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]]> By: Winger http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/the-importance-of-asking-the-right-questions-self-improvement-and-perception/#comment-14852 Winger Wed, 17 Nov 2010 22:19:47 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=4715#comment-14852 Harrison, What the hell is up. How are things going? I'm ready to start selling for you again!! Matt Winger 814-528-1141 mwwstinger@hotmail.com Harrison,

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]]> By: Em http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/the-importance-of-asking-the-right-questions-self-improvement-and-perception/#comment-9344 Em Tue, 12 Jan 2010 00:08:08 +0000 http://www.aharrisonbarnes.com/?p=4715#comment-9344 Martin Luther King is purported to have said that the "questions we ask shape our destiny". Very profound. It is common for most of us when experiencing events that we think will jeopardize our wellbeing (like losing a job) to feel the fear of what this loss will mean to ourselves and the people that depend on us. I don't think this is an unusual human reaction. I do believe, however, that these feelings must be acknowledged and dealt with before we can move on to asking ourselves what to do about it. By acknowledging and examining the feelings that came from our upsetedness, enables us to take a step back and to begin to think differently about the situation we find outselves in and to begin to ask: What am I actually fearful of? Will what I am fearful of be an inevitable consequence? Am I the only one going through this? Then the next step of constructing a question or questions to pose to someone else, will be much easier. By inwardly questioning ourselves leads us to formulate a question or questions to ask of others. The relief from realizing that it is ok for feel vulnerable and afraid, that what you might feel is inevitable may not indeed be so, that you cannot be the only one who has gone through this before, and that no one person has all the answers, will help put you in the frame of mind to be hopeful so that you will find the right person, people (or essay like this) to help you to think differently about the situation(s)in which find yourself in. Reading your article has helped me do just that. Thank you. Martin Luther King is purported to have said that the “questions we ask shape our destiny”. Very profound. It is common for most of us when experiencing events that we think will jeopardize our wellbeing (like losing a job) to feel the fear of what this loss will mean to ourselves and the people that depend on us. I don’t think this is an unusual human reaction. I do believe, however, that these feelings must be acknowledged and dealt with before we can move on to asking ourselves what to do about it. By acknowledging and examining the feelings that came from our upsetedness, enables us to take a step back and to begin to think differently about the situation we find outselves in and to begin to ask: What am I actually fearful of? Will what I am fearful of be an inevitable consequence? Am I the only one going through this? Then the next step of constructing a question or questions to pose to someone else, will be much easier. By inwardly questioning ourselves leads us to formulate a question or questions to ask of others. The relief from realizing that it is ok for feel vulnerable and afraid, that what you might feel is inevitable may not indeed be so, that you cannot be the only one who has gone through this before, and that no one person has all the answers, will help put you in the frame of mind to be hopeful so that you will find the right person, people (or essay like this) to help you to think differently about the situation(s)in which find yourself in. Reading your article has helped me do just that. Thank you.

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