanding during a boom, a lavish and decadent sort of culture often sets in: Expenses are not overseen very carefully, and there is a great deal of unnecessary spending. Things get out of control, and the company starts to lose profits. When the bust cycle occurs, control is brought back. The ability of an organization to exert control over its workers, expenses, and so forth has a direct connection to its ultimate success in both good and bad times.    Poorly run organizations are unable to control their workers, they are unable to control their expenses, and they are unable to control their products&#8211;and they ultimately go out of business. Everything in terms of an organization&#8217;s success is about control.    Just as an organization&#8217;s success depends on effective control, your own ability to succeed in your career and life depends on your ability to control your environment, and to not be controlled by it.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    You need to control your work environment. People who are successful in their work and personal lives are generally able control their environment, and resist being controlled by it. Do not take on more work than you can handle, and make sure to competently handle the work that you do take. An organization’s success depends on its control over its assets, and your own success similarly depends on your ability to control your environment rather than the other way around.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A long time ago, more than a decade back, I found myself standing on the side of the road, on a turnpike, somewhere on the East Coast of the United States. I had been dropped off on the side of this strange highway by a woman I was with, who, in a fit of rage, demanded that I get out of the car and had sped away—my luggage and all—in the automobile.    I was trying to figure out what had gone wrong. The entire experience of getting kicked out of the car had lasted no more than <span id="more-13345"></span>  a few minutes. One moment we were speeding along in good spirits discussing the night before. The next moment I was standing there on the side of the road. I may have had $20 or so on me—enough certainly to get to a phone and make a call (this was before cell phones were prevalent). But standing there, I was very confused at what had happened.    The night before, we had gone to a party in a townhouse in New York City. The townhouse was owned by a girl who was not more than 23 or 24 at the time. She had been an heiress of some sort of publishing empire, from what I remember. The townhouse was pretty large even by New York standards and was furnished very nicely with all sorts of old rugs, nice curtains, comfortable chairs, and whatnot. There were vases, grandfather clocks, and other bits of decor you typically do not see in the home of a 23-year-old woman.    When we walked into the party, the girl came up and introduced herself to us, looked up and down at the girl I was with, then began leading us into another room.    &#8221;I love how this place is furnished,&#8221; my date said to the heiress. &#8221;I especially like the wallpaper in the vestibule.&#8221;    The heiress heard her but did not say a word. I thought it was a little rude. I could tell the girl I was with was visibly annoyed and seemed to feel some sort of social slight had taken place.    The party was very good from what I remember. The people were interesting and there were all these caterers milling around despite the fact the heiress was just having a few people over. The girl I was with was not having a good time. In fact, I found her standing in a corner glaring at the heiress. This made me a little uncomfortable, so I went over to my date.    &#8221;I&#8217;m going back,&#8221; she told me after we had been at the party around ten minutes. &#8221;I do not like this party. I&#8217;m tired.&#8221;    &#8221;It&#8217;s 10:00 on a Saturday night. Are you kidding?&#8221; I asked.    Instead of letting her go home alone, I left the party with her. The party had been quite a bit of fun and I was very sorry to leave.    The next day we were on the road and the girl brought up how rude she thought the heiress had been to her the night before by ignoring her statement about the townhouse being nicely furnished.    &#8221;I thought it was a little rude too,&#8221; I told her.    &#8221;Why do you think she didn&#8217;t answer?&#8221; she asked me.    &#8221;I have no idea. I&#8217;m not the one with a multimillion-dollar trust fund like the heiress. Maybe it was a class thing. Who knows?&#8221;    &#8221;Class? Are you saying I do not have class?&#8221; the girl I was with responded. &#8221;I am from a long line of very rich people and grew up around lots of money. How dare you say something so insulting and rude to me?&#8221;    The girl started screaming and before I knew it, she had pulled the car over to the side of the road.    &#8221;GET OUT OF MY CAR!!&#8221; she screamed.    &#8221;Get out? I&#8217;M FROM DETROIT. I have no idea where I am!!&#8221;    &#8221;GET OUT OF MY CAR! I NEVER WANT TO TALK TO YOU AGAIN!!&#8221; she screamed.    &#8221;Listen &#8230; I&#8217;m sure you have lots of class. I was not trying to upset you. I just was providing you various hypotheses about why the girl was rude to you. Maybe she was drunk. Does any of this really matter? Who cares?&#8221; I said calmly.    Less than ten seconds later she was pushing and shoving me and trying to force me out of the car. I sat up and got out of the car.    A few moments later, I was standing on the side of the road.    A couple of hours after that I was standing at the Greyhound bus station. I got on the bus without a change of clothes. I was starting to grow a beard.    Every hour or so, the bus would stop, and everyone would get out and smoke cigarettes. The bus broke down in a bad neighborhood in Pittsburgh, in the middle of the night, and we sat on the road a few hours before a school bus came and picked us up, and then took us to another Greyhound bus. Some guy got on in Pittsburgh with a guitar and started playing it for all the passengers. He really sucked. He seemed to be rapping county songs and spent a lot of time tapping his hand on the guitar for a beat, instead of strumming the strings. The bus kept stopping at all these random towns and locations and everyone kept smoking.    Twenty-four hours after that, I was a very weary traveler, pulling into the bus station in downtown Detroit and calling my mother.    I have met few people in my life who were ever willing to face reality. Instead of facing reality, most people do everything they can to avoid it. They distract themselves with drugs, alcohol, sex, food, risky activities, and more. Many people lie up in hospitals having suffered heart attacks, aneurysms, and other health issues cause by unhealthy choices related to their inability to face reality. Many people end up dead. Others end up on downward spirals that are nothing short of insane.    The girl who dropped me off on the side of the road was someone who was unable to face reality. I had come out to the East Coast to visit her and meet her family. She had always told me she grew up in a mansion of some sort. I got there and her mother was living in a retirement community near her old house.    &#8221;Let&#8217;s go see where you grew up!&#8221; I told her. I was enthusiastic since I had heard so much about this freaking mansion.    We drove around her neighborhood for at least thirty-five minutes and she pretended to be lost. Eventually, I was like: &#8221;C&#8217;mon … you&#8217;ve got to show me the place!&#8221;    It was no mansion. It was a regular American house. No big deal. I couldn&#8217;t have cared less if it was a mansion. It was on a road with a hundred other houses that all looked the same.    I never followed up on that or said anything about it, but I was a bit perplexed why she had felt the need to tell me she had grown up in this giant mansion when nothing could have been further from the truth.    One of the most difficult things to do—in life, in our careers—is to face reality. The reality of what we have failed to accomplish, of what we lack and what we have not done right.    In my own life and career, one of the biggest mistakes I have ever made, is failed to face reality.    Face reality that I am not good at something.    Face reality that something I am doing is not working.    Face reality that I will not be successful in a certain relationship.    Face reality that I cannot be a certain type of person.    Face reality that I will never get along with certain people.    Face reality that I have failed at something.    Face reality that I was no longer good at something.    When I was younger, I was very good at soccer. Sometimes I might score a goal or two in a game, and oftentimes I would score more. It was something I was very good at for several years. I started playing on all of these &#8221;special teams&#8221; that were organized for the best players out there—traveling around like a college athlete at the age of 12.    Then something happened.    I lost the ability to be good at it when I hit a growth spurt in my early teens. Instead of giving up, I tried playing soccer for four more years. At age 15 I was like a has-been rock star on a sad tour downhill. I no longer had what it took to be great at the game.    When I was 15 years old, I made the varsity high school team but I was no longer a &#8220;star&#8221; at the sport. I sat on the sidelines the entire season. Incredibly, our team won a championship and the coach gave a speech at our victory dinner stating that &#8221;although I had not played, I had tried hard in practices.&#8221; I could not believe it. The years I spent trying to recapture my former glory were very depressing. I just did not have what it took any longer.    The next year, despite having aged a year and the fact that I should have been better at the sport, I decided to quit once and for all. I finally realized that I was not getting better—I was getting much worse. I decided to concentrate of academics and that sort of thing.    Nothing is better than a cold, hard dose of reality to show us where things stand. Very few people out there, though, are ever willing to truly face reality. Reality is elusive and it is something that we avoid at all costs. We do not want to admit what we are bad at, when we are failing, and what the truth really is.    Why do you need to face reality? Because when you cannot face reality, you will not be able to deal with the people, places, and things that show you that reality. You will continually put yourself in situations you should not be in. You will allow problems to fester without solving them.    A few years ago I was talking with a guy who is about the healthiest and most solid person I know. We were chatting on the phone one day and I asked him how he was doing.    &#8221;Not too well,&#8221; he told me. &#8221;I&#8217;ve started smoking after twenty years of not doing so and I&#8217;m drinking at least two bottles of wine each night.&#8221;    I could scarcely believe what I was hearing. The guy confided in me that he thought he was having a nervous breakdown.    &#8221;My Lord! What do you think brought all of this on?&#8221; I asked.    &#8221;I started seeing a therapist because I thought it would be good for me and now all of this old garbage is coming up! It&#8217;s horrible. I do not know what to do!&#8221;    Within a few months, this guy was in better psychological and physical health than he had ever been. His career took off. Facing reality and all of the awful stuff was very hard for him in the short run—but in the long run it paid off. The guy actually ended up becoming quite well-known and even famous in his industry. A wreck to incredibly successful—almost overnight.    This is what happens to everyone who faces reality. They get better. They improve. Their life changes. You too need to face reality of where you are. Only by doing this can you realize where you can go.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    You must face cold, hard reality in order to truly determine your situation; despite the benefits of doing so, facing reality is sometimes one of the most painful and difficult things you can do. People do not like to admit their limitations and failures, but doing so is imperative for facing the people and things that constitute your reality. When you face reality you realize where you can go, and you gain the power to change your situation for the better.</p>
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		<title>Concentration and the Acquirement of Personal Magnetism</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Concentration and the Acquirement of Personal Magnetism by O. Hashnu Hara is an amazing book giving us step-by-step instructions on the secret processes of magnetic healing for curing ailments and illnesses. This is a course of lessons on the action of thought, explaining its composition, and the correct method of using it, especially with regard [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><em>Concentration and the Acquirement of Personal Magnetism</em> by O. Hashnu Hara is an amazing book giving us step-by-step instructions on the secret processes of magnetic healing for curing ailments and illnesses. This is a course of lessons on the action of thought, explaining its composition, and the correct method of using it, especially with regard to increasing and controlling your personal magnetism.</p>
<p>  <em>Concentration and the Acquirement of Personal Magnetism</em> is a very important self-improvement book and I am sure its practical exercises will assist you in developing your personal magnetism to use as a powerful force in your personal and professional life.
<p style="text-align: left;">&#8211;Harrison</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>CONCENTRATION AND THE ACQUIREMENT OF PERSONAL MAGNETISM</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>By O. Hashnu Hara</strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>INTRODUCTION</strong></span></p>
<p>  <span id="more-6278"></span>  IN giving this series of lessons to the public at a nominal fee, I believe I am really doing something that will be of great benefit to all who need a helmsman to guide the rudder of the good boat “Thought” to the harbor of Success.    Thought, unorganized, is so much waste matter; Thought, ORGANIZED, is the greatest power in the world, greater even than the almighty Dollar, for it <em>commands</em> filthy lucre and bids grim poverty farewell – forever? It commands love, which filthy lucre can’t, and it commands all that makes life worth living.    That it is necessary to undergo special mental training to produce this state of mental organization is very apparent, and that people desire daily more light, more knowledge, and for means to overcome their state of ignorance is, as sure as “eggs are eggs,” the reason why Personal Magnetism and the consideration of the Thought Forces have become such a cult.    Personal Magnetism means <em>health, happiness, power and success. </em>    Those who want these things and all they stand for, follow the rules I give you in these pages; read, mark, learn and inwardly digest each lesson, and if you do not live to bless the wonderful force known as Personal or Animal Magnetism; if you do not realize within yourself a new found happiness, because you realize that you are not the weak, downtrodden creature you have so long considered yourself, but a glorified, radiant, happy being; then, I say, my name is not&#8230;    <strong>  O. Hashnu Hara </strong>    <strong> </strong>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>  THOUGHT AND THE BRAIN  </strong></span></p>
<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON I </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    THAT a course of lessons fully illustrating the action of thought, explaining its composition, and the correct method of using it, would prove a boon to many students of the Occult and mental sciences, who find this a very great drawback to serious advancement, appear almost a certainty.    The methods usually advocated seem to me very impractical; in the first place, how can a man who has never learned to control thought in everyday matters, such as banishing business worries when he comes home, or goes to bed, or in learning to control small habits, suddenly sit down and “concentrate on Spirit,” when probably his very idea of spirit is such as to awaken all his dormant fancies, and to call forth not one image, but hundreds? Then he fondly believes he is concentrating, until the utter absence of results proves that he has done no such thing, and he begins all over again.    It is only what may be expected, and even a general attempt to simplify the matter would be welcome; but I have had so many letters and so many appeals from men and women who cannot master this one subject – quite the most important in the whole school of Metaphysical and Occult teaching – the door, in fact, which will open to them the whole vista held out in books, an entrancing vision of knowledge, of health, of happiness, and the unseen, which too often will remain in books, simply because the initial step is too difficult – that I have made a great effort to meet the demand in a popular and practical form.    First of all I will beg of my pupils to begin at the bottom. Do not try to concentrate your thought on spirit before you are quite sure:    First. As to what THOUGHT is composed of.    Second. That you are able to concentrate your mind on some unimportant mundane matter, to the exclusion of all else.    Third. Do not try to concentrate your mind for half an hour at a time, until you can concentrate for two consecutive minutes.    Fourth. What spirit is.    I advise the student to practice keeping his mind on one subject for a minute at a time, and then gradually increase the time from day to day.    If you intended to train for, say, a foot race, you would not start with a twenty-mile walk after having been out of training for a long time. Nor if a little child is being taught how to read is he given a difficult scientific book to begin with. Yet men and women are put to a task far more difficult than these, without any preparation or gradual initiation into the processes employed.    Take some subject you are very much interested in for the commencement, then for one minute hold this before your mind’s eye, try to see if it in your imagination, and if you fail, wait another hour or so then try again.    By these means you gradually increase the elasticity of your brain, which, by continual exercises, can be expanded and made to perform tasks which were originally impossible. The next thing is to consider the part our brain plays in the matter of thought generation.    Look upon the brain simply as a very delicate machine, a dynamo that generates thought as an ordinary dynamo generates electricity. The construction of this machine needs some consideration for it is known that certain parts of the brain are put to certain uses, and that a brain left dormant grows gradually incapable of anything much above involuntary action, and that if certain parts even of the brain are neglected they in turn become atrophied and are useless.    The accompanying diagram shows the relative parts of the brain, and the work they do is as follows:    Fig. 1 is the cerebrum, and consists of two hemispheres, which are separated by a very deep fissure. The cerebrum is composed of a thick layer of gray matter, surrounding white fibrous nerve substance. The gray matter is drawn up in to folds, or convolutions, and the whole is covered by a delicate membrane composed of arteries and veins, supported by tissue.    <em><strong>  ( Diagrams not shown ) </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    This part of the brain is the seat of sensation, of will, of intelligence, and also of the emotions; if this part of the brain is injured, the power of manifesting mental faculties is more or less lost.    Fig. 2 is the lesser brain, or cerebellum, and this guards and regulates the involuntary muscles and movements of the mind and body. I have always placed the subconscious mind here; it seems the most reasonable locality to apportion it to, for the subconscious mind is certainly an involuntary worker; it also depends very little upon the will of the emotions, for all the will-power in the world will not make it manifest if it is not in the state to do so, and the everyday working brain has quite enough to do to look after its own without taking on another function.    Fig. 3, the pons varolli, and Fig. 5, the medulla oblongata, do not immediately concern us, although, of course, their own work is very important. Thus, if the medulla oblongata is destroyed, death at once ensues.    From the under surface of the brain twelve pairs of nerves are given off, called the cranial nerves; each pair supply some sense to the body, generated by the brain machine, just as a dynamo turns out its streams of electricity. One pair of nerves supply the sense of smell; the next the optic nerves; the third pair move the eyeballs; the fourth supply the skin of the face, the muscles of the lower jaw, and the tongue; the sixth pair are supplied to the muscles which turn the eyeballs outwards; the seventh pair supply fibers to the muscles of the face; the eight pair supply the ear; the ninth pair are mixed nerves and they enable us to taste, and also supply the nerves to the pharynx; the tenth pair are very important mixed nerves which send fibers to her larynx, lungs, hear, stomach and liver; the eleventh pair are motor nerves which supply certain muscles to the neck; the twelfth pair are spending fibers to the tongue. So here we get a clear idea of our thought machine, a good thing to start with, since certainly no other kind of engineer would attempt to drive a machine of which he was absolutely ignorant. This direct arrangement from the brain center explains to a great extent how the form of concentration called mental healing can affect the body, and rebuild the tissues.    For each pair of nerves will carry the message given to them by the brain, and it naturally depends upon the message as to the effect produced. Here we get the machine we have to work with, and having mastered the technical parts of it, we will now proceed to see how thought acts, and how concentration affects thought.    It has long been a matter of consideration and study to me as to where the will really is located, and in this matter of concentration it is doubly important, because without that WILL man cannot possibly concentrate. It is the master of the Thoughts Machine, and I have found that the best way to meet the difficulty is to look upon the WILL as the OVER SOUL, that part of man which never dies, and which is carried on from incarnation to incarnation. I am assuming the theory of reincarnation to be something more that theory. It has been given to me to remember past lives, although only two or three; but even if one can remember any it surely renders the theory a fact.    This OVER SOUL, or will-power, is the force which sets the brain in motion, and which determines what effect the thought generated will have, and also what strength; it rests within ourselves to decide the state we are to reach in each successive incarnation (after we have been through a certain number), yet if we seek the intelligent co-operation of the over soul we can, if we so desire, accomplish in one life what might otherwise take centuries to perform.
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>  THE WILL: HOW THOUGHT TRAVELS –VARIETIES OF THOUGHT WAVES  </strong></span></p>
<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON II </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    THE seat of WILL, or the over soul, may, I think, be safely placed in the NERVE AURA surrounding the brain.    The exact nature of thought has not, so far as I have been able to discover, ever been fully explained. There is no doubt that thought is of atomic origin, else I do not quite see how, in accordance with Nature’s law, it could travel through the ether.    In regarding the action of thought in the ether, we are too much in danger of regarding the ether as something outside ourselves, and thought as an unconsidered and unknown quantity, a mistake which must be rigorously guarded against.    The ether permeates our whole body, and because of this wonderful invisible medium, thought, magnetism, and other know substances of a similar nature can attract to themselves matter from throughout the universe; thought, of course, having a greater power of attraction than any other substance. There is nothing in the world, which can prevent this attraction, no matter what may intervene between the thought and the object it seeks. The reason for this may be summed up in one word – ether. This acts as a conducting medium for the light waves which travel form the most distant planets and fixed stars, light which takes ten years to reach our little earth; and it acts as a conducting medium for our thought, whether we desire to send it to the other side of the earth, or to some far distant region in the unknown, or back, back into the long forgotten past, or forward into the yet unexplored future.    I have frequently held forth respecting the nature of that invisible substance called ether, but for the benefit of new readers, at the risk of boring the old, I will repeat myself.    The ether, then, is an invisible medium filling all space; scientists accept it as a necessity to account for the transmission of LIGHT through space where no ordinary medium, such as air, is to be found.    It is said by scientists to be of a smooth, jelly-like substance, and by Rosicrucian’s it is looked upon as living flame: We are at present more concerned with the scientific standpoint of what is called the “aluminiferous ether.” As my readers can readily understand, there must be some substance to fill all space, or we could get light from sun or moon, or the far distant stars.    This light travels through the ether by means of “waves,” that is, the tiny atoms, or particles, travel through space in a series of concentric (that is, from a common center) waves, each particle communicating motion to the next adjoining particle, and so on. Remember, too, that each particle, or atom, becomes, in its turn, a center of disturbance, sending out new waves. These wavelengths are exceedingly minute, and travel at an immense speed. They follow the waveform usual to water when, say, a stone is thrown in to cause a disturbance. There is the crest of the wave and the trough, and although the scientific method of measuring the length of these waves does not affect us at present, measured they are.    We know that light travels through ether by means of waves continually spreading outward; that a RAY of light is really non-existent. Light travels in minute particles, or atoms, and THOUGHT is propelled through the ether and through space in a similar manner to light.    You will consider the brain as a dynamo, only, of course, more powerful than any other known machine, and more delicately constructed. Man, as a race, is in constant danger of under-estimating the power of this machine, simply because he cannot CONCEIVE of such power.    From the central point of the brain, where motion is so intense, it almost appears at a standstill, thought radiates outward, as light radiates from our central point of energy -the sun.    We have seen, first, the machine, which generates thought, and secondly, the medium through which thought is propelled in its journey from one point of the globe to another.    The NATURE of thought is such that it is invisible as far as ocular demonstration is concerned, but its POWER is such that it is manifested in our daily life on every hand.    I assume thought to be of atomic origin, and, as I have already explained, the ether is a smooth, jelly-like substance with the property of transmitting atoms and molecules (a molecule is a group of two or more atoms) through space (which it entirely fills) at a terrific speed, the speed, of course, depending entirely upon the nature and size of the atom. Thought atoms are so infinitesimal that they probably exceed the highest known rate of speed, for the smaller the atom the higher and swifter the rate of vibration.    Whenever anybody thinks, even on the most trivial matter, they at once set up a stress (or disturbance) in the ether, and all around them becomes disturbed. If the thought was feeble, the disturbance will be merely local, and affect nobody, although, if charged with anger, worry, or discontent, it will affect the thinker very much for evil.    Such thoughts upset the ether, recoil upon the internal organism through the brain, and set up a state of irritation similar to the mental process, thus affecting not only the secretions of the vital organs, but surrounding the whole with a negative aura, which destroys the waves of love and good feeling which would otherwise surround that person. Then also, in a slight degree, these conditions will affect others in the immediate vicinity. They may experience feelings of depression, and the sensation of a cloudy atmosphere; but the thoughts are too unorganized to have a lasting effect, unless one is continually living with this species of thought emanation; it will not affect anybody seriously, EXCEPT the THINKER. He, or she, will at once show the work they have been unconsciously performing – bad digestion, sleepless nights, wrinkles, flabby cheeks, and the general inability to enjoy anything. These are the lasting results of such disturbance of the etheric substances.    We are all anxious to obtain success in life, and to help others; but the life success must be so perfectly blended with the spiritual success, that the two are one, else neither will be very lasting. I am aware that certain people may take exception to this statement, but it is my firm opinion that true-life success embraces this dual aspect I have described.    The law of vibration is always traveling from a higher to a lower rate and back again; it follows a free-path motion, and returns upon its journey laden with the errand it set out to perform. If you will look at the first diagram of this lesson, you will see a perfect circle, which we will call the sphere of spirit. At the mark “A” in this circle we see pure spirit, and at ‘B” we will place matter. Thus ‘A,” pure spirit is a rate of vibration which is intense –    <em><strong>  ( Fig. II not shown ) </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>  the swiftest possible. From this, spirit travels at a rate that grows slower and gradually slower, and, of course, denser, until it arrives at the base “B,” where it is practically at a standstill. This may be interpreted as the procession of spirit through the grosser shades of matter, until at “B” we find matter almost pure and simple; but from “B” back to “A” again this etheric flow grows swifter and swifter, until at “A” it again assumes its swiftest rate of speed, and, having shaken off the confining elements of matter, is again merged into pure spirit.    We can trace this as the process of life. All life is spirit, and this diagram represents the entire period from the first separation of the individual from spirit, on its journey through life to the time when, having passed through countless incarnations, it is ready to return whence it came. The reason for this journey is not apparent; it is simply the law of Nature.    Thus from “A” to “B” is the spiritual basis upon which we are all founded, and from which, by the slow processes of evolution, we attain the state of so much gross matter, the state in which quite nine-tenths of the population of the world are at present. Then, from here, man’s higher sense begins to crave a higher state of evolution, and at last realizes that he has it in his power to obtain this when he pleases. “We live in the state of development our thoughts create for us.” The higher our mental aspirations, the swifter and purer the rate of vibration we attain. If you live in the dirt you cannot expect to attract anything else; but if you are a child of sunshine, so will you be garbed in light, and draw to yourself all that is your by right.    To retrace our steps a little, we will repeat that the brain center is a medium, a machine for manifesting and creating thought, as a dynamo, only, of course, more powerful than any other know machine, and more perfect.    At the center of the brain, energy is so intense that it almost appears to be still and calm, and from this still center radiates outward thought, the quality and quantity of which depends upon the machine, which generates the power. The generating process takes place through the all-compelling action of the WILL or OVER SOUL, that part of man, which never dies. This action is helped, and often to a very great degree, by correct breathing, which has the most wonderful effect upon concentration of thought.    The following diagrams will illustrate very clearly how thought will proceed under given circumstances. Thought will proceed under given circumstance. Thought is dynamic, or, properly speaking, kinetic; * but, of course, the words apply to the same thing. Under the compulsion of a strong and well-advanced WILL, or over soul, thought travels in a direct line towards that upon which it is concentrated. The more intense this form of concentration, the swifter and more direct the journey of that thought.    Fig. 2 shows the action of thought when directed upon some particular point. From “A” to “B” we get concentrated thought traveling from the brain center, “A,” to the point it is intended to reach, “B.” This may be defined as organized thought, a substance of which the vibrations are almost as subtle as the transmitting medium, etheric waves.    <em><strong>  ( Diagram not shown ) </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    From “A” to “C,” however, we obtain the action of thought as it is understood in everyday parlance, the vacillating, uncertain thought of the organized mind which follows a zigzag course, varying in strength, and finally filtering away, without ever reaching its goal.    <em>  *Producing motion. Force of any kind as a motive power and its action. </em>    <em> </em>
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<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON III </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    TO resume the consideration of the various kinds of thought waves we will now consider Fig. III (Lesson III), which shows the action of the brain when generating another kind of mind wave, when the thought field, which closely resembles the magnetic field, as known to electricians, is composed of lines of forces which are less concentrated because more scattered in area, since they radiate outwards to all points, still from the same calm center.    But under the action of an organized mentality each line reaches the mark.    Thus from “A” to the outermost circle on every side, which in this case we will take to represent the known universe, or perhaps better still, as the world, the thought rays travel in even quality, and with direct force. When the student sits from general concentration, desiring, or expecting some good thing which mankind or nature as a whole (because of his relation to nature) can give him, but without specifying any individual, then his thought follows the directions of this figure, and his brain machine just radiates the thought as the sun radiates light.    It falls gently, and equally distributed upon all, and almost insensibly, often by what may seem the queerest chances, those on whom it falls are drawn to that center power, and the thinker, be if for business, or otherwise, realizes that his concentration has borne fruit.    <em><strong>  ( Fig III not shown ) </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    Fig. IV clearly indicated the nature of thought sent in the general direction, but consisting of uneven and vacillating action, and will explain better than anything else why it is that some people have never achieved anything by the study of mental and spiritual science, or any other of the many methods of improving thought life.    <em><strong>  ( Fig IV not shown ) </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    They are not the masters of the laws governing mental action, nor do they clearly comprehend the kinetic nature of this curious and powerful substance, or the methods of its propulsion through the ether.    The third law of motion is, ‘that action and reaction are equal in force, but opposite in direction.”    Here we are considering the action of somebody endowed with energy by natural or mechanical means. As an example, if you take an india-rubber ball and throw it against a wall, it will return to you with exactly the same force with which it struck the wall; and it’s just exactly the same with any other body, or mass of atoms (for do not forget that everything from a stone to the human body is built up of atoms. In some things, such as the human body, gases, electricity, or water, the atoms are in continual motion; in others, such as rocks, certain chemicals, etc., they are in a state known as “inertia,” that is to say, they are resting, waiting for some other substance to come along and wake them up, then, hey presto! They are as full of life and energy as anything else. Often the chemical action of smoke and atmosphere will make large buildings, which are apparently dead, or inert, really a mass of movement, every tiny particle of stone vibrating), they come back to you with exactly the same force you send them, or with which nature sends them, as the case may be.    So that, say, the flinging of the ball against the wall is the action, and the force with which they meet creates the reaction, sending the ball back whence it came; at the same time if the ball strikes the wall so feebly that hardly any reaction is given, it will fall to the ground for want of momentum, or impetus (the force with which a body is driven or impelled).    Thought rays (thought being a vibratory mass, as we have agreed) sent out through the ether with direct force, will return upon their center (the brain) with equal force to that which sent them forth. So, according to this law, thought goes out, charged with its duty, and returns to the starting point having fulfilled its mission, if the thinker is organized. So that thought goes out to perform an errand, and will return to you laden with just what you sent it for, IF YOU ARE MASTER. Thought is your SERVANT, and if properly used will always bring you what you send it for.    In the realm of occultism the psychic forces, which are used by man, follow very much the same laws, which govern the natural, or partly material world, but so far from realizing this important fact man has sought for laws outside those he knows. It has been my experience that the occult is so simple it passes the comprehension of the man in the street whom looks for mystery where there really is none. Life in all its manifestations is simple, and is governed, as the ancients taught, by ONE life, ONE law, ONE word. It is the teachings that are complex, not the subject, and anything that can be done to simplify such teachings is most decidedly a step in the right direction.    There is the old, old motto, used by Freemasons and others of religious and mystic persuasions, in hoc signo vinces (by this sing thou shalt conquer), and man has been speaking also of the esoteric societies and Masonic brotherhood, taken this to mean the sign of the cross. Yet how can a cross help us to conquer? I will tell you what it really means, it is not the cross, but the CHRIST which will help us to conquer, and it is not even the Christ who is but a myth to many, it is the Christ within ourselves, and until we recognize this great power of good within us we shall never conquer. It has always seemed to me that the solidity of our bodies has been a drawback to the mental acceptance of the occult truths we are tying to make a part of our minds, and that the idea that we have so many stones of flesh and blood, bone and muscle to support, keeps us form the realization of the mighty truth that we are all MIND and LOVE, so I am anxious for my pupils to get their minds clear of that and to believe and understand that they are as much spirit as anything else. The very materiality of the fleshy body is a hindrance to mental and physical development, but I do not wish you to deny your body, it is there all right enough, and a very great necessity, too; I only want you to grasp the fact that by recognizing the occult significance of “I AM LOVE,” or “I AM POWER,” you are admitting the fact that our entire body is permeated throughout with the etheric waves which act as a medium for all things throughout the infinite.    So that you ARE love and power, and being all love nothing can ever really harm you if you understand the law. Your body is an animated magnet, and the space it fills in the atmosphere is just a greater center of attraction. Say so half a hundred times a day, think of all it means to you, “I am FORCE, the LAW OF LIFE. The law is manifesting in my body and can be tapped for use whenever I wish to do so.”    There is a great power in words, not that the words themselves are of any value, but they can and do convey suggestions, and when you concentrate upon certain words you set up the conditions those words convey to your brain machine. You say the word LOVE; it at once awakens a certain train of thought, and as you think you set in motion vibrations which, ever reaching outward, bring you into mental contact with the best the world has for you, the best part of the men and women with whom you come into business or social relations, the best of mineral, animal, and vegetable kingdoms, and last, but not least, the best of the spiritual world and of YOURSELF. You MAKE yourself LOVE, and you are love; you simply radiate love as a stove or the sun radiates heat. So let that be your battle-cry; let it be your password to a better state, “I AM LOVE, LOVE FILLS MY ENTIRE BODY.” Even if it brought you no material benefit (which it will do), the experiment is well worth trying for the simple pleasure of seeing how everybody you meet will unbend to your influence, and how much loved in return you will become. It will be simply your mental body responding to the suggestion carried by the word love, and from the mental to the physical meaning of the little word not only mentally, but also physically.    I have shown how thought does and should travel, and why it is capable of performing its journey through ether, but I only treated of this in a perfunctory manner, because I wanted to explain more fully in the lesson of thought fields, to which we are coming in our next lesson.
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<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON IV </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    THE arguments advanced in this lesson are worthy of particular attention, because, in the first place, they will help us to a clearer understanding of the occult power of thought when properly directed and <em>energized</em> by concentration, and also because it clearly demonstrates the affinity existing between esoteric and <strong><a title="physical laws" href="http://www.physicalsecuritycrossing.com/" target="_blank">physical laws</a></strong>. Before treating of the effects of radiant energy and thought fields, it will be as well to understand, first, what radiant energy is, and second, what a field is?    To take the meaning of energy first, as distinguished from motion; energy is the term applied to any mass (or any <em>body</em>), which, when moving, strikes against another body and sets that also moving, and the power of the original body to move another is known as its energy, and measured according to the amount of movement it is able to impart.    <em>Radiant energy</em> is the term applied to any mass or body of matter possessing energy of a nature that can be imparted to the atmosphere, or the medium, which surrounds it, and the speed with which this energy is transmitted depends entirely upon the ability of the medium to transmit energy, and not upon the <em>force</em> itself.    Thus the thought atoms are in perfect sympathy with the medium, ether, and as a consequence ether is an ideal transmitter for thought waves.    Remember that any substance or matter thus distributing radiant energy can set other masses of matter in motion, and this is an important part of our statement regarding the vibratory nature of thought. The ether transmits such wave motions in <em>straight lines</em> and there is no limit to the distance they can travel, they can go on indefinitely; but the point I am leading up to is what is technically called the <em>field</em>, and the explanation thereof.    To return to my old method of illustration, I will ask you to look carefully at Fig. I.    <em><strong>  ( Fig. I not shown ) </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    The center “A” is the mass that we know possesses the power of distributing radiant energy. Now all the space outside that mass or body, to the extent within which it is capable of acting in this way upon other bodies, so as to bring them to a similar condition to its own, is what scientific men call <em>the field</em>. That is to say, the space surrounding and in front of the mass forms the field. So that ‘B” in the preceding diagram represents that field; and the extent of the field depends altogether upon the force, or energy, possessed by the mass. The more force it has the wider is the field through which its energy is distributed. Think how the great brains of the world make their influence felt. Or think again how the sun’s energy pervades the vast space separating it from our planet.    Taking the magnet sun as the best possible illustration of an object akin to thought energy, it is known that a magnetic field cannot exist without an inducing magnet, or current of electricity. Every magnet has what are called its poles, the term applied to the two ends, and these poles are called respectively positive and negative. Magnetism as a study is probably unknown to many of my readers, and a few words of explanation may help the student. The common magnet or lode-stone is found in Magnesia, in Asia Minor, and in other parts of the world. It has the property of drawing, or attracting to itself pieces of steel and iron, and also of invariably pointing to the <em>north</em> and <em>south</em>. Artificial magnets are made by rubbing a piece of steel on a lode-stone, when the iron will acquire the properties of the lode-stone. Dr. Gilbert, in 1600, found out that the attraction appeared to reside in a long-shaped magnet at two ends, and these two regions were called poles (Greek <em>polos</em>, from <em>pelo</em>, to move), so the magnetic pole is literally one of the points in a magnet, corresponding to the poles of the earth, the one pointing north and the other south; the poles are almost invariably at the ends. That portion of a magnet lying between the poles is less magnetic, and does not attract so strongly, and half way between the poles there is no attraction at all.    The first law of magnetism is that “like magnetic poles repel one another, and unlike magnetic poles attract one another.” So that two north pointing poles will violently repel one another, but two poles, one north pointing, or positive, and the other south pointing, or negative, will attract one another.    The earth is itself a magnet with its north pointing and south-pointing pole, and man is a magnet also; in fact all nature in its variety of forms and phases is composed of magnets, each atom and molecule having its positive and negative poles.    The human brain has also its positive and negative aspects, and its poles are situated respectively in cerebrum and cerebellum, as the third diagram will show you (see Lesson I for explanation of brain division). Figure 2 shows the ordinary magnetic lives radiating from an ordinary magnet, the space filled with the lines being the magnetic field.    <em><strong>  ( Fig. 2 not shown ) </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    Now coming to our immediate subject, <em>Thought</em>. You will readily understand how the THOUGHT FIELD can follow the same lines as the magnetic field. Here is the brain and the THOUGHT FIELD. Thus we get “A,” the brain, “B,” the thought lines the thought field. As I explained before, there must be a body, or mass of matter to distribute radiant energy, and unless there is the body or <em>force</em> to create a field – magnetic, electric, chemical, mechanical or <em>thought</em>, which you please – there can be no field.    In the <em>thought field </em>the BRAIN is the mass of matter, the force that radiates energy and creates a “<em>field</em>;” in the feeble, unorganized brain this field is weak, and affects only a limited area. But the greater the personal magnetism, the more powerful and organized the brain, the greater the extent of its radiation, the wider its <em>field</em>, the more lasting its effects. And the generation of <em>thought force</em>, or mind, which I described in my last lessons, makes the advent of some great man or woman. Great, according to the sphere of their labor and their ruling talent.    <em><strong>  ( Fig. 3 not shown ) </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    Thus, roughly, we have Christ, Buddha, Nero, Shakespeare, Boadicea, just a few names, with different qualities, yet all with sufficient <em>force</em> to have created energy enough to last through the ages!    When two brains are working together for the purposes of telepathy, or healing, one must be positive, the other negative, and they create what is called <em>attraction</em>, for by means of the sympathy between them they set up a stress (pressure) in the ether, and the thought fields act in such a way that they are pushed together (by this I mean the thought lines, not the brains), and commingle and blend under the conditions described above. They exchange, or transfer their energy, the transfer always taking place from the one possessing the higher rate to the one possessing the lower. Thus one person acts as a transmitter, and the other as a receiver. The one is negative, and the other <em>positive</em>, otherwise they would <em>repel</em> instead of <em>attract</em>, since “like magnetic poles repel on another, and unlike magnetic poles attract.” That is to say, two positive poles would repel each other, but a positive pole and a negative pole would attract each other. So like minds repel each other, and unlike minds attract, or perhaps it would be better to say that the strong mind attracts the weak, and <em>vise versa</em>.    <em><strong>  ( Fig. 4 not shown ) </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    Figure 4 shows how each brain acts upon the thought field of the other, and it should be remembered this action applies more particularly to the various processes of mental healing, success vibration, etc., etc.
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<p>  <strong>  LESSON V </strong>    <strong> </strong>    WE must not forget that the attributes of the mass are possessed by the atom (that is to say, each atom contains in itself everything to be found in the mass), and that every atom of brain matter or of thought is acting upon each neighboring atom in the same way that one brain will act upon another, and that this is going on indefinitely, so that every object throughout the cosmos is continually affecting the space surrounding it in various ways, its temperature (thought HAS a temperature, and to the sensitive this becomes at once apparent, whether hot, cold or normal, and it is my opinion that a machine will soon be made showing the thought temperatures of people), and its effects upon the surrounding space, with its magnetic or electric qualities, and in the case of thought with its spiritual, material, good and mistaken qualities.    It is because of the vastness of thought and its possibilities that the study of its laws is so interesting and so very complex. When a man makes a movement of his body, he at once alters the position of the ether, and sets up a stress or pressure; but when he thinks, he sets up a much more powerful stress; and when we consider the thinking which characterizes some minds, we can at once understand why they are like a rudderless boat in a stormy sea; they seem to be setting up all sorts of cross currents around them, and the result is a life of misery. When the organized thinker exercises mental power, he sets up an even stress, and, to use a simile, the wind only blows one way, and so this man is not literally devoured by his own conflicts. I do not think that any man would willingly attempt to make his life hell, when he can make it heaven to a very great <em>extent</em>. To show how deeply we are affected by the thoughts of others, consider a clever actress; she can play upon the feeling of her audience, move them to tears, horror, or laughter, just as she pleases, yet her mental state is only simulated; but for the time the greater number of that audience are really CONCENTRATING on the woman before them, and so are swayed by the emotions she depicts.    So I get my pupils to concentrate on what they love to begin with. That is why, as a general rule, people who take up the new thought can route poverty quicker than evil of the body. They are fairly used to sickness, etc., but they can never feel satisfied with the continual grind of poverty.    If you emit love, you will shake off that demon, hate; if you think only of success you will gain it; BUT if you give your heart to these things only you will succeed for a <em>time</em> only. Bear in mind that the voice of the Spirit must be obeyed also, and that before you can achieve earthly happiness you must be equally advanced in both spiritual and material things.    Man is mechanical, and his development to a certain plane is also mechanical, but after that the <em>mind man</em> holds full sway, and we can become just what our minds conceive, ordered only by such laws of nature as are part of our being, and intended for our general enfoldment. It is true, as mental science claims, that we can overcome evil and substitute good, but we can never be quite free from nature’s laws, and the very mistakes we make are prime factors in our mental development.    In the previous lessons we have been chiefly concerned with the projection of thought in a concentrated form, and passing on to the consideration of personal and creative magnetism, we will investigate the methods of concentrating our <em>forces</em> within.    That is to say, instead of projecting our thought outward to either convey a message, bring back an answer, or to attract certain affinities we desire from the infinite, we are now thinking of turning our thought forces inwards, and must contrive to do so in such a manner that no outward radiation takes place whatever.    I am assuming the student to be aware that all force comes from within, and that all spirit is also within; that I to say, there is no need to “prospect” outside the self. Within your own physical body are contained all your psychic forces, and also your <em>spiritual body</em>, whilst locked up in the memory of the past are all the teachings of spirit, all knowledge of life and so-called death, of love, of truth, of power, all that has ever been – you know it all; you have but to unlock the memory of past births and you will speedily find that before you is a store of knowledge such as you never imagined possible before.    To a certain extent we are ordered by destiny, yet so far as the general events of each incarnation are concerned we are alone responsible for them. Each man and woman is a power in them, possessing all the potentiality of divinity. They need not seek for light from without; they have it all within themselves.    This is the most difficult lesson the student has to learn; it is curious that he may read it in hundreds of books, be told it by as many teachers, but until he has arrived at a certain stage of development he cannot realize the fact for what it is worth.    This method of inward concentration is the most precious of all and the most important. The processes I have indicated in previous lessons appertain more to the acquirement of material things than spiritual, but this method applies more nearly to the realm of spirit.    I do not wish to be misunderstood. All thought, as all progress, comes from within, but under certain circumstances you project that thought, and under certain other circumstances it is turned inward, so that all the light of your reason is concentrated upon your soul.    When we project our thoughts we send them outside ourselves, maybe to travel on some mission, or to heal the sick, to carry a message to a friend, or any other material object, good in itself, but not always of the highest piritual benefit – to the thinker. If you will look at Fig. I (Lesson 5) you will see the method involved. The outermost circle may be regarded as the limit of the brain; of course, meaning the machine, not the force generated.    <em><strong>  ( Fig I -Lesson 5 – Not Shown ) </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    This circle I have marked “B.” “A” is the physical heart, the altar of the etheric centers of the body (according to the Rosicrucian teachings). Now the rays of thought, instead of being projected outwards, are turned directly inwards to the heart, and these rays, or vibrations, follow the direction of “B” to “A,” instead of from “A” to “B.” So that, like a dark lantern, there is nothing to be seen from outside, all the light is concentrated within.    As in the ordinary form of concentration, do not try too much at first. This is even more trying than the other, because, unless a very ardent student of the occult, it is less interesting. At the same time, where true progress is desire it is absolutely necessary.    As long as we learn from books and from lessons we are but novitiates, and the knowledge we obtain is second hand at best, but once we have really learnt how to concentrate we no longer remain in the outer temple, we are no longer dependent upon others, we <em>know for ourselves.</em> Study the foregoing diagram well; then, having gotten the idea firmly in your mind, sit down quietly and turn your thought inwards as I have described.    I find that pupils are more likely to achieve results if they use some word or words in their concentration, and suggest the following: breathe deeply, but perfectly evenly and without effort, do not attempt to count the breathing, nor to hold it any length of time; let the whole process be quite natural and not forced. Deep breathing, that is to say from the abdomen, or rather from behind it, from the solar plexus, has a most curious and direct effect upon all efforts in the way of concentration, clairvoyance and kindred powers of spirit.    As you breathe in, think; <em>think</em>, with every particle of your brain, “Love,” or “Wisdom,” “Life,” “Divinity,” but you must think it up with all your mind and continue to do so until you have taken it in its entirety. You must soak it in, and when you have got it, keep fast hold, and do not ever relinquish.    When you think these words you are gradually molding yourselves into these conditions. Perhaps the best word of all is “Power”; it means so much, but you must clearly realize <em>what</em> you do mean, and you must not take up any side issues, nor let our thoughts wander from the inward focus I have described. That is why I gave the other forms of concentration first, because they are easier to master, and prepare the student for the heavier task now under discussion. Remember that your thought can mold your body, and that as you think so you will become, so that when you stop for ten minutes or longer in the contemplation of your prospective power, wisdom and love, you are actually growing into these things, and as long as you think them intelligently you are bound to become them.    Now when you have accomplished this matter, try a little farther; but although you take all the lessons at once, you cannot do both these exercises at once, and you simply must take one step at a time.    Sit as before, breathe evenly; now ask a question, make your mind blank, and listen for the answer. You will get a clear message in perhaps a month or two. Do not be impatient, you cannot hurry this thing; just listen as if you were waiting for a human voice to speak to you. Listen intently, and at last you will get an answer, either directly or an impression.    It is very difficult for some people to make the brain a blank, and it is not at all easy to teach the process. I think, however, that the best way is to take it by degrees. Try to kill all thought for a minute at a time, gradually increasing the time, from day to day. In this way you obtain perfect control of your brain machine. You can eliminate thought altogether or think on any chosen subject at will, and you must not despair if you do not gain immediate results. You cannot possibly learn in a second, it takes time, and the longer you take to acquire your knowledge the more thorough it will be, and the results more lasting.
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<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON VI </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    THERE are two distinct aims in the attainment of the power of concentration: First, to mold the consciousness into a new and better state; second, to attain the highest possible knowledge of things spiritual.    Remember that habit is what you desire to cultivate, so that you are able to form your body anew, and to repeat the process almost involuntarily is the chief necessity for continual and regular concentration, for the more concentrated and single your mind becomes on any particular point, the more it tends to permanency, and in the same way, if you are irregular, you tend to suppress the thought power you ought to manifest.    The cellular brain tissues are greatly changed by this process of correct thinking, and may be actually increased, whilst those that have been constructed by wrong thinking are caused to waste away. Every effort at right thought, or concentration, brings into play a new set of atoms which tend to build up the new tissues, and at the same time devour and destroy the old.    There is absolutely nothing in the all world so plastic as the brain of man. It can be molded by the will or over soul of the owner or of someone who may have influence over him, and in this way a teacher, by applying the right impulse, may bring the pupil to a higher state of mind, and help him in the process of rebuilding his physical and mental system.    When a man arrives at a state when he realizes how much his over soul can do for him he does not need a teacher to help in the molding process, but when, as very frequently happens, the spirit awakens in a man whose over soul is still more or less dormant, then is the guidance of a teacher more or less of a necessity.    Often the searcher after truth doubts his own power and divinity and so long as he doubts he will obtain little benefit from the occult. It is the poor opinion of his own powers which keeps man in the background, and also that he forgets that every moment of his life he is fashioning the future, that is to say, that all his thoughts today may take material form tomorrow, or the day after, so that each time he fails to concentrate with earnest purpose, each time he omits the daily exercise, he is postponing his future happiness.    The action of breathing deeply, which I have recommended, has the effect of quickening the circulation of the blood, and in some way acts upon the brain tissue, making sight, it the spiritual sense, hearing, and sense all more acute; and when you think some strong and positive thoughts as you breathe, it has the effect of sending this message to every part of the body, right along the nerves, arteries and blood vessels, until the whole body has taken up the chorus and is full of the power of your thought. Here again the value of concentration comes in; a decided message sent along your physical telegraph wire reaches the point at once and makes a firm and decided record, whilst a weak thought has no such effect. So that if you seek to overcome some bodily ill, get a clear grasp of the part that needs renovation, and then turn all your thought force inwards and send a strong message to that part.    “I am strong, I am well, I am divine. All is life, and in my thought and mind dwells infinite life. I am making my future all along the line, and that future shall be perfection. I am invincible, nothing can harm me, and it is my intention to manifest my power right now in my body.”    Do not say these words like a parrot; think of all they mean, think of all they put behind you, and of all they open up before you. You are making your future now, <em>Now</em>, and when you sit in concentration you are weaving your own fate – good, bad, or indifferent.    Having learnt how to concentrate for a few minutes at a time, first on things mundane, then on the more difficult phases of spirit, make a habit of devoting a short time daily to the contemplation of your future prospects. When you begin to know the peace and calm which falls upon you after sitting in this concentration, you will begin to value it accordingly; at first it soon wears off, but as your mind becomes more and more organized so will the results last longer, and the time will come when you can take this infinite peace with you wherever you go, take it with you and bestow it upon others.    In the natural course of events all the thought force, which I am asking you to conserve, is wasted, and so you achieve little success in either business or any other matter. When you desire business success you must concentrate all your thought force upon the matter that must succeed, and you must then name it aloud; in your thought, see it a success, and the expect that success to manifest.    Now having done that, begin to weave your thought into power currents. See these currents traveling to the object and surrounding it on every side, until it is bathed in powerful currents of thought force which are more powerful and can travel faster than a flash of lightening, and are more deadly in execution than a strong electric battery; these in their turn act as magnets and attract all the good forces in other people who are brought into contact with the matter in hand, and they in their turn do all they can to foster its success. You many ask how to weave the thought current I have spoken of.    <em><strong>  ( Diagram not shown ) </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    I strongly advise the use of the imagination to aid in this. The first ingredient is the power to concentrate; the second is to see in your imagination, your mind machine producing and generating a very fine and subtle fluid, full of this marvelous power; then, of course, you project it as directed in the first lesson, and let it follow the course given in the above diagram. “A” is the brain, “B” is the thought force that travels on its journey through the ether, and “C” is the object you desire to enfold with this mighty current of living mind stuff.    Perform this exercise two or three times a day, and you will never fail, that is to say, as soon as you have got your brain into a sufficiently organized condition to carry out your orders. This ought to be the case in about two or three months, if you follow these lessons implicitly. You see, it is not a case of miracles, but simply as system of organized education, and the results are as sure as the Tower or London.    Always regard thought as a substance. You can conceive very easily of the effect a flash of lightning would have if it played around any given object for a time, or better still, you know well the effect a current of magnetism has upon a bar of iron, and as I have told you again and again, your thought is more powerful than any of these things, and when you play it in the right condition around any given object, then you produce the same results; for as the flow of magnetism produces what it knows as induction <em>that is to say, the transference of a magnetic</em> or electric state from an electrified body to a non-electrified body, by proximity without contact.), so your  thought force inducts its etheric substance into what ever you choose to play it upon. The analogies between the science of electricity, and, indeed, the whole realm of physics and the noumenal world of thought and spirit are curious, and the more one investigates the more certain it appears that the same laws govern both.
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>  PERSONAL MAGNETISM – THE MAGNETIC WILL  </strong></span></p>
<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON VII </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    THESE papers would not be prefect without some reference to the method of concentration used by the Indian adepts, who acquire the habit ONLY BY DEVOTING A LIFETIME TO THE STUDY. We in the West have not the time for this, nor do I think we shall benefit very much by the various methods of “killing thought” advocated by those who wish merely to make the mind blank to receive inspirational communications from what is the “unknown,” but I know that we can make our mind blank without any particular effort if we will not attempt to do too much at first; and we must also remember that strong healthy bodies are necessities for those who would take up the concentrating methods with any zest, for when we hold our mind to any given subject for any length of time, the grosser atoms of thought which have traveled to the spot or object concentrated upon, sink down back to the original starting place – in fact they filter away, and their place is taken by finer particles, causing a great mental strain upon the thinker, and unless there is strong health to back up the nervous strain, madness, or brain fever would be the result, but as long as the health is all right concentration will benefit, and not harm the student. Grow to the practice gradually, and you will gain all you need, and find all efforts crowned with success.    It is not at all a bad plan to use a glass bowl of water when concentrating. Fix the desire in mind, and try to see the words spell out in the bowl; this method helps to fix the attention, and if a bowl of water is not handy, try a pencil and a piece of paper; the idea is simply to convey the message to the brain, through the retina of the eye, for this holds the image as does the sensitive plate used by the photographer.    Sit when most convenient – it is almost impossible to have any fixed time. In any course of lessons written for general use it is almost impossible to give just the information needed by each individual, and if my pupils will explain their personal difficulties they will help me and themselves, for I will gladly write a full reply to all their requirement upon receipt of 2s. 6d. to cover time and stationary.    The following brief rules may be remembered:    If you want money, see it coming to you; let your concentration be general; have faith; expect what you want to come to you    If you have ill health, do not think of the particular disease, which may trouble you, but concentrate all your attention upon the acquirement of perfect health; do no let any other idea come into your mind for the time being; say, <em>“I AM WELL, PERFECT HEALTH IS MINE, pure vital blood flows through my veins, I am a perfect</em> manifestation of the All Good, and in every part of my body there is nothing but life and live.” I have found this statement to bring relief even in the most obstinate cases, and it seldom fails. Talk nothing but health, sleep, dream, and EAT it, and you will very soon manifest it, for if people talked health half as assiduously as they discuss their pet ailments, the doctor would have to find a new profession!    Do you think that because you have not immediate health that you are making a false statement; you are, by your mental attitude, preparing the “TOMORROW,” and so the statement is true, for if you say “I will be well,” instead of “I am well,” your are postponing the harvest of your thought.    If your trouble should be some great sorrow let your statement run thus: -<em>I AM LOVE, LOVE FILLS MY BOY, AND I AM FULL OF THE GLORIOUS AND JOYOUS RADIANCE ONLY LOVE CAN EMIT. ALL IS GOOD, AND I AM HAPPY.</em>” Do not say this once but dozens of times, and allow the statement to sink in until you become the image of your ideal.    In time you will become as radiant as the love you profess, and when this takes place you will find the world all right without any further effort on your part.    Now I intend passing on to the subject of “Personal Magnetism,” and the question naturally arises. What is Personal Magnetism?    Followed by the equally pertinent demand. What are its uses?    Personal Magnetism is really many things. First it is organized<em> will power</em>; secondly it is <em>health</em>; thirdly it is the ability to amalgamate the will power and health, and aided by the desire to <em>“obtain”</em> certain objects, to so <em>project</em> the subtle and highly potent magnetic force thus generated in the body, as to attract people and circumstances – it means that every man and woman can become natural magnet they will persevere in their efforts to develop this force.    As for its uses, they are many.    This magnetic force is powerful to heal the sick, the greatest use which, in my opinion, it can be put.    It enables the man or woman who possesses it to attract or repel at will, or to draw to themselves SUCCESS, MONEY, FAME, POWER, HAPPINESS <em>(if they use it wisely)</em>!    Animal magnetism, then, is a very subtle substance filling the entire universe.    It is subtler than <em>ether</em>, just as the ether is subtler than air, and air than water.    As the vibrations of the ether permit light to travel, and the vibrations of the air sound, so the vibrations of the animal magnetism permit and cause other phenomena.    This vibratory substance is sometimes called “<em>od</em>”or “<em>odylic force</em>,” but I prefer the term animal or personal magnetism, because it is so much simpler and easier to understand, whether it is to be used as a healing agent or for any other purpose.    Every magnet has a <em>positive and negative</em> pole (the poles are situated at the two ends of an elongated magnet. These terms are generally accepted to mean – “<em>Positive</em>”-MORE, STRONGER, “<em>Negative</em>” – LESS, OR WEAKER. The first law of Magnetism is that like Magnet poles repel one another, and unlike Magnetic poles attract.    So the <em>positive</em> attracts the <em>negative</em>, the <em>negative</em> the <em>positive</em>, the strong the weak.    In man, the Magnet, his body and mind represent the two poles; we are taught by Helen Wilmans.    The BODY is the <em>negative pole</em>, MIND OR THOUGHT POWER the <em>positive</em>. The <em>positive</em> mind, <em>the mind that has been made familiar with its own unlimited power</em>, can <em>attract</em> to itself, by an ordinary reasoning process Animal Magnetism, and <em>increase and store this force for everyday use, and generate it according to necessity. </em>    It is intimately associated with your <em>will power</em>, your <em>brain</em>, your <em>thought</em> but for the cultivation you must follow the exercises give in a later lesson, and you will attain <em>real life</em> will <em>throw off your years, off your cares</em>, and gain such <em>health and success as you desire</em> – and <em>more</em>!    The recognition of Universal Intelligence is essential.    I want you to become strong Individually, to rest upon the knowledge of your own power; but do not forget this same power is but the reflected glory of the <em>one Light</em>, the center of all things.    It is the custom of many teachers of Metaphysics to assert that a personal God is impossible, that God is an essence, and does not possess a personality.    With this teaching many pupils are repelled who would otherwise be attracted to the Higher Thought.    Science must always <em>advance</em>, and when I undertake the task of assimilating the metaphysical Deity with Theological Deity, I am going one step forward.    Briefly the idea is this: It has been astronomically ascertained that the milky white is a gigantic belt of suns and worlds (of which our won Solar System is a very second rate affair, so far as size is concerned) which is continually revolving around, and is ordered by some unseen center of Gravity, upon which the whole depends. This, I am firmly convinces is “<em>God”</em>-the Father, <em>a God of unlimited power. </em>    From this glorious Being radiates a powerful, subtle essence, which reach throughout the unlimited realms of space – and the name of this emanation is both Life and Love.    Wherever there is substance or life, which it forever creates – <em>there</em> is set up a <em>Holy Shrine</em>, and the place assigned to that shrine in man, is, by Rosicrucian’s, assumed to be the <em>physical HEART</em>, which is the center of the physical body, as the Father is the center of ALL.    Within the valves of the human heart this <em>Holy radiance settles and finds a home</em>, as a sunbeam might settle upon a flower, and from <em>thence</em>, at <em>the dictation of man’s conscious will and thought</em>, this <em>Divine light can again radiate in infinite love, drawing to the man all he needs of health, or wealth, or happiness</em>. For in this way he becomes one with the Father, an intimate and dearly beloved Friend.    This definition may also be applied to the <em>brain,</em> if the student prefers that to the <em>physical heart. </em>    Now FAITH in your power to achieve success in the use of personal Magnetism is a very large factor towards that success.    The man, who has confidence in his ability, when wishing to transmit Magnetism, is going a very long way towards swift results; but the man who <em>doubts his ability to exert this force simply wastes it. </em>    A state frequently seen in the idealistic mind is that of the dreamer who can formulate but never execute, simply because of either intense waste of Magnetic power, or because of prostration of the entire nervous system.    A strong will must be normal, having complete control over every mental and bodily function, and to this end these lessons are intended.    I am teaching you to assert your SELF to be an Individual Entity, instead of a knock-kneed invertebrate, bolstered up at every turn by all sorts of unhealthy, weakening devices. The Magnetic WILL can only be cultivated by constant practice, when instead of being the playing thing of Fate of Circumstance, you become the wirepuller, and order your own Circumstance.
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<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON VIII </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    PERSONAL magnetism, then, means power, and the ability to exert that power over people, and even to a certain extent over circumstances, because the people we influence and come in contact with go a long way towards CREATING circumstances.    The man or woman best able to exert this power belongs to what is known as the VITAL temperament.    This, when analyzed, resolved itself simply into the temperament of perfect health and vitality; although it is very usual to make this temperament a matter of coloring (red, or auburn haired people, in fact), I don’t find it pans out this way at all, in fact, ANY coloring may be vital, provided the person has the energy and perseverance to cultivate the vital principles; and it’s purely humbug to put any hard and fast rule to this matter at all.    The one thing that is certain, however, is that all <em>want</em> to cultivate that temperament that is desirous of obtaining POWER, TRUE LIFE and SUCCESS. Vital means LIFE or relating to life, and the vital temperament is used to describe those people who are in a state of PERFECT MENTAL AND PHYSICAL BALANCE.    They enjoy perfect bodily and mental health, and the one is not developed at the expense of the other.    They have clear, fresh skins, bright eyes, firm flesh, spirits buoyant, and the power of attracting other people very great. These, in a word, are the people who possess the greatest store of NATURAL <em>animal magnetism. </em>    But the great point is that one and all can take on this characteristic, and so increase their stock of magnetic and electric particles that they BECOME VITAL!    The vital temperament radiates magnetism.    The invisible currents pass off in every direction from every part of the body, and so great is the force of this subtle power, that although<em> invisible to the naked eye the camera can reveal it;</em> and the HUMAN BODY and HUMAN MIND at once feel the impression, bodily <em>as a thrill,</em> or <em>sensation of warmth</em>, mentally as an <em>invigorating shock </em>from an electric battery, or as an overpowering desire to <em>“go out and do something”! </em>    Such a temperament has the ability to influence every person (and animal) who comes in contact with him, but has a GREATER POWER THAN THIS.    He can influence those with whom he does not come into actual contact until they are drawn to him, in answer to his thought.    This man radiates his magnetic power in the spirit of UNIVERSAL LOVE. He recognizes the spirit, or the love principle in everyone, shedding his power from the storehouse I have described in Lesson VII upon mankind as a whole.    The powerful magnetic rays issuing from his person draw to him, from out of the immense mass of humanity, all that can be useful to him.    He sees <em>within</em> himself the Love Spirit; he mentally sees this spirit radiating outward from his body an essence of immense force, which finds a resting place within those hearts, or upon those minds, which he so lovingly recognizes.    REMEMBER that the man or woman who minuses this power will surely find it turned backup on themselves to their undoing.    WHEN YOU ATTRACT PEOPLE it is because you supply something they need, something they lack; your powerful magnetism fills an empty space. This is the secret which makes one public speaker a huge success, and another a downright failure.    The one man has a great store of personal magnetism. He holds his audience enthralled; they listen to every word and are carried along by the mighty wave of his immense strength and MAGNETIC FORCE.    The other man has none. His words fall flat. His listeners remain unmoved. Yet he may be a man of polish, of education, of rank, with the easy speech born of cultured ancestors; and the first man might be poor, uncultured, and of the people. But the first man knows his subject, believes in his power to attract, and by sheer will power carries his point.    IN BUSINESS MATTERS the same rule applies: the man of force, possessing this wonderful power of attraction, carries all before him. He is the man who can convince the unwilling (and be it said, unorganized) customer against his will. He is the man who can draw to himself success and DOLLARS in equal proportion, and can climb to the topmost rung of the ladder.    In the acquirement of this life, force applies to every grade of society and to BOTH SEXES.    The next point for consideration is how to generate the force.    To recognize your central spirit light is hardly enough; you must fan the flame, and generate fresh power, <em>concerning the forces you already possess.</em> Brain and nerve power are the secret forces. The brain is to be strengthened and developed and so are the nerves.    SELF-CONTROL is the first factor to be observed. You, sir, who cannot keep your hands still; you, madam, who are forever patting your back hair, or pulling at your dress, or twisting your watch chain. You who startle at every sound, who fidget and fume and worry over trifles, who are nervous and irritable, giving way to passion, and being but the plaything of circumstance, to you, I say, learn to control<em> self</em>, for all these mannerisms are resulting in a continuous and serious leakage of magnetism, which if used aright would enable you to COMMAND SUCCESS.    The “magnetic” people are fair with blue eyes, and pale or delicate skins. They are fidgety, nervous, often hysterical, and suffer as a rule from too great brain activity. Their mind is never at rest, they are continually worrying over trifles, and are of a cold, and often selfish temperament.    By control you can overcome these leakages, and by overcoming, stop them. So, by nerve and brain development – recognizing the brain <em>always as the nerve center, in connection with the ganglionic centers, at the base of the brain </em>– you can control the leakage and waste of magnetism, and so become magnetic.    The so called “electric” temperament, belonging to people who are generally dark in appearance, with sallow, or pale skins, having mental powers which are often sluggish, and a tendency to suffer from liver, laziness and similar complaints, requires plain, non-heating diet, very little meat – vegetarians are the healthiest; I never touch meat-regular hours, and last but not least, in addition to the exercises given in a later lesson, regular mental exercise; they need arousing, and their brain needs stimulation. They need nourishing, heat-producing foods (not necessarily meat), and they also require a time when they can be passive, forcing themselves to either less brain activity, or else to concentrate on one subject only.    These two types can, however, by following the rules I shall give in subsequent lessons, become <em>vital</em> and live as they please, master of their conditions, instead of the conditions being master over them.    The object of the descriptions of the various temperaments is intended to help the student in his knowledge of life and people, and to be used practically in the development of power.    The successful man or woman is master, but cannot be master unless he or she has learned how to be <em>all things to all men. </em>    When you have developed your personal magnetism you also develop your power of selection to an enormous extent, and you realize at a glance which battery to use for those you come into contact with, in business or society.    Personal magnetism, once the power has been developed, resolves itself into sympathy, the act of supplying to others elements they lack.    This you cannot supply voluntarily unless you are in a position to order and command your own forces.    Any man who has complete control over this entire physical and mental organism can hold the world enthralled in time as he enlarges his sphere electricity, stimulate their brains, probe them with questions to make them think, and they will be glad to always do your commands, because you have shown them a new side to their nature.    The magnetic people like to be soothed; some of them, too, do not care for things easily obtained; these people you must repel, show them the independent side of your nature, let them believe you would rather not have any dealings with them, only give in with decided reluctance.    The more you draw back, the more eager they become. Others again need persuasion – help. By mental suggestions you can make up their minds for them.    The mental rules are always as follows; dilute them, please, with three parts common sense, to one part rule or maxim. The physical rules will follow later.    You are conscious of your own strong magnetic power, and you are aware that you radiate this power, or substance, as the sun radiates light.    You have come into business intending to obtain success only, and you hold no doubt in your mind but that the other man will deal just exactly as you desire him to deal.    When dealing with people in business or society, hold your mind firmly to the power you possess, look them squarely in the face, and command them, mentally, to fulfill your desires. Think, “I am a man of organized power; I desire to carry such and such a plan into execution. Your brain is negative to mine, and I demand that you shall do so and so. I am master; I will have what I want.”    You can supply this same magnetic order when writing a letter. Hold the letter in your hand, or to your forehead, and will that it shall come to such and such an issue.    Your magnetic battery exists within your own body; at the command of your<em> will</em> you can radiate and generate this force.    Will power is vital thought, or mind.    Magnetism, therefore, becomes a center of communication between gross spirit or matter, and refined, or etheralized spirit or matter. Spirit is the eternal, active life principle, manifesting in all matter, as well as through the various <em>spheres of spirit. </em>    The force which moves the world, magnetism, may be represented in your mind in one word,<em> suggestion </em>or the command of will power, ending in either the spoken word or <em>concentrated thought,</em> is the weapon you must use through life, and that as your power so you can act by suggestion upon one man, or one thousand men.
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<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON IX </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    IN the <em>physical</em> exercises I give in these lessons it is as well to remember that very little good will result unless <em>proper breathing exercises</em> are indulged in, as well as the physical. Muscles alone are <em>not</em> the first consideration, and muscle does not really tend to promote personal magnetism. In moderation they are beautiful, but when overdone they transform the most perfectly formed man into a grotesque “something” that ought to be planed down with a carpenter’s plane to reduce it to its proper proportions. Let the muscles be lithe and supple, like steel and whipcord; let the <em>lungs</em> be perfectly developed, so that they can create healthy blood, which is vitality, and let both be equally blended.    Dumb-bell exercises with <em>heavy</em> bells certainly tend to create muscle; but it is heavy, lumbering, useless, except for brute strength, so that the heaviest dumb-bells a man should use are 3 lb. Bells, and a woman 1 lb.    Before commencing any exercises of a muscular nature, first learn how to control the breath. <em>Very</em> deep breathing is injurious, but most people exercise the lungs so slightly that they become atrophied – waste away for want of use, because they are never properly filled or emptied!    Attitude is the first step of importance. You can’t breathe if you round your shoulders and let your chin sink forward on your chest. Stand erect, waist in (in front, please, I must be polite, I suppose; but when I say <em>waist</em> I mean abdomen), shoulders squared and held back, chest well out, head thrown back, chin in. Now, with your mouth closed, draw a slow, deep breath, <em>(not too deep at first, for by violent breathing the lungs only become</em> tender and bruised), hold it for a second, then as slowly exhale, or breathe out through the nostrils.    There are three methods of breathing: from the abdomen, or solar plexus, from the rib and from the abdomen, or solar plexus, from the rib and from the upper chest. Begin right down in the abdomen – but gently, please – and raw the breath in through the nostrils so that the abdomen (don’t forget the abdomen is not the stomach, the two are quite distinct; the stomach is the bag or receptacle for one’s food; the abdomen, the thick fleshy wall which covers the intestines) is drawn in. In this way you force the intestines into action, awaken the solar plexus, and then slowly fill the lungs with fresh air, which in turn generates fresh blood, and fills every fiber and tissue of the body with new life – and ANIMAL MAGNETISM. This process done to excess will tire you, so be gentle at first, especially if you are one of those poor unfortunate wretches whose sole idea of breathing – if they ever think of it at all – is a little, quick, panting action which never fills the lungs once – nor empties them – and accounts so fully for pale cheeks, lifeless eyes, flabby flesh, and narrow pigeon breasts.    Proper action, proper breathing, perfect development, control of <em>will power,</em> and the acquirement by these means of perfect health and animal magnetism, are within the reach of <em>all. </em>    It may be urged that all people who possess this subtle power of magnetism, have <em>not</em> got perfect health.    Agreed, but they <em>have</em> perfect will control, and as a rule are absolute masters of some one or more accomplishments; and their magnetism is very apt to evaporate apart from the said accomplishment. Just <em>think</em> how few popular authors; painters or musicians are interesting, or even attractive, apart from their works. No, <em>you simply must have</em> HEALTH, <em>if you are to fulfill MY ideal of personal magnetism. </em>    <em>Given that, you may be as ugly as sin, have no brains in particular, yet your health and your will power will win you recognition everywhere. </em>    It is not one bit of use starting muscular and physical development until you have learnt how to breathe. Practice this continually until you are master of it. Practice it in the <em>open air</em> if you can; best of all in the sunshine, when you not only draw in pure air, but the subtle magnetism direct which is given off by the sun, the center of magnetism for our wee Universe.    Muscular exercises help us to make and <em>store</em> animal magnetism.    The breathing exercises accomplish the same end. The lessons in <em>concentration</em> already given help to develop the WILL power, and added to these, you have to consider the question of perfecting the <em>magnetic gaze. </em>    The magnetic gaze simply means perfect control of the nerves governing the eyesight, which must be strengthened to that “piercing” degree which can hold another person’s eyes, with or against their will.    Coming now to the subject of physical exercises for the muscular development necessary to the storage of magnetism.    <em>  Recollect that you must not only take the muscular exercise, but practice correct breathing at the same time, otherwise your pains are wasted. </em>    <em> </em>    Stand erect, as directed above, take the dumb-bells and place your hands to your sides, then begin to inhale a long, deep breath – gently, though; no exertion – and as you inhale, slowly lift your arms above your head, till the dumb-bells clash.    Count five, mentally, holding your breath the while; then slowly return your arms to your side, exhaling the breath as you go.    Repeat this twenty times, but remember very little benefit will accrue if you forget the breathing and attend only to the exercise. This breathing and muscular exercise tends to strengthen the lungs and chest; and is, simple as it may appear, very valuable.    Continue this exercise DAILY, with the breathing exercise.    Now I will show you how to store magnetism for use.    At the close of each spell of exercise, morning or evening as the case may be, or both, draw the breath in as directed before; then as you breathe, slowly stretch one arm at a time straight before you, clenching the hand (without dumb-bells) until every muscle is tense and rigid; relax each arm separately, then repeat with both arms. Making both tense and rigid.    Now make each leg, the trunk and backbone, and the neck equally stiff, holding your breath meanwhile, then as you exhale, let every part of your body RELAX, so that you are limp. Let your arms sink to your side, your neck and body give way, LET GO everything, be limp as a rag, and so rest.    It is not easy, this relaxing process, you want to relax the brain too, for otherwise it continues its hold on the muscles and sinews, and in spite of your efforts they remain strained and tense.    Practice an arm at a time, let the fingers hang loose and helpless, then the wrist, and so on, until the entire organism is at your control, to become tense or relaxed as you please.    But, when you tense your muscles, make them rigid – INHALE YOUR BREATH. When you relax your muscles, EXHALE YOUR BREATH.    It’s no end easy to be limp when, like a pair of un-worked bellows, you have no air in your lungs; and it’s not at all easy to keep rigid with empty lungs. In the next lesson I give a diagram showing the principle muscles, and the best methods of developing them for our present purpose.
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<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON X </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    TO briefly recapitulate the point of the lessons already given, so as to clearly remember what personal magnetism is, and why the exercises are necessary, I will sum it up under the following headings:    1st Personal or animal magnetism is a subtle essence, the nature of which I have already explained.    2nd It is possessed to a certain extend by most people, but is so faint and undeveloped, it is of little use to them.    3rd MAN IS A MAGNET, and his strength or weakness depends upon his knowledge of the fact, and the development of his thought and will power in response to that knowledge.    4th Animal magnetism is develop by acquiring perfect self-control, and WILL development, and also is very largely dependent upon effect health.    5th It is not hypnotism.    6th By means of it, man (and woman) can attract people and business, and it is the true key to success in any walk in life!    The diagrams of the muscular system of the human frame given with this lesson will show pretty clearly the effects of the various exercises given for developing personal magnetism.    The exercise of last lesson, as you will readily see, acted upon all those muscles marked “A” in diagram 1 and 2, those of the chest, abdomen, arms and back.    The breathing exercise taken in conjunction with this develops the lungs and sends new blood coursing through the entire body.    In the directions for storage of the magnetism, given in the last lesson, remember the flexing of the body and muscles gives rest, the TENSING of the muscles CHARGES THEM WITH MAGNETISM, this magnetism courses through the blood, borne along the crimson tide until it is distributed evenly to every part, there to be stored and kept for use, unless wasted by worry, fear, fidgety ways, lack of self-control, or excess in any form.    The next exercise I want you to take is the American “dry swim.” Stand erect, empty your lungs (exhale), and holding your hands to your sides, gradually sink down into the position of sitting on your heels; then slowly bring your arms to a horizontal position in front. Then slowly inhale, rising easily and gracefully on tiptoe, throwing the arms back as if swimming, and gradually sinking back on to your heels as before. Repeat this for twenty or thirty times. It is just grand. The blood tingles and courses through the body, and as the blood courses, so the magnetism flows through every vein. It is one of the most important, for every muscle is called into play. All the muscles marked “B” in both diagrams, the lungs, and in addition to the lungs, if you follow my directions for correct breathing, given Lesson IX, every organ of your body also does its proper work.    You cannot be magnetic unless you enjoy perfect animal and mental health. Correct breathing is the basis of true health, and it helps the nervous system to throw off worry, etc., for mind and lungs together unite in either perfecting or causing injury to the entire organism.    If the mind is depressed by grief, tormented by anxiety, or absorbed in sedentary meditations, all the bodily functions become weakened, and personal magnetism, so far from being stored to being used to order, LEAKS from every pore and is wasted. I can’t lay too much stress upon the necessity for proper breathing, or the fact that the exercises are useless, except to develop muscle, not magnetism, unless practiced exactly AS I SAY!    The next exercise after the “dry swim” is as follow: Stand erect, inhale, then, without bending the knee, bend over until your fingers touch the floor, exhale as you rise to an erect position, they slowly inhaling, bend in similar manner to the left side, exhale as you come up, and inhaling again slowly bend to the right.    This must all be done in a deliberate orderly method, taking about fifteen seconds, or twenty even, for each inhalation and exhalation, then, after tensing the muscles for the storage of magnetism, as taught in the last lesson.    You do not require any further physical muscular exercises than these to develop animal magnetism and perfect health, but don’t fall into the blunder of thinking you can develop in a week. It will take from two to six months of patient, regular exercise, of not less than thirty minutes daily practice, before you arrive at anything like fitness. And in addition to this, you must guard the mental portals as well.    Learn to practice concentration, to develop your will, to command your brain and its thought forces. In the next lesson I’ll show you the best method of controlling the nervous system and magnetic gaze.
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>  THE MAGNETIC GAZE – NERVE CONTROL – PRACTICAL APPLICATION  </strong></span></p>
<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON XI </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    IN the previous lessons I have show you how to develop your lungs and muscles, and so store health and magnetism, and in this lesson we must also consider how to gain complete control over the nerves, both of the body and those connected with sight. The magnetic, or would-be magnetic man or woman who cannot look another full in the face without blinking lacks the most convincing proof of their power.    From the eye proceeds a constant flow of magnetism; it is with the eye “Lion Tamers” hold their captives in thrall; it is through the eye we influence people we come in contact with.    A man instinctively trusts another who can meet his eye with ease, yet many people cannot do this from SHEER NERVOUSNESS.    But before the student can claim a perfect control of all nervous or spasmodic action, he must be able to reserve his power of thus controlling muscular and nervous action under trying circumstances. Among friends, alone, or at one’s ease, nerve control is easy enough.    Stand before the looking glass and practice gazing into your own eyes until you can do so steadily without flinching for any length of time.    Imagine to yourself a constant stream of magnetism flowing from the eyes.    Practice this upon other people; also force yourself to meet their gaze steadily, and never forget that you are the powerful factor, that you are the powerful factor, that you are the one to INFLUENCE, not be influenced.    I could give you several exercises for strengthening the eyesight, but for the magnetic gaze I think you will find the above quite sufficient.    It is not necessary really to go in for more than a few of these exercises.    The basis of all this power is THOUGHT and WILL, and it is not necessary to waste hours in exercises when half an hour twice a day is ample.    Learn to overcome all spasmodic nervous action and trifling habits. Be master of every part of your organization, through your will power. All the foregoing exercises tend to store up magnetism by giving complete control, so that not only the muscles of the body, but the MIND, the Central Telegraph Office of the body, holds every nerve in perfect subjection. Always ready for any emergency, perfect master of yourself and your circumstances, nothing can stand in your path but what your steady flow of magnetism will remove it – provided your object is a land able one.    But one more rule. In the hand of every person there is one spot which is the magnetic center of the entire being, the little god of flesh, or mount, below the third or “ring finger,” called by palmists the Mount of the Sun, or Apollo.    This finger has the most direct nerve connection with the heart, and forms, as I say, a direct magnetic center, the pad of flesh at the base forming the magnetic pole of same.    So that when people shake hands with magnetic centers in close contact a strong magnetic current is established between them.    This effect may be intensified if the mounts at the bases of the other fingers are also brought into as close contact with each other as possible, in this way bringing the minor magnetic poles also together.    A handshake can be made to carry out the magnetic influence of eyes and person, by inducing polarization of the magnetic atoms by contact, which is exactly the course also followed by magnetic healers.    A weak will does not signify a bad man, any more than a strong will signify a good man.    But a weak willed man is essentially negative, and being so, is more likely to be infirm of purpose in questions of mortality.    You have to long been brought up in the belief that you must be the slave of Fate and environment, that the tendencies at birth shape your character, and could not be eradicated.    But the new thought comes to show you that you can both BE and do what you will. Age and sex do not count. The past is over – done with. But the present and the future are your own.    Be positive; send the old negative beliefs flying.    “Let your ‘I will have,’ wait upon your ‘I want.’”    “I will have what I want” will thus carry you through life to a successful goal – to the realization of all your ambitions.    It has been proved that the particles of an ordinary magnet possess the power of selection, that is to say they can attract to themselves anything within their own limited sphere of action. The magnet man, or, the contrary, has unlimited powers of attraction. Once he knows how to send out his demands, the supply will always be equal to the demand, when the demand is made boldly without any shadow of doubt or fear.    Man too often limits himself unnecessarily – he does not demand enough. Big thoughts carried into action end in big results. Let your sphere of action be as side as possible and do not go round by the style to escape leaping the big, double blackthorn hedge.    Another great fault is that people are too chary of giving; they argue that they have enough for themselves, but not enough to give away. Yet they are drawing upon an unlimited supply, the wealth of which is far in advance of the demand – they cannot ask too much, and they cannot give too much.    The most fatal thoughts to success are those of economy, they freeze everything. Nature is lavish to the point of extravagance; it is man only who pinches and saves, and fears there will not be enough to go around, and so becomes his own utter damnation.    If you want to know more of this law of supply and demand, Read Helen Wilman’s works on mental science.
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<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON XII </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    THAT diet plays a large part in the acquirement of Personal Magnetism my readers will readily understand. I have laid down such stringent rules as to the necessity for perfect health, and diet has so much to answer for in the acquirement of perfect health, that too much consideration cannot be give to it.    Naturally I do not advocate flesh food in any form; neither do I advise the so-called vegetarian diet.    For perfect health and strength and the “staying” power boasted of by meat eaters nothing can beat a fruitarian diet.    To prove this we need only consider the results of the great International walking race, held at Whitsuntide, in Germany (1902), when the competitors walked from Dresden to Berlin, a distance of 124 ½ miles.    Thirty-two competitors started from Dresden at 7:30 a.m. on May 18th (1902), in bad weather. Of these men part were fruitarians and vegetarians (including the great Karl Mann, the world’s champion walker, of Berlin) part meat eaters.    THE FIRST SIX TO ARRIVE IN BERLIN WERE FRUITARIANS AND VEGETARIANS, the third man, Martin Rehann, being only twenty years old.    Of course Karl Mann was first, having done the distance in twenty-six hours fifty-eight minutes, and fresh as a daisy at the finish, whilst the meat eaters, well known and tried athletes, arrived utterly exhausted.    George Allen, the English (Leicester) hundred-mile walker, is also a vegetarian, and we all know Eustace Miles.    These cases are officially attested, and anybody who likes can verify the statements for themselves.    Karl Mann only takes two meals a day, and he partakes of neither flesh, fowl, alcohol, coffee, tea, chocolate, etc., and when training, neither eggs, milk, cheese, butter, nor pulse.    We personally, have two meals daily, the first at 12:30 p.m., the second at 6:30, working on the no breakfast plan, which I find splendid for health and a clear brain.    The fruitarian diet is fine, and, to my mind, more satisfying than vegetarianism, to say nothing of what it save in household work. However, to the point – it’s no use preaching a fruitarian diet if I don’t give you practical teaching as to rules, quantities, etc.    I read so much about the beauties of the diet, etc., in some fifteen or twenty American magazines, and not one practical hit, that I used to get quite made, and I firmly believe any number of people would turn from a flesh diet if they only knew hot to begin.    The ordinary individual has a tendency to over-eat himself six days out of seven, and to prevent this tendency I advise that a pair of kitchen scales be requisitioned and the proper quantities duly weighed out – indeed this is imperative.    I am allowing the same amount of nutriment for a woman as for a man, but at the same time the fair sex can from the day’s allowance knock of a quarter pound of dried fruit and half a pound of fresh fruit if necessary.    Personally I think the idea that women eat less than men has arisen because they too often eat between meals and men haven’t the chance as a rule.    Every adult requires from twelve to sixteen ounces of DRY food, free from water, daily. To supply this a quarter of a pound of shelled nuts and three-quarters of a pound of any dried fruit must be used.    In addition to this from two to three pounds of any fresh fruit in season goes to compete the days allowance.    These quantities should be weighed out and divide in half for the two meals, and will sustain a full-grown man in perfect health and vitality. The quantity of ripe fresh fruit may be slightly increased in summer, with a corresponding decrease in the dried fruit.    When beginning this diet it is as well to use a little bread (whole meal) and plenty of eggs, milk, cream cheese, and cream, until gradually weaned from cereals. Occasionally Quaker Oats and such nut foods as Bromose may be used.    Strawberries, raspberries, cherries, plums, apples, pineapples, grapes, melons, currants, etc., can all be used in summer, and grapes pears, apples, oranges, bananas, etc., in winter.    For the dried fruit raisins, sultanas, prunes, dates, figs, and plums, and for a change and stewing purposes we have splendid variety in Californian prunes, apricots, peaches, Bartlett pears, dried apples, bananas and plums.    The nut foods are almonds, walnuts, hazels, cashews, pine kernels, peanuts (these can be bought ready shelled), sapricia, pecan, butternuts, hickory, brazils, (excellent for constipation), Japan peanuts, chestnuts, and Coker nuts.    All these should be bought in large quantities – by FAR the cheapest way – and the diet will be found to pan out at from sixpence, one shilling to two shillings per head daily, according to the quality of fruit bought – surely not only a healthier, purer method of living, but infinitely more economical to those who consider such matters!    To cook dried fruit, wash it thoroughly in clean water, place it in a dish with enough water to cover it, and soak ten or fifteen hours; then, leaving it in the water it has been soaked in, put it on the stove and let it simmer gently until cooked. When nearly done add sufficient sugar for individual taste. The fruit cooked in this manner very nearly resembles fresh fruit, with the full flavor and taste.    English women don’t know how to cook dried fruit, and it enters comparatively little into their menus. The above is an American recipe and may be adopted for all the dried fruits, though the dried bananas may be eaten raw or steamed in an ordinary potato steamer and eaten with fresh or whipped cream.    Some people advise regularity of meals. I advise only two daily, but it is best to eat when your are hungry. All the same you WILL be hungry if you follow the “no breakfast” plan, and able to relish your natural food with a natural appetite.    Alcohol kills magnetism.    You will find your magnetic and vital power doubled – nay trebled – by the simple pure food. You will enjoy health such as you never had before, double working capacity, and be able to look God’s creatures in the face without a blush.
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<p>  <em><strong>  LESSON XIII </strong></em>    <em><strong> </strong></em><strong> </strong>    I HAVE shown how Personal Magnetism is largely a matter of health, and the correct storage and increase of the magnetism or electricity contain in our bodies, and the atmosphere upon which we draw to a certain extent for magnetic supplies, although it must be understood we already posses the force in ourselves.    So far the use of animal magnetism for personal advancement has been the object of the lessons given, but there is another side to the questions, and animal magnetism for healing purposes occupies, in my opinion, a much more important position.    Magnetic healing forms a wonderful means of alleviating pain, and the cures affected by a skillful healer are too numerous to mention.    All nervous diseases, and a good many others, will yield to the treatment, which, needless to say, can only be given by one in perfect health, with a prefect flow of magnetism, and the knowledge of how to treat different diseases.    This requires a certain amount of study on the part of the student, who should have a working knowledge of anatomy, and a good handbook (Furneaux’s is splendid) of physiology is very necessary.    Some people say, I know, that I am something of a crank on scientific matters, but I know that until science is liked with metaphysics, the more traditional teachings of New Thought will be neglected by the masses.    I advise you to thoroughly study the nervous and muscular system, to gain a good working acquaintance with the various organs of the body and their functions, and a knowledge of the symptoms of some of the diseases the flesh of man is heir to.    In previous lessons you have mastered the art of generating magnetism in the body, and if you have followed the teachings and exercises I have given, you will have a store of magnetism to “give off’ for the benefit of others.    If you want to include a flow of magnetism for healing purposes, place your hands together in a cone shape and breathe gently into them until they are moist, then rub them briskly together. Repeat this three times then you will have sufficient “flow” for healing purposes.    Begin with the treatment of simple ailments, such a neuralgia, toothache, headache, and so forth and it is for these I will first give you instruction as to treatment.    Always talk to your patient brightly, and try to instill confidence in his mind with regard to your methods.    Stand behind him, and having first generated a flow of magnetism as directed, place your right hand at the base of his stomach and the left at the back of the head, and will hard that magnetism shall flow thorough the body.    Then lift your hands above his head, and without touching him, make sweeping passes in a downward direction, from head to foot, shaking the hands to “throw off” as you finish each pass.    Open your hands so that the fingers are slightly apart and curved inwards when making the passes.    Then let the patient sit in an easy chair, the head must not rest against the back, or you can’t reach him, stand behind him, and treat him with what we call “contact” passes.    The whole time you are manipulating the patient you must steadily WILL that the flow of magnetism from your fingers shall carry away the pain, and leave him free.    First remember that your two hands are, for the time being, converted into delicate instruments, that in fact you carry an electro-magnetic battery in your fingers.    Of this battery you must make your right hand the positive pole, the left hand the negative pole. Do not forget this in your treatments, for it is most important.    Now, first place your right hand to the patient’s forehead (taking care to press the center of your palm between the eyes) and the left hand at the back of the head; now will earnestly that the magnetic current shall pass through his entire body. You will force this current through the brain from your positive hand, which generates the magnetism, to your negative hand, which, being placed at the base of the brain, carries the current right down the spinal column and through the medium of the cerebro-spinal nerves to all the principal organs of the body.    Having done this you now place your hands firmly on the forehead, and stroke from between the eyes, back over the ears to the back of the neck, when the hands are removed and smartly shaken each time as if something sticky was adhering to the fingers.    This is called the “throw off,” and carries away the magnetism charged with the pain, thus guarding against the danger of forcing the pain from one part of the body to another.    Continue the treatment until the magnetism is gone, willing steadily the whole time that the pain shall vanish. Remember that the animal magnetism is a FORCE; it is not an effort of the imagination of a few occult cranks. It is a force acknowledged by scientists – French, German, American, and English – men whose names stand high in the world of science and of learning.    Moreover, it is not a mere theory on their part, for the flow of magnetism form the human body has been successfully photographed, the camera revealing that which the eye of man could not see.    Experiment has shown that this force can cure disease, which will not yield to rugs or even ordinary mental  treatment.    I have given simple instructions of using the magnetic emanations proceeding from the body for the cure of headache, and now I will show how to cure other diseases of the nervous system.    Let it be understood clearly, however, that magnetic healing will not “set” broken bones any more that Mental or Christian Science will do so; if the Christian and Mental Scientists would take a more rational standpoint and admit certain limitations, they would, at any rate in England, make greater headway. A man who is suffering from a compound fracture of thigh, for instance, won’t fid it mended by the simple assertion that it isn’t broken. So with magnetic healing; but, mark you, once it has been set by the surgeon, magnetic treatment will cause it to heal up twice as quickly, for flow of newly vitalized blood to the injured part; and those of my readers who desire to take up this business as a means of livelihood should remember this, and recognize the value of the medical man as well as the mistakes he makes.    The solar plexus is the nervous center of the body, which has the most direct connection with the emotions. Plexus means a network of nerves and blood vessels, and the solar plexus is situated in the abdomen just behind the stomach (not the intestines, be it understood), and is sometimes called the abdominal brain. The magnetic healer must not fail to recognize the value of this group of nerves, for a steady magnetic flow induced for ten minutes or so at this part of the body will do much to correct the trouble, no matte what it may be, from which the patient is suffering. Placing the right hand over the stomach in front, and the left hand at the corresponding spot behind, and send a steady flow of magnetism right thought from one to the other.    It is as well to remember; too, that water or milk can be magnetized, and when given the patient to drink, or to bathe the affected part with, great relief, or even cue, can be brought about.    I cured a bad case of erysipelas by sending the patient magnetized milk, which she both drank and used to bathe the face.    To do this, pour the milk or water into a scrupulously clean vessel, induce the magnetic flow as already directed, and make passes with both hands over the vessel. Then place the right hand over the mouth of the cup or jug, stiffen the arm, and make the hand vibrate the muscles of the upper arm (this needs practice), sending a steady flow of magnetism into the liquid.    You can always set into better “touch” with your patient by making him drink some magnetized liquid before treating him. In certain diseases the water may be hot.    When treating for troubles, which arise directly from the nerves, place your hands on the seat of the pain and make the currents, pass right through form one side to the other. For such things as neuralgia, toothache, earache, etc., make the hands as hot as possible first.    It is usual to give the patient a general treatment first of all before attempting to treat locally, and to do this you must proceed as follow: Prepare the magnetic flow, and then, having your patient simply garbed in his birthday suit, or a light, loose wrapper, place your right hand at the base of the brain, and pass the left slowly down the spine touching it very gently with the fingers, but sending all your magnetism into the spinal column and directing all your will power to this end.    The patient should take long, deep breaths during the process, breathing from the abdomen.    Now remove your hands and make passes from head to foot – these need not be “contact” passes (that is to say, you do not touch the patient); then treat the solar plexus as already described, and also the chest and lungs in the same manner.    Next, to secure free action of the bowels, place your left hand over the solar plexus in front, and your right at the base of the brain; send strong currents through the body, and will that the bowels shall act freely.    Follow this up by a treatment of from five to ten minutes of the liver, place the right hand over this organ, and then vibrate as I have told you for the magnetized water. Only practice can help you with this; you must go on trying until you can do it properly; but it is the most powerful movement you can use.    This profession of Magnetic Healer is one in which money can be made by those who seek a means of livelihood, and can also be used as a means of alleviating much pain and suffering which drugs cannot move.    I agree with the necessity for surgeons, but the physician would make more cures if he went in for rational health treatments instead of drugging his patients    Those of my readers who seek the professional side of magnetism as a healing agent must practice continually, and ‘treat” everybody they can get hold of.
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>  FURTHER LESSONS ON PERSONAL MAGNETISM  </strong></span></p>
<p>  IN the preceding pages I have shown you how to cultivate Personal Magnetism and how, to a certain extent only, to use it.    If you have followed the rules carefully, you will at least have learnt a little on how to concentrate your mind, and, beyond all else, to have faith in yourself and in your own Power.    This is the groundwork, exactly as the ABC forms the groundwork of languages, but believe me, it is very little more; the true power of magnetism lies in the knowledge of how to apply it, and this I do not suppose one out of a thousand of my students can do on the strength of the previous chapters alone. You have studied the mechanism; you have learnt to believe in the power of one mind upon another; you have practiced your scales and five-finger exercise, and now you are ready to proceed to a “piece,” to play a tune, in fact! All true magnetic attraction consists of an interchange of magnetism between two centers. When all is given out and none coming in, the results is utter depletion, so far as the operator goes, and flatness – a gray drab effect upon the receiver, and is, moreover, absolutely a matter of impossibility to consciously create any effect upon the mind of another person without following certain cut-and dried rules which are imperative, if any definite measure of success is to be achieved.    Of course you can make another person like you, or you can carry out small schemes, but you are only using the ordinary power of mental attraction, and not true magnetic attraction.    This can only be accomplished when it is accompanied by: Intensity of purpose. The power of projecting mind images.A knowledge (working) of the true laws of polarity; and A correct understanding of what I choose to call the magnetic instruments. So that at once it becomes apparent Personal Magnetism won’t be really of much avail for playing monkey tricks, such as the American guinea courses extol, nor can it be used excepting by a perfectly organized brain, which    organization includes self-control.    To attract, you must be indifferent, yet intense of purpose and will. You must be patient, all time is at your command; there is no need for hassle, but you must understand that, once embark upon the purpose, whatever it may be, to let go means a weakening of the will force; it is as if the head boy of the class were dismissed to the bottom seat and decked out with the foolscap. Remember that human volition can carry all things before it, but it must be accompanied by faith and persistence.    Also it is no use just thinking a thing, it is necessary to ACT; you must translate your thoughts into deeds.    Never waste your efforts on things that do not matter; never fritter your forces away.    To commence with number 4 conditions, under the old law that the first shall be last, and the last first, the    correct magnetic instruments are: 1st The MIND 2nd The WILL power controlling the mental action 3rd The EYE 4th The power of touch, or contact 5th The human voice This last item is never considered in the usual lessons upon this subject, yet it is as powerful in its own sphere of action as the mental side of the question.    The voice can carry magnetism, can stir up hatred or love, and influence the soul with passions or create coldness; it is the most readily used instrument of them all. But I would have you understand clearly that the conscious brain effort is placed first because it is the chief instrument, and because it is a part of all the rest. The inner gray matter of the brain records and registers thought images – thought images, be it said, which can be projected upon the gray matter of another’s brain, seized and registered by that brain as its own property, making it your unconscious servant, the doer of your bidding, of your will, the executor of your desires. And, all this without any hypnotic control or without speaking a word. The will power is the instrument which assists in the projection of these images and which is the leader, the captain of the ship.    In some extreme case pure desire will accomplish the same end as conscious will effort, but to gain the true effect, the thought must be under the control of the organized will, and for really powerful results to be attained, the determination to succeed must be accompanied by indifference.    For instance, supposing a woman loves a man devotedly, and the man doesn’t care a jot if she is alive or dead, that woman is the man’s slave, he is the center of attraction, not she; and he is the positive pole of which she is very poor negative.    Now such a woman might try to project a thought to that man’s brain, and she could never reach it, she is in the wrong position at the outset, she is not master of herself, but her passions are master of her, and the consequence is she is quite powerless to influence that other person, however great her desire.    By indifference you will understand that I mean you must be master of the desire, which impels your magnetic action, the desire must not be master of you.    When you are indifferent you are invulnerable.    The man, who goes to war praying that he may meet death, returns home with a whole skin.    The man who has plenty of money can go to the race course and bet freely, he will win, it is a matter of indifference to him, whilst the poor beggar whose all depends upon winning will loose everything he has! Will power is the lever, which works the entire mechanism, but will power without the other instruments is no better than mere brute force, it is not magnetism    The eye, which is the next instrument in power, will always directly stir the magnetic centers, but of course few people even look one in the eye.    Lessons on Personal Magnetism are careful to instruct students to look at people between the eyes.    Believe me, magnetism only passes when you look right into the pupil of the eye – a thing which possibly only occurs between lovers, and which with contact, is more than partly responsible for the thrills which they experience.    The majority of people meet you eye without looking into it. When seeing to influence anybody, look directly into his or her eyes. Not many people can stand it, and like all magnetic usages it must not ever be abused.    So far as contact is concerned, most of my students and others also know the value of this, and I need not enlarge upon the subject.    Regarding the human voice, it can be directly charged with magnetism, and the sound waves created by it can transmit the message to be sent quite independent of any word effects.    For instance, a woman might be talking a lot of drivel about a summer sale, and yet she may send some strong magnetic force, some powerful magnetic emotion upon the meaningless sound waves.    Of course, to have the strongest effect the words and the emotion should tally, but whereas the mental images projected by the will power may carry any impression form good health to death, from hate to love, and so on, even to certain definite and concerted actions, the voice can carry emotion only, but the magnetic emotion properly directed can raise such a storm, such an absolute tornado of corresponding emotion, either in on e person or ten thousand people, as to make the uninitiated gasp.    So to recapitulate the use of any five magnetic instruments, the mind is used for creating mind pictures; the will power is used for projecting those mental pictures upon the gray matter of another person’s brain; the eye is used for creating magnetic disturbances or explosions in the aura of that other person; the use of contact as for very much the same purpose, whilst the use of the voice is for the conveyance of any particular emotion.    Now we come to number 3: The knowledge of the true working laws of polarity.    As you know from my preceding pages, polarity stands for the positive and negative condition of the magnetic current. We all know that. It is necessary when teaching pupils music to make him play scales and exercises to render the muscles of the hand lissome, and to give him perfect control over them. Very good.    In my pervious work I have emphasized the necessity for becoming positive – the imperative necessity, maybe for positive mind action.    Let me tell you now that anybody who uses the positive polarity only soon becomes depleted. The law is that of the human heart, where the blood beats in and out, of the tides of the ocean, which come and go, of the seasons of the year, of night and of day.    You cannot give all out and take in nothing. And the great law of polarity is this: first negative conditions, the taking in; then positive, the giving out. This is quite reasonable if you consider the ordinary laws of nature, we do not sow the seed and then plow the  land, but plow the land first of all and sow the seed afterwards.    Now I want you to understand the word receptivity as synonymous for a process of “drawing from,” or an inhalation of force, if you can understand that better. For impression, I want you to understand a “giving out,” and of the same force that you draw from. I want to make you understand this clearly, because the whole use of magnetism depends on this law, which is seldom or never properly understood.  The main object preached by all teachers of magnetism is impress, impress, impress! You may take it from me that by giving out only impression results in a dull gray or drab effect, there is no play of color, no real display of power, no definite result.    And all gray or drab magnetism is like any other drab effect, wanting in life, lacking that pulsating sense of color,  which arrests the eye and warms the whole being of you.  Of course the next question you will ask is how impress? When am I to use the one action and when the other.    Well, I am coming to that later on. Sufficient for the time being, if you will realize the teachings of concentration.    The universe is flooded with the power of Universal Attraction. The Rosicrucian’s speak of it as great white invisible fire – it is called the universal fluid, the astral light, the odic force, the living, pulsating ether of the ancients. It is enough to understand that this force, call it what you will, and floods the universe.    It is in you, it is in me, it is in the space that divides us, no matter if that space is a yard, or if we are separated by half the earth. This, I think, you all understand; the point I want to emphasize is that this force collects at certain living centers in the body – the solar plexus for one, which is situated at the waist centers of the body.    Some people have it in enormous quantities, others are lacking in it. It is the medium, as I have already explained,    which carries our mental messages from one to the other. By my will power, my breath or my voice, or my touch or my merest glance, I can send my force magnetic from me.    And by those same means I can draw your force away from you, draw it to me.    If I only draw from you, you will become asinine, like an animal, passive sleepy. If I only send my force to you, I become limp, weary, inert, and lifeless.    But supposing that I first draw your force from you to me, and at a given moment then proceed to impress my force upon you, alternating the process according to circumstances and conditions, the result will be that you feel alert, charged with new life, strangely excited possibly, thrilled as it were with some curious unknown emotion.    You are receptive, my servant, you accept my thoughts, and you do not know they are my thoughts, you become as one with me, you are for the time being my servant.    And I am quietly charging you with my magnetism, guided by my will, yet without suffering the depletion that would assail me if I had only forced my will upon you. For exercise you may commence this practice with breathing exercises only – and alone! Stand erect, in a proper physical culture attitude, waist in , chest well breasted upwards.    Now imagine a person, or be content to draw in merely from the universal supply. Commence by inhaling slowly; as you do so, will that you draw in the magnetic force from without. You can draw it in with your hands if you like, taking it as if it were something sticky, something that needed a certain amount of muscle to being to you. In other words, a mere light gesture doesn’t convey the correct sensations to your brain center.    Then breathe outwards, still slowly, and as you do it will your own magnetic force outwards and away from you to that other imaginary center. This is for practice only. You can do the same thing (without the gesture) when you are talking to people. It will not have much effect upon them; because of course it is magnetic breathing only, unaided by the brain, or imaginative side of yourself.    I think you understand this now, and we can leave it pro tem. But you can and must practice it regularly.    ***********    Now there are two distinct methods of treating people magnetically. One is what we will call distant treatment, for want of a better name; the other is that treatment used when you are face to face with a person or persons.    Curiously enough, the former is infinitely more powerful than the latter, and I will deal with it first of all, although the modus operandi in both cases is similar, somewhat, at any rate. It is not enough to sit down and will that a person shall do so and so, or to even follow up the will conditions with magnetic breathing. To begin with, you must have an absolutely clear conception of what you mean to impress. That impression must be of the nature of an emotion, and an emotion that is universal. This is the very basic soul essence of your message it must fail otherwise.    It is not enough to just think of it in an abstract manner, you will accomplish nothing.    You must absolutely become the emotion, flood your very being with it, and shut out every other sensation. Thus and THUS ONLY can you ever hope to arouse in that other person the sensation you desire. Sit down quietly by yourself, and by the aid of your imagination grow into the semblance of your emotion. Any emotion must be universal and freed from all restrictions.    Something which is governed neither by rare creed nor language. Something which the savage and civilized alike feel and understand. Love, hatred, greed, generosity, fear, courage, health, sickness, passion, power, religion-these are all universal emotions, and with one of these, according to your desires, you must be so saturated that you are for the time being an embodiment of it, and of it alone.  You are master of this emotion, you have put it on like an overcoat, and you can take it off as easily. You are really indifferent.    The next condition still further calls upon our imagination, that wondrous weaver of pictures, of fantasy and fact. The next step is to see the person you would influence. This is not difficult to some, to others its acquirement is tedious, but if you have practiced concentration you should be able to do it well enough. You must see them mentally as clearly as if face-to-face. Every feature, color, and eyes – all must stand out clearly in your mental vision – Good! Now, feeling charged with your emotion, with the mental vision clearly before you, call him (or her) by name.    As your voice goes out draw to yourself strongly the magnetic force from that person, as you have been taught, only remember that whereas in practice you draw the force in whilst you are inhaling, here you have to draw in whilst your voice is ringing outwards, and you man repeat two or three times, just as if you were calling him, and waiting for him to hear you.    Good again!    Now you have gone through three separate phases    1st You have created an emotion.    2nd You have created a mental image.    3rd You have charged yourself with the magnetism of the person you are acting upon and be doing this you have    created a condition of receptivity in him.    Could you be present with him in the flesh, you would find him restless, a little excited, with his thoughts crowded upon you. It is a very curious thing that the moment you build up a mental image of any person, that person immediately receives a mental image of you. Now you are ready to send your desire to the person, but do not forget that the desire must agree with the universal emotion, the message must correspond. As you transmit your message – aloud – send your magnetic force towards the person with all your will power. So far as the message goes you must understand that certain cut and dried laws govern this also. It should be as simple as possible. It should be capable of translation into a mental picture. It must be repeated steadily for any length of time necessary. It depends a great deal upon what the message may be.    You will see from this that telepathy acts as a means of conveying magnetism. But at the same time this method of treatment is really quite apart from telepathy as usually understood, excepting so far as the thought images are concerned.    The time required for treatment depends upon your natural ability.    Say always, “You want,” for it is the very essence of magnetism that this law shall be observed. You must throw your thought across the screen of the other person’s brain, in such form, that the thoughts seem their own.    Perhaps I ought not to speak so freely on these matters, but I know very well there are so few people who can fulfill the conditions or who will persevere, that I don not think there is very much harm done.    Supposing you know somebody who is very unhappy, hopeless, and alone. Saturate yourself with the emotion of Hope, until you feel buoyant with life and joy.    Call up the image of the person you want to influence, and then with the magnetic breathing, call them by name.    Then send your message of magnetic hope: say, “You want to be cheerful, you want to feel happy; you have your heart full of hope you can sing, you can feel the joy of future success surge through your being.” This will have an altogether different effect to the same treatment delivered by the ordinary mans of mental treatment or magnetism.    Of course I only take this as an instance. It is by no means the only kind of use to which magnetism may be put. You may want somebody to care for you, or not to care for some other person. You may want somebody to do you a favor, you may be seeking a situation, there are a thousand uses to which it may be put, but the method is always the same, and in the same order.    Coming to personal contact, of course, although in the main conditions are the same, details differ.    And it must be emphasized also that this method is applicable alike to individuals and to audiences.    Actors and actresses can use it, lecturers and preachers, vocalists and reciters, barristers, in fact anybody dealing with the general public.    Before you come into touch with either the person or the audience, get a clear idea of your plan of campaign.    What is it you are going to do? What are your plans?    I will give an instance, which really happened to a pupil of mine. He is a businessman, and a very big manta that, never mind what sort of business, for that would be telling. Anyway, he had to deal with four men in his own line of business who had been for years bitterly opposed to certain plans he wanted to carry out, and in no way could he influence them. She he came to me and I taught him what I have just taught you. To begin with, I made him treat them first from the distance, each man separately. For his emotional saturation I made him take Power.    Then to each man he gave his ideal, in the form of a mental picture. Next he went to see them, intentionally. Before entering each man’s office he charged himself with magnetism from the man in question. Then, quietly talking to him all the time throwing this vivid mental picture upon his brain.    One man capitulated of his own accord without my pupil even putting the question to him at all, and at a public meeting half a few days later the other three men climbed down gracefully, and through the proper use of magnetism gained a victory he had sought for years in vain.    The great difficulty most people will experience in using my method of magnetic treatment, is what I call the emotional saturation.    To a great actress, a Violet Vanburgh, an Ethel Irving, the emotional saturation is a part of their magic, it is easy, to average English manor woman who has been brought up to stifle emotion, to mask their real feelings until they are sometimes apparently without feeling, this assumption of an emotion is difficult.    It is not any use doing it in milk and water fashion.    If you assume the emotion of, say religion you must bring to yourself that intense sensation of awed reverence, as if in the actual presence of the Deity; if you assume the emotion of love, your whole being must pulsate with the tender passion, you become love personified, the sort of love is a state of being which must also be considered.    There is a wide difference between the love of a mother for her child, and the love of a strong man for the woman of his heart, or the love of a proliferate for some woman who has claimed his butterfly passion. All these shades of difference must be vigorously observed, you must be an artist; you do not merely assume an emotion, you ARE that emotion for the time, every nerve and fiber of your body responds to the call your imagination makes upon it, and yet reserve to yourself the right to become instantly calm, normal, unwept by any form of brain storm.    I am not saying it will not take it out of you a little, but as a matter of fact what you lose is infinitesimal if you follow the laws governing magnetic breathing, and properly charge yourself with odic force before you go any further in your efforts, and the emotional storm cannot touch you.    This is one of the reasons why I am so very decided in my teachings as to the due observance of magnetic breathing and the proper use of magnetic polarity.    It stands to reason that if you do not know how to create receptivity, or when to impress, you must be sadly handicapped in the use of this marvelous force, in fact leave out any one item, or transpose them even, and the result will be failure.    Patience, before all things, and faith, the certitude of obtaining results, are essential factors of success, and again the old Biblical saying that with faith you can remove mountains.    However return the correct method of dealing with people when using magnetism for what I will call “contact work” – i.e., a personal interview – it must be always remembered that whatever subjects of conversation may arise all the time you are charged with your emotional magnetism until the very air becomes electric (or magnetic) as it were with your purpose.    Learn to talk platitudes whilst you are feeling a great emotion, and learn to talk also whilst your brain formulates the words without speech, which carry your secret will message.    This is by no means an easy task, unless you appear pre-absorbed, which is a wrong attitude and not flattering to the person you have to deal with.    I knew a man once who lost a large fortune through yawning at the wrong moment; and any apparent inattention on your part may do more harm than you imagine.    Learn to smile and look interested, to talk lightly about current topics, all the while your body is something in a magnetic storm, and your brain hammers out its silent message with the ceaseless insistence which characterizes most forms of suggestion, and, speaking of suggestion, it is always a helpful addition to the use of personal magnetism, the way a word is put will often make all the difference to any result desired.    To say to some people, <em>“I want you to do so and so,”</em> is to court refusal. To delicately suggest that it is their own special desire to do this particular thing, will generally result in their believing it is their desire.    The whole use of magnetism in its more subtle and useful branches is that of transplanting your own desires to the brain of another in such form that they recognize them only as their own offspring. Constant practice will soon render this easy of accomplishment.    Do not make the common error of over-doing it and growing weary. Personal magnetism is for use, like a pick-me-up, when needed. It can be overdone, and the effect lost. After warmth -cold; after night -day; after a magnetic storm of emotion -rest.    A pupil of mine, a very dear lady (she is dead now) had a beast of a husband who was always straying away from her. I taught her how to bring him back, but I never could convince her that she must give it a rest.    He came back and wooed her again as an ardent lover after a fifteen years’ coldness and practical desertion, but I never could make her alternate her treatment, and after a year’s renewed honeymoon he grew tired again, and once more strayed away form her.    Magnetism appeals so much to lovers that I beg them to remember this law: You can make a man or a woman love you, bit if you go on digging it into their brain it grows FLAT, parrot-like and useless.    You achieve your object, very good, give it a rest, do not think o magnetism, don’t be too everlastingly sugary, let him (or her) go a little, even alternate our treatment with a little judicious coldness or even neglect, then when there is trouble brewing, when the object of your affections grows doubtful, hurt even, uncertain of you, then, if you like, renew your treatment.    Anybody who understands this law of magnetic polarity can hold a man or a woman a willing slave for always. Looks, age, talent; none of these things matter.    But look, you never grizzle – never. Fire up if you must, be cold, be warm, be indifferent, but just take life smiling. The one who goes through life with a song and a smile has a constant magnetic flow. Tears and grizzles will break that flow, you are never magnetic when you grieve. You will get out of the world exactly what you put into it, so be understanding, be sympathetic, be sunshine, and be strong.    Never mind what the surface “you” may be. Underneath, let the current of indomitable will guide you on to that which you desire. Once you have put your hand to the plough do not turn back – go on, fast if you can, if not go slowly, but go on. If you have begun a thing, if you have formulated a desire, regard it as already your own, for it is so indeed if you have the courage to continue.    To recapitulate the order for personal contact:    1st Saturate with your magnetic emotion    2nd As you enter the person’s presence (with full lungs please) and speak the usual greetings, strongly charge yourself with magnetism from them, drawing it to you with your will effort, on the sound waves of your voice.    3rd Formulate your desires into speechless words, with all the force you are able    4th As you formulate charge the person with your own magnetism, the return current.    5th When you come to the point, which may not always be necessary (in actual words, in fact often it is quite unnecessary to formulate your desires into spoken words at all), but assuming that it is so, let the preamble to your request be an indrawn of it magnetism, that is to say, as your voice travels outward along the sound waves it creates your willpower, is drawing into you the necessary magnetic charges from the person you speak to, and then when you reach the crisis send voice, will, brain image all heavily charged with your own magnetism outwards to the person you are dealing with. You will be astonished at the effect, if a strong electric battery were played upon him he could not be more influenced, and it is very seldom indeed that such a charge will fail.    Public speakers, and so forth, can use this power in the same way, of course much depending upon what their subject may be, but it’s no earthly use unless pre-charged with the correct magnetic emotion; that is your groundwork, and whatever your outward words or actions may portray, you must not lose sight of that for a moment. It must be felt, it must radiate from you with intensity that all can feel and understand without speech or action to explain your purpose. As my infant son says when he turns head over heels, or tries to, “that takes a bit of doing” – but whoever can do it is master of a force greater than any other force known to science as yet, master of a power one almost hesitates to use let your use of it be for good only, or believe me it will turn and rend you!    O. HASHNU HARA</p>
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		<title>Froth, Downward Wages, and the Importance of Repeat Business</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you give your employer a good value, they will be motivated to keep you even in the lean times. Nothing is more important to your career than making sure your employer is satisfied with your work, which will make them likely to use you over and over again. Working for companies where there is a lot of froth will present you with more money-making opportunities; understand that froth moves in cycles, however, and it is more important to have consistent work than to hold out for ideal market conditions. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I started in the asphalt business, the people I was competing against were charging exorbitant rates for their work. As an example, they might charge $600 to seal coat an average-size driveway. The job would require about two hours&#8217; worth of work and $50 or so in materials. As a young asphalt seal coater, I too decided that I was entitled to make this much money from my work, and I initially went into business with this attitude.    One of the first asphalt jobs I did was at a house next to my grandmother&#8217;s home. I <span id="more-4368"></span>  had done my grandmother&#8217;s driveway for free. As I was doing the work, her neighbor came over and told me that I could also do her driveway if I wanted. We did not discuss price. I believe I charged her $400 to do the work, which, given the size of the driveway and other factors, was a fair price. I could tell, however, when the woman paid me, that she thought I had charged her too much. My grandmother also thought that I had charged too much, and through a series of analogies (my grandmother never would criticize someone to their face), she let me know that she firmly believed I had seriously overcharged her neighbor, and that it was not all right.    I realized that every single time I charged someone &#8220;market rate&#8221; for a job, I never felt very good about myself. There were plenty of men out there I was competing against who would charge as much as they could for the asphalt work they did. But I never felt good about charging these so-called market rates because (1) I thought that it was too much money to charge, and (2) I wanted people to want to use my service again and again each year. You can charge market rate all you want, but if this is your presiding attitude and focus regarding the product or service you are offering, you may find yourself easily undercut on price.    By my second or third year in the asphalt business, I realized I would have even done a $400 driveway for $125. I was just grateful for the work and happy that people hired me. I did not make as much money per job as the more experienced people in the field, but it was more important for me just to have the work. My philosophy spoke for itself: In the short space of a few years I am pretty confident I was doing more residential asphalt sealing in suburban Detroit than anyone else. I started putting my competitors out of business by charging a fair price and doing better work. My business grew and I felt that I was accomplishing something of significance.    When my competitors would show up to bid on the same houses as I did, they would always ask for as much as three to four times what I was charging for the same work. The homeowners told me they would ask them why they should pay so much more. The competitors would say something about &#8220;experience&#8221; and &#8220;how long they had been in business,&#8221; and they would criticize me because I was younger than they were. Luckily for me, this was never enough to convince people and I always got the contracts.    One major lesson that the asphalt business taught me was that having people choose to hire you again and again is the most important thing. You want to be the one who is hired. You want people to choose you&#8211;even if it means lower pay per job. In the asphalt business, people did choose my company time and time again, and as a result I was able to grow a great business while my competitors closed up shop.    This little lesson from the asphalt business is something that has served me well in my current career, and it applies to just about any business: <em>The most important thing you can have is repeat customers.</em>    You want to give people a good value. You want the people you are working for to be happy with your work and use you over and over again. Whether you are an independent contractor or a regular staff employee, in your job, nothing is more important than having an employer who is satisfied with your work.    In today&#8217;s <em>New York Times</em> there was a story about a study that followed many people since mass layoffs began in 2000. The interesting thing about this story is that the people who ended up <a title="finding new jobs" href="http://www.hound.com/" target="_blank">finding new jobs</a> typically ended up with jobs that paid far less than their previous ones. In addition, when these people entered new companies they often got laid off again.    Before I go any further, I want to note something that is subtle, but a fact. When a company lays people off, it does not lay off the entire company. It keeps some people around. The people it keeps around are generally the people it believes are providing the most value, who are the most loyal and who work the hardest. These employees are at least somewhat protected in times of layoffs. In a sense, the company is really a &#8220;repeat customer&#8221; of the worker, and the company wants to continue using the employee&#8217;s service. By thinking about your employer in this way, you can perhaps manage your own performance such that an employer will keep you around, even during the lean times.    Employees who have a lot of experience with a given company and who stay around for a long period of time are in far more demand by the market than those who move around. Sticking around for a long time at a company shows that the company considers you valuable and wants to use your services over and over again.    The <em>New York Times</em> story affected me because I have seen this sort of thing happen many times: If an attorney goes to a good law school, for example, he or she may get a job directly out of law school paying as much as $150,000 a year. However, if the attorney leaves or is fired from this law firm and jumps around a bit, ten years later he or she will be grateful for a job that pays $120,000 a year. In fact, many of these same attorneys will be grateful to be employed at all, with such a scattered track record.    <em>&#8220;I have ten years of experience. The law firm can pay me as a first-year attorney and will get a really good deal!&#8221;</em>    This is something that I have heard attorneys say to me countless times. The older attorney who bounces around from job to job just wants the privilege to be able to go back and <em>recapture</em> what he should have held on to in the beginning. See, this person may have had employment at some firm earlier in his career but decided that, for whatever reason, it was not good enough; now he wants to go back to where he was before. The problem is that it is generally not possible in the legal profession to go back like this. If you are not currently being paid a lot of money by a big law firm, the market figures you are not good enough to receive higher pay&#8211;even if you used to earn more way back when.    A good portion of the attorneys who start out highly paid in <a title="major law firms" href="http://www.legalauthority.com/" target="_blank">major law firms</a> never make as much money again. In fact, they often end up playing catchup, hoping to attain the salaries they earned in the beginning of their careers. These attorneys often start out with jobs at major law firms who are doing work for major companies where there is a lot of &#8220;froth&#8221;&#8211;that is, extra money to go around. These companies can afford to pay the law firms lots of money for the work, and the firms, in turn, pay their associates lots of money.    The same thing happens with many people who lose their jobs. You may have an excellent and high-paying job inside of a major corporation or other business, and suddenly you may find yourself without a job. Then, when you do find another job, you often end up at a company where there is less <em>froth</em>. In the face of less froth, you are not going to be able to earn as much.    When things were good in the system several years ago, companies and others were not watching their money as carefully and there was more froth. Lavish spending was the norm and the money that was coming into the system was creating a rising tide in real estate and other sectors, which was creating froth all around.    Nowadays, the stories in the paper each day about layoffs, hiring freezes, and no wage increases in the market are all pointing to downward pressure and deflation. This will affect how you get a job for some time to come. There is no longer a lot of froth in the system, and because this froth has gone away, employers and companies are being extremely careful with how they spend their money and allocate their assets. This is making &#8220;market rates&#8221; go right out the window. Companies can hire people to do things more cheaply, and this will save money. There is just not as much money going around as there used to be.    One of my greatest interests is running companies&#8211;and doing so successfully. Whenever I have interviewed key people, something that has always gotten my attention is the fact that people come in with wildly different salary requirements. For example, one person who has five years of experience may come into a job demanding to make $150,000 a year. Another person with a better attitude and more experience may come in requesting a salary of $50,000 a year for doing the same work. In the employment market I have found that you do not always get what you pay for. The person making $50,000 a year may actually do a much better job than the person making $150,000 a year.    You need to look at your employment situation from the perspective of the employer. Whom would you hire assuming all else was equal: someone requesting $150,000 or someone requesting $50,000?    In the current economy, this is exactly the sort of question that employers are asking themselves when they wade through countless applications. They are also asking whether they need someone at all.    It is important that in every job you have, you do the best work you possibly can. You want to be someone who is sought out for his or her work and expertise. You also should try to find employment wherever there is a lot of <em>froth</em>, because this represents an opportunity for you to earn more money.    But most important, you need to understand that <em>froth</em> moves in cycles, and in many economies, like the present one, it is more important to continue working than to hold out for market conditions and salaries that may no longer be reasonable to expect.    <strong>THE LESSON</strong>    When you give your employer a good value, they will be motivated to keep you even in the lean times. Nothing is more important to your career than making sure your employer is satisfied with your work, which will make them likely to use you over and over again. Working for companies where there is a lot of froth will present you with more money-making opportunities; understand that froth moves in cycles, however, and it is more important to have consistent work than to hold out for ideal market conditions.</p>
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